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New club PDI Lifestyle Birmingham - opinions on single men?

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By *ehindClosedDoorsBrum OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Hiya, we've recently launched our swingers club PDI Lifestyle Birmingham and currently we are couples/single ladies only on a Friday night, but we allow selected, verified single men on a Saturday night.

It's so hard to get the balance right!

What do you guys prefer?

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By *akedOrangeMan
2 weeks ago

oxford

Well it sounds fun, and as a guy, I think some guys should be allowed in on nights of your choice. Depends on capacity on how many I'd guess.

Maybe 30/70 40/60 in favour of women and couples

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By *r lotharioMan
2 weeks ago

newcastle under lyme

i think it sounds the same as every other one from the limited description. but if you can be more single man friendly than pdi then you're doing well. because most meeting points there, let alone clubs, are getting worse, with the possible exception of eden and phoenix bar.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Northampton

We alternate our nights to include single guys.

The clubs we usually visit are single guys on a Friday. It would be good to have a Saturday night guy option

Question we don’t have the answer is why Friday seems to be the guy night?

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By *r lotharioMan
2 weeks ago

newcastle under lyme

virtually all clubs are couples and single fems on a saturday. it's accepted.

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By *ehindClosedDoorsBrum OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

We are not we do couples and single ladies on Fridays and verified single guys on a Saturday, we don't discriminate against single guys we want them, but not guys that want to stand wanking next to a couple. What's that all about? Have a conversation it gets you alot further. This is a swingers site but some of the messages we get are disgusting.

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By *r lotharioMan
2 weeks ago

newcastle under lyme

i get, it's obvious from this place, that some spoil it for all. the problem is sometimes all then get tarred with the same brush. so i can also see how some would feel frozen out. just saying.

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By *oris and doris wolvesCouple
2 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Is this the same pdi in dudley that lasted 3 weeks and vanished?

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By *harAndBryCouple
2 weeks ago

Downham Market

We actively avoid clubs and nights that don't have single guys. How we play is primarily set up for us to meet single guys so couples/women only nights don't work for us.

Limited numbers also tends to mean no-where near enough when most people don't fancy most people.

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By *vonladMan
2 weeks ago

warwick


"We are not we do couples and single ladies on Fridays and verified single guys on a Saturday, we don't discriminate against single guys we want them, but not guys that want to stand wanking next to a couple. What's that all about? Have a conversation it gets you alot further. This is a swingers site but some of the messages we get are disgusting. "

And that’s what makes it so hard for genuine males to get on here and into clubs

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By *upOfTeaSomeDCouple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Would love to come but hard to get weekends with the misses, any1 here been to pdi yet? Any feedback on what the club is like?

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By *ehindClosedDoorsBrum OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Were doing a free social in brum for people to come meet us and get verified, starts at the end of August.

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By *ehindClosedDoorsBrum OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Same people yes, we leased the venue, but the landlord was a security issue so we lost alot of money and closed it, we have now brought this venue so no issues with landlords and alot better venue

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By *akedOrangeMan
2 weeks ago

oxford


"Were doing a free social in brum for people to come meet us and get verified, starts at the end of August. "

This seems like a good idea

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By *ehindClosedDoorsBrum OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

It will be at the end of the month starting August in digbeth so people can build a profile with veris as lots of the single guys on here ruin it for the good ones.

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By *akedOrangeMan
2 weeks ago

oxford


"It will be at the end of the month starting August in digbeth so people can build a profile with veris as lots of the single guys on here ruin it for the good ones. "

Yes, yes they do

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By *andMXXXXCouple
2 weeks ago

Coventry


"Would love to come but hard to get weekends with the misses, any1 here been to pdi yet? Any feedback on what the club is like? "

We’ve been a couple of times now and we love it!

It has a great vibe and it’s nice and fresh. A lovely bar area and even a pool table. The outside area is lovely and then there’s the different vehicles that you can play in, it’s fantastic for a bit of role play. There’s also a retro classroom that you can play in. There’s of course also the standard private rooms, group play area, cinema and dungeon. You should definitely check it out!

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
2 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Great idea only allowing verified single guys, Townhouse did it the times we attended and not once did we encounter the w#nking dead

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By *ehindClosedDoorsBrum OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Thank you look forward to seeing you in butlins

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By *ehindClosedDoorsBrum OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

This is our lifestyle, the thing we hate most about clubs we visit is the wanking dead and we wont allow it in our club. There's lots of great single guys that are very welcome at PDI-LIFESTYLE x

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By *fterDarkEvents2026Couple
2 weeks ago

Partners Club, Bury

Think its very difficult these days as there are is a number of single males who feel they have paid a ticket they will get what they want. Which means rules go out the window, they will follow in close proximity, touch without asking, through a cock in your face or sit wanking as close as possible. Which is massively off putting and also quite intimidating and worrying for female side of couples, single females and also some single males.

Now I will say not all are this way, and there are some really genuine lovely single males in the scene that the males who behave as above make it incredibly harder for and also limit their experiences of the scene.

Hopefully we can worm out the incorrectly behaved single guys and get the genuine ones in clubs that can enjoy the lifestyle for themselves and others!

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By *ooukMan
1 week ago

Rossendale,

You cant win no matter what you do. Males pay more so pay the bills of the club but getting males who just dont get it can put off females and no females the men stop attending. Some couples cry saying they want couples only events but dont want to off set the loss of the income from males attending. and the big thing no all couples and females want couples and also don't want venues to limit males. the Best plan is the vet the males and not over charge them so they dont think they paid to get laid and to fully police your venue with a good host team. and to have a couples only area.

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By *aughty NMan
7 days ago

Birmingham

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By *ee And MikeCouple
7 days ago

Cannock

We haven’t been but the dynamic sounds good.

We are a cuckold couple but enjoy meeting and playing with other couples where the female is bi or the odd single lady who is bi too. If there are less single guys then it feels like a less pressured environment to do that.

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By *carlettxCouple
7 days ago

Essex


"Hiya, we've recently launched our swingers club PDI Lifestyle Birmingham and currently we are couples/single ladies only on a Friday night, but we allow selected, verified single men on a Saturday night.

It's so hard to get the balance right!

What do you guys prefer?"

As we can never get out to a club on a Friday night , single guys on a Saturday would be great - well I guess all depends on what single guys are there tho 😂😈

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