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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, been on and off here for a while, never met anyone yet.

Experience is really vanilla but i feel like im missing out.

Trouble is everyone seems to be looking for people already experienced and know what they want which is a bit of a sticking point, take clubs out of the equation becuase of my situation, how have others managed to get this to work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’ve enjoyed myself on here lots.

I’ve never set foot into a club, or have never been to a social event.

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1


"So, been on and off here for a while, never met anyone yet.

Experience is really vanilla but i feel like im missing out.

Trouble is everyone seems to be looking for people already experienced and know what they want which is a bit of a sticking point, take clubs out of the equation becuase of my situation, how have others managed to get this to work?"

You’re not single. That will put a lot of people off.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

If your situation doesn't allow you to try clubs, we're not sure how much you can improve your chances.

Alot of people won't be looking for attached guys to be fair, and it's definitely a "buyers market", so you have to ask yourself "do you have something to offer women and couples that others don't, that they would find attractive?"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re a single guy on fab, it’s very difficult to meet simply because of the numbers. Men outnumber women by a very large amount so the ladies really do have a choice. Very much a buyers market so to speak, so you really do have to stand out.

You’re not single, and not looking to change that. For many (but not all) that takes you out of the equation, further reducing your chances here.

If you’re not looking to change your situation, then I’d respectfully suggest working on what’s missing from it… and who knows, you may even get her to join in.

The fab experience as a couple is oh so different to a single.

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
over a year ago

brighton

1- you're not single. Very few women will be interested in that

2- your profile is lacking - one terrible photo of a sunburnt back isn't going to attract anyone

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Single men need to optimise their potential for success here, as much as possible.

Socials and clubs get you meeting others.

Providing what other people need to see on a profile is another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re attached, inexperienced and unable to go to clubs and socialise.

Sorry to sound harsh but what’s in it for any woman apart from some clandestine sex when you are able to slip away from your partner?

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By *raic is 90Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Hey guys. Me and herself finding a bit of us time. Kids finally holding their own. I know there is a wild one still in there and a recent trip to Amsterdam nearly convinced me i can bring her on this journey with me. But dont want to fuck it up. Advice ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1- you're not single. Very few women will be interested in that"

But you're not single....

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"1- you're not single. Very few women will be interested in that

But you're not single.... "

No...they're a swinging couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1- you're not single. Very few women will be interested in that

But you're not single....

No...they're a swinging couple."

Tut, any excuse.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Hey guys. Me and herself finding a bit of us time. Kids finally holding their own. I know there is a wild one still in there and a recent trip to Amsterdam nearly convinced me i can bring her on this journey with me. But dont want to fuck it up. Advice ? "

You've already fucked up by embarking on your own "journey" without her consent presumably.

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By *raic is 90Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Yeah suppose

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By *aidBackLover81Man
over a year ago

Herne Bay

I'm new to all this, looking forwards to new experiences. I am building up to attending a spa initially, hopefully getting to know people before I go to a full on club.

Been out of the game for a fair few years, so I'm rustier than the Titanic haha.

Certainly looking forwards to enjoying my naughty forties once I get out of my shell.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Hey guys. Me and herself finding a bit of us time. Kids finally holding their own. I know there is a wild one still in there and a recent trip to Amsterdam nearly convinced me i can bring her on this journey with me. But dont want to fuck it up. Advice ?

You've already fucked up by embarking on your own "journey" without her consent presumably."

I think you've mixed up the OP with the couple who jumped on the thread with their own request.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Hey guys. Me and herself finding a bit of us time. Kids finally holding their own. I know there is a wild one still in there and a recent trip to Amsterdam nearly convinced me i can bring her on this journey with me. But dont want to fuck it up. Advice ?

You've already fucked up by embarking on your own "journey" without her consent presumably.

I think you've mixed up the OP with the couple who jumped on the thread with their own request. "

Oops, quite possibly.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Have you noticed the op has left!!

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Have you noticed the op has left!!"
He has left the building the swing site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys. Me and herself finding a bit of us time. Kids finally holding their own. I know there is a wild one still in there and a recent trip to Amsterdam nearly convinced me i can bring her on this journey with me. But dont want to fuck it up. Advice ?

You've already fucked up by embarking on your own "journey" without her consent presumably.

I think you've mixed up the OP with the couple who jumped on the thread with their own request. "

Thanks for clarifying. Was not making sense.

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