FabSwingers.com forum: Sharing the face pic?

By *rincessNotQueen OP Woman
17 hours ago

London

How would you handle the following:

Start chatting with someone, only body pics are public and you like what you see.

But then you swap face pics, and the chemistry just isnt there.

How would you kindly and calmly end the conversation?

..... asking for a friend, duhhh!

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By *mantofuckMan
17 hours ago

durham

Well in my experience the chat usually just goes silence

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By *arbonaraKingMan
17 hours ago

Leeds

Sorry NASA just called, they need the worlds best chef/lover to go to space and I was top of their list.

It’s top secret, so my account will remain active to make it seem like I am still here on earth, don’t tellanyonebyyyeeee

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
17 hours ago

Telford

I by and large have the same experience as the above, of just being ghosted.

Sometimes they go the extra mile and block me without saying anything.

In an ideal world, they would be honest and say not for me 🤷‍♂️

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By *onin25Man
17 hours ago

Durham

So you aren't attracted to the face? Just say, sorry you're not really my type, be honest but kind. Or ghost, either way will work.

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By *infullyObedientWoman
17 hours ago

Woodley

Id say not for me sorry then promptly delete any pics id sent and block them.

Cowardly? Maybe but hey ho.

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By *ull of PuddinWoman
17 hours ago

isle of munters

Depends on the chat.

If the chat is sensible, then it's a ' I like what we've talked about but it's not going to go further than that '

If the chat is all sexual then it's ' i like our banter, but that's all it is, you understand that right'

If the person gets angry at that then it's a block

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By *actile TensionMan
16 hours ago

Sussex

Tell em straight. Its the best way

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By *hat.coupleCouple
16 hours ago

Kent

I'd get the convo peter out and leave it at that.

Mrs x

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By *otwifecouple1004Couple
16 hours ago

Cardiff

Its my profile asks for a dick and face pic first message. Easier to say no thanks right at the start rather than get into a nice chat, and the face or dick just kills it all dead.

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By *iver78Man
16 hours ago

barton upon humber

"I'd get the convo peter out and leave it at that.

Mrs x"

This

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By *earditallWoman
16 hours ago

Lancaster

It's crap when that happens 😕 as people have to have a face i wanna snog.

I've had to politely tell them that I'm not feeling the attraction,some take it well others can be rude.

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By *oul_Man_501Man
16 hours ago

Kent

It sounds like you want to let them down gently, so I'd say just be yourself and give it your best shot.

Their reaction is the unknown. Just be prepared as that could go several different ways.

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By *heron ShanMan
16 hours ago

Durham

This is why its best to send a face pic withy first or second message.

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By *ieselXXX69Man
16 hours ago

Lancing

Or just leave them hanging, which from the number of forum posts previously, seems to be the normal modus of operation....it's a throw away society!

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By *ave1976XXXMan
16 hours ago

newmarket

I try and send a face asap to avoid this situation

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By *ven888Man
16 hours ago

london

Well just be honest and say it. Ghosting or blocking is just harsh. In my opinion Treat others the way you want to be treated

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By *rincessNotQueen OP Woman
16 hours ago

London

Its like you do want to give a person a chance. I feel like my interest in them can change depending on the chemistry.

Ive definitely met some "hot" guys with the personality of a wet blanket.

And men which I enjoy the banter but dont feel inclined to shag.

But on a site like fab, if you not wanting to shag despite how good the banter is, I feel like im wasting their time!

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By *ven888Man
16 hours ago

london

"Its like you do want to give a person a chance. I feel like my interest in them can change depending on the chemistry.

Ive definitely met some "hot" guys with the personality of a wet blanket.

If you tell them how you feel then they can decide it.

And men which I enjoy the banter but dont feel inclined to shag.

But on a site like fab, if you not wanting to shag despite how good the banter is, I feel like im wasting their time!"

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By *WB85Man
16 hours ago

Staffordshire

Its very common this happens, just say you don't feel the connection you require to continue further.

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By *lfa RomeoMan
16 hours ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

Tell your not for me and wish them well.

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By *earditallWoman
16 hours ago

Lancaster

"Its like you do want to give a person a chance. I feel like my interest in them can change depending on the chemistry.

Ive definitely met some "hot" guys with the personality of a wet blanket.

And men which I enjoy the banter but dont feel inclined to shag.

But on a site like fab, if you not wanting to shag despite how good the banter is, I feel like im wasting their time!"

I've met guys socially that are great but no chemistry sexually but I've never promised nothing always left it as...we will see how we get along in person.

So I guess if you're honest and open about that then it shouldn't be a problem if they want to still chat.

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By *urry BlokeMan
15 hours ago

I tend to send pics early on and hope to get one back

I can't build attraction through chit chat and don't expect anyone else to either

Looks are important

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By *okingham WillMan
15 hours ago

If you’ve had a respectable and enjoyable exchange of messages up to this point, and the guy hasn’t been a dick, then I would try and let him down gently.

“Sorry but I don’t find you attractive” sounds (to me anyway) a lot harsher than “you’re not my type”. Like the former has a subtext of “you’re ugly” whereas the latter has a subtext of “you might well be someone’s else’s type”. If that makes sense (it just seems a little bit softer to me anyway)

It may come as a bit of a shock (I know, I know!) but men have ego’s too and if he seems a nice enough chap surely it’s better not to bruise it, even if you do think he’s a bit fugly!

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By *hickthighs-26Woman
15 hours ago

the land of vagina

If this happens i will always compliment them but say i dont think they are my type but i feel so bad about it.

I dont know why as when someone says to me ah not for me thanks though, i think fair enough

it might sting for 0.1 second but id rather they were honest

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
15 hours ago

I’m honest about it. I will say I’m sorry and be polite about it,I do also prefer to swap face pics sooner rather than later because I don’t like leading people on.

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By *peedyGMan
15 hours ago

Telford

I would just be honest but polite in telling them they aren't for me.

I have been ghosted loads myself though, one of the reasons i have my face pic public these days... scare them away before they message 🤣

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By *eralDeviantWoman
15 hours ago

Hull

I withhold mine until the convo feels like it might go beyond casual checkin type messages or the usual complaints that women dont reply.

Otherwise i may as well have them open and public which i dont want to do.

Attraction comes in many forms and its rarely based on someones face for me; rather who they are and how they make me feel, weather our play styles are similar. So if we are starting to click thats when i want to swap pics.

Having a 2/10face also ends a good few convos so i dont want to waste peoples time either so try to send them around a dozen messages in, depending on the convo style.

Then get onto arranging a call.

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By *itty FelouWoman
15 hours ago

Carlisle

Just be honest, I have been upfront and told more than one person that unfortunately they are not for me and that I wouldn't be continuing the conversation.

Sone people have been attractive but there just wasn't any attraction for me. I have told them that.

Please do not ghost as that is not nice and I've had that done to me a week after a social.

It is always a gamble come face picture swapping time.

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By *dstefiMan
15 hours ago

Solihull

It's why I have public face pics on my profile. If it's no fancy then whatever. At least I know from the off and am not making promises I can't keep.

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By *tannersMan
15 hours ago

stanley

If it were me I’d prefer you just to be bluntly honest about it.

I’m self aware enough to know I’m not what everyone is looking for and a lot of the women I interact with in the forums are “ out of my league”.

I’m also not the best at picking up subtle hints, be they positive or negative, so make it simple for me 😂

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By *lainJane23Woman
15 hours ago

Liverpool

Soz. But love the banter but not for me sorry.

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By *ormal_ManMan
15 hours ago

Harrogate

"How would you handle the following:

Start chatting with someone, only body pics are public and you like what you see.

But then you swap face pics, and the chemistry just isnt there.

How would you kindly and calmly end the conversation?

..... asking for a friend, duhhh!"

On here? People generally just ghost. But honesty is the best policy.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 hours ago

Central

I'd reduce my engagement and then end it

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By *opeye89Man
15 hours ago

London

….yeah, story of my life that. That’s why I just send my face pics regardless.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
14 hours ago

East Sussex

It's awkward isn't it. When we first started out years agi we got chatting to a guy on Friday who couldn't send us a face picture until after the weekend. When we did see it he wasn't for us and we gently told him, he was dreadfully upset and claimed we'd led him on. It's one reason why we have a social first nowadays

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By *atural_born_thriller_xMan
14 hours ago

cockwelwyn

Fuck your lovely it’s just I’m not in the mood for lovely I’m in the mood for chaos carnage and a spark rite now I’m getting the nice best friend feeling not the let’s ruin each others sleep pattern x ………ok it dosent happen often but when it does it’s nice to be polite x

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By *onnyJohnMan
14 hours ago

Doncaster

"How would you handle the following:

Start chatting with someone, only body pics are public and you like what you see.

But then you swap face pics, and the chemistry just isnt there.

How would you kindly and calmly end the conversation?

..... asking for a friend, duhhh!"

Generally it goes silent, which as we all know is simply a "no thanks" so as a rule i just leave it and move on, however if it's me and I'm not feeling it so to speak, i just say no thank you, thank them for their time and wish them the best of luck in the future.

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By *opeye89Man
14 hours ago

London

You should just say it really. I don’t mind if someone says that to me. At least they’re being honest about it.

Although, I know a lot of time, abuse may follow.

But, I think we’re all old enough here to take rejection.

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By *ieselXXX69Man
14 hours ago

Lancing

Let's hope he doesn't use the Forum, or he will wish you just ghosted him !

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By *tannersMan
14 hours ago

stanley

"How would you handle the following:

Start chatting with someone, only body pics are public and you like what you see.

But then you swap face pics, and the chemistry just isnt there.

How would you kindly and calmly end the conversation?

..... asking for a friend, duhhh!

“I wish you good fortune in the fucks to come “

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
14 hours ago

East Sussex

For the millionth time I realise I didn't answer the question.

Tactful honesty.

' thanks for your lovely picture, I won't be taking it further'.

No ambiguity or excuses.

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By *onnyJohnMan
14 hours ago

Doncaster

"How would you handle the following:

Start chatting with someone, only body pics are public and you like what you see.

But then you swap face pics, and the chemistry just isnt there.

How would you kindly and calmly end the conversation?

..... asking for a friend, duhhh!

“I wish you good fortune in the fucks to come “"

Maybe not quite like that 😁 but i like your style 😂

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By *rincessNotQueen OP Woman
14 hours ago

London

I dont know bout others. But even a bad voice turns me off. Like had a few boys from Essex with that typical fit body but an annoying voice which just dried ny p*ssy up lol

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By *aked beachMan
14 hours ago

22 The Avenue

I’d still meet. My experience is that the majority of people look different in real life that I pictures so there is always hope. Plus a night out and the elusive connection may be there too.

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By *hickthighs-26Woman
14 hours ago

the land of vagina

"I dont know bout others. But even a bad voice turns me off. Like had a few boys from Essex with that typical fit body but an annoying voice which just dried ny p*ssy up lol"

Oh i agree i am like this with the birmingham accent. I just can't 🤣

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By *huskofamanMan
14 hours ago

nowhere

I send mine. Let them look at it then block them to save them having to apologise or ghost me

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By *mantofuckMan
14 hours ago

durham

"I send mine. Let them look at it then block them to save them having to apologise or ghost me

Ahh, the old switcheroo

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By *rownFireMan
14 hours ago

london

It remains unread....

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By *huskofamanMan
14 hours ago

nowhere

"I send mine. Let them look at it then block them to save them having to apologise or ghost me

Ahh, the old switcheroo "

Saves them from the embarrassment

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By *hunky GentMan
14 hours ago

Ely

"How would you handle the following:

Start chatting with someone, only body pics are public and you like what you see.

But then you swap face pics, and the chemistry just isnt there.

How would you kindly and calmly end the conversation?

..... asking for a friend, duhhh!"

I'd arrange a meet and take 2 paper bags with me.

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By *enukhanMan
14 hours ago

Near Rugby

The old BOBFOC scenario 😬

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By *ision21Man
14 hours ago

Newcastle Under Lyme

"How would you handle the following:

Start chatting with someone, only body pics are public and you like what you see.

But then you swap face pics, and the chemistry just isnt there.

How would you kindly and calmly end the conversation?

..... asking for a friend, duhhh!"

I wouldn't necessarily end the conversation. Some of the best looking people on earth are total twats so maybe a compromise could be reached in your own mind.

If you need the looks and body then it looks like you will go no further with that particular person.

I once had a stunning girlfriend many moons ago when I was younger. Started off alright but then got to know her and whilst she was phyically and visually sexy, she turned me off big time as she was a complete twat in every other way.

My next girlfriend outweighed her as a whole. Not as good looking but similar body but better as a person.

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By *ow69Man
14 hours ago

Preston

"Well just be honest and say it. Ghosting or blocking is just harsh. In my opinion Treat others the way you want to be treated"

This.. 100%. I would rather be told that they just aren't attracted to me than be ghosted.

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By *ustus5555Woman
13 hours ago

Nottingham

Basically op, you've already answered the question. Keep it simple and polite. Most of us are grown up enough ta be able to handle the truth. 🤷

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By *ilentrunningMan
12 hours ago

Bridgend/Reading/Liverpool &more

A simple thanks but you’re not for me is best. No response or silence essentially says the same thing but if you’ve already been chatting a response seems only fair

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By *entmike76Man
12 hours ago

bury

Just be honest and say so, I hate when I swap pics and get ghosted or blocked it so rude.

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By *reyjasJourneyWoman
12 hours ago

Llanbrynmair

I be honest, best way isn't it?

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By *outhwestwillyMan
12 hours ago

hayle

"I be honest, best way isn't it?"

Honesty is the best policy lol. Your pics are hot, loving Ur bush too.

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
7 hours ago

I try not to worry too much about how they'll react because I can't control that, only how I respond.

Attraction is personal, and for me it's mental as well as physical. If I'm not feeling that attraction, I thank them for sharing, let them down gently, and wish them well. If they react badly, I'll block and move on. Kindness is important, but so are boundaries.

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By *entCplBayCouple
6 hours ago

Herne Bay

I would say on your profile that you are fussy or adapt as you wish so stand out from the crowd (simply my word not yours) that’s what we do and we still get people who are of little attraction sadly bar exceptions so be handsome or a banging personality or both ideally.

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By *kphooey43Man
6 hours ago

Barnet

"How would you handle the following:

Start chatting with someone, only body pics are public and you like what you see.

But then you swap face pics, and the chemistry just isnt there.

How would you kindly and calmly end the conversation?

..... asking for a friend, duhhh!"

Just tell them that they are so ugly, you'll have to sit on their face.

Job done.

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By *atinaChica54Woman
6 hours ago

Marlborough

I request a face pic early on in the comms as I need to want to snog them first & foremost. That way we're not wasting each other's time.

If they're not my type I send a polite C&P response saying "Thanks for your message, but not for me. Just not my type.

Happy Fabbing!"

Very occasionally, if there is someone with whom I've built up a rapport & I'm always interested in meeting new, fun people into this lifestyle, I will state that I'm not sexually attracted to them, but more than happy to meet for a social on a platonic basis only.

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By *opeye89Man
6 hours ago

London

Isn’t there a saying? Only a face a mother could love? Or face for radio? Something like that

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
6 hours ago

Gloucestershire

I hate taking and sending face pics but, honestly is always the best policy.

I always appreciate an honest sorry but, you’re not my type

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By *AYENCouple
5 hours ago

Lincolnshire

It's why we ask for a face pic with the first message - it's a lot easier to reject at that stage. K.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
5 hours ago

"I dont know bout others. But even a bad voice turns me off. Like had a few boys from Essex with that typical fit body but an annoying voice which just dried ny p*ssy up lol"

Oh I agree, certain accents can put me off.

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By *ieselXXX69Man
5 hours ago

Lancing

Just tell them to keep their mouth shut and get on with it !

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By *rincessNotQueen OP Woman
4 hours ago

London

"I hate taking and sending face pics but, honestly is always the best policy.

I always appreciate an honest sorry but, you’re not my type "

.... sorry you not my type

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By *rincessNotQueen OP Woman
4 hours ago

London

So many things that can dull a fun chat- face, voice... even dick size! Sometimes, forum opinions lol

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By *insBadMan
3 hours ago

& around South Shields

"How would you handle the following:

Start chatting with someone, only body pics are public and you like what you see.

But then you swap face pics, and the chemistry just isnt there.

Thanks but you're not my type 🤷🏻‍♂️

It's simple, it might seem a little harsh, but it's not, it's honest. You cannot be attractive to everyone.

How would you kindly and calmly end the conversation?

..... asking for a friend, duhhh!"

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By *parklingeclipseWoman
3 hours ago

Lincolnshire

Just let the conversations dry up 😅

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
3 hours ago

Merseyside

Just be honest and say you ain’t for me for a meet - that’s easier to do than continue pretending … could be more awkward eventually! Good luck xx

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By *earditallWoman
3 hours ago

Lancaster

"I dont know bout others. But even a bad voice turns me off. Like had a few boys from Essex with that typical fit body but an annoying voice which just dried ny p*ssy up lol"

I've had this before like everything but the voice grates on me...bet people are the same with mine though...I get lots who mimic my accent

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By *ore_Than_VanillaMan
3 hours ago

Cheddar

Sorry you are not for me. Take care x

That's my standard one

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By *agneto.Man
3 hours ago

Bham

Yeah I usually drop a face pic early to avoid these kind of situations.

Some people just don’t reply, harsh! Much prefer it if they say sorry you’re not my type.

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By *007ManMan
3 hours ago

Worthing

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By *007ManMan
3 hours ago

Worthing

Men don't reject on any face pics they receive.

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
3 hours ago

Bot Farm

"This is why its best to send a face pic withy first or second message."

On this, I couldn't agree more.

I am into faces, not bodies, and I have a peculiar taste. So, I don't like to have an interesting chat and then have to ask for a face picture just to reject them. It is cruel. I prefer not to reply at all.

Men shouldn't think most women prefer a Disney prince baby face. Not for me. I like the contrast of a charming smile (good teeth are paramount) and sad eyes

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 hours ago

Round the bend

Just be honest, but kind. We can't all be everyone's cup of tea.

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By *hunky GentMan
3 hours ago

Ely

"This is why its best to send a face pic withy first or second message.

On this, I couldn't agree more.

Men shouldn't think most women prefer a Disney prince baby face. Not for me. I like the contrast of a charming smile (good teeth are paramount) and sad eyes"

What about chubby cheeks?

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
3 hours ago

Bot Farm

"Just be honest, but kind. We can't all be everyone's cup of tea. "

Happy Fabbing is apparently kind but I hate it.

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
3 hours ago

Bot Farm

"This is why its best to send a face pic withy first or second message.

On this, I couldn't agree more.

Men shouldn't think most women prefer a Disney prince baby face. Not for me. I like the contrast of a charming smile (good teeth are paramount) and sad eyes

What about chubby cheeks?

Love a chubby body

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 hours ago

Round the bend

"Just be honest, but kind. We can't all be everyone's cup of tea.

Happy Fabbing is apparently kind but I hate it.

Yeah that makes me cringe but I've used it in the past 🫣

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 hours ago

Reading

However you handle it, they will know it's because you didn't fancy them so best to rip the plaster off quickly and just say they are not your type but you wish them well.

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By *unGuy4U1978Man
3 hours ago

near you

"How would you handle the following:

Start chatting with someone, only body pics are public and you like what you see.

But then you swap face pics, and the chemistry just isnt there.

How would you kindly and calmly end the conversation?

..... asking for a friend, duhhh!"

If it’s not there it not there. Just need to be up front and tell the person and move on.

Although, they could be one charming bastard and that would help you look past the horrendous facial features.

Each to their own.

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By *osexyCouple
3 hours ago

ST AUSTELL

Some good advice . Being kind is the key , not nice to be rejected so treat others like you would like to be treated yourselves .

We usually say “we don’t think we match “ but thanks for the reply and good luck x

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
3 hours ago

London

Be honest and polite. You don't have to be mean or rude. Say goodbye.

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By *unGuy4U1978Man
3 hours ago

near you

"I dont know bout others. But even a bad voice turns me off. Like had a few boys from Essex with that typical fit body but an annoying voice which just dried ny p*ssy up lol

I've had this before like everything but the voice grates on me...bet people are the same with mine though...I get lots who mimic my accent

Is it a sexy English lady accent? Or a Peter Kay accent?

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By *unGuy4U1978Man
3 hours ago

near you

"So many things that can dull a fun chat- face, voice... even dick size! Sometimes, forum opinions lol"

I wouldn’t take the forums too seriously. Most of us are just taking the piss in here.

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By *ssexPaul50Man
3 hours ago

colchester

Well my profile has pics of my face which is probably why I’m still trying to connect with people

but if the body is nice, the conversations have been nice and you have been getting in, both looking for the same thing then why not at least meet for a coffee and see how you actually get on in person ? You may surprise even your self x

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By *insBadMan
3 hours ago

& around South Shields

Thanks but you're not my type 🤷🏻‍♂️

It's simple, it might seem a little harsh, but it's not, it's honest. You cannot be attractive to everyone.

How would you kindly and calmly end the conversation?

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By *agneto.Man
1 hour ago

Bham

"This is why its best to send a face pic withy first or second message.

On this, I couldn't agree more.

Men shouldn't think most women prefer a Disney prince baby face. Not for me. I like the contrast of a charming smile (good teeth are paramount) and sad eyes

What about chubby cheeks?

Love a chubby body "

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By *hunky GentMan
1 hour ago

Ely

"This is why its best to send a face pic withy first or second message.

On this, I couldn't agree more.

Men shouldn't think most women prefer a Disney prince baby face. Not for me. I like the contrast of a charming smile (good teeth are paramount) and sad eyes

What about chubby cheeks?

Love a chubby body "

I hope you have long arms xxxx

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By *kphooey43Man
1 hour ago

Barnet

"However you handle it, they will know it's because you didn't fancy them so best to rip the plaster off quickly and just say they are not your type but you wish them well."

Plaster, forget the plaster, just amputate

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