FabSwingers.com forum: What do you like to be called?

By *morousZoe OP Woman
18 hours ago

Cumbria

Other than not later for dinner… 🙄

During The Sex….

There seems to be an assumption that a hotwife enjoys “slut” or other (in my opinion) degrading terms.

What do you like? Is slut empowering to you? Do you prefer to a “good girl”? Or is that gross and you’d rather just be called “sexy as fuck”?

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By *ammy_xMan
18 hours ago

Reading

I struggle with the derogatory terms , make me a bit uncomfortable at times

I guess it’s all about context though

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By *uimquiveringqueenWoman
18 hours ago

the land of vagina

I dont like the derogatory terms i much prefer terms of endearment that make me want to suck more or kick back more

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By *ibesandVariety2.0Couple
18 hours ago

Edinburgh

I (mr) hate derogatory words. “Slut” “cum slut” “bitch” just off putting.

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By *dstefiMan
18 hours ago

Solihull

Slut is the honourable exception to all the other pejoratives, which will politely get rammed up someone's rectum with interest if used with me.

I like slut though, used in the heat of sex with a trusted friend.

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By *sWyldWoman
18 hours ago

Edinburgh

I hate derogatory words too. Anyone called me those things, I'd leave.

I suppose ultimately I want to feel desired so things that symbolise that.

The good girl thing is fun, partly tongue and cheek but partly because deep down I possibly do have a little bit of a praise kink going on. I like to know I'm doing a good job

Beyond that my name is pretty good

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
18 hours ago

East Sussex

My name will do just fine thanks

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By *morousZoe OP Woman
17 hours ago

Cumbria

"I struggle with the derogatory terms , make me a bit uncomfortable at times

I guess it’s all about context though"

Exactly - for those that want it and are with someone happy to provide it - it’s win win.

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By *morousZoe OP Woman
17 hours ago

Cumbria

"I dont like the derogatory terms i much prefer terms of endearment that make me want to suck more or kick back more

Me too - tell me you’re enjoying it instead of that I’m such a horny slut 🤣

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By *etefromderbyMan
17 hours ago

Derby

Don’t know what people would want to call me

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By *morousZoe OP Woman
17 hours ago

Cumbria

"I (mr) hate derogatory words. “Slut” “cum slut” “bitch” just off putting.

Does Mrs like them or is she team endearment too?

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By *morousZoe OP Woman
17 hours ago

Cumbria

"Slut is the honourable exception to all the other pejoratives, which will politely get rammed up someone's rectum with interest if used with me.

I like slut though, used in the heat of sex with a trusted friend. "

Interesting there’s a chosen one you’re happy with! I hope friends use it in abundance!

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By *morousZoe OP Woman
17 hours ago

Cumbria

"I hate derogatory words too. Anyone called me those things, I'd leave.

I suppose ultimately I want to feel desired so things that symbolise that.

The good girl thing is fun, partly tongue and cheek but partly because deep down I possibly do have a little bit of a praise kink going on. I like to know I'm doing a good job

Beyond that my name is pretty good"

Good girl is always a little tongue in cheek, until they growl it in the heat of the moment with context and suddenly 🫠

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By *morousZoe OP Woman
17 hours ago

Cumbria

"My name will do just fine thanks

As you wish Mrs NiceCouple

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
17 hours ago

Sheffield

I do like good girl but nothing derogatory

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By *aandLoCouple
17 hours ago

Southampton

It's simple for me: my name.

I'm a contrary bugger who hates the derogatory terms like slut, whore etc but also (with less ferocity) dislikes the sickly sweet terms of endearment like baby, precious, good girl etc. 😬

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
16 hours ago

Gloucestershire

'Slut' is an absolute no. Show me some respect or show yourself out.

‘Good girl’ just makes me feel like I've successfully sat on command and am about to receive a biscuit and a pat on the head. 😂

I am aware that others differ to me and that is the joy of fab. We all like different things.

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By *oucancallmeAlMan
16 hours ago

norwich

Call me anything except late for dinner.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
16 hours ago

Ilfracombe

Slut, dirty slut, filthy slut, cum slut, cum dump slut naughty slut, fucking slut.

Don't call me a good girl, I am a woman not a girl.

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By *WB85Man
16 hours ago

Staffordshire

Jay....just so I know you're talking to me.

Not into all the derogatory stuff.

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By *enuine_J87Man
16 hours ago

Eastleigh

I feel like the things I say naturally are great for women who have a praise kink, even if I don’t mean it to!

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By *ourpornfixMan
16 hours ago

East Cheshire

I'm happy with Oh My God.

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By *morousZoe OP Woman
16 hours ago

Cumbria

"It's simple for me: my name.

I'm a contrary bugger who hates the derogatory terms like slut, whore etc but also (with less ferocity) dislikes the sickly sweet terms of endearment like baby, precious, good girl etc. 😬"

So just your name for you too?

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By *morousZoe OP Woman
16 hours ago

Cumbria

"'Slut' is an absolute no. Show me some respect or show yourself out.

‘Good girl’ just makes me feel like I've successfully sat on command and am about to receive a biscuit and a pat on the head. 😂

I am aware that others differ to me and that is the joy of fab. We all like different things. "

Yeah, I love a biscuit me!

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By *morousZoe OP Woman
16 hours ago

Cumbria

"Slut, dirty slut, filthy slut, cum slut, cum dump slut naughty slut, fucking slut.

Don't call me a good girl, I am a woman not a girl. "

Love someone who knows what they want!

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By *morousZoe OP Woman
16 hours ago

Cumbria

"I feel like the things I say naturally are great for women who have a praise kink, even if I don’t mean it to! "

Helpful for matching threads ✍️

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By *morousZoe OP Woman
16 hours ago

Cumbria

"I'm happy with Oh My God."

Will “fucking hell” work too?

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By *dstefiMan
15 hours ago

Solihull

"Slut is the honourable exception to all the other pejoratives, which will politely get rammed up someone's rectum with interest if used with me.

I like slut though, used in the heat of sex with a trusted friend.

Interesting there’s a chosen one you’re happy with! I hope friends use it in abundance!"

It's been known

Really my liking for it comes from an old gf who decided to reclaim it from being a misogynist hate word to.an empowering one for somebody who simply loves sex, the harder the better, but with one person, not many: that would be a slag. She said there's no reason a man can't be a slut too, in that context.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
15 hours ago

My name works fine.

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
15 hours ago

Lurgan

"My name works fine. "

Same, my name is good…slut, whore etc isn’t for me, and definitely not for hubby. Each to their own, if you’re into that, good luck, enjoy it, but it’s not our thing

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By *ob_1984Man
15 hours ago

Newcastle

Pingu

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
14 hours ago

"Pingu "

😂😂

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
14 hours ago

North West

"Pingu "

😂😂 NOOT NOOT 🐧

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By *ore_Than_VanillaMan
14 hours ago

Cheddar

Zebra, she's often a zebra, or a not yet, sometimes a not yet.

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By *ob_1984Man
14 hours ago

Newcastle

I also like Maximus Decimus Meridius but it doesn't roll off the tongue quite as smoothly in the heights of passion x

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By *eliWoman
14 hours ago

I wouldn't say slut is empowering as such for me, it's a word I like very occasionally though.

Good girl... I dunno, it's starting to feel a bit clichéd, a bit basic starter park. If someone really meant it, said it in a certain way, maybe. I do have a slight praise kink but I'd much rather they used my name when telling me how I feel, that kind of thing.

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By *uimquiveringqueenWoman
14 hours ago

the land of vagina

"I also like Maximus Decimus Meridius but it doesn't roll off the tongue quite as smoothly in the heights of passion x"

Yeah thats true pingu

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By *andb69Couple
14 hours ago

leeds

Unless I know the guy and he calls me by my name, I don't want guys to call me anything - I prefer anonymous sex with strangers, and certainly wouldn't want to be called anything derogatory, nor by any pet names (luv, darling, pet etc)

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By *issBellaWoman
14 hours ago

Town

Dickhead usually gets me going. Just dont call me a slut or a good girl, I'll spark you out

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By *infullyObedientWoman
14 hours ago

Woodley

I quite like slut but in the right circumstances and from the right person said in quite a paticular way

And yes i have a praise kink so good girl, or indeed good slut, are words I love to hear.

But then I also like being called gorgeous, sexy or beautiful

It all depends on the nature of the sex at the tume.

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By *ob_1984Man
14 hours ago

Newcastle

"I also like Maximus Decimus Meridius but it doesn't roll off the tongue quite as smoothly in the heights of passion x

Yeah thats true pingu

Jesus you know how to push the right buttons

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By *lanker67Man
14 hours ago

Goole

An old flame that I used to see would call me “daddy and “sir”. At first I thought… hmmm but then came quite a turn on I guess.

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
14 hours ago

bolton

Wife calls me her x boyfriends name imaging it’s him fucking her with the cock extension on which she named after him so humiliating but god such a turn on

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By *aked beachMan
13 hours ago

Just A Stranger In A Strange Land.

An ex GF, in the heat of the moment liked me calling her ‘my sex toy’ or ‘you’re nothing but a sex toy’ but that was her preference not mine. Typically I’m not that vocal (or at least I don’t think I am, it’s been a while 😂😂😂)

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By *naswingdressWoman
13 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)

My name.

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By *quirrel!Man
13 hours ago

The Wirrel

"My name."

No problem Brenda!

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By *iddle ManMan
13 hours ago

Walsall

I would never call anyone anything derogatory with knowing they are happy with it or it is part of a kink fetish scene, of which it would be discussed pre fun.

Everyone is different and has individual tastes.

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By *arkW73Man
13 hours ago

Kesgrave

Mark

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By *hat.coupleCouple
13 hours ago

Kent

Good girl drives me wild when my husband says it to me. Sexy bitch, fucking hot and anything positive is good to me. Not into being called a slut or slag unless its a very specifically requested scenario between me and my husband. Never use derogatory terms on women unless preagreed before hand. Thats the lesson of the day x

Mrs x

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By *hinstrapMan
12 hours ago

sheffield

Don't think I ever have been called owt

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By *homas400Man
12 hours ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

Thomas.

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By *hinstrapMan
12 hours ago

sheffield

"Thomas. "

Hi Thomas 👋

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By *iverman2024Man
12 hours ago

Darlington

Something else.

(As in "you're something else")

I use it, and it just comes out, so I figure when I do, it's true.

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By *wabathMan
12 hours ago

Bath

Naughty Sub x

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By *DirtyGentMan
12 hours ago

Barnsley/Wakefield

So long as she not calling me crap id be happy with owt else🤘

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By *atinaChica54Woman
8 hours ago

Marlborough

I actually like being called some of the derogatory names in the fast & furious ferocity of "the sex"

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
8 hours ago

Bognor Regis

Depends really on the vibe.

Different moods, different dynamics.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
8 hours ago

Bristol

"Depends really on the vibe.

Different moods, different dynamics. "

Exactly this.. different horses for different courses

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By *imandher2Couple
6 hours ago

Liverpool

My gorgeous girl

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By *regS332Man
5 hours ago

st austell

The classic "Daddy" does it for me. But also at times "good boy" depending on the mood 😅

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By *ourpornfixMan
5 hours ago

East Cheshire

"I'm happy with Oh My God.

Will “fucking hell” work too?"

Certainly, though as with anything else, the tone of voice is important...

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
4 hours ago

Newport

"I (mr) hate derogatory words. “Slut” “cum slut” “bitch” just off putting.

I feel the same I don't someone calling my wife like that and I'd rather them give her praise for what she's good at

now myself on the other hand I don't mind being degraded as a bi sub hubby or cuck

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By *ogerroger69Man
4 hours ago

West Yorks

I’m the same x

My wife needs to be respected at a meet x

Can call me what you want x

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By *ocketman124Man
3 hours ago

Cas

Guess mine is the only one who likes it lol

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By *uffhandymanMan
3 hours ago

selby

Daddy is always a hit for me!

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By *etwife8230Couple
3 hours ago

Newport

Depends on the dynamic and vibe

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By *ammy696969Woman
2 hours ago

Stockport

I quite like the derogatory terms

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By *asualConnectionsMan
2 hours ago

bristol

Michael, First of His Name, the Black Wolf, Breaker of Chains, Lord of Fire and Steel, and the Last King

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By *oyuers 89Couple
2 hours ago

Whitby

If im acting slutty I like being called slutty, its more a in the moment thing for us.

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By *orphia2003Woman
34 minutes ago

Tonypandy.

By my name.

If you call me good girl or slut I'm likely to walk out immediately with no second chances.

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By *isub85Man
33 minutes ago

Bracknell

Quite like some humiliating names. Not sure why it gets me off but hey

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
32 minutes ago

SW Scotland

Good girl or slut, that’s just between the two of us. Had other men try and use the term slut with us and it’s an instant f*ck off

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
9 minutes ago

Bedfuck

One guy was getting into it with me in the doggy position and getting near climaxing. Fuckbitch was the name I was anointed with as things got more vigorous. Then the verbal control went and it became fuckwitch then fuckwit as he spunked his load. I was cracking up with laughter. He started laughing too when it dawned on him what he was called me while regaining his composer.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
6 minutes ago

Bedfuck

I like any horny dirty tags, whatever turns you on.

Adds to the ambience for me.

Nice ones are ok but can be passion killers too.

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