FabSwingers.com forum: One photo that puts you off

By *hat.couple OP Couple
21 weeks ago

Kent

Name one type of photo that you see on profiles that makes you shudder or gives you red flag vibes?

For me its photos with props added like googly eyes on a boob or a willy with sunglasses and a cig poking out. dont know why but it gives makes me cringe.

Maybe im just a miserable cow! 🤣

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Mrs x

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By *unandfrolics696969Couple
21 weeks ago

east devon

Women posing with their flaps pulled apart, especially with cum dripping out. Looks like a dropped doner kebab. As a woman, I just find it incredibly vulgar and unclassy

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By *he Silver FuxMan
21 weeks ago

Utero

Spots on bums or shaving rash around genitalia

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By *uriosusxxxMan
21 weeks ago

Swaffham

it has to be erect dick pics, I love a nice dick but it has to come with a connection

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By *onk3yb0yMan
21 weeks ago

south west

Toilets in the background.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Pics taken in an untidy filthy room, dirty pots lying around etc.

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By *cgmcgMan
21 weeks ago

kingston

Pussy vacuum pumps.

Just not a vibe I connect with at all

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By *ineteen89Man
21 weeks ago

Swindon

Asshole gapes

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By *hat.couple OP Couple
21 weeks ago

Kent

Just thought of another one!

Pics posted that have been taken in a mirror with something splattered up it! God it makes me angry 😠

Mrs x

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By *issmorganWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Bareback action pics on single male accounts.

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By *hat.couple OP Couple
21 weeks ago

Kent

"Pics taken in an untidy filthy room, dirty pots lying around etc. "

Do they have no pride? Id be too embarrassed to post anything like that x

Mrs x

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By *emonochromeMan
21 weeks ago

peterborough

Anything gaping 🤢

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
21 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Single men profiles with a woman’s body or multiple woman’s bodies being shown, who knows if they have consented to having them shown or if they even know?

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
21 weeks ago

South East

"Name one type of photo that you see on profiles that makes you shudder or gives you red flag vibes?

For me its photos with props added like googly eyes on a boob or a willy with sunglasses and a cig poking out. dont know why but it gives makes me cringe.

Maybe im just a miserable cow! 🤣

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Pics taken in the toilet normally by single guys, houses that are messy or look horrible. Play photos where the guy has had multiple partners without a condom

Mrs x"

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
21 weeks ago

Newport

Toilet seat, say on the big with your cock ain't ain't for us. See a pic yesterday of someones toys layed out on her toilet lmao gross

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
21 weeks ago

Round the bend

Gaping bumholes

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Piled up ash trays

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By *ark desiresxxxxCouple
21 weeks ago

Chester

Why do guys think having your cock out over an open toilet seat is a picture to make us say WOW let’s meet xx

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
21 weeks ago

Kingswood

Messy backgrounds, tidy up!

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By *uffinandTheJokerCouple
21 weeks ago

Somewhere just outside London

DRipping cum from pussy

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By *nglishGent47Man
21 weeks ago

Leicester

When the date says 2026 but the curtains and duvet say 1986

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Messy background and unwashed look, dirty fingers nails.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
21 weeks ago

Round the bend

"When the date says 2026 but the curtains and duvet say 1986 "

Sorry about that 🙄

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By *ancelot1633Man
21 weeks ago

weybridge

"Women posing with their flaps pulled apart, especially with cum dripping out. Looks like a dropped doner kebab. As a woman, I just find it incredibly vulgar and unclassy"

Each to their own but I agree that this type of shot is my big turnoff

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By *illDoXXXMan
21 weeks ago

Preston

"Why do guys think having your cock out over an open toilet seat is a picture to make us say WOW let’s meet xx "

7 years I’ve been waiting for a meet - seven years ! No one mentioned the skiddy toilet in my profile pic!!

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By *arand25Couple
21 weeks ago

Crowborough

Emojis covering faces in profile photos (sorry OP!)

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
21 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Bumholes gaping or not gaping

Not my thing

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By *fterHoursTemptingTwosomeCouple
21 weeks ago

lincs

I have a lot (Mrs) 🤣 I’m either boring or vanilla (I guess!)

Dick pics - yes cocks are good. They are very good useful parts of the anatomy however, unless we’re in a moment or unless it’s a join photo with me doing something I just don’t see the point.

Gaping arseholes - nah. Gross. Shouldn’t be like that.

Dirty rooms. It doesn’t give off clean hygienic person.

Cum on face photos. Gross. Dirty. Nah. Sorry. Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

"Name one type of photo that you see on profiles that makes you shudder or gives you red flag vibes?

For me its photos with props added like googly eyes on a boob or a willy with sunglasses and a cig poking out. dont know why but it gives makes me cringe.

Maybe im just a miserable cow! 🤣

Go!

Mrs x"

Male profile yet the pic is of a naked women sometimes face is showing and not even his pinky in the pic

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By *udandBryanCouple
21 weeks ago

Boston

Male profiles with gaping arseholes

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By *hat.couple OP Couple
21 weeks ago

Kent

"Emojis covering faces in profile photos (sorry OP!)"

I had to as its against sote rules to show others faces on your profile. Dont worry as I did get her permission before posting. I liked the picture so much as my husbands face looks cute x

Mrs x

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
21 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Excessive cock shots, when I want to see a cock it's in person.

Pictures that are more of those they have met with then the profile holder themselves

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By *ertcoupleCouple
21 weeks ago

Welwyn Garden City

Family members

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By *rafter69Man
21 weeks ago

upminster

Smoking

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By *ung-stallionMan
21 weeks ago

Manchester

[Removed by poster at 19/02/26 18:21:19]

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By *ein-guyMan
21 weeks ago

Isle of Wight

Definitely pictures with a toilet in the shot or close ups of flaps pulled apart

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By *hat.couple OP Couple
21 weeks ago

Kent

I actually had someone ask me why I didnt have any photos with my legs and junk spread out. Because I am a classy lady sir thats why! Really put me off and im not into men as it is x

Mrs x

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
21 weeks ago

Newport

"Single men profiles with a woman’s body or multiple woman’s bodies being shown, who knows if they have consented to having them shown or if they even know? "

YES! This 1000%. It gives me the ick and makes me think we couldn't trust that person. I hope they'd have consent to show those pics, but we all know they likely don't.

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By *indy777Couple
21 weeks ago

Hampshire

Dick pics as an opening salvo.

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By *arand25Couple
21 weeks ago

Crowborough

"Emojis covering faces in profile photos (sorry OP!)

I had to as its against sote rules to show others faces on your profile. Dont worry as I did get her permission before posting. I liked the picture so much as my husbands face looks cute x

Mrs x"

Oops, sorry, I never realised that🙏 😘

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By *hat.couple OP Couple
21 weeks ago

Kent

"Emojis covering faces in profile photos (sorry OP!)

I had to as its against sote rules to show others faces on your profile. Dont worry as I did get her permission before posting. I liked the picture so much as my husbands face looks cute x

Mrs x

Oops, sorry, I never realised that🙏 😘"

Everydays a school day xx thats why some use emojis to cover faces. Others just want anonymity. But I always think its best to cut the photo instead of covering your face. It kind if irks me too to be fair x

Mrs x

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By *ld Stella HeelsTV/TS
21 weeks ago

ross on wye

Gaping asshole pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Anyone using cock rings ewww.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
21 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Gaping asshole pictures"

^^ came here to say this

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By *hisfuckingguyMan
21 weeks ago

Bradford

Gaping holes especially right close up

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By *oupleforadventureCouple
21 weeks ago

ipswich

Penis by toilet.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Messy rooms.

Also, when the blurb on a Tgirl's profile says convincing, but they don't have any face pics, to me that's a red flag.

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By *ackInBlackMan
21 weeks ago

Caerphilly

A fag in a mouth or a person holding one

Secondly an over hairy muff that could do with a damn good trim

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By *oastal1968Man
21 weeks ago

London/Stafford

Filthy rooms, 🤮overflowing ashtrays,🤮 smoking joints, 🤮 piercings,🤮 teeth like a caveman's necklace 🤮

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By *vaRoseWoman
21 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Action shots or pics with groups - can never sure on consent

Gaping

Any photo with a caption like “not my hubby, fab for friend request”

Grotty dirty backgrounds

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By *nionbearMan
21 weeks ago

holmes chapel

Socks , no socks please !!

Untidy rooms .

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By *ung-stallionMan
21 weeks ago

Manchester

Close up pics of a woman fanny, especially the not so designer looking ones

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By *urFantasy21Couple
21 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Any that say "Fab if" or "Fab for" 🤢

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By *abulincsCouple
21 weeks ago

near a bridge

Dicks

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By *oney leighCouple
21 weeks ago

Stone

Any where people leave their socks on for sex......... even worse if they are white sports socks

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By *ukaMan
21 weeks ago

Chester

The photos with several ladies clearly at a party all arranged on the stairs bent over like a greengrocers display.

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man
21 weeks ago

Right up your street

Spotty asses or very unkempt pubic hair!

Also, underwear that looks like it’s faded or discoloured in the wash after 20 years worth of washes

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
21 weeks ago

Round the bend

"Spotty asses or very unkempt pubic hair!

Also, underwear that looks like it’s faded or discoloured in the wash after 20 years worth of washes"
I apologise. So fussy 🙄

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
21 weeks ago

Northampton

When the background shows the house looking like a bomb site

Usually accompanied with “we are very hygienic and expect the same”

Swipe left

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man
21 weeks ago

Right up your street

"Spotty asses or very unkempt pubic hair!

Also, underwear that looks like it’s faded or discoloured in the wash after 20 years worth of washesI apologise. So fussy 🙄"

🤣🤣🤣🤣 damn it, I forgot you were lurking.

No offence 😘😘

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
21 weeks ago

Round the bend

"Spotty asses or very unkempt pubic hair!

Also, underwear that looks like it’s faded or discoloured in the wash after 20 years worth of washesI apologise. So fussy 🙄

🤣🤣🤣🤣 damn it, I forgot you were lurking.

No offence 😘😘"

Non taken 🤣🤣🤣

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By *egnMaxCouple
21 weeks ago

East Midlands

Spread flappage, bruised boobies (ouch) and bumholes with a plastic jewel hanging out of them.

Not for me.

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By *otKenNotBarbieCouple
21 weeks ago

Barnsley

Christmas themed outfits/lingerie

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By *punk AnansieWoman
21 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Manky socks and manky fingernails .. there really is no excuses for it .

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Cum dribbling out of Pussies 🤢

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By *rchie300Man
21 weeks ago

Hamworthy

Gaping assholes

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By *eyond PurityCouple
21 weeks ago

North East Lincolnshire

Bareback action pics on single guys profiles or a third person on a couples account - makes me wonder if the other person is aware.

Smiley faces over faces or aubergine pics over genitals 😬

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By *partharmonyCouple
21 weeks ago

Tonbridge

People spitting and dribbling. 🤮

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Anything which leaves me reaching for the jetwash

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By *aughtydealcoupleCouple
21 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

"Women posing with their flaps pulled apart, especially with cum dripping out. Looks like a dropped doner kebab. As a woman, I just find it incredibly vulgar and unclassy"

Glad im not the only one put off by this

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

"Cum dribbling out of Pussies 🤢"

Deffo this or mouths …close up

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By *he Happy ManMan
21 weeks ago

Merseyside

Close up pussy shot with cum leaking out

Close up anus shot.

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By *rNightMan
21 weeks ago

Coventry

Just any up close pics of dicks, pussy, ass…. So unnecessary on first introduction

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By *anctionedSecretsCouple
21 weeks ago

S. Northants

3. Socks during sex acts

2. Messy rooms.

1. Toilet seat up in the background.

Add all three into one photo for a block.

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By *F25Man
21 weeks ago

kent

themed so all nude but a christmas hat on or something silly

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By *n_thy_kneesMan
21 weeks ago

Ipswich

Furry tail buttplugs

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By *ocktowerMan
21 weeks ago

North Wales and Bulgaria.

TV remote or derodent cans next to a penis

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By *onin25Man
21 weeks ago

Durham

"Fab if you want to... "

Gaping anything

Other people's bits on a single profile

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By *ocktowerMan
21 weeks ago

North Wales and Bulgaria.

Andrew in the back of the car last night probably going for a pizza 🍕

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By *an SummersMan
21 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Discharge in knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Anything like, fab to see more or fab for invite or fab if you would... I don't like needy people lol

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By *ocktowerMan
21 weeks ago

North Wales and Bulgaria.

"Anything like, fab to see more or fab for invite or fab if you would... I don't like needy people lol"

Sorry but I needed to fab your photos they are well worth the fads.

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
21 weeks ago

Leicester

Messy backgrounds around photos. Like stuff dumped all over the floor etc! Certainly is a big turn off!

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By *rl444Man
21 weeks ago

sliema

I agree

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By *atinaChica54Woman
21 weeks ago

Marlborough

"When the date says 2026 but the curtains and duvet say 1986 "

🤣🤣🤣

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By *atinaChica54Woman
21 weeks ago

Marlborough

"Discharge in knickers

🤢

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
21 weeks ago

Bedfuck

Nothing really puts me off. However I do funny angles and extreme close ups challenging. Like where does that body part belong or start, is that a cock or a bald head, has the person got 3 arms.

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By *earditallWoman
21 weeks ago

Lancaster

Any type of action shot on a singles profile.

Close up gaping holes.

Any Close un genitalia.

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
21 weeks ago

Newcastle

Anything with ‘fab for a fuck’ or ‘fab for a friend request’. Just like Click bait BS that screams desperation.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Agree with a lot these.

Filtered face pics. You think I won't notice if we meet in real life.

Shaving rash and stubbly pussy pics. Looks like a raw chicken. Either freshly shaven/waxed or nice and neatly trimmed. The in-between look where you can strike a match on it isn't for me.

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By *ucynJackCouple
21 weeks ago

Gloucester

"Messy backgrounds around photos. Like stuff dumped all over the floor etc! Certainly is a big turn off! "

Yeah this, have a little tidy up first.

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By *Rule_DFILMan
21 weeks ago

side you

People posting filtered pics and actually thinking that’s wat they look like 🤦🏻‍♂️

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By *Rule_DFILMan
21 weeks ago

side you

"People spitting and dribbling. 🤮 "
thanks for letting us know you swallow 😉

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

This. I will always look and if the home is minging. Chances are its owners and occupants are too.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
21 weeks ago

Merseyside

I agree with filthy untidy rooms surrounding the pics; ones of pulled open female genitalia with yukky fingernails or spotty bums - we try to be classy and have some intrigue for the pics mostly

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By *aandLoCouple
21 weeks ago

Southampton

I like a bit of class in a cock or pussy profile pic. The 'here it is, in your face' types are a complete turn off for me.

I'm a girl who loves a guy(s) cumming over my tits or arse. But, I don't need to photo it, or see other people's seeping, dripping, splurting, congealing bodily fluids in photos 🤮

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Cock pics over the toilet bowl, esp when said bowl needs bit of a clean. Is there not anywhere else in the house to take that?

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By *iguysolihullMan
21 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

Endless pictures of legs, bums or tits

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By *tlanshiaWoman
21 weeks ago

Chatham

Single male profiles with more pics of random women. Always makes me feel uneasy about if the woman knows her images are there. Espically if her face is shown and his is hidden

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