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By *arylR OP   Man
2 weeks ago

East

Just trying to gauge opinions here, there seems to be a lot of straight men who wear lingerie and I was wondering how many worn and/or couples like this?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t x

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By *parklingeclipseWoman
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I have had quite a few messages from straight guys who like to wear lingerie.

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By *arylR OP   Man
2 weeks ago

East


"I have had quite a few messages from straight guys who like to wear lingerie. "

And what did you think, or reply?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
2 weeks ago

Kent

Not my cuppa tea x

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Not my kink, although I’ve enjoyed ripping fishnet before now.

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By *inkShyWoman
2 weeks ago

near Windsor

Not a fan myself. Each to their own though.

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

I m bi and I cross dress

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By *hortieWoman
2 weeks ago

Northampton

Not for me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I wouldn't feel sexually serious about a man in women's underwear.

I've had partners put them on while we shriek laughing but never part of sex .

And if they donned female characteristics i'd be out of there like a flash

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

I’ve realised it’s not for me. Used to enjoy it occasionally, but when it becomes their whole personality and kink, not so much.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Sorry, its a no from me.

Mrs.

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By *loryHoleSBMan
2 weeks ago

Malton

There seems to be a lot of 'straight' men who dress in women's underwear... interestingly women don't seem to have the need or inclination to do this with mens underwear (I am sure there are exceptions to this too). There is something I think deep rooted in the psychology of this behaviour. Not enough space here to unpack. It's the same as Public sex environments I worked in this environment in community safety roles and over 12 years the stats consistently showed, 8 out of 10 men were straight but having sex with men (MSM)...married or in heterosexual relationships or very few single but identified as straight. Again many seemed to cross dress. It perhaps demonstrates societies restrictions on men being able to explore broader boundaries of sexualities.

It's been an observation and my view over some years ...

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
2 weeks ago

Hampshire

It's not for me...

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
2 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Sorry it is also a no from me

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By *weetiepie99Woman
2 weeks ago

cardiff

Absolutely no

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By *hitehorsefunCouple
2 weeks ago

Wantage

Firmly no

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Speaking as a masculine and definitely not sissy or feminine bisexual man who crossdresses, I've been fortunate to know a few women who while they aren't into it as a primary fetish, nevertheless accept that it's a thing that turbocharges my libido.

If I feel sexy, and I do in lingerie, I'm more readily turned on and actually become more assertive (I hesitate to use the word dominant because of the BDSM overtones) and simply down to fuck.

I totally get that many people can't get past the gender roles they grew up with including clothing and no criticism there; you can't make anyone like what doesn't do it for them. But when you find somebody that does, naturally and openly, the sparks will fly.

As I say, I've been lucky.

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By *riel13Woman
2 weeks ago

Northampton

Depends on the man

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

I tell TheHusband to wear my knickers when we go out sometimes 😈

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By *atangMan
2 weeks ago

bolton

luv men in lingerie

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By *atangMan
2 weeks ago

bolton

i would for you

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
2 weeks ago

North West


"Speaking as a masculine and definitely not sissy or feminine bisexual man who crossdresses, I've been fortunate to know a few women who while they aren't into it as a primary fetish, nevertheless accept that it's a thing that turbocharges my libido.

If I feel sexy, and I do in lingerie, I'm more readily turned on and actually become more assertive (I hesitate to use the word dominant because of the BDSM overtones) and simply down to fuck.

I totally get that many people can't get past the gender roles they grew up with including clothing and no criticism there; you can't make anyone like what doesn't do it for them. But when you find somebody that does, naturally and openly, the sparks will fly.

As I say, I've been lucky. "

This is spot-on! What a brilliant way of putting it - perfectly sums it up

E

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By *arylR OP   Man
2 weeks ago

East

Some really good points of view and opinions here 👍

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

No not for me.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
2 weeks ago

Niche

No thank you

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By *sm265Woman
2 weeks ago

Perthshire

To each their own, but it's not something I find appealing at all.

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By *parklingeclipseWoman
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"I have had quite a few messages from straight guys who like to wear lingerie.

And what did you think, or reply?"

I have no problem with it whatsoever. Sometimes theyve sent me photos because I think they wanted to show someone. One person messages me regularly because he feels its secretive.

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By *uicyboobiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Newtownbutler

No massive turn off for me.

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By *lwayslooking22Man
2 weeks ago

newcastle

Love to be fucked in lingerie or bi mmf all dressed

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By *atinaChica54Woman
2 weeks ago

Marlborough


"To each their own, but it's not something I find appealing at all."

This ⬆️

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By *shford_5Man
2 weeks ago

Ashford

I love being in sexy stockings and panties for a man and of course totally understand others who do also but I like to be the only one dressed

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By *ccasionallyNaughtyWoman
2 weeks ago

Nearby

Doesn't do anything for me but each to their own

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By *carlettsWoman
2 weeks ago

Harpenden

Not for me in any way shape or form but everyone is different and we all like different things

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By *hunderaceMan
2 weeks ago

Dudley


"I don’t x"

Godammit Nora I've always wanted to get into yours...😈

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By *hinstrapMan
2 weeks ago

sheffield

Does this mean I have to shave my legs?

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By *airofthongsCouple
2 weeks ago

here

Only time I have squirted is when my hubby was dressed in my hold-ups n thong x

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By *arzanandJane2016Couple
2 weeks ago

the big city

I’m guilty of wearing hubby’s boxers to bed occasional but if he was to come out in my g string and stockings it would be sorry love not to tonight I’ve got a headache.

It’s a no from me

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By *ayKellyMan
2 weeks ago

Kinross

I've been told a few times that I have more effeminate shaped legs than many females and a feminine body shape.

Although it's mostly men that say this.

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By *arylR OP   Man
2 weeks ago

East


"Only time I have squirted is when my hubby was dressed in my hold-ups n thong x"

Oh I wish x

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By *t2012Woman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

I love hubby in a lacy thong but only every so often if he was doing it regularly would have to tell him to stop

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By *penminded7Man
2 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Always hot to see

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By *arylR OP   Man
2 weeks ago

East


"I've been told a few times that I have more effeminate shaped legs than many females and a feminine body shape.

Although it's mostly men that say this."

Not bad at all looking at your pics, my wife says I have a great pair of legs as well

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland

I don't like it when they look better than me wearing it!!

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"I don't like it when they look better than me wearing it!!"

Haha this too

Cotopaxi and those heels - not jealous at all! 😤

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

Each to their own but not my thing

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland


"I don't like it when they look better than me wearing it!!

Haha this too

Cotopaxi and those heels - not jealous at all! 😤"

Omg yes! I'd love to know how he makes it look so effortless 🙄

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
2 weeks ago

London

Never done it before. I probably have the legs and arse for it though. I could catfish people. Surprise!

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By *ee1967Man
2 weeks ago

rickmansworth

I occasionally wear it. I'm six foot three and I've got very long legs, so I've been told I look very good in stockings and suspenders.

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By *iker34Man
2 weeks ago

east lothian

Love wearing them

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By *viatrixCouple
2 weeks ago

Gatwick

The biggest of turnoffs for me.

All respect for those who enjoy it though!

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By *adyBugsWoman
2 weeks ago

not local even if it says I am

It depends on the person wearing it. It’s going to be about the person rather than what they are wearing but I do have one or two males on my hot list who look fucking incredible in lingerie or heels. One in particular I’d love to meet sometime 😈

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By *aked beachMan
2 weeks ago

Just A Stranger In A Strange Land.


"I don't like it when they look better than me wearing it!!"

An ex GF asked me to try once, sex was scandalously sensational, and it wasn’t particularly bad generally. Asked me a second time, again the sex was out of this world. The 3rd time she asked was a little less enthusiastic. She said I looked better in lingerie and stockings than she did (she was right, I did), didn’t do it again.

Not on my to do list now.

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By *arylR OP   Man
2 weeks ago

East


"I don't like it when they look better than me wearing it!!"

No chance if that happening 😉

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By *arylR OP   Man
2 weeks ago

East


"I don't like it when they look better than me wearing it!!

Haha this too

Cotopaxi and those heels - not jealous at all! 😤

Omg yes! I'd love to know how he makes it look so effortless 🙄"

I saw what you meant, but no chance of that happening to you either, especially not with those killer curves of yours 😜

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
2 weeks ago

Bot Farm

Hot, but no bra please

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By *arylR OP   Man
2 weeks ago

East


"Hot, but no bra please "

Definitely agree with this x

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bedfuck

Fine by me, if he's inblack, white, red and pink panties covering a nice cock and smooth balls.

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By *arylR OP   Man
2 weeks ago

East


"Fine by me, if he's inblack, white, red and pink panties covering a nice cock and smooth balls."

I like your style 😉

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By *igjohn78Man
2 weeks ago

lincoln

I do in and love the feelings of it on my skin

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By *otopaxiMan
2 weeks ago

nostalgia


"I don't like it when they look better than me wearing it!!

Haha this too

Cotopaxi and those heels - not jealous at all! 😤

Omg yes! I'd love to know how he makes it look so effortless 🙄"

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
2 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"Just trying to gauge opinions here, there seems to be a lot of straight men who wear lingerie and I was wondering how many worn and/or couples like this?"

I do, but I hang out with the LGBTQIA+ community in kink and fetish events and parties.

I'm a switch and I tie men in rope bondage and I appreciate seeing men in a more vulnerable but expressive sexual position.

Two Sundays ago I watched a straight couple play in rope bondage. First he tied her up and then she tied him up. It was nice to see. He actually spent longer in the rope than she did and she undressed him more. Sometimes in Shibari..the rope is the lingerie.

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
2 weeks ago

East Anglia

I love my man in a pair of stockings occassionaly

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By *ndi LiteMan
2 weeks ago

Huby

I might have a slight kink for all things lingerie...😳🤔😅

Since being a teenager I've always had an admiration for ladies in lingerie. The only place to view back then was mum's catalogues!

Gf's gladly dressed up for me and I loved it... the look and the feel.

In my early 30's I got in from a night out with an ex and put on her knickers for a laugh and found it a massive turn on... things just grew from there.. literally!

I don't dress to look or act feminine (I wouldn't be able to pull it off anyway ha) just love how it feels. Don't need to wear to have fun/get turned on and obviously it's only fun if all enjoy it.

A guy in lingerie is not to everyone's taste. I find it much easier to chat with people on this site about it. I've had some great conversations with some people not into yet are still a little intrigued about the how and when it came about.

Always happy to answer any questions x

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By *azjaMan
2 weeks ago

Swindon -Algarve

Very sexy

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By *s24youCouple
2 weeks ago

here

Have no issue with guys in lingerie xx why should it just be for women x

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By *nlyliveonce69Man
2 weeks ago

carlisle

Think I getting old lol

I cannot think men in stocking etc

And saying straight men in same sentence.

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By *arylR OP   Man
2 weeks ago

East


"I love my man in a pair of stockings occassionaly"

They certainly add to the legs x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Coventry


"Think I getting old lol

I cannot think men in stocking etc

And saying straight men in same sentence.

"

Ironically it’s statistically more straight men like lingerie. As it stems from child hood visions of older women

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By *arylR OP   Man
2 weeks ago

East


"Have no issue with guys in lingerie xx why should it just be for women x"

Totally agree, although I don’t think I’d fit in your latest undies 🤣

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By *unhunter 71Man
2 weeks ago

Luton

I’m bi and love wearing lingerie

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By *heekycppl2016Couple
2 weeks ago

Worthing

We like it, sometimes wig and make up also xx

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By *unhunter 71Man
2 weeks ago

Luton


"We like it, sometimes wig and make up also xx"
i did that sometimes with my ex she would do my makeup

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By *ature SSBBW Lover 69Man
2 weeks ago

exeter

It’s something I love ti do either when just in my own or if women or course les also like me wearing it , feels so sexy and horny and love how it feels and looks on me

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By *ornyguy666Man
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

Fuck no straight man never do that

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By *oobieTrapCouple
2 weeks ago

london

Not in the slightest but interested in fem boys

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By *oobieTrapCouple
2 weeks ago

london


"Fuck no straight man never do that "

Right as if!

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By *ncognitoGirlWoman
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Hot 🥵

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By *eekfreek00Man
2 weeks ago

Balbriggan

Love wearing her knickers as I fuck my ass with my huge dildo

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By *DirtyGentMan
2 weeks ago

Barnsley

I do it for women who like it, not necessarily cos I like it, live n let live

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

No, don't like it.

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By *fnmdudeMan
2 weeks ago

St.Helier

Just my opinion but if a straight man wears lingerie, I don't think he's straight.

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By *anielleCD94TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

As someone who does it, I can enjoy it on other men too if I were meeting someone.

I get lots of messages from 'straight' men whose first message includes pictures of them dressed in something or other.

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By *aked beachMan
2 weeks ago

Just A Stranger In A Strange Land.


"Just my opinion but if a straight man wears lingerie, I don't think he's straight."

How so, please explain…

I mean we might also say Guys who are sub to women, are ordered about and wear a cock cage aren’t real Men and therefore aren’t straight.

Just a thought

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By *fnmdudeMan
2 weeks ago

St.Helier


"Just my opinion but if a straight man wears lingerie, I don't think he's straight.

How so, please explain…

I mean we might also say Guys who are sub to women, are ordered about and wear a cock cage aren’t real Men and therefore aren’t straight.

Just a thought "

Wearing women's clothes and wearing a cock cage are to very different things.

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire


"I do it for women who like it, not necessarily cos I like it, live n let live"
.. i wouldnt do it for women who like it

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By *arylR OP   Man
2 weeks ago

East


"I do it for women who like it, not necessarily cos I like it, live n let live.. i wouldnt do it for women who like it "

I wonder if the lady could change your mind with some very appealing promises?

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By *nlyliveonce69Man
2 weeks ago

carlisle


"Just my opinion but if a straight man wears lingerie, I don't think he's straight."

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By *ncognitoGirlWoman
1 week ago

Liverpool


"Just my opinion but if a straight man wears lingerie, I don't think he's straight."

Clothes don’t determine sexuality, my guy.

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By *arylR OP   Man
1 week ago

East


"Just my opinion but if a straight man wears lingerie, I don't think he's straight.

Clothes don’t determine sexuality, my guy. "

Well said 👏

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By *agic fingers 44Man
1 week ago

London

Clothes don't make you straight gay or bi yet it seems that most of the men that do are gay or bi and those thst meet tvs and say they're straight, no you are not. It's a man in lingerie.

It's that simple.. Couples who do it for a laugh, I can understand that a bit more. Role reversal. Single guys who do it. Yh you know you not straight.

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By *arylR OP   Man
1 week ago

East


"Clothes don't make you straight gay or bi yet it seems that most of the men that do are gay or bi and those thst meet tvs and say they're straight, no you are not. It's a man in lingerie.

It's that simple.. Couples who do it for a laugh, I can understand that a bit more. Role reversal. Single guys who do it. Yh you know you not straight. "

A little confused at the end?

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By *agic fingers 44Man
1 week ago

London


"Clothes don't make you straight gay or bi yet it seems that most of the men that do are gay or bi and those thst meet tvs and say they're straight, no you are not. It's a man in lingerie.

It's that simple.. Couples who do it for a laugh, I can understand that a bit more. Role reversal. Single guys who do it. Yh you know you not straight.

A little confused at the end? "

Sorry

What confused you. Straight men in lingerie are not straight. Men shouldn't be in female clothing and say they are straight because clearly they are not. I don't hate on anybody but most of the tvs on here look worse as a woman than they do as a man, however there are a few ts which look better than some of the females on here.

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
1 week ago

In a galaxy far far away


"Clothes don't make you straight gay or bi yet it seems that most of the men that do are gay or bi and those thst meet tvs and say they're straight, no you are not. It's a man in lingerie.

It's that simple.. Couples who do it for a laugh, I can understand that a bit more. Role reversal. Single guys who do it. Yh you know you not straight.

A little confused at the end?

Sorry

What confused you. Straight men in lingerie are not straight. "

Clothes do not determine sexuality

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By *agic fingers 44Man
1 week ago

London


"Clothes don't make you straight gay or bi yet it seems that most of the men that do are gay or bi and those thst meet tvs and say they're straight, no you are not. It's a man in lingerie.

It's that simple.. Couples who do it for a laugh, I can understand that a bit more. Role reversal. Single guys who do it. Yh you know you not straight.

A little confused at the end?

Sorry

What confused you. Straight men in lingerie are not straight.

Clothes do not determine sexuality"

Of course they do. You are biologically a man. You wear lingerie and you have sex with men. You identify as a TV. A TV is a man in woman's clothes. What's to argue that point. Man in woman's clothing =TV a man that has boobs is at least transtioning to a female or at least has gone to the lengths of attempting it so diffrent circumstances.

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
1 week ago

In a galaxy far far away


"Clothes don't make you straight gay or bi yet it seems that most of the men that do are gay or bi and those thst meet tvs and say they're straight, no you are not. It's a man in lingerie.

It's that simple.. Couples who do it for a laugh, I can understand that a bit more. Role reversal. Single guys who do it. Yh you know you not straight.

A little confused at the end?

Sorry

What confused you. Straight men in lingerie are not straight.

Clothes do not determine sexuality

Of course they do. You are biologically a man. You wear lingerie and you have sex with men. You identify as a TV. A TV is a man in woman's clothes. What's to argue that point. Man in woman's clothing =TV a man that has boobs is at least transtioning to a female or at least has gone to the lengths of attempting it so diffrent circumstances. "

You said "straight men in lingerie are not straight"

They can be if they only have sex with women.

Quite simple really.

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By *agic fingers 44Man
1 week ago

London

My argument is men that say they're straight are Not straight if they wearing female clothes. They're choosing to be feminine, but if a man needs to wear a pair of knickers to get aroused that use ough reason to question their sexuality. How many females want to have sex with a TV aka a man dressed as a woman. A quick glance on here suggests very few

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
1 week ago

In a galaxy far far away


"My argument is men that say they're straight are Not straight if they wearing female clothes. They're choosing to be feminine, but if a man needs to wear a pair of knickers to get aroused that use ough reason to question their sexuality. How many females want to have sex with a TV aka a man dressed as a woman. A quick glance on here suggests very few

"

The official definition of being sexually straight is:

Being sexually straight (or heterosexual) means a person is romantically or sexually attracted exclusively to people of a different gender or sex.

.

So no matter what clothes they wear it doesn't alter their sexual orientation.

I think you're getting confused.

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By *opinovMan
1 week ago

Cumbria and Galloway

I'm straight but I do love a small thigh length blue dress with boots.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
1 week ago

North Angus

Can’t comment as I’m quite bi

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By *ou only live onceMan
1 week ago

London

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By *ou only live onceMan
1 week ago

London


"My argument is men that say they're straight are Not straight if they wearing female clothes. They're choosing to be feminine, but if a man needs to wear a pair of knickers to get aroused that use ough reason to question their sexuality. How many females want to have sex with a TV aka a man dressed as a woman. A quick glance on here suggests very few

"

Yes they are. If they are only attracted to women/only have sex with women, they are straight.

What about a straight woman who puts on a man's shirt. Does she become a lesbian?

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By *agic fingers 44Man
1 week ago

London

Men who are attracted exclusively to females but where woman's clothes just shouts out I'm a gay or bi sexual man that can't admit they are not straight.

They're just in the closet. Just like a lot of the guys on this site who sleep with men CD tvs etc but say they're straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

I tried wearing panties but it was a short lived novelty.

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By *ncognitoGirlWoman
1 week ago

Liverpool


"Men who are attracted exclusively to females but where woman's clothes just shouts out I'm a gay or bi sexual man that can't admit they are not straight.

They're just in the closet. Just like a lot of the guys on this site who sleep with men CD tvs etc but say they're straight. "

The call is coming from inside the house, my dude. 👀

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By *ideshaft1971Man
1 week ago

Midlands


"I tried wearing panties but it was a short lived novelty."

Same here on a d*unken night lol

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By *ncognitoGirlWoman
1 week ago

Liverpool


"Sorry

What confused you. Straight men in lingerie are not straight. Men shouldn't be in female clothing and say they are straight because clearly they are not. I don't hate on anybody but most of the tvs on here look worse as a woman than they do as a man, however there are a few ts which look better than some of the females on here. "

And stop saying females. It’s creepy

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 week ago

Round the bend

Not my thing but...its that fecking hot i would consider anything

Mr 🐺

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By *ou only live onceMan
1 week ago

London


"Men who are attracted exclusively to females but where woman's clothes just shouts out I'm a gay or bi sexual man that can't admit they are not straight.

They're just in the closet. Just like a lot of the guys on this site who sleep with men CD tvs etc but say they're straight. "

Ah right, so you're a mind reader. In that case, we'll all shut up.

What about gay men who hate the idea of wearing lingerie and only wear "men's clothes"? Are they closet straights?

🤣

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By *loydyMan
1 week ago

British


"I don’t x"
wat about lingerie made for men ?

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By *ew2buryMan
1 week ago

Forums.

It seems to be a common line of thought that no matter what a man is a man and can't change, but wearing a dress magically changes your sexuality.

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By *peshul91Man
1 week ago

NOTTINGHAM

I enjoy wearing lingerie and have met a few women that love it, although I have been told by a couple of women that they were jealous of how good I looked

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By *ora the explorerWoman
1 week ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don’t xwat about lingerie made for men ?"

Still no

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By *ora the explorerWoman
1 week ago

Paradise, Herts


"Men who are attracted exclusively to females but where woman's clothes just shouts out I'm a gay or bi sexual man that can't admit they are not straight.

They're just in the closet. Just like a lot of the guys on this site who sleep with men CD tvs etc but say they're straight. "

What!? 🤣🙄

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 week ago

Leeds

I find it a turn off....

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By *iddlesticksMan
1 week ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I don’t x"

You can wear my undies if you like.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
1 week ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don’t x

You can wear my undies if you like. "

Ok but you’re not wearing mine fiddles 🤣

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By *herrybakewellCouple
1 week ago

Staffordshire

Straight or not is irrelevant, I just find it very feminine.

I like men i meet, to be more manly, and not worry about them stealing my underwear.

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
1 week ago

In a galaxy far far away


"Men who are attracted exclusively to females but where woman's clothes just shouts out I'm a gay or bi sexual man that can't admit they are not straight.

They're just in the closet. "

https://youtu.be/A8dnP_yZcNQ?is=jQ1_ZtJADivnhBVq

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By *peshul91Man
1 week ago

NOTTINGHAM


"Straight or not is irrelevant, I just find it very feminine.

I like men i meet, to be more manly, and not worry about them stealing my underwear. "

Ive got my own you wouldnt need to worry lol

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By *ome4itMan
1 week ago

Abergavenny

Love wearing it and wanking

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By *uicyboobiesWoman
1 week ago

Newtownbutler

I'm not attracted to effeminate men, I love masculine men and don't know any straight men who would want to wear women's lingerie.

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By *agic fingers 44Man
1 week ago

London

Love the fact all the men that are saying they do wear woman's undies or they think it's OK are all down as gay and bisexual so it proves my point

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By *arylR OP   Man
1 week ago

East


"Clothes don't make you straight gay or bi yet it seems that most of the men that do are gay or bi and those thst meet tvs and say they're straight, no you are not. It's a man in lingerie.

It's that simple.. Couples who do it for a laugh, I can understand that a bit more. Role reversal. Single guys who do it. Yh you know you not straight.

A little confused at the end?

Sorry

What confused you. Straight men in lingerie are not straight. Men shouldn't be in female clothing and say they are straight because clearly they are not. I don't hate on anybody but most of the tvs on here look worse as a woman than they do as a man, however there are a few ts which look better than some of the females on here. "

You start with:

Clothes don't make you straight gay or bi

You end with:

Single guys who do it. Yh you know you not straight

Its opposing statements in the same post, thats what I meant

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
1 week ago

Newcastle


"I'm not attracted to effeminate men, I love masculine men and don't know any straight men who would want to wear women's lingerie. "

Same

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By *ash0000Man
1 week ago

Southwest

I can’t imagine any woman liking it, unless they like humiliating the guy doing it.

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By *agic fingers 44Man
1 week ago

London


"Clothes don't make you straight gay or bi yet it seems that most of the men that do are gay or bi and those thst meet tvs and say they're straight, no you are not. It's a man in lingerie.

It's that simple.. Couples who do it for a laugh, I can understand that a bit more. Role reversal. Single guys who do it. Yh you know you not straight.

A little confused at the end?

Sorry

What confused you. Straight men in lingerie are not straight. Men shouldn't be in female clothing and say they are straight because clearly they are not. I don't hate on anybody but most of the tvs on here look worse as a woman than they do as a man, however there are a few ts which look better than some of the females on here.

You start with:

Clothes don't make you straight gay or bi

You end with:

Single guys who do it. Yh you know you not straight

Its opposing statements in the same post, thats what I meant"

I put that 1st part as a response to someine saying that clothes don't determine sexuality. I didn't put the right punctuations in place.

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By *aked beachMan
1 week ago

Just A Stranger In A Strange Land.


"Just my opinion but if a straight man wears lingerie, I don't think he's straight.

How so, please explain…

I mean we might also say Guys who are sub to women, are ordered about and wear a cock cage aren’t real Men and therefore aren’t straight.

Just a thought

Wearing women's clothes and wearing a cock cage are to very different things."

Well they are of course, but it’s still a form of submission. How about if the Ladies in your pics suddenly decide to make you a part of their forced feminisation fantasy?

Anyway, more to the point, sexual orientation is determined my who you have sex with, not by what you wear.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
1 week ago

Sheffield


"I'm not attracted to effeminate men, I love masculine men and don't know any straight men who would want to wear women's lingerie. "

This is the same for me.

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By *ew2buryMan
1 week ago

Forums.


"Love the fact all the men that are saying they do wear woman's undies or they think it's OK are all down as gay and bisexual so it proves my point "
correlation and causation.

I'm suspect take majority are. Or at least, I suspect the majority who are open about talking about it are (because if you are straight and into it, you may be feeling some shame or feelings here)

But doing it doesn't make you bi or gay. In the same way pegging doesn't make you gay. Nor does snowballing. And lesbians who wear trousers and strap ons aren't straight.

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By *ncognitoGirlWoman
7 days ago

Liverpool


"I can’t imagine any woman liking it, unless they like humiliating the guy doing it. "

I’m not into humiliation and I don’t think it’s only effeminate men who like to wear lingerie. I love a man secure enough in himself to play around with gender and I am really attracted to androgyny. One of the best times I had with the man who would become my ex-husband was when we did a full swap and I was in his clothes and he was in mine. HOT

It’s about expression, it’s about being playful and it’s whatever you’re comfortable with. You don’t want to wear lingerie, fine. But you don’t get to make sweeping judgements about the men who do.

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By *iomedgal91Woman
7 days ago

Cornwall

Doesn't do it for me!

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By *ove2lick27Man
7 days ago

Sheffield

It's just my opinion but I don't get it all. Totally wrong in my eyes.

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By *ncognitoGirlWoman
7 days ago

Liverpool


"It's just my opinion but I don't get it all. Totally wrong in my eyes."

Wrong?!

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By *usciousladyWoman
7 days ago

Dartford

I love seeing a fine masculine man wearing lingerie. It’s a real turn on. I love being fucked by him. It’s a visual dynamic tension between the masculine body and the feminine apparel. Gorgeous and very sexy.

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By *ash0000Man
7 days ago

Southwest

I don’t think it’s wrong at all and have put the odd pair on. I just think the majority of women wouldn’t be up for it as it’s not masculine

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
7 days ago

Cheshire


"It's just my opinion but I don't get it all. Totally wrong in my eyes."

You use the word ‘wrong’ would you ban it ?

Create a law of some kind ?

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By *uffhoundMan
7 days ago

Bourne, Lincolnshire

I don't get the attraction, does nothing for me.

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By *dstefiMan
7 days ago

Solihull


"I love seeing a fine masculine man wearing lingerie. It’s a real turn on. I love being fucked by him. It’s a visual dynamic tension between the masculine body and the feminine apparel. Gorgeous and very sexy. "

What a refreshing change from most of the comments!

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By *arylR OP   Man
6 days ago

East


"I love seeing a fine masculine man wearing lingerie. It’s a real turn on. I love being fucked by him. It’s a visual dynamic tension between the masculine body and the feminine apparel. Gorgeous and very sexy.

What a refreshing change from most of the comments! "

Indeed it is

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
6 days ago

London (She/Her)

Assuming I find both the man and the lingerie attractive, yes of course it’s hot 🥵

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
6 days ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Does nothing for me personally however me and the man often play this little game when we are out that I take off my knickers to give to him to then put on , he likes the fact they have been worn and have my scent next to his cock. Had to change the photos we put up to friends only though because people saw and presumably thought he was a cross dresser, which he is not.

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By *ubmissive guyMan
6 days ago

Liverpool

Im a straight submissive and most people see a sub guy and automatically think gay or bi. Im not a crossdresser,but Ive had g/fs in the past, whove done it to me. I dont own Womens clothes, I dont wear Womens clothes but for me, having a Woman put makeup on me is the most relaxing thing I've ever done. I dont care what it looks like. I dont have secret desires to be Female or if a Woman dressed me Id immediately turn gay or something, its a bit of fun, its embarrassing at first .

I can understand if a guy wants to do this all the time, or secretly done it for years a wife/partner might not be to happy. But on a site were we get 100s of status messages and forum posts everyday with guys or couples looking for cuckold cleanup scenarios and no one cares, or considers that as bi or gay. There's a lot of negativity in this thread .

As I said previously, its something Ive done a few times when I was younger. Im certainly not bi or gay or even a TV

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By *etterdays2021Man
6 days ago

PETERBOROUGH

Nope my partner asked me this i said i love you very much bit no im not dressing as a woman

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By *itginger101Man
6 days ago

Termonfeckin

I love to wear my wife's lingerie, I think I look good in it too

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By *arylR OP   Man
6 days ago

East


"I love to wear my wife's lingerie, I think I look good in it too "

Definitely do 😉

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By *DGF20Man
6 days ago

Dublin

It's obvious that most women aren't interested in something like that.

Majority if not all men who dress are not straight.

Any man who likes to dress up, if that's their kink there's nothing wrong with that, but not for me.

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By *heekycppl2016Couple
6 days ago

Worthing

Mrs likes to get hubby to dress up in knickers, stockings, dress etc

Our profile says mr is bi curious but mr is not attracted to other guys but Mrs has requested he try as it turns her on and he is happy to do so. Why does it matter your orientation if you dress up. Mrs has mr is suspenders and knickers and her strap on out way before even asking him to play with a guy. If it turns you on it turns you on.

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By *arylR OP   Man
6 days ago

East


"Mrs likes to get hubby to dress up in knickers, stockings, dress etc

Our profile says mr is bi curious but mr is not attracted to other guys but Mrs has requested he try as it turns her on and he is happy to do so. Why does it matter your orientation if you dress up. Mrs has mr is suspenders and knickers and her strap on out way before even asking him to play with a guy. If it turns you on it turns you on. "

Totally agree, whatever floats your boat 😉

Too many judgemental people on here

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
6 days ago

Nowhere

Never found anyone to share that passion with

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By *arylR OP   Man
6 days ago

East


"Never found anyone to share that passion with "

That’s a shame, especially with those looks

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By *ittlebirdWoman
6 days ago

The Big Smoke

I absolutely love a man… straight or bi… In stockings.

Sexy AF

OP it isn’t about whether they’re straight or bi for me. It’s them wearing something sexy and utterly owning it.

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By *akamineMan
6 days ago

Glasgow


"I absolutely love a man… straight or bi… In stockings.

Sexy AF

OP it isn’t about whether they’re straight or bi for me. It’s them wearing something sexy and utterly owning it.

"

Totally agree with this, not sure I utterly own it, but if truth be told, I don’t care what anyone thinks.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 days ago

The Big Smoke


"I absolutely love a man… straight or bi… In stockings.

Sexy AF

OP it isn’t about whether they’re straight or bi for me. It’s them wearing something sexy and utterly owning it.

"

Just to add anyone who would like to reply should do so on the thread please 👍🏻

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By *tormQueenWoman
5 days ago

All over the place


"I absolutely love a man… straight or bi… In stockings.

Sexy AF

OP it isn’t about whether they’re straight or bi for me. It’s them wearing something sexy and utterly owning it.

"

See also...Mankini 😎

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By *oupot56Man
5 days ago

Ruislip

I like it

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By *ohncukMan
5 days ago

london


"I absolutely love a man… straight or bi… In stockings.

Sexy AF

OP it isn’t about whether they’re straight or bi for me. It’s them wearing something sexy and utterly owning it.

"

Would you enjoy dressing a guy ?

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By *ool_and_the_camMan
5 days ago

harlow

Love seeing a guy dressed in stockings and sexy underwear. Also love doing it myself. Feels so horny

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By *iHungMan
5 days ago

Blackpool

Not tried stockings yet but love the feel of silk & lace lingerie. Not worn for anyone else so far just my own pleasure.

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By *arylR OP   Man
4 days ago

East


"I absolutely love a man… straight or bi… In stockings.

Sexy AF

OP it isn’t about whether they’re straight or bi for me. It’s them wearing something sexy and utterly owning it.

Just to add anyone who would like to reply should do so on the thread please 👍🏻"

I love wearing, and I hope I own them too

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By *arialoueWoman
4 days ago

Doncaster

I don't like men wearing any womens clothing weather it's clothes or underwear

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By *estiswestMan
4 days ago

glasgow

Sometimes

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By *appyhumper123Man
4 days ago

ayr

Nope

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By *arylR OP   Man
4 days ago

East


"I absolutely love a man… straight or bi… In stockings.

Sexy AF

OP it isn’t about whether they’re straight or bi for me. It’s them wearing something sexy and utterly owning it.

"

Very intriguing photos LB 🙂

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By *arylR OP   Man
2 days ago

East

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By *dstefiMan
2 days ago

Solihull


"I absolutely love a man… straight or bi… In stockings.

Sexy AF

OP it isn’t about whether they’re straight or bi for me. It’s them wearing something sexy and utterly owning it.

"

This is the point I've reached after trying out being a total TV (doesn't work for me, I wouldn't pass as a woman and honestly feel uncomfortable at appropriating another gender's mannerisms and persona).

So I'm male all the way, completely bisexual, but still love my lingerie (and Vinted is my best friend, I buy all my own )

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By *arylR OP   Man
11 hours ago

East


"I absolutely love a man… straight or bi… In stockings.

Sexy AF

OP it isn’t about whether they’re straight or bi for me. It’s them wearing something sexy and utterly owning it.

This is the point I've reached after trying out being a total TV (doesn't work for me, I wouldn't pass as a woman and honestly feel uncomfortable at appropriating another gender's mannerisms and persona).

So I'm male all the way, completely bisexual, but still love my lingerie (and Vinted is my best friend, I buy all my own )"

Totally with you on Vinted

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By *INKYLOVE69Couple
11 hours ago

Chesterfield

It's not for us, but each to their own

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
5 hours ago

Glos

It’s not my thing but if a guy enjoys it then crack on.

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By *ifelover999Man
5 hours ago

Eastbourne


"It’s not my thing but if a guy enjoys it then crack on. "

Never gonna happen

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