FabSwingers.com forum: When was the last time...

By *Effy- OP Woman
3 days ago

Scotland

Someone flirted with you out in the real world?

Was it welcomed?

How did it end?

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By *eightsB4DatesMan
3 days ago

north east

I can’t detect flirting so haven’t a clue

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 days ago

SW1A1AA

Long while ago now as I never go out

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By *atteLover82Man
3 days ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

Been that long I can't remember. But I am terrible at picking up signs of flirting

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
3 days ago

London

I can't tell if someone is flirting with me so I have no idea. So I would assume it ended badly because I didn't know they were flirting with me. Eye contact is just eye contact. It means nothing to me. Being kind is being kind. Asking me if I'm single is just being inquisitive.

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By *ampireLoveMan
3 days ago

Essex

"I can't tell if someone is flirting with me so I have no idea. So I would assume it ended badly because I didn't know they were flirting with me. Eye contact is just eye contact. It means nothing to me. Being kind is being kind. Asking me if I'm single is just being inquisitive."

Exactly this! I can never tell if people flirt with me. I just think they are being nice and just interacting

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By *peedyGMan
3 days ago

Telford

I can never tell if someone is flirting or just being nice 🤷‍♂️

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By *peedyGMan
3 days ago

Telford

Exactly this! I can never tell if people flirt with me. I just think they are being nice and just interacting "

Same! 😂

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By *eekaboo BellyMan
3 days ago

Bradford

Absolutely never. I'm pretty confident I haven't missed any signs or anything

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
3 days ago

Glos

I’m never sure if people are flirting with me or not.

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By *Effy- OP Woman
3 days ago

Scotland

Damn!

We need to start a class on how to spot when you're being flirted with.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 days ago

Round the bend

The other day when I went to work with the hubby

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By *igBeardyDanMan
3 days ago

Bilston

My wife always tells me i have no idea when someone's flirting with me especially shop assistants

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By *Effy- OP Woman
3 days ago

Scotland

"The other day when I went to work with the hubby"

Oooh! Was it welcomed? Did you have a little flirt back?

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By *ongandthick888Man
3 days ago

Leeds

"Someone flirted with you out in the real world?

Was it welcomed?

How did it end? "

Yesterday. It was welcomed initially. Got tiresome quickly. Eventually they left my table.

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By *weetspicycoupleCouple
3 days ago

sussex

(wife)

I honestly wouldn't have a clue.

I dont think anyone has 😅🤷‍♀️

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By *iny11111Man
3 days ago

here and there

"Damn!

We need to start a class on how to spot when you're being flirted with."

I will sign up

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By *onin25Man
3 days ago

Durham

The woman at Tesco self checkout checking that I was old enough to buy alcohol might have been flirting earlier. Either way I was not flirting back.

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By *tsAmiiWoman
3 days ago

Mevagissey

Not a clue... I am told i often come across flirty, but I'm just being 'normal'...

I don't think i pick up on flirting, or if i do I feel so awkward and surprised and ... Anyhow, I blush and continue to be awkward

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By *tsAmiiWoman
3 days ago

Mevagissey

"Damn!

We need to start a class on how to spot when you're being flirted with.

I will sign up "

I would like to attend too

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By *Effy- OP Woman
3 days ago

Scotland

"The woman at Tesco self checkout checking that I was old enough to buy alcohol might have been flirting earlier. Either way I was not flirting back. "

Ahh the old "you don't look old enough" trick.

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By *dstefiMan
3 days ago

Solihull

Threads like this just make me wonder if I'm an unacknowledged (even by myself) expert in this. I'm never in any doubt. Flirting is fun. Doesn't lead to sex most of the time but it's the what-if element that's where the fun is.

Men's problem is being focussed on the goal and the endpoint of guaranteed sex. That very rarely happens, nice when it does but if it's the only goal you're doomed to a lot of disappointment. Take flirting as a bit of self-affirming fun and you'll be way more on the same page as women and occasionally the spark will catch flame and it'll happen.

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By *aphunterMan
3 days ago

horsham

Last time was my mates funeral with an old girlfriend. Nothing happened, just reaffirmed we like each other. Was really nice for us both

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By *Effy- OP Woman
3 days ago

Scotland

"Threads like this just make me wonder if I'm an unacknowledged (even by myself) expert in this. I'm never in any doubt. Flirting is fun. Doesn't lead to sex most of the time but it's the what-if element that's where the fun is.

I think people can misinterpret flirting for being friendly, it's easily done.

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By *cott45hullMan
3 days ago

Hull

I’m a flirt which is mad as when I was single I never was.

I think being married takes the pressure off as the flirting is just for fun really whereas when single it was about getting a girlfriend

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By *Effy- OP Woman
3 days ago

Scotland

"Last time was my mates funeral with an old girlfriend. Nothing happened, just reaffirmed we like each other. Was really nice for us both"

Honestly, funerals are depressing so I'm glad you managed to find some enjoyment 😅

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By *KTim61Man
3 days ago

Tipton

It's been that long ago . . . . . . .

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By *dstefiMan
3 days ago

Solihull

I think people can misinterpret flirting for being friendly, it's easily done. "

You mean men? Sure. Because most don't know how to flirt because they expect entitlement.

I know what it is and I love it.

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By *rchie300Man
3 days ago

Hamworthy

An old fling recently started flirting with me on Thursday

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
3 days ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Crumbs, I have a massive personal space when I'm in normal day mode, so.... maybe 10 years ago? And of course, I didn't respond, because I was married.

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By *uzzybearMan
3 days ago

Loughborough

I’m hopeless at detecting flirting, I just think everyone is just being nice.

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By *aughty_guy12Man
3 days ago

Cambridgeshire

Last night in the pub.

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By *oeBeansMan
3 days ago

Derby

I don't mean to brag... But the lady in the coffee shop totally said Hi to me earlier 😏

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By *ucecdTV/TS
3 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

2 weeks ago in male mode ended in passionate kissing with a beautiful women, not confusing at all 😂

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By *ools and the brainCouple
3 days ago

couple, us we him her.

"Someone flirted with you out in the real world?

Was it welcomed?

How did it end? "

Dunno wouldn't have a clue

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By *akamineMan
3 days ago

Glasgow

A long time ago, in a galaxy far far away…

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
3 days ago

In a galaxy far far away

"A long time ago, in a galaxy far far away…"

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By *eggy 70Couple
3 days ago

Romford

Today. Just what I needed for

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By *enuine_J87Man
3 days ago

Eastleigh

Nearly exactly 20 years ago, I dated her and fell in live, she wasn’t ready ready for that type of life unfortunately. Genuinely have not seen any flirting since

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By *aphunterMan
3 days ago

horsham

"Last time was my mates funeral with an old girlfriend. Nothing happened, just reaffirmed we like each other. Was really nice for us both

Honestly, funerals are depressing so I'm glad you managed to find some enjoyment 😅"

They are Effy, a place you never want to return to but the wakes can be a lively place catching up with people who you miss and like. We get one life and they are a reminder to make sure you get out there. We are friends after splitting up years ago, she said I thought you might have wanted to stay over at ours (she married my mate) so I enjoyed saying I thought you’d never ask 😘. People who you have known for a very long time are just the best.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
3 days ago

Liverpool

The assistant in Specsavers told me I had gorgeous long lashes last week. Shortly afterwards, I spend in excess of £600 in there.

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By *ew2buryMan
3 days ago

Forums.

What's flirting ?

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By *unxxx9911Man
3 days ago

Redhill

Someone at work after too many drinks a few weeks ago… felt great, but too dangerous!!!

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By *reamcaramelWoman
3 days ago

Port Talbot

Last night in the pub. Ended up playing cards with a group of 19-21 year olds.. had a great laugh and there was definitely some chemistry between one and myself

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By *Effy- OP Woman
3 days ago

Scotland

"I don't mean to brag... But the lady in the coffee shop totally said Hi to me earlier 😏"

Did she touch your hand while giving you change as well?

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By *umbleweed.Man
3 days ago

Naas

The cashier in Tesco admiring my basket of healthy food,the contents of which must remain private 😂

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By *oeBeansMan
3 days ago

Derby

"I don't mean to brag... But the lady in the coffee shop totally said Hi to me earlier 😏

Did she touch your hand while giving you change as well? "

Well now that you mention it... No 😞

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By *WB85Man
3 days ago

Staffordshire

Honestly....no idea.

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By *Effy- OP Woman
3 days ago

Scotland

"The cashier in Tesco admiring my basket of healthy food,the contents of which must remain private 😂"

Cucumber, Aubergine and carrots? Been there.

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By *orksguy1965Man
3 days ago

Howden

Too long ago 😪

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
3 days ago

Bot Farm

Last Monday. I left my work late and made a brief stop for a cold beer. So hot. A strange guy approached to tell me I was beautiful, but then I realised he was following me home in the dark. Scaring, more harassment than flirting. I have to ask him to leave. No, no real flirting for a while. Colleagues are brutal and men here are charming liars.

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By *Effy- OP Woman
3 days ago

Scotland

"What's flirting ? "

I think it's where you stare at them with a twitchy eye from the other side of the room.

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By *ision21Man
3 days ago

Newcastle Under Lyme

"Someone flirted with you out in the real world?

Was it welcomed?

How did it end? "

I get a lot more flirts in real life and one was yesterday.

On here is tragic.

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By *umbleweed.Man
3 days ago

Naas

"The cashier in Tesco admiring my basket of healthy food,the contents of which must remain private 😂

Cucumber, Aubergine and carrots? Been there."
😉

😂

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By *actile TensionMan
3 days ago

Sussex

About a month ago at a medieval reenactment.

It went ok, just enjoyed the moment.

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By *ew2buryMan
3 days ago

Forums.

"What's flirting ?

I think it's where you stare at them with a twitchy eye from the other side of the room."
👍🏻 two days ago, opticians. Before that, soz months ago, opticians. Minxes there.

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By *merald_VelvetWoman
3 days ago

Nottingham

I'm firmly team "hard to tell" haha

The day I met my last girlfriend, she spent the entire evening of a busy, fun social event sat in a dark corner chatting with me, walked me to the train station, gave me her number and told me to let her know I got home safe, then sent me some (fantastic) erotic poetry she'd written. I STILL had to ask a friend if they thought she was flirting with me

Not the last time someone flirted with me, but an excellent demonstration of what a dumbass I can be

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By *reya73Woman
2 days ago

Whitley Bay

Ahh I had a gorgeous one recently with a flirty dance tent connection. He flirted .. I flirted back then kaboom!

Vibes, danced, snogged, had deep chats and serious chemistry.. a mini love fest festi hook up - on the first night. Then bumped into him on the last night too. So good. Totally organic and freaky sexy fun as well as fully beautiful!

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By *Effy- OP Woman
2 days ago

Scotland

"Ahh I had a gorgeous one recently with a flirty dance tent connection. He flirted .. I flirted back then kaboom!

I love this 😍

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By *eorge AtazderMan
2 days ago

Old Street 3rd/4th July

Never happens out there 🤷‍♂️

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By *relanddirectMan
2 days ago

cheshire & london

Tonight and it’s been fun! But she was flirting as she wanted something that I’m not in a space to want or need. A relationship so here I am x it is lovely though to enjoy flirting both ways

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By *relanddirectMan
2 days ago

cheshire & london

By the way OP ! Wow just wow lol

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
2 days ago

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Long time ago but happy for a little flirt here id anyone is interested

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex

It was so long ago that I honestly can't remember.

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By *inxy777Woman
2 days ago

essex

That long ago, I don’t remember! 🤦‍♀️🤣

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By *Effy- OP Woman
2 days ago

Scotland

"By the way OP ! Wow just wow lol"

Are you flirting with me?

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By *lder budweiserMan
2 days ago

Stirlingshire

I've still got absolutely zero radar for telling if someone is flirting with me, cost me big time in my late teens and early twenties

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By *relanddirectMan
2 days ago

cheshire & london

Without a doubt!

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By *mf123Man
2 days ago

with one foot out the door

Probly thursday at work i was a total pro and didnt boink her in the anus

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
2 days ago

Maidstone

I can tell if someone's flirting. They don't. No one flirts with a fat 50+ menopausal woman who is plain as they come.

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By *hellebelleWoman
2 days ago

ashford

I literally don’t cotton on with that flirting thing.. someone would need to be very blatant and tell me otherwise I just think they are being friendly and nice

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By *ampireLoveMan
2 days ago

Essex

"I can tell if someone's flirting. They don't. No one flirts with a fat 50+ menopausal woman who is plain as they come. "

Yes they do! What you may see as plain may not be what others see

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By *Effy- OP Woman
2 days ago

Scotland

"Probly thursday at work i was a total pro and didnt boink her in the anus"

That's good. Getting caught giving a coworker anal is probably written warning territory.

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By *rdenites2Couple
2 days ago

Leicestershire

Last week, our daughter’s mother in law.

Gave me a squeeze too.

Sure they are clandestine swingers.

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By *aw83Man
2 days ago

gateshead

I wouldn’t know if someone was just generally chatting or flirting 🤣🤣

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By *og and MuseCouple
2 days ago

Dubai & Nottingham

About 2 years ago I worked in Cebu City for a while, the women are notorious for flirting and approaching western men, it's nice to get that kind of attention, a huge growing smile, lots of eye contact and a series of very direct questions leading to are you single.

In the uk I get the occasional man come on to me

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By *delight1997Man
2 days ago

Torquay

Happend 2 days ago from a friend who just come back down my way

It was unusual as I wasn't expecting it

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By *akedOrangeMan
2 days ago

Oxford

This week. At work, a colleague and I know we both want it but we wont because it could cause issues at work should anyone find out. So we will continue to flirt

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By *mf123Man
2 days ago

with one foot out the door

"Probly thursday at work i was a total pro and didnt boink her in the anus

That's good. Getting caught giving a coworker anal is probably written warning territory. "
its not the getting court that worries me its them wanting more im trying to be retired from the boinks

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By *yprusdreamWoman
2 days ago

Cyprus

"Someone flirted with you out in the real world?

Was it welcomed?

How did it end? "

Tonight in work

No, it definitely wasn't welcomed, nothing worse than d*unk guys pawing at you when you're working.

Ended with me telling him to keep his hands to himself or he'd be out on his ear

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By *oubleswing2019Man
2 days ago

Colchester

I wouldn't give such signals myself as it's rude and predatory, so I don't anticipate such signals from others instead as I expect them to know its rude and predatory as well. The last woman who did flirt with me some years ago, I called out her predatory behaviour.

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By *lumber1Man
2 days ago

cork

About a year ago doing a job in a house in her bathroom room,I kinda knew she liked me but that's all.but I got paid first and then fucked her

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By *obra 327Man
2 days ago

Bromley

I’m bloody clueless when it comes to flirting if they are coming on to me

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By *elboy1978Man
2 days ago

Jarrow

I don’t know when someone is flirting with me

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By *ike_Herts_01Man
2 days ago

St Ives

My memory is not that good!

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By *antsman22Man
2 days ago

Hampshire

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By *antsman22Man
2 days ago

Hampshire

Never sure

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
2 days ago

Bot Farm

Note to myself (Remember not share personal real life events on here)

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By *sWyldWoman
2 days ago

Edinburgh

Its not something that happens

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By *ibesandVariety2.0Couple
2 days ago

Edinburgh

Never happens.

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By *he MinionMan
2 days ago

Surrey

"Someone flirted with you out in the real world? "
Yesterday at a BBQ.

" Was it welcomed? "
Yes

" How did it end? "
I think it mat be a case of "To be continued"

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By *gent CoulsonMan
2 days ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I can't remember the last time someone flirted with me in public

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By *he MinionMan
2 days ago

Surrey

"I can't remember the last time someone flirted with me in public "

I hear you are too much of a gentleman in public to be flirted with

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 days ago

Coventry

This morning at 8:15am in motorway services on m40

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By *aked beachMan
2 days ago

Just A Stranger In A Strange Land.

Really can’t remember the last time, but then I haven’t in a very long time either.

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By *inja 636Man
2 days ago

Grays

During the war

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By *ew2buryMan
2 days ago

Forums.

"This morning at 8:15am in motorway services on m40 "
that's too early for flirt. I hope you'd at least had a coffee 😂

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 days ago

Coventry

"This morning at 8:15am in motorway services on m40 that's too early for flirt. I hope you'd at least had a coffee 😂"

Guy commented on my boobs half hanging out while I was getting cold drinks. Tried a few smooth lines on me

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By *oung bull2026Man
2 days ago

london

"This morning at 8:15am in motorway services on m40 that's too early for flirt. I hope you'd at least had a coffee 😂

Guy commented on my boobs half hanging out while I was getting cold drinks. Tried a few smooth lines on me

I’d love to see that 😂

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By *sianpearlWoman
2 days ago

swindon

Most times I go out but is it them flirting with me or me flirting with them?

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
2 days ago

Gloucestershire

Probably sometime back in the 1990's ... I am useless at knowing if someone is flirting with me and far too shy to initiate flirting myself

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By *oung bull2026Man
2 days ago

london

"Probably sometime back in the 1990's ... I am useless at knowing if someone is flirting with me and far too shy to initiate flirting myself"

Would love a flirt with you

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By *ew1231000Man
2 days ago

Hullbridge, Essex

"Most times I go out but is it them flirting with me or me flirting with them?"

Would love a flirt with you 😏

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
2 days ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

No clue lol

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By *oung bull2026Man
2 days ago

london

"No clue lol"

Your profile name doesn’t say that lol

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By *007ManMan
2 days ago

Worthing

Young lady coffee barista said she liked my shirt. Not flirting as such but at my age, any comment like that is welcome!

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By *he DivilmentMan
2 days ago

gort and surrounding areas in galway city a lot

Seems we are useless at detecting flirting 🫦 😏

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By *ineapplePixieCouple
2 days ago

Your to do list

Wouldn't even know 😅✨️

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By *lubchuckerMan
2 days ago

South Oxfordshire

I can't remember the last time somebody openly flirted with me, or it could be i just don't read the signs well.

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By *Effy- OP Woman
2 days ago

Scotland

"Note to myself (Remember not share personal real life events on here) "

You can just make it up, no one will know.

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By *irthandgirthMan
2 days ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I was having dinner with a friend the other night and a gentleman complimented my shirt. Does that count.

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By *ydaz70Man
2 days ago

Rotherham /newquay

"I can’t detect flirting so haven’t a clue "
I'm same apparently

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By *attledogMan
2 days ago

Hull

I struggle to notice the signs

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By *ympho6969Woman
2 days ago

glasgow

Rarely happens in the real world.

For all those men on dating sites, and even on here who love a larger woman, it never seems to materialise for me in the real world.

Good enough to fuck but nothing else. Or maybe its the stigma on men being seen as "chubby chasers" to their mates so they follow the mold.

Whatever it is, I've accepted it so don't even expect to be flirted with now. I gave up on dating years ago, so no big loss there anyway

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 days ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A couple of Saturdays ago when I was out in Leeds in glam mode. I had both a lad and a lass flirting with me in different bars

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By *Effy- OP Woman
2 days ago

Scotland

"I wouldn't give such signals myself as it's rude and predatory, so I don't anticipate such signals from others instead as I expect them to know its rude and predatory as well. The last woman who did flirt with me some years ago, I called out her predatory behaviour."

That's one way of looking at it

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By *heJam84Man
2 days ago

Manchester

i wish i new if someone was flirting with me. i dont think people look at me and if they were flirting i'd have no idea unless they showed me

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
2 days ago

Rochester, Kent

Clearly there’s not enough flirting going on in the world.

Either that, or we’re all terrible at it.

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By *urpleburgularalarmMan
2 days ago

nowhere, next to neverbeenthere

I have no idea, i need a slap to the face and told im being flirted with to realise its happening🤦 in real life that is

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By *etwife8230Couple
2 days ago

Newport

Last week getting fuel

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By *ifelover999Man
2 days ago

Eastbourne

About 1993

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By *eliWoman
2 days ago

Earlier today.

Not welcomed as such but it was harmless. He overheard me talking and said I should get in to traffic control blah blah.

It ended with me saying haha, aww, that's very sweet and walking away.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 days ago

Chester

"Someone flirted with you out in the real world?

Was it welcomed?

How did it end? "

It's never happened to me... Unless you count my first husband back in 1992

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By *ew2buryMan
2 days ago

Forums.

"Note to myself (Remember not share personal real life events on here)

You can just make it up, no one will know."

Guy commented on my boobs half hanging out while I was getting cold drinks at the services. Tried a few smooth lines on me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 days ago

Carlisle usually

I think last Sunday since that was the last time I was out being actively social instead of just spending time directly with friends and partners.

It was nice but I wasn't really out to pull, so I disengaged fairly quickly 💜

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By *DirtyGentMan
2 days ago

Barnsley

Im like most here, could never tell if someone's flirting....so now I just tell myself everyone is, never miss an oppotunity then 🤣

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By *addy bareMan
2 days ago

southend

Gotta be years now.

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By *earditallWoman
2 days ago

Lancaster

"Someone flirted with you out in the real world?

Was it welcomed?

How did it end? "

Last night

A random guy carried my case up 2 flights if stairs at my hotel he was another guest.

Not great spoke to him a couple of times but declined the number exchange.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 days ago

Reading

A workman the other week. But he was married so I didn't respond.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
2 days ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Friday night, albeit he was absolutely wasted. Walked past my friends and I having a chat outside a pub in Cardiff, started serenading me then leant over the barrier to grab my hand and broke it. Then the bouncer shooed him off.

2/10 would not recommend.

(Not sure if that’s classed as flirting or just a normal Friday night in Cardiff)

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By *Effy- OP Woman
2 days ago

Scotland

"Friday night, albeit he was absolutely wasted. Walked past my friends and I having a chat outside a pub in Cardiff, started serenading me then leant over the barrier to grab my hand and broke it. Then the bouncer shooed him off.

2/10 would not recommend.

(Not sure if that’s classed as flirting or just a normal Friday night in Cardiff)"

Your hand or the barrier?!!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
2 days ago

My boudoir - S Wales

2/10 would not recommend.

(Not sure if that’s classed as flirting or just a normal Friday night in Cardiff)

Your hand or the barrier?!!"

Oh, the barrier 😂 not my hand he didn’t get that far

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By *Effy- OP Woman
2 days ago

Scotland

2/10 would not recommend.

(Not sure if that’s classed as flirting or just a normal Friday night in Cardiff)

Your hand or the barrier?!!

Oh, the barrier 😂 not my hand he didn’t get that far"

Jesus, I was worried for a second there 🤣

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By *heElvingtonTwoCouple
2 days ago

The Ramtops

"Someone flirted with you out in the real world?

Was it welcomed?

How did it end? "

To my knowledge never

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By *pen2UMan
2 days ago

Telford

Honestly? I'm fucked when it comes with social cues so I have absolutely no idea when the last time someone flirted with me

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By *odStuart69Man
2 days ago

North East

Wife's friend 10 years ago

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
2 days ago

Telford

I can't even remember tbh, don't think it ever has happened.

I'm also incredibly oblivious to this sort of thing, so chances are I might have missed it.

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 days ago

Ankh-Morpork

My butcher Friday morning, but he’s also on fab and always doubles down on the banter

“I’ve got some nice plump breasts”

“what about some thick butchers sausages? I heard you like a nice juicy sausage”

“Lovely bit of rump”

It’s utterly meaningless. However out in the wild, I’ve no fucking clue and can’t really tell.

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By *arierWoman
2 days ago

birmingham

Never happens.

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By *arierWoman
2 days ago

birmingham

"Never happens. "

But then it’s rare I venture out unless I’m going to work

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By *owmanytimesMan
2 days ago

derby

The sign up for a monthly direct debit for charity lady was very flirty up until I’d committed my bank details, after that I think she got bored

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
2 days ago

Bognor Regis

I honestly can't remember.

It's been a very long time I know that much.

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By *ivorced123Man
2 days ago

port

Unless the cues are in flashing neon lights I wouldn’t have a scooby do! I need a full time interpreter to accompany me in all real world situations

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By *andcruiser50Man
2 days ago

Kendal

I was asked by a work friend to put suncream on his wife'sback at a barbecue last week, I did her shoulders under her bra strap and I was doing her legs when my hand slipped up too high and onto her bum under her shorts, I apologised for being too energetic, she said don't apologise but do the other cheek as well

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By *ee04Man
2 days ago

Essex

I’m not great at detecting it, I just think people are being friendly

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 days ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Yesterday he got off the tram too soon and was hoping to make it to Waverley for his train..he had zero chance to make it. So I told him to check the ticket as he might could catch another train or it might be passing by Edinburgh park which he might could catch.

Should have gotten his number as no male here interacts outside of their keyboard

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By *radie73Man
2 days ago

Aberdeen

I was out about 6 weeks ago with mates and ended up sitting at a table with a couple of ladies . If my mates hadn’t been there who knows . Lol.

I also think I get only really well with lady customers but wouldn’t never try anything incase I get the wrong signal . I once was finishing a job on a Friday a few year back and the lady of the house told me she had a night out and was going for a bath upstairs . I’m sure the door wasn’t closed properly . Her husband was away on business . Too scared .Lol

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By *urry BlokeMan
2 days ago

Years and years, over a decade at least

Mind you, I don't go out much and I don't drink or frequent bars or clubs, so the opportunities for it are severely limited

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By *smith87Man
2 days ago

totton

Id think I was dreaming. I have ADHD and autism so lots think I flirt but I just be honest

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By *wcoMan
2 days ago

West Midlands

"Someone flirted with you out in the real world?

Was it welcomed?

How did it end? "

Probably my new HR manager last week.

Then she told my CEO everything I said. She was on a fishing exercise because I'm in the middle of a dispute with the company.

It turned out OK because a; I didn't say anything too bad and b; at least I've sussed them out and I now know the score.

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By *tannersMan
2 days ago

stanley

Just before Christmas. A work friend’s sister who was quite tipsy. I just played it with a straight bat, mainly out of respect for my friend.

The flirtee got a bollocking off her sister the day after though.

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
2 days ago

someplace

Yesterday, multiple times but I only kissed one

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By *egDayEnthusiastMan
2 days ago

NorthWest

I don't know but must have been years ago

So to answer the second question, I don't remember 😂

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By *otsociminMan
2 days ago

Walsall

Hand oh heart honestly cant remember most woman dont give me a second look so it seems.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
2 days ago

Ilfracombe

Sometime in July 1980

I ended up courting him for two years and married for 22 years.

After that I am not taking any changes of getting flirty with anyone. X

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS
2 days ago

middlesbrough

I couldn’t detect if anyone was flirting with me if they had a billboard saying so , but my mrs says I’m quite flirty in general ( I just think I’m trying to be polite )

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By *adyBugsWoman
2 days ago

not local even if it says I am

How do I know if it’s flirting, banter or just genuinely saying something nice?

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
2 days ago

West Devon

I never know if someone is flirting with me/us or tactfully inviting us to play within the lifestyle. I need it spelt out in neon lights and wouldn't stand a chance in the real world 🤣

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By *ister_EMan
2 days ago

Hayling Island

My current partners started chatting to me on a nude beach...

She onvited me back to theirs for a drink and then she explained to me that they were a cuckold couple and wanted to know if I was interested.......

Not sure if that counts as "flirting" or "real world" though, so I'll let the forum decide?

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
2 days ago

Stockport

Well the clue is in our user name

We love to flirt , and apparently were great at it

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By *4bimMan
2 days ago

Farnborough Hampshire

I missed it completely.

Had no idea. Oh well

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By *ntraditional_GentMan
1 day ago

Leicestershire

I genuinely think it was about two decades ago, but I might be that bad at noticing.

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By *ornygothukMan
1 day ago

Burnley

Last night! I was at a gig, and a 66 y/o woman told me “if she was 40 years younger…”

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