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By *ibson1965 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I notice a lot of women say no dick pics please, but then on their profile it’s just boobies and pussy, don’t get me wrong that’s fine, it’s their choice.

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

I support women's rights and wrongs.

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By *o_Called_SwingersCouple
2 weeks ago

Atherton

Let's save you some time, shall we? Whatever someone chooses to do us up to them, but what they want to see is also up to them. You have no reason to ever send a dick pic that wasn't asked for, regardless of how much you think you do.

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

If I jump in a swimming pool with my eyes open, the burning is self inflicted. If I look into the soul of a bellend and burn, its not.

Hope that helps.

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By *tsazzMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester

So, what’s the question… or is the question just ‘Question?’

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By *urls and DressesWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere near here

Sounds like you’re hurt by this. Sorry we don’t want to see your sausage

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
2 weeks ago

South Wales


"If I jump in a swimming pool with my eyes open, the burning is self inflicted. If I look into the soul of a bellend and burn, its not.

Hope that helps."

Do bellends have souls? 🤣

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Know your audience.

Men tend to like boob and pussy pics. To appeal to an audience of men, boob and pussy pics are probably a good choice.

Penis pics are more polarising to women, so including them is riskier. Also "having a picture on your profile" and "sending a picture to someone" are two different things.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So, what’s the question… or is the question just ‘Question?’"

I think the question is "it's not fair, why?"

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By *oundtightCouple
2 weeks ago

Manchester

If you want to put your dick on your profile, do it

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester


"I notice a lot of women say no dick pics please, but then on their profile it’s just boobies and pussy, don’t get me wrong that’s fine, it’s their choice."

I'm calling you out on this because there's nothing like that on my profile and I don't like dickpix

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland

They don't want you to send them to their inbox. They just want them in their box.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Most people I’ve seen who say no dick pics don’t have their bits out on their profile. And you can’t put boobs in the same bracket as cock.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I notice a lot of women say no dick pics please, but then on their profile it’s just boobies and pussy, don’t get me wrong that’s fine, it’s their choice."

I can't say I have ever actually seen a profile that both says no dick pics please and goes flaps akimbo in their own profile picture. Plenty of either, but not both together.

If you're browsing someone's gallery you're entering of your own volition to look. If it's someone's profile picture or sent directly in a message they are not choosing to look, the image is put in front of them whether they want it or not 💜

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I notice a lot of women say no dick pics please, but then on their profile it’s just boobies and pussy, don’t get me wrong that’s fine, it’s their choice."

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When I look into a woman's profile there's a reasonable expectation that I may come across photos of her breasts or quim.

What I don't expect is her to send me an unsolicited photo of her quim in a message, unless she's asked me first (permission/consent).

The same applies the other way around.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bristol

Unsolicited pics...

They are unwelcome from both men and women.

I can understand how a woman who states a distaste for men with dick pics on their profile, but then chooses to upload the equivalent on her profile featuring her snatch... Might cause some men to see a double standard.

But honestly, she can have her preference for a mans profile as well as a preference for she chooses to manage her profile.

There's no point in thinking about it really...

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bristol


"Unsolicited pics...

They are unwelcome from both men and women.

I can understand how a woman who states a distaste for men with dick pics on their profile, but then chooses to upload the equivalent on her profile featuring her snatch... Might cause some men to see a double standard.

But honestly, she can have her preference for a mans profile as well as a preference for she chooses to manage her profile.

There's no point in thinking about it really..."

*How

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
2 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders


"I notice a lot of women say no dick pics please, but then on their profile it’s just boobies and pussy, don’t get me wrong that’s fine, it’s their choice."

In a profile picture = fine

Sent unsolicted in a message = not fine

That's it

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By *he MinionMan
2 weeks ago

Surrey


"I notice a lot of women say no dick pics please, but then on their profile it’s just boobies and pussy, don’t get me wrong that’s fine, it’s their choice."

So no dick pics please and then boobs and pussy on their profile. But there is still no dicks.

So your question is, what? .

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I notice a lot of women say no dick pics please, but then on their profile it’s just boobies and pussy, don’t get me wrong that’s fine, it’s their choice.

In a profile picture = fine

Sent unsolicted in a message = not fine

That's it"

Yeah. One you seek out, one you have inflicted on you.

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By *rishCWoman
2 weeks ago

Cavan

So l'm one of those women that has on my profile not to just send a dick pic..while my profile is what it is.

I'm not saying "OH MY GOD I'M SO OFFENDED!!" I'm saying please stop sending a picture of your dick to me with the obnoxious opinion that I'm going to see it and respond with "take me now!!"

That's all women are saying. Use your feckin words guys. We already kinda figured you'd have a dick. No need for a "tah dahhh!!" picture 🙄

We really shouldn't have to say it.. but sure there you go.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So l'm one of those women that has on my profile not to just send a dick pic..while my profile is what it is.

I'm not saying "OH MY GOD I'M SO OFFENDED!!" I'm saying please stop sending a picture of your dick to me with the obnoxious opinion that I'm going to see it and respond with "take me now!!"

That's all women are saying. Use your feckin words guys. We already kinda figured you'd have a dick. No need for a "tah dahhh!!" picture 🙄

We really shouldn't have to say it.. but sure there you go."

Yeah, I say it pretty strongly.

I've seen a penis or two before. My innocence isn't being shattered. It's more like... Well. This person is presumptuous plus an eye roll.

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By *rishCWoman
2 weeks ago

Cavan


"So l'm one of those women that has on my profile not to just send a dick pic..while my profile is what it is.

I'm not saying "OH MY GOD I'M SO OFFENDED!!" I'm saying please stop sending a picture of your dick to me with the obnoxious opinion that I'm going to see it and respond with "take me now!!"

That's all women are saying. Use your feckin words guys. We already kinda figured you'd have a dick. No need for a "tah dahhh!!" picture 🙄

We really shouldn't have to say it.. but sure there you go.

Yeah, I say it pretty strongly.

I've seen a penis or two before. My innocence isn't being shattered. It's more like... Well. This person is presumptuous plus an eye roll."

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Exactly!!

If you have to resort to sending a dick pic as a conversation starter.. then it's gonna be a delete from me.

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By *ustAnotherMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

If it hurts when you poke it in someone's eye don't post it to them

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Also, bear in mind that most dicks look like an anatomical accident and only a rare few are aesthetic perfection (for instance, mine).

Yes I'm bringing it so swing it

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By *ustAnotherMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

The last turkey in the shop

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I mean no dick pics in my inbox and suspect many ladies are the same. I don't send graphic pics to random people either though.

People can have whatever they choose on their profile, if it's not for me, I can click off it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I mean no dick pics in my inbox and suspect many ladies are the same. I don't send graphic pics to random people either though.

People can have whatever they choose on their profile, if it's not for me, I can click off it.

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Yup.

But people who ostensibly want to meet us seem not to care about what we want.

That's a red flag per se.

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
2 weeks ago

Hampshire

I can choose to look at a profile and view the dick which is so (sometimes) proudly displayed. But I get no choice over viewing it if its sent to my inbox, unsolicited. This works exactly the same with any other genitalia on any profile from any gender.

If you don't know the difference it seems you may have a problem with the concept of consent.

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham


"If I jump in a swimming pool with my eyes open, the burning is self inflicted. If I look into the soul of a bellend and burn, its not.

Hope that helps.

Do bellends have souls? 🤣"

Well they have a life of their own apparently

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