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"If you want to take pictures or videos of your encounters with single males.... This isn’t a rant or moaning..... It would just help single guys that are not comfortable with this to avoid meeting you guys there for saving everyone time..... Also during play, please try to be a real Porn director and act like you’re not there.... I can’t remember watching any porn with the director barking out orders every 2 minutes..." LOL ! People do this ? Bark orders .. like what ? I'm genuinely curious.. | |||
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"If you want to take pictures or videos of your encounters with single males.... This isn’t a rant or moaning..... It would just help single guys that are not comfortable with this to avoid meeting you guys there for saving everyone time..... Also during play, please try to be a real Porn director and act like you’re not there.... I can’t remember watching any porn with the director barking out orders every 2 minutes... LOL ! People do this ? Bark orders .. like what ? I'm genuinely curious.. " Turn her around, fuck her harder , move your leg , put your arm down, cum here..... They don’t let things happen naturally.... | |||
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"Or.. we could just ask in person before or during, depending on the mood? " Very true, but if taking pictures and videos of your meets is a potential option.... Waiting until you meet , can be detrimental.... It might kill the mood if everyone is not in agreement..... I believe stating this during arranging the meeting is vital.... Just for the simple fact it would help me shave properly..... | |||
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"Wouldn't the list of preferences show this? It includes options for 'Taking Pictures' and 'Making Videos'" There is big difference between taking a few pictures and videos during play and some husbands playing Porn directors.... The latter makes a single male or female feel like a pro forming seal ..... | |||
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I usually mention beforehand that I'm quite happy for the hubby to take pics or video, and never had a problem during a photographed or videoed meet - they've always recorded the play without any 'Lights Camera, Action' drama!  | |||
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"If you want to take pictures or videos of your encounters with single males.... This isn’t a rant or moaning..... It would just help single guys that are not comfortable with this to avoid meeting you guys there for saving everyone time..... Also during play, please try to be a real Porn director and act like you’re not there.... I can’t remember watching any porn with the director barking out orders every 2 minutes... LOL ! People do this ? Bark orders .. like what ? I'm genuinely curious.. " only things that bark in our house are two dogs!!!! Me mum always said "dont keep a dog and bark yourself" lol    | |||
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"If you want to take pictures or videos of your encounters with single males.... This isn’t a rant or moaning..... It would just help single guys that are not comfortable with this to avoid meeting you guys there for saving everyone time..... Also during play, please try to be a real Porn director and act like you’re not there.... I can’t remember watching any porn with the director barking out orders every 2 minutes... LOL ! People do this ? Bark orders .. like what ? I'm genuinely curious.. " thrust.... NOW | |||
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"LOL ! Not to laugh at your pain but this sounds hilarious ! I think I've discovered a new kink.. men that give directions to other men about how to fuck their wives !" That's exactly what the husband tried to do - he'd stayed quiet all through 'Round 1', but for some reason decided to tell us what to do and how to do it during 'Round 2'... ....perhaps he was feeling left out by then - but he was supposed to be sitting in the corner watching, not prowling around the bed issuing instructions... ....which was when she shouted at him...  | |||
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"If you want to take pictures or videos of your encounters with single males.... This isn’t a rant or moaning..... It would just help single guys that are not comfortable with this to avoid meeting you guys there for saving everyone time..... Also during play, please try to be a real Porn director and act like you’re not there.... I can’t remember watching any porn with the director barking out orders every 2 minutes..." I must be lucky, not once have I had anyone 'bark orders' at me while playing with their wife. If filming or photos are to be taken, which I have no problems with, it has always been discussed previously. I could think of nothing worse than a meet as described above! I think I would get dressed and walk out! | |||
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"If you want to take pictures or videos of your encounters with single males.... This isn’t a rant or moaning..... It would just help single guys that are not comfortable with this to avoid meeting you guys there for saving everyone time..... Also during play, please try to be a real Porn director and act like you’re not there.... I can’t remember watching any porn with the director barking out orders every 2 minutes... LOL ! People do this ? Bark orders .. like what ? I'm genuinely curious.. Turn her around, fuck her harder , move your leg , put your arm down, cum here..... They don’t let things happen naturally...." Couldn't think of anything worse. A fly on the wall is our approach. Think our profile is pretty clear on you points, op.  | |||
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"I could think of nothing worse than a meet as described above! I think I would get dressed and walk out!" I did get dressed and leave quite quickly - wasn't so much 'walking out' as just getting out of the impending line of fire as she wasn't at all happy (with him)... | |||
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"A fly on the wall is our approach." That's exactly how all my photographed and videoed meets have been - seeing the pics or video afterwards it's been obvious the husbands had moved around to get shots from different angles, etc., and generally I'd barely even noticed!  | |||
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"Iv watched porn like this The camera man going on an on Such a turn off to watch never mind participate in " | |||
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"If you want to take pictures or videos of your encounters with single males.... This isn’t a rant or moaning..... It would just help single guys that are not comfortable with this to avoid meeting you guys there for saving everyone time..... Also during play, please try to be a real Porn director and act like you’re not there.... I can’t remember watching any porn with the director barking out orders every 2 minutes... LOL ! People do this ? Bark orders .. like what ? I'm genuinely curious.. Turn her around, fuck her harder , move your leg , put your arm down, cum here..... They don’t let things happen naturally...."  | |||
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"If you want to take pictures or videos of your encounters with single males.... This isn’t a rant or moaning..... It would just help single guys that are not comfortable with this to avoid meeting you guys there for saving everyone time..... Also during play, please try to be a real Porn director and act like you’re not there.... I can’t remember watching any porn with the director barking out orders every 2 minutes..." Why most single guys don't read profiles anyway so wouldn't matter what was written on it. | |||
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"Or.. we could just ask in person before or during, depending on the mood? " Or you could make it clear on your profile so those not wanting to be filmed or photographed can avoid. | |||
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"Communication is key, this doesn't need to go on a profile as there is already a tag for it. It should be discussed when arranging a meet. Oh, and the couple are not there for just your enjoyment, you might want to try to fit in with their style of play rather than complaining about it." Why is it always the couple who can set rules? Put it on your profile and save people the time wasted messaging you. | |||
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"Communication is key, this doesn't need to go on a profile as there is already a tag for it. It should be discussed when arranging a meet. Oh, and the couple are not there for just your enjoyment, you might want to try to fit in with their style of play rather than complaining about it. Why is it always the couple who can set rules? Put it on your profile and save people the time wasted messaging you. " Pussy makes the rules. Couples have at least one pussy. | |||
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"Communication is key, this doesn't need to go on a profile as there is already a tag for it. It should be discussed when arranging a meet. Oh, and the couple are not there for just your enjoyment, you might want to try to fit in with their style of play rather than complaining about it." I would like to think we should all have a good time... it’s not about me fitting in with the couple or vice versa.... It’s about 3 people having a enjoyable sexual encounter...... Just imagine walking into a hotel room and there is 3 high beam lights and 2 cameras pointed at the bed.... Would you think this is a swinging situation or a porn shoot? | |||
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"Communication is key, this doesn't need to go on a profile as there is already a tag for it. It should be discussed when arranging a meet. Oh, and the couple are not there for just your enjoyment, you might want to try to fit in with their style of play rather than complaining about it. Why is it always the couple who can set rules? Put it on your profile and save people the time wasted messaging you. " Because profiles don't get read, especially by men? And in this situation the couple has invited a male into their home, to have sex with their wife/partner so some respect for the male half of the couple is expected? I don't disagree on photos but to expect you can totally disregard and ignore a husband or partner while you have sex with their wife is a bit off no? Some male halves like to be involved and not just watch. If people don't like that then maybe they should stick to meeting single females. | |||
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"Communication is key, this doesn't need to go on a profile as there is already a tag for it. It should be discussed when arranging a meet. Oh, and the couple are not there for just your enjoyment, you might want to try to fit in with their style of play rather than complaining about it. Why is it always the couple who can set rules? Put it on your profile and save people the time wasted messaging you. Because profiles don't get read, especially by men? And in this situation the couple has invited a male into their home, to have sex with their wife/partner so some respect for the male half of the couple is expected? I don't disagree on photos but to expect you can totally disregard and ignore a husband or partner while you have sex with their wife is a bit off no? Some male halves like to be involved and not just watch. If people don't like that then maybe they should stick to meeting single females. " I think something has gotten lost in translation or you’re grossly mistaken.... This has nothing to do with disrespecting the male half... I have no problem with the male half taken pics and videos during the course of the night.... My problem is when the husband solely wants to just videotape the whole encounter without regard for myself and the wife’s feelings.... I’m a swinger not a free pornstar | |||
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"I could think of nothing worse than a meet as described above! I think I would get dressed and walk out! I did get dressed and leave quite quickly - wasn't so much 'walking out' as just getting out of the impending line of fire as she wasn't at all happy (with him)... " Exit stage left... | |||
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"Communication is key, this doesn't need to go on a profile as there is already a tag for it. It should be discussed when arranging a meet. Oh, and the couple are not there for just your enjoyment, you might want to try to fit in with their style of play rather than complaining about it. Why is it always the couple who can set rules? Put it on your profile and save people the time wasted messaging you. Because profiles don't get read, especially by men? And in this situation the couple has invited a male into their home, to have sex with their wife/partner so some respect for the male half of the couple is expected? I don't disagree on photos but to expect you can totally disregard and ignore a husband or partner while you have sex with their wife is a bit off no? Some male halves like to be involved and not just watch. If people don't like that then maybe they should stick to meeting single females. I think something has gotten lost in translation or you’re grossly mistaken.... This has nothing to do with disrespecting the male half... I have no problem with the male half taken pics and videos during the course of the night.... My problem is when the husband solely wants to just videotape the whole encounter without regard for myself and the wife’s feelings.... I’m a swinger not a free pornstar" I know you're more than just a BBC. I don't mind being objectified to a point but like you say wannabe Steven Spielberg's can kill the mood. Need to be like a horse with blinkers on. | |||
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"I can’t remember watching any porn with the director barking out orders every 2 minutes..." Well that stuff is usually edited out in post probably mate. | |||
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"Communication is key, this doesn't need to go on a profile as there is already a tag for it. It should be discussed when arranging a meet. Oh, and the couple are not there for just your enjoyment, you might want to try to fit in with their style of play rather than complaining about it. Why is it always the couple who can set rules? Put it on your profile and save people the time wasted messaging you. Because profiles don't get read, especially by men? And in this situation the couple has invited a male into their home, to have sex with their wife/partner so some respect for the male half of the couple is expected? I don't disagree on photos but to expect you can totally disregard and ignore a husband or partner while you have sex with their wife is a bit off no? Some male halves like to be involved and not just watch. If people don't like that then maybe they should stick to meeting single females. I think something has gotten lost in translation or you’re grossly mistaken.... This has nothing to do with disrespecting the male half... I have no problem with the male half taken pics and videos during the course of the night.... My problem is when the husband solely wants to just videotape the whole encounter without regard for myself and the wife’s feelings.... I’m a swinger not a free pornstar" In your initial post you talked about a husband barking out orders though no? There's also been mention of this thought the thread. I also didn't mention asking permission when taking pics or vids as an issue. I think someone should always ask a person's permission before an encounter. | |||
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"Communication is key, this doesn't need to go on a profile as there is already a tag for it. It should be discussed when arranging a meet. Oh, and the couple are not there for just your enjoyment, you might want to try to fit in with their style of play rather than complaining about it. Why is it always the couple who can set rules? Put it on your profile and save people the time wasted messaging you. Because profiles don't get read, especially by men? And in this situation the couple has invited a male into their home, to have sex with their wife/partner so some respect for the male half of the couple is expected? I don't disagree on photos but to expect you can totally disregard and ignore a husband or partner while you have sex with their wife is a bit off no? Some male halves like to be involved and not just watch. If people don't like that then maybe they should stick to meeting single females. I think something has gotten lost in translation or you’re grossly mistaken.... This has nothing to do with disrespecting the male half... I have no problem with the male half taken pics and videos during the course of the night.... My problem is when the husband solely wants to just videotape the whole encounter without regard for myself and the wife’s feelings.... I’m a swinger not a free pornstar In your initial post you talked about a husband barking out orders though no? There's also been mention of this thought the thread. I also didn't mention asking permission when taking pics or vids as an issue. I think someone should always ask a person's permission before an encounter. " Honestly I’ve been swinging for 10 years and never encountered anything like this before.... It literally felt like a job.... I walked in , have a quick drink... very little small talk. Husband turns on 3 spotlights and 2 cameras we have sex... If he would have clearly explained he would be making a legit porno during meets in his profile and when arranging the meet.. I would have declined and saved both of our time... | |||
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"Communication is key, this doesn't need to go on a profile as there is already a tag for it. It should be discussed when arranging a meet. Oh, and the couple are not there for just your enjoyment, you might want to try to fit in with their style of play rather than complaining about it. Why is it always the couple who can set rules? Put it on your profile and save people the time wasted messaging you. Because profiles don't get read, especially by men? And in this situation the couple has invited a male into their home, to have sex with their wife/partner so some respect for the male half of the couple is expected? I don't disagree on photos but to expect you can totally disregard and ignore a husband or partner while you have sex with their wife is a bit off no? Some male halves like to be involved and not just watch. If people don't like that then maybe they should stick to meeting single females. I think something has gotten lost in translation or you’re grossly mistaken.... This has nothing to do with disrespecting the male half... I have no problem with the male half taken pics and videos during the course of the night.... My problem is when the husband solely wants to just videotape the whole encounter without regard for myself and the wife’s feelings.... I’m a swinger not a free pornstar I know you're more than just a BBC. I don't mind being objectified to a point but like you say wannabe Steven Spielberg's can kill the mood. Need to be like a horse with blinkers on." Oh I can tune people out and focus on my task.. I just really wasn’t feeling the vibe... it’s strange but I actually care if the lady is enjoying herself... | |||
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"If you want to take pictures or videos of your encounters with single males.... This isn’t a rant or moaning..... It would just help single guys that are not comfortable with this to avoid meeting you guys there for saving everyone time..... Also during play, please try to be a real Porn director and act like you’re not there.... I can’t remember watching any porn with the director barking out orders every 2 minutes..." Same for single women | |||
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"Communication is key, this doesn't need to go on a profile as there is already a tag for it. It should be discussed when arranging a meet. Oh, and the couple are not there for just your enjoyment, you might want to try to fit in with their style of play rather than complaining about it. Why is it always the couple who can set rules? Put it on your profile and save people the time wasted messaging you. Because profiles don't get read, especially by men? And in this situation the couple has invited a male into their home, to have sex with their wife/partner so some respect for the male half of the couple is expected? I don't disagree on photos but to expect you can totally disregard and ignore a husband or partner while you have sex with their wife is a bit off no? Some male halves like to be involved and not just watch. If people don't like that then maybe they should stick to meeting single females. I think something has gotten lost in translation or you’re grossly mistaken.... This has nothing to do with disrespecting the male half... I have no problem with the male half taken pics and videos during the course of the night.... My problem is when the husband solely wants to just videotape the whole encounter without regard for myself and the wife’s feelings.... I’m a swinger not a free pornstar In your initial post you talked about a husband barking out orders though no? There's also been mention of this thought the thread. I also didn't mention asking permission when taking pics or vids as an issue. I think someone should always ask a person's permission before an encounter. Honestly I’ve been swinging for 10 years and never encountered anything like this before.... It literally felt like a job.... I walked in , have a quick drink... very little small talk. Husband turns on 3 spotlights and 2 cameras we have sex... If he would have clearly explained he would be making a legit porno during meets in his profile and when arranging the meet.. I would have declined and saved both of our time... " Well yeah but sometimes you've got to ask and confirm for yourself I guess. I'm not agreeing in what they did (if that was me I would of said no for privacy issues, you don't know where videos like that are going to turn up). Every meet I go over ground rules and address the picture and video thing. Some of the men I've met don't really think about asking and even when I've said no to face videos Ive caught someone recording me. Maybe put something on your profile so people know to ask in future. | |||
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"Communication is key, this doesn't need to go on a profile as there is already a tag for it. It should be discussed when arranging a meet. Oh, and the couple are not there for just your enjoyment, you might want to try to fit in with their style of play rather than complaining about it. Why is it always the couple who can set rules? Put it on your profile and save people the time wasted messaging you. Because profiles don't get read, especially by men? And in this situation the couple has invited a male into their home, to have sex with their wife/partner so some respect for the male half of the couple is expected? I don't disagree on photos but to expect you can totally disregard and ignore a husband or partner while you have sex with their wife is a bit off no? Some male halves like to be involved and not just watch. If people don't like that then maybe they should stick to meeting single females. I think something has gotten lost in translation or you’re grossly mistaken.... This has nothing to do with disrespecting the male half... I have no problem with the male half taken pics and videos during the course of the night.... My problem is when the husband solely wants to just videotape the whole encounter without regard for myself and the wife’s feelings.... I’m a swinger not a free pornstar In your initial post you talked about a husband barking out orders though no? There's also been mention of this thought the thread. I also didn't mention asking permission when taking pics or vids as an issue. I think someone should always ask a person's permission before an encounter. Honestly I’ve been swinging for 10 years and never encountered anything like this before.... It literally felt like a job.... I walked in , have a quick drink... very little small talk. Husband turns on 3 spotlights and 2 cameras we have sex... If he would have clearly explained he would be making a legit porno during meets in his profile and when arranging the meet.. I would have declined and saved both of our time... Well yeah but sometimes you've got to ask and confirm for yourself I guess. I'm not agreeing in what they did (if that was me I would of said no for privacy issues, you don't know where videos like that are going to turn up). Every meet I go over ground rules and address the picture and video thing. Some of the men I've met don't really think about asking and even when I've said no to face videos Ive caught someone recording me. Maybe put something on your profile so people know to ask in future. " Thank you for the advice, I’ll try that in the future... | |||
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"... it’s strange but I actually care if the lady is enjoying herself... You're not meant to say that "I know but it’s the Christmas season... I’m in the giving mood... | |||
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"... it’s strange but I actually care if the lady is enjoying herself... You're not meant to say that
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"If you want to take pictures or videos of your encounters with single males.... This isn’t a rant or moaning..... It would just help single guys that are not comfortable with this to avoid meeting you guys there for saving everyone time..... Also during play, please try to be a real Porn director and act like you’re not there.... I can’t remember watching any porn with the director barking out orders every 2 minutes... Same for single women "Nobody would want to film single women would they?  | |||
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