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"Hi all Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile" Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄 Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! " If you only have a face and a penis, you should seek medical attention. | |||
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"Hi all Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile" Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄 Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! " You've set your penis as your profile photo and still woman are running to you, women on fab just don't know a good thing when it's shoved in their faces. Hoes be crazy on here  | |||
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"Hi all Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile" Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄 Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! If you only have a face and a penis, you should seek medical attention."  yes, yes very good! | |||
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"Hi all Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile" Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄 Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! You've set your penis as your profile photo and still woman are running to you, women on fab just don't know a good thing when it's shoved in their faces. Hoes be crazy on here "Most people are fucking crazy on here tbh! | |||
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing. " Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ... | |||
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing. Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ..." Not necessarily. I've had many successful meets where I didn't see it before he unbuckled his belt right in front of me. | |||
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"It just goes to show how different the sexes can be ,men (most not all) seem to find tits and fanny stimulating. Yet women (most not all) seem to go for a nice chest, forearm, thighs etc. Women (most not all) like it to be a bit more subtle than men (most not ...urgh You get it by now)" Yeah I know. Men are far more visual and obvious where this is concerned I guess. | |||
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing. Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ... Not necessarily. I've had many successful meets where I didn't see it before he unbuckled his belt right in front of me." Oh okay. Slightly surprised but hey! | |||
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing. Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ... Not necessarily. I've had many successful meets where I didn't see it before he unbuckled his belt right in front of me. Oh okay. Slightly surprised but hey! " I meet people because I like them and I want to share pleasure with them. If I have a specific requirement for a shape to put inside me, I go to Lovehoney etc. | |||
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"Would you really expect someone to only need attraction to your cock, in order to assess your mutual compatibility? What percentage of your body surface area is your cock? Of the majority of the skin you could show, you select something small and not just show it once but 3 times? People will infer many things, if you leave a big absence. What are you assuming that they infer about you, in terms of your suitability as an empathetic partner? Sometimes, it is really only for each of us to communicate in the best way that we know how to. Or not. " Yes I know, logical. But nevertheless, I've always thought that within the mayhem that is Fab, attention needs to grabbed quickly. So I went for the obvious. Not necessarily the right choice ... | |||
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"I have never asked for a man to send me a picture of his dick and I never will. " I wondered about that, is it really common for women to ask for dick pics? I've been on here for 14 years and have never ever asked or thought to ask for that | |||
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"I have never asked for a man to send me a picture of his dick and I never will. " Me too | |||
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"Would you really expect someone to only need attraction to your cock, in order to assess your mutual compatibility? What percentage of your body surface area is your cock? Of the majority of the skin you could show, you select something small and not just show it once but 3 times? People will infer many things, if you leave a big absence. What are you assuming that they infer about you, in terms of your suitability as an empathetic partner? Sometimes, it is really only for each of us to communicate in the best way that we know how to. Or not. Yes I know, logical. But nevertheless, I've always thought that within the mayhem that is Fab, attention needs to grabbed quickly. So I went for the obvious. Not necessarily the right choice ..." A lot of women prefer to see teasing pictures. Undoing a shirt. Bum. Arms. Less is more. (And while some women want to see your penis, they'll ask. Some women it's an automatic turn off) | |||
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"I have never asked for a man to send me a picture of his dick and I never will. " Same. But men don't seem to understand ladies have very low interest in seeing the pics of their pride and glory... | |||
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"Would you really expect someone to only need attraction to your cock, in order to assess your mutual compatibility? What percentage of your body surface area is your cock? Of the majority of the skin you could show, you select something small and not just show it once but 3 times? People will infer many things, if you leave a big absence. What are you assuming that they infer about you, in terms of your suitability as an empathetic partner? Sometimes, it is really only for each of us to communicate in the best way that we know how to. Or not. Yes I know, logical. But nevertheless, I've always thought that within the mayhem that is Fab, attention needs to grabbed quickly. So I went for the obvious. Not necessarily the right choice ... A lot of women prefer to see teasing pictures. Undoing a shirt. Bum. Arms. Less is more. (And while some women want to see your penis, they'll ask. Some women it's an automatic turn off)" Fair enough. Thanks. And yes, seems so! | |||
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"OP, I think the best thing to do would be to keep all your photographs of your penis, especially the profile photo, changing nothing whatsoever. In doing so makes my journey and experience on Fab more successful and pleasurable. Take that as a form of feedback. 🩶" glad to be of service lol - but coming from a guy, also reinforcing the points made of course 😄 | |||
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"Hi all Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile" Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄 Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! " The mistake most men make is that their profile has little effort around who they are and why they’re desirable to a woman. They essentially create a shopping list of what they want. Also the cock pic, I don’t like personally speaking to a penis which is all I can see when men are messaging. Anything other than a penis is better imo. Then there’s the first message. If there’s no effort- hi how r u! I just hit delete. Imagine getting that hundreds of times a day from a penis pic Stand out from the rest of the men! | |||
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"I mean. You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those. So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜" Right! | |||
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"I mean. You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those. So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜" Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive... | |||
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"Hi all Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile" Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄 Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! The mistake most men make is that their profile has little effort around who they are and why they’re desirable to a woman. They essentially create a shopping list of what they want. Also the cock pic, I don’t like personally speaking to a penis which is all I can see when men are messaging. Anything other than a penis is better imo. Then there’s the first message. If there’s no effort- hi how r u! I just hit delete. Imagine getting that hundreds of times a day from a penis pic Stand out from the rest of the men! " Yup, messaging wise, I do try though! Thanks | |||
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" Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive..." Hahahaha this is brilliant, | |||
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"I mean. You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those. So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜 Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive..." You're essentially coming up to someone in the pub. While face is not an option - I'm in a field where I don't want to be identified - starting off with the equivalent "hi, I'm W, what's your name" with your penis is... A bit much 😬 It's also exceedingly common around here. Common around here is almost always a bad thing. | |||
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"I mean. You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those. So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜 Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive... You're essentially coming up to someone in the pub. While face is not an option - I'm in a field where I don't want to be identified - starting off with the equivalent "hi, I'm W, what's your name" with your penis is... A bit much 😬 It's also exceedingly common around here. Common around here is almost always a bad thing." Well, I'm far more subtle and detailed in messaging I think lol - but I get you | |||
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"I mean. You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those. So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜 Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive... You're essentially coming up to someone in the pub. While face is not an option - I'm in a field where I don't want to be identified - starting off with the equivalent "hi, I'm W, what's your name" with your penis is... A bit much 😬 It's also exceedingly common around here. Common around here is almost always a bad thing. Well, I'm far more subtle and detailed in messaging I think lol - but I get you" Yes, but you're doing a first introduction with your dick. Any way you slice it. | |||
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"I mean. You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those. So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜 Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive... You're essentially coming up to someone in the pub. While face is not an option - I'm in a field where I don't want to be identified - starting off with the equivalent "hi, I'm W, what's your name" with your penis is... A bit much 😬 It's also exceedingly common around here. Common around here is almost always a bad thing. Well, I'm far more subtle and detailed in messaging I think lol - but I get you Yes, but you're doing a first introduction with your dick. Any way you slice it." Err, no genitalia was harmed in that poorly thought out expression | |||
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"I have never asked for a man to send me a picture of his dick and I never will. I wondered about that, is it really common for women to ask for dick pics? I've been on here for 14 years and have never ever asked or thought to ask for that " Not once have I asked for a dick pic - seems to lay be important to men themselves | |||
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"I mean. You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those. So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜 Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive..." The fact that you’re posting on this forum and every woman on here has said it’s counterproductive and you’re still arguing it isn’t is clearly why you’re getting no traction ! We don’t like cocks shoved in our inboxes without consent ha ha | |||
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"I mean. You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those. So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜 Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive..." Sometimes, a woman really wants to see the cock of someone they fancy. Almost always, most women don't want to see a random person's todger hanging out next to the very first message they ever get from someone. When someone's profile picture is their dick it's full on just waving it in the face of anyone you message without any prior contact or enthusiasm from them. Exceptions to every rule, blah blah blah. But. I can guarantee that at least 90% of 'women' on here who want to see a dick pic from absolutely everyone are unverified. Men fucking love cocks. And it's way easier to get sneaky extra dick pics from someone when they pretend to have tits. Proud of your cock? Want it out there? Great. Keep a couple of good shots in your public gallery. Think that that is the only part that matters and the only bit you're willing to show? Sorry, you're not likely to inspire many actual women with that. 💜 | |||
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"I mean. You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those. So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜 Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive... The fact that you’re posting on this forum and every woman on here has said it’s counterproductive and you’re still arguing it isn’t is clearly why you’re getting no traction ! We don’t like cocks shoved in our inboxes without consent ha ha " If I'm being charitable, there are only a few of us saying it and I can see why that's not necessarily a representative sample. If I'm not being charitable, "I know what women want better than these women do" is not as uncommon a view as it should be. | |||
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"OK, thanks all. At the very least, maybe don't make my cock the profile pic. Further actions under consideration 😊 " Even replying to you on this thread is making me wince! I’m still talking to a penis and no a person | |||
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"OK, thanks all. At the very least, maybe don't make my cock the profile pic. Further actions under consideration 😊 Even replying to you on this thread is making me wince! I’m still talking to a penis and no a person " | |||
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"OK, thanks all. At the very least, maybe don't make my cock the profile pic. Further actions under consideration 😊 Even replying to you on this thread is making me wince! I’m still talking to a penis and no a person " It's fine, he can do whatever he wants with his profile, what do we know about what we like and don't like on men's profiles... At least it's a very good filter. | |||
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"Hi all Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile" Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄 Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! If you only have a face and a penis, you should seek medical attention."   exactly | |||
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing. Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ..." Never asked a guy to send a picture of his cock to us on here tbh! Not that we don't receive hundreds in poorly composed messages each year 😂 | |||
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing. Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ..." I can honestly say I’ve never asked anyone on here for a cock pic | |||
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"Looking at your profile OP and stating body size and age are not important would indicate to most a sign of possible desperation " Yup. You're right. Edited now 😃 | |||
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"OK, thanks all. At the very least, maybe don't make my cock the profile pic. Further actions under consideration 😊 Even replying to you on this thread is making me wince! I’m still talking to a penis and no a person It's fine, he can do whatever he wants with his profile, what do we know about what we like and don't like on men's profiles... At least it's a very good filter. " That’s true it’s easy to just hit delete on the walking cock faces | |||
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"Would you really expect someone to only need attraction to your cock, in order to assess your mutual compatibility? What percentage of your body surface area is your cock? Of the majority of the skin you could show, you select something small and not just show it once but 3 times? People will infer many things, if you leave a big absence. What are you assuming that they infer about you, in terms of your suitability as an empathetic partner? Sometimes, it is really only for each of us to communicate in the best way that we know how to. Or not. Yes I know, logical. But nevertheless, I've always thought that within the mayhem that is Fab, attention needs to grabbed quickly. So I went for the obvious. Not necessarily the right choice ..." To grab attention go big! Your cock ain't working 🤷♀️🤣 | |||
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing. Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ..." I can't recall sending any cock pics to any women I've messaged, they get hundreds every day,what's so special abouts ours, read there bio and make a conversation from that, you gotta be different to the rest Try striking a pose or get rid of your face from a normal picture,make sure your dressed smart, remember woman love suits | |||
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"I mean. You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those. So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜 Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive... You're essentially coming up to someone in the pub. While face is not an option - I'm in a field where I don't want to be identified - starting off with the equivalent "hi, I'm W, what's your name" with your penis is... A bit much 😬 It's also exceedingly common around here. Common around here is almost always a bad thing. Well, I'm far more subtle and detailed in messaging I think lol - but I get you" You've said that it's getting attention, in your opinion. But what is the outcome? Success or have they immediately formed an opinion about you? | |||
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing. Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ..." why would I need to see a photo of a cock.. I know what one looks like. | |||
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"Said in your own words, you're married and you have only cock pics op, just like many other blokes on here. Most women will look at a profile before they read a message, if it's unappealing, they'll likely hit delete. You have other body parts you can show off and still remain discreet. You can make changes, it's up to you if you do or not. " Same first is the photo - I hit delete if it’s just a cock! If it’s not I click through and read the profile. If it’s the usual “I’m a sane fun loving guy that is looking for a FWB” yawn! Then it’s delete No effort no energy why would I want to meet | |||
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing. Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ..." I would never ask for a cock pic, as has been said, other lady parts are attractive, a cock is ugly | |||
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"Hi all Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile" Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄 Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! " You come across as desperate, start having some self confidence | |||
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"my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok"" It's actually quite insulting to women to think that they think the most important thing about a potential play mate is their cock. (Bry) | |||
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"Would you really expect someone to only need attraction to your cock, in order to assess your mutual compatibility? What percentage of your body surface area is your cock? Of the majority of the skin you could show, you select something small and not just show it once but 3 times? People will infer many things, if you leave a big absence. What are you assuming that they infer about you, in terms of your suitability as an empathetic partner? Sometimes, it is really only for each of us to communicate in the best way that we know how to. Or not. Yes I know, logical. But nevertheless, I've always thought that within the mayhem that is Fab, attention needs to grabbed quickly. So I went for the obvious. Not necessarily the right choice ..." Hardly going to grab attention when theres literally 1000s of dick pics on here, id much rather see a guy clothed or at least with nice boxers | |||
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