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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil....." 4. They are less likely to have the clap | |||
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"Number 2 is not necessarily true...I have been stood up because the wife wanted to go shopping at the last minute." I was just going to say that. The usual "my wife suddenly hasn't gone to her sisters after all". Also the clinginess thing isn't always true either. | |||
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"4. They are less likely to have the clap" Why are they less likely to have the clap when they are possibly cheating and on here looking for some fun like everyone else? | |||
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it " | |||
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it "LOL  priceless | |||
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it
See how I made it a positive "Yep
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it "Thank you..... 6. You will always have a great time with a married person because they want to escape from their problems and when meeting with you.. they are usually positive and upbeat... | |||
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"Oh number 6...I'll have my evenings to myself, sure he's only at 'the gym' for an hour. " Dammit...Number 7 then | |||
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"Are we only talking about the positives while ignoring the huge glaring negatives?" We all know the negatives of meeting attached people.... This is a thread to celebrate attached people and to highlight the benefits of meeting them.... | |||
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it
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6. You will always have a great time with a married person because they want to escape from their problems and when meeting with you.. they are usually positive and upbeat..."Yeah. They wanna escape from their clinging, clawing, financially dependent wife, and bend your ear telling you all about it. Rather like an unpaid counsellor | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil....." Surely the cons would outweigh the pros though? | |||
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it
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6. You will always have a great time with a married person because they want to escape from their problems and when meeting with you.. they are usually positive and upbeat...
Yeah. They wanna escape from their clinging, clawing, financially dependent wife, and bend your ear telling you all about it. Rather like an unpaid counsellor"It is nice to dream about escape though. | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil..... Surely the cons would outweigh the pros though?" Do you go into bbw threads and talk about BMI and obesity? This is a thread to shed a positive light on our most vilified members on Fab.... Please try to contribute positively | |||
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"8. You dont have to buy their pants Or put up with their mothers" 9 You don't have to wash their pants. | |||
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""celebrate"? It's simply a thin attempt at looking at something that can be immensely problematic from a single angle while ignoring other aspects. But as I take it you are married I can see why you are doing it." I’m not married, my wife is in prison.... But I see you clearly have an agenda, so you’re incapable of seeing anything on this thread as positive.... | |||
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"So no married men don't stand ladies up ? And no married man ever gets clingy ? Just asking " You’re dealing in absolutes..... yes it does happen... but the chances are smaller when dealing with married people.... | |||
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"8. You dont have to buy their pants Or put up with their mothers 9 You don't have to wash their pants." 10. You don't have to fold their pants | |||
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""celebrate"? It's simply a thin attempt at looking at something that can be immensely problematic from a single angle while ignoring other aspects. But as I take it you are married I can see why you are doing it. I’m not married, my wife is in prison.... But I see you clearly have an agenda, so you’re incapable of seeing anything on this thread as positive...." don't get that . Your wife is in prison so that means your not married ? | |||
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""celebrate"? It's simply a thin attempt at looking at something that can be immensely problematic from a single angle while ignoring other aspects. But as I take it you are married I can see why you are doing it. I’m not married, my wife is in prison.... But I see you clearly have an agenda, so you’re incapable of seeing anything on this thread as positive...." You're not married, but you have a wife in prison? Fab logic at its finest | |||
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""celebrate"? It's simply a thin attempt at looking at something that can be immensely problematic from a single angle while ignoring other aspects. But as I take it you are married I can see why you are doing it. I’m not married, my wife is in prison.... But I see you clearly have an agenda, so you’re incapable of seeing anything on this thread as positive.... You're not married, but you have a wife in prison? Fab logic at its finest " That is the true definition of being legally separated.... | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil....." None of those things are necessarily true. People work shifts around the clock 24/7 I don't see that a married man/woman automatically works 9 to 5 Monday to Friday....popping in to see you on the way home and pretending to be working late at the office. Married men/women are more likely to cancel last minute because their whereabouts has to be explained. They are on their way to see you and then the wife/husband rings. ....and I don't see that being married will keep them from being clingy or making demands on your time. In fact your more likely to be running around having your time wasted and plans altered because something has come up with the spouse or the kids. I have had the misfortune to be involved with a married man who I did not know was married at the start and everything you say contradicts that experience.....I found him very possessive. There is no benefit to being involved with someone who is attached. Nothing but aggravation that you can do without if your a single. Might suit someone is also married or attached since your more likely to keep each others secret since your in the same boat. | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil..... 4. They are less likely to have the clap" Why is that? It could be argued that as a married person they are less used to using condoms and will avoid using them at every opportunity. Your assuming they have less sexual partners because they are married. Why? If they are cheating with one person why not two or three. They might go to brothels, or sex parties or swingers clubs. | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil..... Surely the cons would outweigh the pros though? Do you go into bbw threads and talk about BMI and obesity? This is a thread to shed a positive light on our most vilified members on Fab.... Please try to contribute positively " Some people are rude about bbws in bbw posts and you cannot post a thread and DEMAND that only people on one side of an argument are permitted to reply. Some discussion when only people who agree with the OP are allowed to speak... Feel free to report anything you don't like and see how far that gets you....not far I suspect unless a replying post was abusive. | |||
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""celebrate"? It's simply a thin attempt at looking at something that can be immensely problematic from a single angle while ignoring other aspects. But as I take it you are married I can see why you are doing it. I’m not married, my wife is in prison.... But I see you clearly have an agenda, so you’re incapable of seeing anything on this thread as positive...." Haha priceless statement..... If you have a wife I can guatentee you that you are most definitely 100% married! They are all out in force today. First the people who are bi coming up with their own definition of bi to suit their own agenda and now married people coming up with their own definition of marriage to suit their own agenda. If your wife is currently in prison your not currently married.....got love that one! | |||
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"You could be enjoying the best fuck of your life - on an ongoing and regular basis... "Or until the misses finds out and knocks on your door with two kids in toe screaming abuse at you because your a home wreaker....sounds like great fun! | |||
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"Oh here's a fun one... Number 11 - Getting to work on my communication skills after getting a message from the wife on the guys kik account, asking if I was sleeping with her husband...I wasn't but we had chatted, until he admitted he was married. " Number 12 - learn to cum quickly Since most of your meetings with married people will be quickies or car sex... you will soon master the art of having a orgasm in under 5 minutes | |||
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"Oh here's a fun one... Number 11 - Getting to work on my communication skills after getting a message from the wife on the guys kik account, asking if I was sleeping with her husband...I wasn't but we had chatted, until he admitted he was married. Number 12 - learn to cum quickly Since most of your meetings with married people will be quickies or car sex... you will soon master the art of having a orgasm in under 5 minutes " Where do I sign up?! | |||
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"Single at the moment anyway but I always though that whether a man or woman what you did was up to you, buggar all to do with maital status. As said before not a site for moralising." Hmmmm.....pretty sure it has plenty to do with your husband or wife.. Could go a long way to explaining why your now single!!!!! ....and it is a swinging site not an adultary site so people can moralise if they want. | |||
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"You could be enjoying the best fuck of your life - on an ongoing and regular basis...
Or until the misses finds out and knocks on your door with two kids in toe screaming abuse at you because your a home wreaker....sounds like great fun!"You just can’t help yourself can you.... You must take everything to the extreme..... Yes these things can happen.... but any human with common sense knows this... We are trying to highlight and praise married people playing away.... If this thread isn’t for you , can you please try not to shout down any members not sharing a similar opinion as yourself... | |||
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"You could be enjoying the best fuck of your life - on an ongoing and regular basis...
Or until the misses finds out and knocks on your door with two kids in toe screaming abuse at you because your a home wreaker....sounds like great fun!
You just can’t help yourself can you....
You must take everything to the extreme.....
Yes these things can happen.... but any human with common sense knows this...
We are trying to highlight and praise married people playing away....
If this thread isn’t for you , can you please try not to shout down any members not sharing a similar opinion as yourself..."Highlight and praise people for playing away ????? Haha love it | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil....." Number two isn't true. Wife calls working late so he has to leave early to pick up the kids. Clock watching. Number three isn't true either. Because they only have limited time they expect you to be free when they are and rival Torquemada in wanting to know who you're seeing if you can't meet when they're free! | |||
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it "I had one who arrived with shampoo, shower gel and perfume...His wife's brands he wanted me to use so as not to leave a scent trail. | |||
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it
Thank you.....
6. You will always have a great time with a married person because they want to escape from their problems and when meeting with you.. they are usually positive and upbeat..."Not always the case. Once the load is shot the guilt sets in and some can't get away fast enough. Not a nice feeling. | |||
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it
I had one who arrived with shampoo, shower gel and perfume...His wife's brands he wanted me to use so as not to leave a scent trail. "This brings me to my next great point about meet married people... 13 - married people are very chivalrous /generous and will usually bring gifts on a meet.. | |||
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it
I had one who arrived with shampoo, shower gel and perfume...His wife's brands he wanted me to use so as not to leave a scent trail.
This brings me to my next great point about meet married people...
13 - married people are very chivalrous /generous and will usually bring gifts on a meet.. " | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil..... Number two isn't true. Wife calls working late so he has to leave early to pick up the kids. Clock watching. Number three isn't true either. Because they only have limited time they expect you to be free when they are and rival Torquemada in wanting to know who you're seeing if you can't meet when they're free!" I’m sorry you have had to experience these things... but you might be the exception to the rule.... I will say try to take some positives from your experiences , so far. Since this man has spoken to his wife and agreed to pick up the children.. it shows he is a good communicator and selfless individual willing to sacrifice his own sexual pleasure for the greater good... I think he should be commended rather than vilified for such a noble act... About your last point about him wanting to know who you’re meeting if you can’t meet him.. well I’ll just say he might be concerned about sti’s... I’m not saying you’re a dirty person with sti’s... But he does have a wife’s sexual health to worry about... so this might be the reason for his over bearing behavior ... again please try to look at this a something positive... he is very concerned about your sexual health also.... | |||
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"..... OP you must take your rose tinted glasses off .... I think you may have been reading too many mills and boon novels . "This is a appreciation thread... it’s the Christmas season... please try to be in a giving praise mood.... | |||
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"No.14...Should you ever be cheated on in future by a husband or long term partner, you'll have proof that karma is a thing " I don’t find this to be something positive.... | |||
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"How many married men have you met OP ???? " None , but I prefer to meet attached people or couples... if you continue to read this thread, you might learn something positive about married people and decide to start meeting them... | |||
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"8. You dont have to buy their pants Or put up with their mothers" Yes! No deadly in-laws or boring domesticity | |||
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"How many married men have you met OP ???? None , but I prefer to meet attached people or couples... if you continue to read this thread, you might learn something positive about married people and decide to start meeting them..." Ok . Thanks for enlightening me | |||
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"No.14...Should you ever be cheated on in future by a husband or long term partner, you'll have proof that karma is a thing I don’t find this to be something positive...." Ah well, tried my best | |||
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"Do these advantages apply meeting married women too? " Yes very much so... this is a equal opportunity thread... Praise for married men and women should be given equally... | |||
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"No.14...Should you ever be cheated on in future by a husband or long term partner, you'll have proof that karma is a thing I don’t find this to be something positive.... Ah well, tried my best "Which brings me to 15 - Since married people can’t accommodate at home.. they will usually pay for a hotel... you will be able to sample room service and a free breakfast from all the hotels in your surrounding area for free... If they do decide to accommodate at their home... you can rest assured the house will be tidy because the loving spouse will have made sure to clean up before going out on an errand... | |||
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"I see this forum as fun- I’m married and not doing anything against my gorgeous hubbie’s consent... So- next one; Wife will be extremely horny as her husband will have worked her up into a frenzy and satisfied her over and over again- so much so she just wants to have hot, filthy sex with some poor guy immediately. He gets used Win win!" Win win indeed!! | |||
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it
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6. You will always have a great time with a married person because they want to escape from their problems and when meeting with you.. they are usually positive and upbeat..." | |||
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"22. Not getting any sex at home so desperate for a good seeing to. " 23 ... that sums up the situation.. | |||
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"I see this forum as fun- I’m married and not doing anything against my gorgeous hubbie’s consent... So- next one; Wife will be extremely horny as her husband will have worked her up into a frenzy and satisfied her over and over again- so much so she just wants to have hot, filthy sex with some poor guy immediately. He gets used Win win!" Consent makes all the difference | |||
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"1, You have weekends free. = plus Christmas and other holidays. As he's with his wife and family. This can be a very lonely time. 2, You don't get stood up = yes, you do, as others have said. 3, They don't have an sti = what if the wife is playing away bearback? She may pass something to him = boom you now have it. Not to mention having to keep your relationship seacrte from your freinds and family. " Dont disagree that much, but time to get real this is a swingers site for "sex" not a dating site if you are looking for a relationship go else where. | |||
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"22. Not getting any sex at home so desperate for a good seeing to. " Completely agree on this one. | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil..... 4. They are less likely to have the clap" You hope | |||
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"They are less likely to demand longer meets Also less likely to become needy and fall for you " Excellent points..... Which brings me to point number.... 23 - improving your bdsm skills... Since married people can’t have any visible marks on their bodies.. you will become a master of having a hard impact session without leaving any marks... you will be able to add this skill to your swinging cv... | |||
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" I'm going to disagree with 2 and 3. A guy with a wife and family has a whole host of things that might crop up last minute, and if they're not happy with their OH who's to say they won't get clingy if the grass looks greener. " Wha -your grass is green -eeew! | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil..... 4. They are less likely to have the clap Why is that? It could be argued that as a married person they are less used to using condoms and will avoid using them at every opportunity. Your assuming they have less sexual partners because they are married. Why? If they are cheating with one person why not two or three. They might go to brothels, or sex parties or swingers clubs." or indeed if they are cheating what is to say their "other half" isnt also (this applies to men and women) so hence they could be the source of said "clap" lol | |||
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" I'm going to disagree with 2 and 3. A guy with a wife and family has a whole host of things that might crop up last minute, and if they're not happy with their OH who's to say they won't get clingy if the grass looks greener. You must look at the positives... every mistake in life is a learning experience... If you’re arrange a meet with someone married, always make sure they book a hotel.. preferably in your name ,that way he/she is likely to turn up and if they don’t you will have a free hotel for the night. You can use said hotel room to meet other people , order room service and use the wet bar... I’m sure they’re some people that would leave their marriage for greener pastures.. but in my experience married people are in loving marriages that are lacking sex. If a married person is getting sex and love at home... that is their nirvana.... why would they ruin that?" They wont book the hotel, joint bank accounts  | |||
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"24 . They are easy prey for the "in lurve" couples who love nothing better than feeling good about themselves and their "strong and stable" relationship by vilifying the cheats. Hopefully this thread will stop the stigma of meeting married people.... The vilifying will never stop, unfortunately some people on the forums can’t help themselves.." It's never been an issue for me. I prefer married women, they really are much more fun. It's usually just married men that get the slagging off. Or the ones who won't or can't accommodate. Because then it's assumed they're attached. | |||
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"Blimey..... Always fun to read these types of posts. Everyone has an opinion and they are entitled to it. But it’s a fact of life that people cheat/play away etc so my only point is that married people should be honest about it on their profile as so so many aren’t; My inbox is poorer for it but at least I’m not misleading anyone. I made this thread for people like yourself... hopefully people reading this thread will see the positive benefits of giving you a chance... If they do meet you , please be as honest and chivalrous as possible to any swingers you meet..." Happy to say they have and I always am | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil..... Number two isn't true. Wife calls working late so he has to leave early to pick up the kids. Clock watching. Number three isn't true either. Because they only have limited time they expect you to be free when they are and rival Torquemada in wanting to know who you're seeing if you can't meet when they're free! I’m sorry you have had to experience these things... but you might be the exception to the rule.... I will say try to take some positives from your experiences , so far. Since this man has spoken to his wife and agreed to pick up the children.. it shows he is a good communicator and selfless individual willing to sacrifice his own sexual pleasure for the greater good... I think he should be commended rather than vilified for such a noble act... About your last point about him wanting to know who you’re meeting if you can’t meet him.. well I’ll just say he might be concerned about sti’s... I’m not saying you’re a dirty person with sti’s... But he does have a wife’s sexual health to worry about... so this might be the reason for his over bearing behavior ... again please try to look at this a something positive... he is very concerned about your sexual health also...." I have never read such a bigger load of bollocks in my life.....its priceless!!! | |||
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"You could be enjoying the best fuck of your life - on an ongoing and regular basis...
Or until the misses finds out and knocks on your door with two kids in toe screaming abuse at you because your a home wreaker....sounds like great fun!
You just can’t help yourself can you....
You must take everything to the extreme.....
Yes these things can happen.... but any human with common sense knows this...
We are trying to highlight and praise married people playing away....
If this thread isn’t for you , can you please try not to shout down any members not sharing a similar opinion as yourself..."Praise people for not having the common decency to be honest with their partner...highlight the positives....hahahahahaha | |||
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""celebrate"? It's simply a thin attempt at looking at something that can be immensely problematic from a single angle while ignoring other aspects. But as I take it you are married I can see why you are doing it." Oh you are naughty chucking cold water about like that  | |||
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"They are unlikely to tell everyone or share your pics with everyone. " Yes this brings me to 25 - Meeting married people will give you a great cheating radar for your future spouse.... When meeting married people keep track of all the excuses they tell the husband/wife to meet you... watch his/her movements before and after playing with you.... Do they shower before going home? Did they put their underwear on backwards? If you pay close attention, you will learn little clues to help you detect this behavior in future partners... | |||
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"Lmao I’m actually laughing so hard at this! Married men have been known to get clingy They can also have the clap as well as alcohol and drug addictions. They could also have a ton of baggage like their children answering the phone to the woman their dad has dipped his wick into. They can be flakey as fuck and superficial when some other hot piece of ass comes along. I know this through people I have known to be married and ‘swing’ solo without their wife’s consent. " I’m really sorry to hear this..... but I’m sure if you gave one of the married men on this thread a shot .... they will be the complete opposite of your past experiences.... | |||
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Or until the misses finds out and knocks on your door with two kids in toe screaming abuse at you because your a home wreaker....sounds like great fun!
You just can’t help yourself can you....
You must take everything to the extreme.....
Yes these things can happen.... but any human with common sense knows this...
We are trying to highlight and praise married people playing away....
If this thread isn’t for you , can you please try not to shout down any members not sharing a similar opinion as yourself...
Praise people for not having the common decency to be honest with their partner...highlight the positives....hahahahahaha"You must understand that being honest to the one you love can hurt them more.... For instance if a wife/husband can’t have sex because of illness... Do you make them feel bad for something they can’t control? No you love them and find sex discreetly..... This may sound crazy... but I had a friend who’s wife went off sex after gaining weight during pregnancy.... This numpty called her fat , and gave her a eating disorder... now she is anorexic afraid to put a drop of food in her mouth... Wouldn’t it be easier to to just love your wife no matter what, and please yourself elsewhere? Or should all spouses not getting sex , join a convent or monastery? | |||
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"They are unlikely to tell everyone or share your pics with everyone. Yes this brings me to 25 - Meeting married people will give you a great cheating radar for your future spouse.... When meeting married people keep track of all the excuses they tell the husband/wife to meet you... watch his/her movements before and after playing with you.... Do they shower before going home? Did they put their underwear on backwards? If you pay close attention, you will learn little clues to help you detect this behavior in future partners..." 26 - recognise that all of the above means that I will never trust anyone to be faithful to me, so I'll save myself the heartache & stay single | |||
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"8. You dont have to buy their pants Or put up with their mothers 9 You don't have to wash their pants. 10. You don't have to fold their pants" I think you have a pants fetish. Knickers to that I say | |||
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"They arnt my experiences. They’re the experiences of the kids who’s dads’ actions they had to suffer tell it all to them!"Please keep this civil.... | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil....." As an attached guy playing with permission here’s my perspective: 1. I’m free weekday and weekend evenings. I don’t cancel on people. I will only confirm a meet if I know it doesn’t clash with another commitment. In fact I’ve had at least 4 couples cancel on me this last month! 2. Following in from the first point. True. My time is precious so I don’t cancel on people if I know I can’t meet in the first place. 3. True. I already have love at home so don’t need to seek a deep connection elsewhere. Swinging is an extension to what is an already great sex life between me and my partner. That’s from my point of view. | |||
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"Blimey..... Always fun to read these types of posts. Everyone has an opinion and they are entitled to it. But it’s a fact of life that people cheat/play away etc so my only point is that married people should be honest about it on their profile as so so many aren’t; My inbox is poorer for it but at least I’m not misleading anyone. " Very true, 'the poorer inbox' observation by being honest one doubtless gets passed over (plus of course age in my case), however the few meets I have had, have been uncomplicated by making it clear that I am married... and what is more want to remain married. Openness and honesty goes a long way in this lifestyle. My wife is aware that I play away and why and has accepted it but has made it clear that she does not want to 'know' about any encounters. The 'full conditions' under which I play away are on my profile. | |||
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"Blimey..... Always fun to read these types of posts. Everyone has an opinion and they are entitled to it. But it’s a fact of life that people cheat/play away etc so my only point is that married people should be honest about it on their profile as so so many aren’t; My inbox is poorer for it but at least I’m not misleading anyone. Very true, 'the poorer inbox' observation by being honest one doubtless gets passed over (plus of course age in my case), however the few meets I have had, have been uncomplicated by making it clear that I am married... and what is more want to remain married. Openness and honesty goes a long way in this lifestyle. My wife is aware that I play away and why and has accepted it but has made it clear that she does not want to 'know' about any encounters. The 'full conditions' under which I play away are on my profile. " You do it right Alan! | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil....." Don’t you believe it!! I would disagree with 2 and 3 | |||
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"I’ve found married people to be less clingy. I like this "And finger licking good | |||
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"The only one I engaged with ended up leaving fab.... It was ok for him to play around as the married guy but not for me as a single girl.... get that if you will - kettle, pot and black!!! I wasn’t the only one he did that with either apparently.... proper peacock feathers came out "You must realize that he is not a true representative of a good married guy....it was your bad luck.... brush yourself off and try meeting another married guy... God does love a trier | |||
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"Almost everyone goes into a relationship with some expectations. This isn’t necessarily our fault. Growing up, we are brainwashed into believing that we need some sort of fairytale-type relationship. You know, the type of relationship where you meet your prince charming, fall in love, get married and live happily ever after in some beautiful castle. These type of relationships are unrealistic and expectations like these can leave you feeling unsatisfied with your love life. When you date a married man, there are absolutely no expectations to begin with. You aren’t dreaming about a perfect future with him, don't need to worry about mutual trust, and you aren’t expecting for him to love you unconditionally. You can just enjoy the relationship for what it is instead of what you want it to be." This was so eloquent and spot on..... You give me faith in Fab.... | |||
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"It’s up to how the married swingers in how they handle their situations to keep things civil with honesty and integrity to everyone in their home life and those they choose to engage with. It’s up to those people to do it right. I’ve seen it go very wrong and look forward to hearing the stories of married people and those who have engaged with married spouses who have had positive experiences to make it work. Did you not intend on a debate OP?" I clearly see you have a agenda to push..... I will kindly ask you leave all negative comments at the door... I’m not looking for a debate, I’m looking for praise and encouragement for a very small minority group on Fab.... Honest people who state they are married on their profiles... | |||
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"I cant really agree with number 2.. The amount of times I've been let down for random reasons or their "gf has come home early". 3 is kinda debatable too, I've still had some odd balls behaving rather clingy, one wanting to leave their partner. I do prefer if people have partners.. More because of your 3rd point, I'm just looking for nsa, I don't want to get to know people intimately this isn't the site for that and I tend to find single guys are more into that. " You must commend these attached guys for be honest enough to text you and explain why they have to cancel... in this day and age of ghosting... these guys have shown chivalry.., Which brings me to my next point... 26 - Married people don’t want sex without condoms... Most married people go to the doctors regularly because it’s just apart of married life.. they are less likely to ask for unprotected sex because they fear bringing home children or worse a sti.. So by meeting married people, you’re protecting your sexual health.... | |||
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"I have no agenda. Sorry for any offence caused. I will not upset you any further and refrain from any further comment on this thread. I hope you find what you are looking for and wish you all the best. " Thank you , I wish you a Merry Christmas and happy new year | |||
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"I’m reading this as a fun thread (maybe wrongly) and the winner is the perfume comment at the start......priceless " Haha it was a true story | |||
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"Slightly skewwiff comment, but what makes me laugh rather loudly is the number of female profiles protesting they will never, EVER meet a married man who is cheating and you take a glance at her verifications and 90% of them are from said cheating husbands. (And yes, I've come across a LOT of said profiles!!) You couldn't make it up!!! "I know right? What mugs. If people are cheating you cant expect them to tell the woman on the sex site the truth, unless it suits them. | |||
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"Slightly skewwiff comment, but what makes me laugh rather loudly is the number of female profiles protesting they will never, EVER meet a married man who is cheating and you take a glance at her verifications and 90% of them are from said cheating husbands. (And yes, I've come across a LOT of said profiles!!) You couldn't make it up!!!
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"5. My perfume will last longer, seeing as I can't wear it
I would! It’s their risk not yours!"I was asked to have a shower by that one guy, because I wore perfume, he was asked to leave. That was also sarcasm lol turning my experiences with non singles into positives, ya know
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"I cant really agree with number 2.. The amount of times I've been let down for random reasons or their "gf has come home early". 3 is kinda debatable too, I've still had some odd balls behaving rather clingy, one wanting to leave their partner. I do prefer if people have partners.. More because of your 3rd point, I'm just looking for nsa, I don't want to get to know people intimately this isn't the site for that and I tend to find single guys are more into that. You must commend these attached guys for be honest enough to text you and explain why they have to cancel... in this day and age of ghosting... these guys have shown chivalry.., Which brings me to my next point... 26 - Married people don’t want sex without condoms... Most married people go to the doctors regularly because it’s just apart of married life.. they are less likely to ask for unprotected sex because they fear bringing home children or worse a sti.. So by meeting married people, you’re protecting your sexual health...." Ah yeah that one guy who cancelled on me twice because his gf came home early. Other times I've suspected (not been told) and I've had all sorts of excuses. So commend or chivalry aren't really the words I'd exactly use when I got ready and dressed or I was sat in a pub. Nope that's so untrue! I've had people ask or offer money for unprotected sex and they were married/partnered. Where the hell are you getting these stats from? | |||
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You could provide said perfume and if she wore cheap perfume "Don't be tight, buy multiples on your imaginary wife's birthday/anniversary/christmas | |||
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Don't be tight, buy multiples on your imaginary wife's birthday/anniversary/christmas No way . My imaginary wife takes far too much of my imaginary money
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Don't be tight, buy multiples on your imaginary wife's birthday/anniversary/christmas No way . My imaginary wife takes far too much of my imaginary money
You may start doing overtime! is that real overtime or virtual ?
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You could provide said perfume and if she wore cheap perfume
Don't be tight, buy multiples on your imaginary wife's birthday/anniversary/christmas No way . My imaginary wife takes far too much of my imaginary money
You may start doing overtime! is that real overtime or virtual ?
Virtual would give you a 'get out of the house' free card...but Virtual doesn't pay for perfume!
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Don't be tight, buy multiples on your imaginary wife's birthday/anniversary/christmas No way . My imaginary wife takes far too much of my imaginary money
You may start doing overtime! is that real overtime or virtual ?
Virtual would give you a 'get out of the house' free card...but Virtual doesn't pay for perfume!
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"You have fun - till she’s released from prison and discover why she was locked up for - she killed the last woman that shagged her husband. What a pointless forum - the statements are all rubbish, you talking about individual people - married or not, how someone will behave, with regards to meeting is no different based on marriage status - they could be a twat or a great shag with amazing personality. Point is one major floor - they stood in front of friends and family making their vows - and then find a thousand and one reasons to justify why it’s now fine to break them. So the reason the vilified is from the start there is something to not trust about them. Sexless marriage - well honesty should be possible, if it’s true love ability to compromise and understand each other’s needs should be possible - if not then basically quite obvious shouldn’t be married, any relationship without honesty and trust is pointless. My positive point - you’ve likely seen that nobody agrees with you - and you’ll do something about your situation, tell wife truth, and then meet people in open way, or do the hard thing and end it and then you’ll have weekends to go out also! " Hey  My statements were not rubbish  | |||
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"I know there are many negative stigma’s against playing with attached people.... But in this thread let’s talk about all the positive aspects of playing with married men/women... 1. You can always have your weekends free.. Since married men/women usually can only meet during working hours or during weeknights only. You can have your weekends to attend clubs or meeting new people.... 2. You will not have to worry about being stood up again . Married people only have a finite amount of free time... so they will utilize this time to the fullest... so they will never stand you up or waste your time... 3. You don’t have to worry about clinginess. Married people have love at home.. they just want sex from swinging.. so you don’t have to worry about married people calling you at inappropriate hours or becoming a pest for your time ..... Please add any positive points and let’s try to keep this civil....." God loves a trier but really you should make this "advantages of meeting me" married men have fallen in love with me, turned up on my doorstep (unnanounced) and been the most pushy/clingy. (Miss Icebreaker) | |||
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"27 big ego boost that a man is willing to risk his family to be with you. Good for those with low self esteem! 28 you’re helping his wife as when it all comes out she can find someone better. 29 teaches self reliance. He literally doesn’t care if your mum died, you got burgled or you lost your job. He’s a ‘friend’ but only to his benefit." All I can say to you is..... I like my bunny medium well with boiled potatoes and carrots.. | |||
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"I cant really agree with number 2.. The amount of times I've been let down for random reasons or their "gf has come home early". 3 is kinda debatable too, I've still had some odd balls behaving rather clingy, one wanting to leave their partner. I do prefer if people have partners.. More because of your 3rd point, I'm just looking for nsa, I don't want to get to know people intimately this isn't the site for that and I tend to find single guys are more into that. You must commend these attached guys for be honest enough to text you and explain why they have to cancel... in this day and age of ghosting... these guys have shown chivalry.., Which brings me to my next point... 26 - Married people don’t want sex without condoms... Most married people go to the doctors regularly because it’s just apart of married life.. they are less likely to ask for unprotected sex because they fear bringing home children or worse a sti.. So by meeting married people, you’re protecting your sexual health.... Ah yeah that one guy who cancelled on me twice because his gf came home early. Other times I've suspected (not been told) and I've had all sorts of excuses. So commend or chivalry aren't really the words I'd exactly use when I got ready and dressed or I was sat in a pub. Nope that's so untrue! I've had people ask or offer money for unprotected sex and they were married/partnered. Where the hell are you getting these stats from? " In life there will always be anomalies to any rules... these men were definitely the exception not the rule..... Which brings me to my next point.. 30 - Meeting married people will always enhance your sex life... Married people that are not getting their desire in the bedroom fulfilled will be more adventurous in the bedroom... Have you ever wanted to dominate a man/woman? Meet a married person, they will be more open to it.... Have you ever wanted to role play? Meet a married person, like the poster I’m quoting said “ Many married/attached men have offered her money for bareback sex “ This proves married men are more kinkier and adventurous in bed .... they are willing to role play the movie Pretty Woman on a sexual meet... | |||
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"You have fun - till she’s released from prison and discover why she was locked up for - she killed the last woman that shagged her husband. What a pointless forum - the statements are all rubbish, you talking about individual people - married or not, how someone will behave, with regards to meeting is no different based on marriage status - they could be a twat or a great shag with amazing personality. Point is one major floor - they stood in front of friends and family making their vows - and then find a thousand and one reasons to justify why it’s now fine to break them. So the reason the vilified is from the start there is something to not trust about them. Sexless marriage - well honesty should be possible, if it’s true love ability to compromise and understand each other’s needs should be possible - if not then basically quite obvious shouldn’t be married, any relationship without honesty and trust is pointless. My positive point - you’ve likely seen that nobody agrees with you - and you’ll do something about your situation, tell wife truth, and then meet people in open way, or do the hard thing and end it and then you’ll have weekends to go out also! " You just couldn’t help yourself , could you..., Please don’t take any liberties with me Sir This is a thread for attached people not getting any attention on a swinging site... Do you know what this feels like? Do you have any compassion for the people with the scarlet letter? Well I’ll inform you... It’s like being the kid that didn’t get any gifts at Christmas..... It’s like being a black guy with a small cock... It’s like being a bbw with A cups.... It’s like being a tv/ts that gets rejected and abuse from men , women, and other tv’s/ts’s It’s like being someone that has a bad crouch odor, and can’t figure out why..... So since it’s the Christmas season let’s try to think of those less fortunate than ourselves... Those of us who work 40-60 hours a week to support a spouse that thinks it’s okay not think of our sexual needs.... | |||
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""celebrate"? It's simply a thin attempt at looking at something that can be immensely problematic from a single angle while ignoring other aspects. But as I take it you are married I can see why you are doing it. I’m not married, my wife is in prison.... But I see you clearly have an agenda, so you’re incapable of seeing anything on this thread as positive.... don't get that . Your wife is in prison so that means your not married ? " How does that mean he is not married? Seriously?? | |||
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"No.14...Should you ever be cheated on in future by a husband or long term partner, you'll have proof that karma is a thing " That is a positive contribution though. Karma is a thing and what goes around comes around. I have never cheated so can't understand their mindset, but things happen for a reason. Only the cheaters know the what, why, how, ins and outs! Unfortunately cheating is openly accepted on here by many. I suppose the OP has been successful in highlighting some positives for those in negative circumstances. | |||
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"You have fun - till she’s released from prison and discover why she was locked up for - she killed the last woman that shagged her husband. What a pointless forum - the statements are all rubbish, you talking about individual people - married or not, how someone will behave, with regards to meeting is no different based on marriage status - they could be a twat or a great shag with amazing personality. Point is one major floor - they stood in front of friends and family making their vows - and then find a thousand and one reasons to justify why it’s now fine to break them. So the reason the vilified is from the start there is something to not trust about them. Sexless marriage - well honesty should be possible, if it’s true love ability to compromise and understand each other’s needs should be possible - if not then basically quite obvious shouldn’t be married, any relationship without honesty and trust is pointless. My positive point - you’ve likely seen that nobody agrees with you - and you’ll do something about your situation, tell wife truth, and then meet people in open way, or do the hard thing and end it and then you’ll have weekends to go out also! You just couldn’t help yourself , could you..., Please don’t take any liberties with me Sir This is a thread for attached people not getting any attention on a swinging site... Do you know what this feels like? Do you have any compassion for the people with the scarlet letter? Well I’ll inform you... It’s like being the kid that didn’t get any gifts at Christmas..... It’s like being a black guy with a small cock... It’s like being a bbw with A cups.... It’s like being a tv/ts that gets rejected and abuse from men , women, and other tv’s/ts’s It’s like being someone that has a bad crouch odor, and can’t figure out why..... So since it’s the Christmas season let’s try to think of those less fortunate than ourselves... Those of us who work 40-60 hours a week to support a spouse that thinks it’s okay not think of our sexual needs.... " Positive note: that last paragraph doesn’t apply to the OP, as he said she was in prison .. | |||
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"I've just got no words for you anymore, I gather your married? you're trying to make alot of these things some might consider a negative aspect of meeting a married man into positive things which just can't be applied in some situations sorry (and frankly is just a load of crap). Do you meet married and single men yourself? Because I just don't see where you're getting all this from, it is extremely incorrect. Unless you yourself have met single and married men and had personal experience with it. I just can't listen to this. " The OP said he is married, but wife is in prison so this was an attempt to justify his "positive reasoning" for cheating 
As we can see in this thread people support cheating/cheaters therefore they will always crack on regardless if anyone gets hurt.
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"I've just got no words for you anymore, I gather your married? you're trying to make alot of these things some might consider a negative aspect of meeting a married man into positive things which just can't be applied in some situations sorry (and frankly is just a load of crap). Do you meet married and single men yourself? Because I just don't see where you're getting all this from, it is extremely incorrect. Unless you yourself have met single and married men and had personal experience with it. I just can't listen to this. The OP said he is married, but wife is in prison so this was an attempt to justify his "positive reasoning" for cheating
As we can see in this thread people support cheating/cheaters therefore they will always crack on regardless if anyone gets hurt.
I was trying to be polite and keep it civil'ish, but other posters prefer the more direct tell it like it is approach. Ouch!"I didn't see that part, I think I was more surprised at the married men don't do clingy and the reasonings that if a man says his gfs come home early and can't make it I should commend him for his chivalry in letting me know. I don't support cheating but also at the same time I do not know what is going on behind closed doors. I do not share personal things or expect it in return when I meet on here, as when feelings and personal things are involved things get messy. Also most of the time, people don't even tell you they are married or partnered. | |||
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"I've just got no words for you anymore, I gather your married? you're trying to make alot of these things some might consider a negative aspect of meeting a married man into positive things which just can't be applied in some situations sorry (and frankly is just a load of crap). Do you meet married and single men yourself? Because I just don't see where you're getting all this from, it is extremely incorrect. Unless you yourself have met single and married men and had personal experience with it. I just can't listen to this. The OP said he is married, but wife is in prison so this was an attempt to justify his "positive reasoning" for cheating
As we can see in this thread people support cheating/cheaters therefore they will always crack on regardless if anyone gets hurt.
I was trying to be polite and keep it civil'ish, but other posters prefer the more direct tell it like it is approach. Ouch!
I didn't see that part, I think I was more surprised at the married men don't do clingy and the reasonings that if a man says his gfs come home early and can't make it I should commend him for his chivalry in letting me know.
I don't support cheating but also at the same time I do not know what is going on behind closed doors. I do not share personal things or expect it in return when I meet on here, as when feelings and personal things are involved things get messy.
Also most of the time, people don't even tell you they are married or partnered. "True most people don't, but some state it in their profile and are open about it. Let's the rest of us make a decision rather then possibly finding out after. We never know exactly what is happening behind doors that is why on a social level when chatting to people if they say married/partner etc I don't just brush them off as bad people. Having said that: There are people actually like the thrill of cheating they could be happily married, sex is amazing and yet through own selfish sexual desires will cheat and not speak to partner about it.
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"I've just got no words for you anymore, I gather your married? you're trying to make alot of these things some might consider a negative aspect of meeting a married man into positive things which just can't be applied in some situations sorry (and frankly is just a load of crap). Do you meet married and single men yourself? Because I just don't see where you're getting all this from, it is extremely incorrect. Unless you yourself have met single and married men and had personal experience with it. I just can't listen to this. The OP said he is married, but wife is in prison so this was an attempt to justify his "positive reasoning" for cheating
As we can see in this thread people support cheating/cheaters therefore they will always crack on regardless if anyone gets hurt.
I was trying to be polite and keep it civil'ish, but other posters prefer the more direct tell it like it is approach. Ouch!
I didn't see that part, I think I was more surprised at the married men don't do clingy and the reasonings that if a man says his gfs come home early and can't make it I should commend him for his chivalry in letting me know.
I don't support cheating but also at the same time I do not know what is going on behind closed doors. I do not share personal things or expect it in return when I meet on here, as when feelings and personal things are involved things get messy.
Also most of the time, people don't even tell you they are married or partnered.
True most people don't, but some state it in their profile and are open about it. Let's the rest of us make a decision rather then possibly finding out after. We never know exactly what is happening behind doors that is why on a social level when chatting to people if they say married/partner etc I don't just brush them off as bad people.
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There are people actually like the thrill of cheating they could be happily married, sex is amazing and yet through own selfish sexual desires will cheat and not speak to partner about it.
I have huge respect for couples on here playing with consent. They are the true definition of swinging. No secrets from each other. Not going to hurt anyone in the process and having a fabulous sexual journey."I have never met a person who outwardly puts it in first messages or on profiles I have more unknowingly met someone and been told after. I think by now I can tell when a person is and not to continue. Yeah Im aware of that, but the thing is a person isn't going to tell you that they enjoy it because they're already serial liars and there will be excuse after excuse for it. So they'd rather stick to the unhappy home story. That's the thing though lol, singles meeting singles isn't swinging, but that's another argument. | |||
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"I've just got no words for you anymore, I gather your married? you're trying to make alot of these things some might consider a negative aspect of meeting a married man into positive things which just can't be applied in some situations sorry (and frankly is just a load of crap). Do you meet married and single men yourself? Because I just don't see where you're getting all this from, it is extremely incorrect. Unless you yourself have met single and married men and had personal experience with it. I just can't listen to this. The OP said he is married, but wife is in prison so this was an attempt to justify his "positive reasoning" for cheating
As we can see in this thread people support cheating/cheaters therefore they will always crack on regardless if anyone gets hurt.
I was trying to be polite and keep it civil'ish, but other posters prefer the more direct tell it like it is approach. Ouch!
I didn't see that part, I think I was more surprised at the married men don't do clingy and the reasonings that if a man says his gfs come home early and can't make it I should commend him for his chivalry in letting me know.
I don't support cheating but also at the same time I do not know what is going on behind closed doors. I do not share personal things or expect it in return when I meet on here, as when feelings and personal things are involved things get messy.
Also most of the time, people don't even tell you they are married or partnered. "True. I am truthful on my profile as in I can’t meet and am married. Makes for a quiet inbox but I don’t like misleading people either. If people are too lazy to read profiles that’s another story. | |||
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