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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on this site for quite some time and I've had the good fortune to meet some lovely people on here. However, I've also had the misfortune to have (especially ladies) not show any 'courtesy' when sent (in my estimation) non-pushy, polite messages. I'm sure that others on this site would appreciate if you're not interested to send a polite reply to such effect. I know I would in any case and that would give me the signal to not bother you again. After all, it is your business whether or not you want to hook up with any one of your choice. To just delete messages without even a polite reply is a bit hurtful. Just needed to get that off my chest lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Congratulations you have just won the star prize.

You where the lucky person to post the 1000th thread on this subject.

Now you get to choose a prize

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

hi ...there is quite a few threads on here in a similar vein to yours and the general conclusion from single women and couples is .,..that its up to them to respond or not you hasve no divine right to expect even a no thanks reply ...many get much post ..with follow up ...why nots and abusive follow up messages ...ie your only a fat hag o...or i fancied a granny ,,,,,they just dont bother ....

cant blame em can you ...

hey ho ....

MR X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Release the _adchick.........run and duck

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

You called?????

It really gets on my bits.......

whinge whinge whinge

Whine whine whine

wimper wimper wimper

What a load of old tosh.

We do not HAVE to reply.

Give me one good reason why we should and I'll give you a better reason why it's too much bleeding trouble.

Yawn yawn yawn

If only single men would have a look through the threads first to find out that they are NOT unique and many people don't reply to anyway who they don't want to meet.

yakity yak yak yak

Unless you are George Clooney.......... GET OVER IT.......

If you find it hurtful that people delete your message without a reply or even reading it....... it's probably because you don't meet their requirements.....and if your poor little ego is bented because others have the CHOICE of whether to reply or not..... then you shouldn't be swinging.

Swinging is full of set backs and knocks and if you are getting all...... pathetically, wimperingly, flitfull over a none reply......stick to shagging a girlfriend..... she will probably only say no if you have been a complete bastard, she has a headache or she's on her period.

But FFS........ single men....... take note......

NOT EVERYONE REPLIES!!!!

**Maddies off to see if there is any substance in any of the other threads**

Rant over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont ya just luv er

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Why thank you.......

I lurve me too!

(someone has to!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh Dear....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s an easy cure to your problem, just don’t send out any emails and you wont have to worry about getting a reply, and if people really want to meet you they will contact you anyway. Pretty simple huh?

and you never know, it might even clear the forums up and stop regular forum users having to read this crap on a daily basis, usually from people who only come here to moan then disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah what Promiscuous said!!....we have our own crap to post hahahahahahahaha

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

@fussypussy .....PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely agree with all the old sad bastards on here - of which we proudly declare ourselves members - pass the purple rinse _adchick - think these whingers just have no empathy - if they got 70 messages a day like i used to as a single fem maybe they would realise why we cant. Aside from that can we set up a special forum for socially retarded and disfunctional single men?

then us old folk can just get on with our own inane drivel in peace

pass us the checkered blanket folks

and where's me horlicks?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I'll pass you your horlicks when I've finished rinsing my teeth in Sterident you old bat!

And it's blue rinse week this week.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am really really on the sofa ith a checked blanket........no horlicks, red wine :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Madchick, you're utterly fab!

Tell us, have you ever sat on a fence?

Boots and Enigmatist xx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Once.......... I got splinters in my bum!

However, to get my point across to the hard of reading, inane, witless, numpty single males (just in case they realise they CAN read and decide to have a look at this).........

Today... I've just deleted - without reply - 5 messages from single men.

WHY? I hear you ask!

I'll tell you........

1. Too young (we state age ranges)

2. Far tooooooo old (do I look like I shag the spitting image of my dead grandfather?)

3. Black (profile states I only do white)

4. Married (oh dear god... I just have to say it...... CHEATING SCUMBAG)

5. Barebacker (hahahahhahahahahahhahahahhahahahhaha - stupid I am not)

I've blocked them all as well...... feckwittage, wet behind the ears, totally useless, twatitudal muppets!

Now..... any single male want to give me one GOOD reason why I should reply?

And you can forget the "good manners" bollox...... if they'd had good manners in the first place, they would have read the profile and not just knob wobbled over my pictures!

hhhhuuummmpppfffffff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*looks in thread*

*sees usual goings on*

*leaves*

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Cya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe it or not, my post wasn't aimed at you _adchick....in the remote chance that you've read and taken it the wrong way!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Nope...... I didn't read it wrong.

Just saying Cya.... I won't try and be polite in future.

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By *enchWoman
over a year ago

wirral

Madchick - I love you!

You have just put in black and white what I say to the screen every time I feel guilty for not wanting to send a "thanks but no thanks" email.

I've tried being polite but they just keep coming (no pun intended).

Maybe I should stop being polite *thinks*

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Awwww Wenchy......

I lurve you too.

Guilt at not replying? hhuummm

A bottle of red and a box of choccies should give you enough of a d*unken perspective and enough of a sugar rush to kick any feelings of guilt under the carpet......

Therefore, I command every single female and every couple to go forth today/tonight and to get absolutely faced whilst scoffing a box of Dairy Milk!

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By *ibertinesCouple
over a year ago

N Devon

LOL shurly the best way to deal with this recurring topic would be to not reply to it :D

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By *rummpsMan
over a year ago

thanet

Exactly 'maverixxx', If one doesn't like the topic. Just move on! Its what forums are about.

Sure we get the same theme recurring but we sure as eggs get the same old tired replies.

_rummps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg how many times

yawnnnnnnnn

get over it

lol

no reply = not interested

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