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By *aven. OP   Woman
1 day ago

no

On a scale of 1-10, how approachable do you think you are?

Here and normal real life world places

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By *HELICKER2069Man
1 day ago

chesterfield

Hello i would iam a 10

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
1 day ago

Edinburgh

Neither I have a resting bitch face 99% of the time

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
1 day ago

south dublin

In personal 5 in work a 10 cause everyone’s comes to me to get their shite done.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
1 day ago

Secret Lane


"Hello i would iam a 10 "
I've been told im unapproachable...🤭 must be all the giggling im doing.

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By *oeBeansMan
1 day ago

Derby

I'd like to think I give off an approachable vibe but I don't think I'd be someone people would approach if that makes any sense at all 😅

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
1 day ago

South East


"On a scale of 1-10, how approachable do you think you are?

Here and normal real life world places

"

Depends really, professionally very as I have to be. I get approached by ladies a lot when shopping to get something down from the top shelve for them, so possibly that means I’m approachable.

In a club as a couple, we don’t get approached to often by men but we also give of a vibe that we’re not looking to be approached, if that makes sense.

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By *opeye89Man
1 day ago

London

I don’t really know. I think I have one of those scary faces. But, it’s only when people get to know me, they realise the face doesn’t match the personality.

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By *rMrs DelightCouple
1 day ago

Wigan

We’d like to think 10 but yet club meets prove us to be a 2 x

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By *he milf next doorWoman
1 day ago

honeysuckle lane

About an 8

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By *actile TensionMan
1 day ago

Sussex

Sadly not. Which is a shame because im really nice 🙂

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By *eyeYCouple
1 day ago

Nr Leicester

A definite 10, however the way we're approached may decrease the figure.. 🤔🤷🤣😘

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By *onnyJohnMan
1 day ago

Doncaster

1 and 1

Now sod off!

👍😂👍

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 day ago

Here. There.

I am. Which is a shame cos I’m orrible.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
1 day ago

SW1A1AA

Id say 9. Im the one that gets all the weirdos coming up and chatting to me

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By *ylonKingMan
1 day ago

Lancashire


"On a scale of 1-10, how approachable do you think you are?

Here and normal real life world places

"

100% a 10

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By *r SensualMan
1 day ago

London

A solid 9.5 both on here and in person in terms of being approachable I’d say am.

However, I tend to do more of the approaching myself rather than being approached by others 🤷🏾‍♂️

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By *exanthemMan
1 day ago

Cheshire

Almost 10 - very approachable, and love chatting not just about sex but other vanilla stuff too -because if that I made some good friends over the years.

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By *onin25Man
1 day ago

Durham

On here a 9. I think I'm pretty approachable and welcoming, I don't think I'm intimidating at all.

At work a 10. It gets commented how approachable I am, sometimes to my detriment where people approach me for things.

Other real life a 5. I'm sometimes grumpy and I think I can sometimes give off a 'please don't talk to me' vibe. But then some people do talk to me randomly so I must be partially approachable.

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By *hunky GentMan
1 day ago

Ely


"On a scale of 1-10, how approachable do you think you are?

Here and normal real life world places

"

I'm a 10 (imo).

Whether you want to stay there is another thing.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
1 day ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

9, everyone and anyone comes up to me in all situations and I’m always smiley and friendly. Yesterday a little girl was telling me about how much fun she had had at the beach in the q for McDonalds. Yesterday in Lidl a lady came up to me and said you always wear so pretty dresses ( she works there and we regulars ) got to love a bit of shein!

I will talk and be kind to everyone and anyone and I’ve made so many friends in night club toilets that I’m still friends with to this day! My fella is the opposite he’s grumpy old man but once you get to know him he’s friendly I think if you smile at people it instantly breaks the barriers and invites them to talk

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 day ago

Crumpet Castle

Very - 100%.

Have a fuck off face though ..... and then .. If I don't like someone 0% and i'd follow it up with a verbal fuck off just to force it home.

But in reality ..... 100% 10 out of 10.

I won't do your bidding though if I think it's your responsibility

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By *iver78Man
1 day ago

barton upon humber

Women tend to talk to me , men not so much !? So not sure 🫤

And I dont mean that in a flash way as im irrestible before I get abuse 🤣 I mean in general

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By *ellhungvweMan
1 day ago

Cheltenham

I can make myself very approachable in real life by wearing my glasses and smiling. I can also make myself very unapproachable if I put the pissed off face on. I generally smile and wear my glasses.

On here I get approached quite a bit so I would say that was a positive.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 day ago

Crumpet Castle


"Women tend to talk to me , men not so much !? So not sure 🫤

And I dont mean that in a flash way as im irrestible before I get abuse 🤣 I mean in general "

I think you're irresistible

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By *eeman1200Man
1 day ago

Paulton Nr Bristol

A 10

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By *eaches And Cream 88Couple
1 day ago

Halesowen

I would say a 2 they see a big girl and run

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By *adoldmeMan
1 day ago

, Braintree

I've been told I'm too approachable and a flirt. But never pick up on the reaction. A friend keeps telling me who she thinks is attracted to me. I never see it.

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By *atteLover83Man
1 day ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

I think I am approachable but I guess my resting bitch face says otherwise

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By *tannersMan
1 day ago

stanley

Fab 9

Real world 6

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By *ABJCouple
1 day ago

South Wales

Male half - about a 3 or 4. I’m naturally antisocial. I don’t mean to offend but I do have RBF

Female half - easily 10. She attracts people on he r personality alone never mind just her looks

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By *ee1993Man
1 day ago

rutland

Non approachable Apperently I look like I wanna fight any man woman or child 🤣 I’m happy as pig in shit but my face don’t register that Apperently

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By *athomMan
1 day ago

South Coast

⛔️

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By *rMrsQuietlyWildCouple
1 day ago

Glasgow

I'd like to think so but we never seem to get approached at club nights 🤷🏼 not quite sure what we are doing wrong!

In real life definitely get approached more but usually when I'm in Tesco and someone asks me to get something off a high shelf 🤣! Usually not for anything exciting!

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By *007ManMan
1 day ago

Worthing

1 I am mean horrible , aggressive and thoroughly unpleasant , so totally unapproachable.

Not bad that decent 8/10! Wish me luck all!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
1 day ago

Carlisle usually

2.

I'm generally considered intimidating by the uninitiated 💜

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By *illwillwooMan
1 day ago

leeds

0/0

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By *ensuallover1000Man
1 day ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m probably a 5.

I don’t seek it out but am nonetheless courteous enough if some gregarious bugger has the brazen audacity to attempt to initiate conversation with me in public.

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By *he National ThrustMan
1 day ago

sunny old Horsham

I purposefully put a "free kittens" sign on my van to show how approachable I am, and I always crouch down in the shadows when walking on dark streets to show that I'm no threat at all.

12/10 fully approachable gent.

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By *hilled SamMan
1 day ago

Reading

8/9 I’d say, been told I’ve got nice eyes and live a giggle and relaxing chat

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By *icecouple561Couple
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1 day ago

East Sussex

If the number of people who approach me at bus stops is anything to go by I'm 10 on the approachability scale.

I can have an inadvertently direct manner which sometimes makes people back off even when I don't want them to

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By *rincessNotQueenWoman
1 day ago

London

Im a 1. I wear glasses so that takes me down a few notches.

Constant resting bitch face.

I use politics as an ice- breaker sometimes lol

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By *earditallWoman
1 day ago

Lancaster

I'd like to think I am pretty approachable but people have said I'm not so will go with a 5

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By *vaRoseWoman
1 day ago

Ankh-Morpork

On here, those that get my humour have no qualms. Those that don’t have called me intimidating.

In public, people talk to me. Busses, trains, queues, parks…. Apparently I have one of those faces

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
1 day ago

IPSWICH

I'd say a 10. I'm very approachable despite a face that, I'm told says otherwise. 🤣🤣

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 day ago

Crumpet Castle


"On here, those that get my humour have no qualms. Those that don’t have called me intimidating.

In public, people talk to me. Busses, trains, queues, parks…. Apparently I have one of those faces "

How long have you had a cock ?

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By *enukhanMan
1 day ago

Near Rugby

I think I'm a 10 and a 10, not a perfect 10, and I don't wear a 12, but I'll always try and help anyone

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By *hunky GentMan
1 day ago

Ely


"On here, those that get my humour have no qualms. Those that don’t have called me intimidating.

In public, people talk to me. Busses, trains, queues, parks…. Apparently I have one of those faces "

And a great cleavage

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By *agic.MMan
1 day ago

Kent/London


"On a scale of 1-10, how approachable do you think you are?

Here and normal real life world places

"

How many scales do You have OP? All of them?

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By *hat.coupleCouple
1 day ago

Kent

Been told I have resting bitch face and we apparently look quite intimidating as a pair 🤷🏼‍♀️. We are probably one the nicest couples you will meet in the lifestyle to be fair according to our veris, but we have been told by a few people in the past that we look quite intimidating before talking to us and getting to know us. When we asked why we looked intimidating they don't really have a reason why, we just are. WTF?

we don't get it. So I'd say that we are maybe a 3 in real life according to what we've been told but in reality I would say we are a 10 as we both literally talk to anyone and love to socialise. On here, as long as people have read our profile before messaging us we are always a 10 but if they don't we don't bother entertaining them.

Mrs x

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By *iver78Man
1 day ago

barton upon humber


"Women tend to talk to me , men not so much !? So not sure 🫤

And I dont mean that in a flash way as im irrestible before I get abuse 🤣 I mean in general

I think you're irresistible "

Thanks lol that'll get me through the rest of day lol

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By *hinstrapMan
1 day ago

sheffield

I like to think I am. Dunno how much bet there's some who say not lol

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By *sWyldWoman
1 day ago

Edinburgh

8

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By *lassyGent95Man
1 day ago

horsham

On here, like a 7. Real life probably a 5? Even though I want to be approachable

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By *vaRoseWoman
1 day ago

Ankh-Morpork


"On here, those that get my humour have no qualms. Those that don’t have called me intimidating.

In public, people talk to me. Busses, trains, queues, parks…. Apparently I have one of those faces

How long have you had a cock ?"

I’ve had this one about a year now granny

It lives on my bookshelf with a bobble hat and scarf normally

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By *infullyObedientWoman
1 day ago

Woodley

I think im pretty approachable both on here and in really life, I enjoy getting to know people. So im going with a 10

But what i think may not be how im perceived by others 🤷‍♀️

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By *eliWoman
1 day ago

.

Away from Fab, approachable.

On here? I don't really know.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
1 day ago

South Wales

On fab quite approachable I think so maybe an 8/10

In real real life i’m very quiet and busy and like to keep to myself so probably a lot lower at a 5/10

At groups social or clubs we do get approached so that’s a much higher number maybe 9/10 xx 😄

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By *iver78Man
1 day ago

barton upon humber


"On here, those that get my humour have no qualms. Those that don’t have called me intimidating.

In public, people talk to me. Busses, trains, queues, parks…. Apparently I have one of those faces "

How can anybody be intimidating on a an app ? Lol

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
1 day ago

(User no longer on site)

10/10 my Top Trump card proves it 😁

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
1 day ago

south dublin


"Away from Fab, approachable.

On here? I don't really know. "

Your profile and posts here seem quite approachable to me.

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By *igBeardyDanMan
1 day ago

Bilston

I might look big and scary but I'm adorable so come and say hello

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By *kphooey43Man
1 day ago

Barnet


"Away from Fab, approachable.

On here? I don't really know. "

You scare the shit out of me

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By *ocialablechapMan
1 day ago

Paphos and also SW UK

A 9.5. Not blowing my own trumpet.

I'm approachable in real life.

There are things clients tell me that they don't tell their spouses...

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By *heron ShanMan
1 day ago

Durham

Only for the people I want to approach me.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 day ago

Round the bend

10

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By *rectus HumongusMan
1 day ago

uranus

I would say both a 10 anyone I know who would say less they can all fk off 😁😁😁

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By *iddlesticksMan
1 day ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’d like to think I’m easy 8+.

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By *kphooey43Man
1 day ago

Barnet


"10 "

You are Beau Derek aren't you?

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By *aseylee324Couple
1 day ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Apparently I'm scary as hell, but people often tell me how nice I am once they've braved it

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By *iddlesticksMan
1 day ago

My nan’s spare room.


"10 "

A*

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By *rish_wolfMan
1 day ago

Rhyl

To quote a friend-

I may "come across as a little intimidating, but that fades as soon as we get chatting"

Reach out, I do bite - playfully

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By *uevoViejoMan
1 day ago

BIRMINGHAM

My former career demanded that I should be able to talk easily to people and I still possess that skill. The world's a better pla than when strangers happily chat

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 day ago

Round the bend


"10

You are Beau Derek aren't you? "

I don't get the reference but I'll agree

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 day ago

Round the bend


"I’d like to think I’m easy 8+. "

10

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
1 day ago

Glasgow

I’ve been approached. So I guess I’m approachable?

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By *iddlesticksMan
1 day ago

My nan’s spare room.


"10

You are Beau Derek aren't you?

I don't get the reference but I'll agree "

It’s a good one

Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed.

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By *peedyGMan
1 day ago

Telford

Definitely not.. i get called smiler for a reason 😂

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By *ovabbwMan
1 day ago

coventry

Very consider anything or scenario

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By *WB85Man
1 day ago

Staffordshire

I always thought I was very approachable.

But then a few weeks back an employee of mine had a chat with my dad (who also works for me) as he wasn't sure how to approach a subject with me.

So I'm guessing maybe a 5.

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
1 day ago

IPSWICH


"10

You are Beau Derek aren't you?

I don't get the reference but I'll agree

It’s a good one

Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed. "

Ironically Dudley isn't far from Wolverhampton.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 day ago

Round the bend


"10

You are Beau Derek aren't you?

I don't get the reference but I'll agree

It’s a good one

Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed. "

Oh I think phooey has got me mixed up with Bo Selecta

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By *ersatilefoxMan
1 day ago

Notts

Extremely approachable, been told by loads of people how nice I am. Some have said too nice at times. I run a memory café as a volunteer so have to be sort of approachable. I'm self deprocating though. And playfully sarcastic.

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By *arialoueWoman
1 day ago

Doncaster

5

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By *avenwrexham75TV/TS
1 day ago

Wrexham

Zero, now p**s off!

Only kidding, I think I'm very approachable..I'm smiley, chatty and hard to offend x

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By *ack DawXXXMan
1 day ago

Weybridge

I'm a 10 at work. And an 8 out of work.

But I look like a 3.

My face says serial killer. Lol

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By *ust MikeMan
1 day ago

Peterborough

I'm completely unapproachable, on here and in person...try at your peril 😂

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By *pgroupsexMan
1 day ago

Kingston

I'm very approachable, but (and this creeps up on you folks - so be warned!), all of a sudden, my age seems to have made me invisible to most.

No one warns you that you'll still feel almost exactly the same as you did 20 or 30 years before, yet you simply get classed by many as "past it".

It's certainly NOT something I expected to happen. "Make Hay" as they say.

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By *JUltraCouple
1 day ago

Chelmsford

Mr, is a 10 out of 10. Can't leave him alone without coming back and somebody chatting to him. Babies staring and smiling at him, old people, crack heads, gay men in cowboy hats or d*unken married Irish women. Eye roll.

Mrs, would say a 7, people feel comfortable approaching and speaking.

As a couple, maybe zero. We only seem to be spoken to seperately. Which thinking about it, is kind of odd.

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By *issEmmWoman
1 day ago

Bournemouth

I think I’m too approachable

In life/work I’m too nice so everyone comes to me for things

On here I think because I’m chunky it gives people the impression that I’m an easy lay… spoiler I am not

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By *ornyguy666Man
1 day ago

Nottingham

10 always ready

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
1 day ago

North West

I’d like to think I was like, a two or a three (that’s what I aim for!), but I do seem to attract randoms 🙄

E

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By *ib.Man
1 day ago

Hampshire

I try not to be when just going about my day in public.

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
1 day ago

Hampshire

I never get approached out and about, despite people often smiling at me. I'm not sure if that's more out of pity, or they're simply breaking wind.

So on the basis I'd say I'm not even on the scale at all.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
24 hours ago

Reading

About a 4 for in person and on here. I give off don’t fucking bother vibes. Which is the opposite of what I want 😂🤦‍♀️

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
24 hours ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

I'd say a 7.. depends on the day lol

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
24 hours ago

Sheffield

I would say an 8

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By *arbonaraKingMan
24 hours ago

Leeds

If 10 is totally approachable on that scale then in real life probably an 8, on here probably a 3

There’s more honesty and transparency in real life and I welcome new conversations. On here it’s mostly BS and we all know it, so I only like something I could consider ‘real’

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
24 hours ago

south dublin


"About a 4 for in person and on here. I give off don’t fucking bother vibes. Which is the opposite of what I want 😂🤦‍♀️"

The Eeyore tshirt is a hint haha

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By *artorialMan
24 hours ago

weymouth

Some days a 10 others a 1. Trouble is I don't know which way it'll go until someone trys to talk

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By *ore_Than_VanillaMan
24 hours ago

Cheddar

Always approachable here, in real life, on the moon but incredibly fussy and protective of my mental space. So the art of politely killing an ongoing connection or conversation is my forte

Those who get past that hurdle are cherished friends.

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By *kphooey43Man
24 hours ago

Barnet


"10

You are Beau Derek aren't you?

I don't get the reference but I'll agree

It’s a good one

Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed.

Ironically Dudley isn't far from Wolverhampton. "

undervalued post

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By *alkingRedFlagMan
24 hours ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I don’t look approachable at all but I’m happy to chat to anyone. It’s a Geordie thing

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
23 hours ago

Gloucestershire

Approachable on here? Not a clue. Someone tell me

Real life I’d like to think a good 7

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By *haosAfterDarkCouple
23 hours ago

Kilmarnock

In real life I (Mrs) seem to be very approachable cause people tell me their life stories all the time

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By *uataguyMan
23 hours ago

Wrexham

10

Friendly easy going and interested in people

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By *abulincsCouple
23 hours ago

near a bridge

10 definitely approachable

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By *tockingsstephTV/TS
23 hours ago

northampton

I’m easy always lol

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By *avidNPMan
23 hours ago

manchester

I am definitely a 10 I’m open to meeting and chatting to anyone. My DMs are always open

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By *ackandsallyCouple
23 hours ago

Ireland

I'm like a 10 and Sally about 8

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By *avidNPMan
23 hours ago

manchester

If you are a 10 does that mean your open to messages?

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By *urry BlokeMan
23 hours ago

On here, 0-2

IRL, 7-9

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By *ermite12ukMan
23 hours ago

Solihull and Romford

On a good day, probably 2 for both. On a bad day. Possibly one if I'm lucky.

(It helps massively if I like you - Sounding very much like Dick Emery. )

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By *ven888Man
23 hours ago

london

10, im so approachable

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
23 hours ago

IPSWICH


"10

You are Beau Derek aren't you?

I don't get the reference but I'll agree

It’s a good one

Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed.

Ironically Dudley isn't far from Wolverhampton.

undervalued post "

Thank you. Thats what I thought. 🤣

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By *uataguyMan
23 hours ago

Wrexham

10

Friendly easy going and interested in people

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
23 hours ago

UK

I suffer from resting bitch face so probably a 1, but get past that in a really nice person (as long as your not an asshole)

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By *huskofamanMan
23 hours ago

nowhere

I try not to be

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By *appyGuy_2025Man
23 hours ago

somewhere

8 I would say

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By *eekyscotMan
23 hours ago

Rhyl

I try to be but i find social situations difficult and stressful. Irl I'm much better than i am online at communicating

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By *reachers SonMan
23 hours ago

north West

Here, I wouldn't have a clue, but I don't think I give off f-off vibes. In the real world I think my natural expression is definitely a f-off don't bother me kinda one. Doesn't stop the odd granny asking me to get things off the high selves in the supermarket though🤷‍♂️

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By *aggy dollsCouple
22 hours ago

bradford

Me - 0

Luna - 11

But I'm actually really nice (well kinda)

Mr H

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
22 hours ago

Round the bend


"10

You are Beau Derek aren't you?

I don't get the reference but I'll agree

It’s a good one

Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed.

Ironically Dudley isn't far from Wolverhampton.

undervalued post

Thank you. Thats what I thought. 🤣"

Can you explain to me

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By *dstefiMan
22 hours ago

Solihull

I'm a 10. I see no reason to be suspicious of people's motives when I first meet them so am inevitably open, candid and friendly by default.

I don't make the assumption they're a twat, it's up to them to show it if they are (most don't because most aren't).

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By *lirtyFilthWoman
22 hours ago

Troublesville suburb of Barnstaple

On here? Depends on how many grains of sand are on the beach.

At work? For the students? 10/10 if not more.

At the pub? Catch me after the first pint! I’m a bundle of light, joy and happiness with a dirty laugh and mischief in my eyes 🤣🤣

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
22 hours ago

Chester

I'm guna say 0️⃣ because I never get approached 😳

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
22 hours ago

London

10. I've got one of those faces. Strangers come up to me and tell me things about themselves. I didn't even ask. They just talk and I listen.

I've had random people as well as forum regulars send me messages. I don't mind.

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
21 hours ago

In a galaxy far far away

It depends on my mood.

Normally I'm a 10 and I'm very friendly and approachable.

Sometimes when my mood is low, I'm a zero and my shields are up. When I'm like this, leave me alone until I snap out of it.

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By *TaR105Man
21 hours ago

Birkenhead

100% a 10

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By *um for SirMan
21 hours ago

Stockport

Absolutely I am ! It seems impossible to get a reply to any kind of message as a newbie ....how the f**k do You get verified if you're not already verified ....& I get the safety aspect 100% !

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By *aybe one dayMan
20 hours ago

annan

Joining here has made me realise I must be a 1

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By *cott45hullMan
20 hours ago

Hull

I’m a 10 Approachable everywhere.

Whether people choose to approach me or not is there problem ok!!!

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By *rikAndFreyjaCouple
20 hours ago

Llanbrynmair

Both a 10. Incredibly approachable.

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By *ittylover123Man
20 hours ago

donegal

Depends solely on the attitude of the aproacher, bad attitude 1 nice attitude 10!

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
20 hours ago

Telford

I try to be, but I guess something about me means that no one really does approach me.

Height might be a bit too intimidating?

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
20 hours ago

IPSWICH


"10

You are Beau Derek aren't you?

I don't get the reference but I'll agree

It’s a good one

Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed.

Ironically Dudley isn't far from Wolverhampton.

undervalued post

Thank you. Thats what I thought. 🤣

Can you explain to me "

Dudley Moore was in the film 10 with Bo Dereck where she ran on the beach.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
20 hours ago

Round the bend


"10

You are Beau Derek aren't you?

I don't get the reference but I'll agree

It’s a good one

Bo Derek running naked down the beach. 10 indeed.

Ironically Dudley isn't far from Wolverhampton.

undervalued post

Thank you. Thats what I thought. 🤣

Can you explain to me

Dudley Moore was in the film 10 with Bo Dereck where she ran on the beach. "

So I've been informed. Very clever!

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By *partharmonyCouple
19 hours ago

Tonbridge

Hopefully at least a 9, but I don't know if anybody would know that until they tried.

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By *olo180Man
19 hours ago

Greater London

In real life I’m very approachable. I often get asked where things are in the supermarket for some reason!

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By *kphooey43Man
19 hours ago

Barnet

Way to chatty, so probably very approachable, though I try and put people off (especially other dog walkers).

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By *iver78Man
19 hours ago

barton upon humber


"In real life I’m very approachable. I often get asked where things are in the supermarket for some reason! "

Well if you work there there going too 🤣 its part of your job!!

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
19 hours ago

Manchester(ish).

About -5 for normal day to day interactions. I have spent a long time honing my persona to be a hatchet faced witch.

If you do get to know me, I'm mildly warmer.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
19 hours ago

Reading

3

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By *olo180Man
19 hours ago

Greater London


"In real life I’m very approachable. I often get asked where things are in the supermarket for some reason!

Well if you work there there going too 🤣 its part of your job!! "

I knew I shouldn’t have worn the blue fleece in Tescos!

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By *gtSaffronMan
19 hours ago

Coventry

Personality 10

Looks 2 (RBF)

Being single 1

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By *lackadderMan
19 hours ago

Eastbourne

Based on results;

On here I’m not sure I even hit a 1.

In the real world I must be at least a 6 as I am not infrequently approached by women.

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By *tsazzMan
19 hours ago

Manchester

I think I’m a 7 overall 🤷‍♂️

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By *gtSaffronMan
19 hours ago

Coventry

Just my opinion but i dont tend to approach couples as 9 times out of 10 they are looking for a single woman. And well single women seem to want couples so am knackered both ways

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
19 hours ago

Ryde

I'm one of those who has people coming to them in the street or supermarkets and strike up conversation! A friend didn't believe me, but soon changed her mind when we went around Tescos' together and had about 7 random strangers start nattering away!

I have no idea why, but it might be that I'm non-threatening-looking. Or perhaps I have an Agony-Aunt-like quality which has people want to chat. Come to think of it, I could start some form of cult, and have acolytes do my bidding!

It's only been twice out of all those times when someone knew me from Fab, so the odds are still in my favour!!

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By *hortieWoman
19 hours ago

Northampton

I like to think I'm a 1. Avoid at all costs.

But other people seem to put me at a 7.

Now, either there's a LOT of brave cunts out there, or I seriously need to up my game.

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By *hunky GentMan
19 hours ago

Ely


"I like to think I'm a 1. Avoid at all costs.

But other people seem to put me at a 7.

Now, either there's a LOT of brave cunts out there, or I seriously need to up my game."

Behave you.

You're very easy to talk to.

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By *og-ManMan
19 hours ago

somewhere

I think I'm very chatty and friendly in the real world and on fab so a 10 for me in both

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By *ornyscotsman198812Man
19 hours ago

Aberdeen

10 on here, in the real world I will duck and dive to avoid people. So if you see me in a bush I’m not creeping 🤣

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By *hortieWoman
19 hours ago

Northampton


"I like to think I'm a 1. Avoid at all costs.

But other people seem to put me at a 7.

Now, either there's a LOT of brave cunts out there, or I seriously need to up my game.

Behave you.

You're very easy to talk to. "

Oh when I'm expecting it.. different story

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By *r lotharioMan
18 hours ago

newcastle under lyme

very, so 11.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
18 hours ago

Colchester

1. My resting bitch face only finds company and solace with others who have resting bitch faces.

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By *avin77Man
18 hours ago

camberley

Id like to thjnk very

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
16 hours ago

Portstewart

Probably an 8.5 or 9 for us

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By *BCadbury5Man
16 hours ago

Birmingham

Maybe I’m a 7 what do you think?

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
16 hours ago

Bristol

Here yes, AMA.

But in public... probably a 7 if I'm dressed up. Less otherwise.

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By *ay999400Man
15 hours ago

Bromley

Easily a 9 I think

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By *inkyukxxxCouple
15 hours ago

Nottinghamshire

In everyday life hubby says he thinks he’s a 3 or 4 and Mrs he would say an 8

On here who knows. If you’ve read the profile we are a 10 approachable I reckon 😜

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By *heikh YerboutiMan
15 hours ago

Schlongolia

Solid 8.25

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
13 hours ago

Bognor Regis

If someone says hello I'm friendly I'll say hello etc back.

Where it falls down is my resting bitch face ha.

If I'm not smiling I look very pissed off

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By *mf123Man
13 hours ago

with one foot out the door

Depends on my mood but by default 4

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By *0lfie25Man
13 hours ago

Wolverhampton


"On a scale of 1-10, how approachable do you think you are?

Here and normal real life world places

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9

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By *jslookingforfunMan
12 hours ago

liverpool

On here, I’m very approachable, so a 10, but outside of here, I’m not a fan of people, they ask stupid questions and do stupid things, so in the outside world I’d say I’m a 3

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By *carlettsWoman
12 hours ago

Somewhere out there

Im real life probably a 9 or 10, on here maybe 5 if lucky, think it's definately decreased over the years

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By *he MinionMan
12 hours ago

Surrey

I like to believe i'm approachable both here and in the real world. I'll chat to anyone.

I'd say i'm a 7 for both

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
9 hours ago

Southport

Approachable yes, very

Whether or not I tell you to do one is quite another thing

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By *hesblokeMan
8 hours ago

Derbyshire village

I like to think I am, with the right approach at least.

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By *gent00..Man
8 hours ago

Northwich

I am very approachable then probably go shy 🤭

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By *urplebadger69Couple
8 hours ago

Colchester

We would say about 8 but our lived experience would be 1.

I, Mr, think I'm the less approachable one. Tattoos and beard seem to put people off approaching.

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By *westnkinkyMan
8 hours ago

Southport

Deffo a 10

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By *urvyMilf4BlackMenWoman
8 hours ago

Norwich

On here no as there's so many time wasters and so much BS.

In real life I'm more so. Even though I'm a big girl. I do get approached when I'm out so I guess I must look vaguely approachable.

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By *lackadderMan
8 hours ago

Eastbourne


"If someone says hello I'm friendly I'll say hello etc back.

Where it falls down is my resting bitch face ha.

If I'm not smiling I look very pissed off "

I have this. One of my braver colleagues once told me that unless I’m smiling I’m a scary looking person. I have to admit I was mildly hurt..but it is hard to walk around forcing a fake smile. I’d just look demented 🤪

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