FabSwingers.com: Hakeem (37) , Man in Swindon, South West, UK

Upcoming events I’ll be at:

Spirit at Swindon Swingers 14th November (hopefully!)

Something near the London area 27th November ??

Being a nice local fwb to somebody would be lovely. Just as lovely as having a club buddy

I’d much prefer meeting at clubs or parties than homes these days. Usually found wearing something silly. Waaaaay more fun. And besides, it's hard to plan for a home meet when I'm barely at home... Thanks to work, it’s only really weekends I could meet. Within reasonable travel distances, either my place or yours.

Usually about Saturdays (if I’m not at an event), Sundays (if I’m not sleeping off after an event) and very rare weeknights (if I’m not tired from work)

Latest test results 24th Sep 2026 - Negative

If I had an interview about here with myself, it’d go something like this…

Who are you?: Nineteen89

That’s a dumb username, why’d you pick it?: 1989 was a good year - then I turns up…

Height?: 5 foot 6 inches.

That's not very tall, is it?: Well, it's perfectly average, isn't it?

Weight?: I mean, not everybody gets to be basketball player height, do they?

WEIGHT?: I mean, I'm not thaaat much shorter than Tom Cruise, right?

*sigh* okay, fine. Next questions - experiences?: Not much, really. I'm probably more vanilla than vanilla ice cream. Though I am getting into clubs, and socials.

You didn't before?: No, not at all. Only started this year, and to be honest I like them. Which is weird for me because I'm normally the least social person around.

Cock details?: I mean, seriously, before 2026 I didn't even know there was a swingers club not even a 15 minute walk from my house...

Dude, will you answer the questions!?: Oh, yeah. Sorry, what was the question?

Nevermind. What are you looking for?: I like chatting and friendship. Anything else is a bonus

Seriously?: Yeah, listen - I actually find it hard to talk about "sheks" - I get all awkward about it. Dunno why... Maybe I'm secretly a prune.

You mean "Prude"?: Yeah, that's what I said.

You said "prune": No I didn't.

Yes you did...: Let's agree to disagree then.

Stamina?: Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

What’s so funny?: Hahaha… oh, nothing… stamina… I got none.

What, really?: Yeah. Zero self control - it’s really something to behold at times…

Riiiiight… moving on…: I mean, a good day is me lasting longer than the first verse of so solids 21 seconds…

Okay, I get it: Good

Next question: Kinks?: Velma Dinkley

I'm sorry, what?: Did I stutter?

Dude, real kinks: Okay, fine. But I'm awkward, remember?

Like, dom, sub, anything like that?: None, really. I’m just… me.

Clubs?: Oh yes. You know, I never thought those would be my thing, but damn they’re fun.

Really? You never used to go to clubs: That’s not a question.

Wise guy. Why do you like clubs now?: I dunno. One day I went and I was like “this isn’t so bad”

That’s not how I remember your first club night… : Shhhhh… nobody needs to know…

Aren’t you super shy?: LALALALALALALALALA I CAN’T HEAR YOU!

What are you good at then?: … no comment…

Seriously?: … no comment…

Okay what ab:? … no comment…

You didn’t let me finish: Oh sorry.

You're shit at answering these interview questions, you know?: Yeeeeaaaahhh...

Stickers?: Huh?

Stickers - what’s the deal with them?: Oh, those. Yeah, I like using those name tag stickers to write my name out at clubs.

Hmm… that’s… kinda smart?: I know, right? Though they hurt like a bitch to remove…

Excuse me?: Yeah, after a night I might end up with a more bare patch of rectangular chest hairs.

So… not smart, then?: Oh no, it’s a big brain move. Plus it means I don’t get mixed up with Eddie Murphy.

Yer wot?: Apparently my “H”s sound quiet when I say them.

Oh, I see, a coming to Ame: Shut it! I’d be a millionaire if I got money for every time somebody thought that was my name.

America: … dammit…

Okay. Tell me about the balloons: …What?…

Balloons. What’s your deal with them?: …N…nothing… that’s classified…

You have a phobia of balloons?: This doesn’t leave this site, right?

Tell me: No.

Fine then: …

Last question, do you think anybody actually reads these?: Hahahahaha no… if I had a pound for every person who actually read this to the end… I’d have £2. Which isn’t a lot, but it’s just amazing it’s happened twice

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