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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha Not seeing who’s nearby ..not seeing videos …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha " because for alot it's not worth it I've been member and I don't notice much difference. | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha Not seeing who’s nearby ..not seeing videos …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha " I don't need those things to chat and arrange a meet. Which is my primary goal. | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha Not seeing who’s nearby ..not seeing videos …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha I don't need those things to chat and arrange a meet. Which is my primary goal." This ⬆️ for me! X | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha Not seeing who’s nearby ..not seeing videos …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha I don't need those things to chat and arrange a meet. Which is my primary goal." If everyone had that attitude, how would the site be funded? I ‘support’ this site and FG because I think that without any income both will disappear and that would be a shame. I appreciate the few perks in return and would miss not being able to delete my face photo from someone who blocked me as soon as they laid eyes on it!  | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha Not seeing who’s nearby ..not seeing videos …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha I don't need those things to chat and arrange a meet. Which is my primary goal." Yeah that makes absolute sense …. I just found some have that as a filter too.. which I didn’t realise  | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha Not seeing who’s nearby ..not seeing videos …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha I don't need those things to chat and arrange a meet. Which is my primary goal. If everyone had that attitude, how would the site be funded? I ‘support’ this site and FG because I think that without any income both will disappear and that would be a shame. I appreciate the few perks in return and would miss not being able to delete my face photo from someone who blocked me as soon as they laid eyes on it! "The instant block post face share … classic … so often happens  | |||
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"I get bored of those things after a short time so let it run out. Then I'll think maybe I fancy a nosey and subscribe again. But it's just not as big a focus for me these days. " Draws you back in | |||
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"Cost of living forces my hand" As for many I am sure | |||
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"I was a supporter. And whilst it was great to watch vids etc. I rarely had a chat or any messages anyway. I'm sure I'll be back as a supporter when I want to be nosey again " The nosey catches us all ha | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha Not seeing who’s nearby ..not seeing videos …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha I don't need those things to chat and arrange a meet. Which is my primary goal. If everyone had that attitude, how would the site be funded? I ‘support’ this site and FG because I think that without any income both will disappear and that would be a shame. I appreciate the few perks in return and would miss not being able to delete my face photo from someone who blocked me as soon as they laid eyes on it! "I think if there weren't enough subscribers the site would become subscription only. Its not like ive never subscribed, I dip in and out. | |||
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"Cost of living forces my hand" Me too! And yeah, I'm totally this cheap IRL & owning it! I get what I need from here without having to pay. Why would I purchase something I don't need? (Unless it's shoes, clothes, handbags of course)😊 | |||
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"Cost of living forces my hand Me too! And yeah, I'm totally this cheap IRL & owning it! I get what I need from here without having to pay. Why would I purchase something I don't need? (Unless it's shoes, clothes, handbags of course)😊" Just the essentials | |||
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"Sometimes I will have used the spending cap that's on my mobile contract for other things and I'll wait until the next month to sub here. It's not always a 'big thing' kind of reason. Not sure people need to be calling folk cheap for not subscribing. If the site owners are happy to offer parts for free that's their business." I didn’t call people cheap  | |||
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"I think anyone who doesn’t support the site, even if only once or twice a year, needs to wonder how the site is funded and remains viable. Are you this cheap elsewhere in life?" No Adventurous Traveller....He⬆️did!😊 | |||
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"I think anyone who doesn’t support the site, even if only once or twice a year, needs to wonder how the site is funded and remains viable. Are you this cheap elsewhere in life? No Adventurous Traveller....He⬆️did!😊" Oh I didn’t spot that one …. | |||
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"I called people ‘cheap’ for not supporting the site… "Yeah....That's the guy👆🏼 | |||
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"I think anyone who doesn’t support the site, even if only once or twice a year, needs to wonder how the site is funded and remains viable. Are you this cheap elsewhere in life?" An uncalled for comment … there are many reasons why people don’t … I started this thread because I had gotten used to the perks and now kissed them … it wasn’t to call people out or make them feel any less than those who do subscribe…. Some that don’t subscribe bring more than the money …. They bring profiles for you to admire … they bring the chance for you to interact with them … they bring the shared desire to swing amongst like minded people | |||
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"I think anyone who doesn’t support the site, even if only once or twice a year, needs to wonder how the site is funded and remains viable. Are you this cheap elsewhere in life? An uncalled for comment … there are many reasons why people don’t … I started this thread because I had gotten used to the perks and now kissed them … it wasn’t to call people out or make them feel any less than those who do subscribe…. Some that don’t subscribe bring more than the money …. They bring profiles for you to admire … they bring the chance for you to interact with them … they bring the shared desire to swing amongst like minded people" *missed them | |||
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"I think anyone who doesn’t support the site, even if only once or twice a year, needs to wonder how the site is funded and remains viable. Are you this cheap elsewhere in life? An uncalled for comment … there are many reasons why people don’t … I started this thread because I had gotten used to the perks and now kissed them … it wasn’t to call people out or make them feel any less than those who do subscribe…. Some that don’t subscribe bring more than the money …. They bring profiles for you to admire … they bring the chance for you to interact with them … they bring the shared desire to swing amongst like minded people *missed them " 👏🏼👏🏼😄 | |||
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"The only problem I have with this, is the odd non-supporter messaging me to ask how they can see my vids without becoming a member. " Well there’s a problem there…they can’t haha | |||
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"I think anyone who doesn’t support the site, even if only once or twice a year, needs to wonder how the site is funded and remains viable. Are you this cheap elsewhere in life? An uncalled for comment … there are many reasons why people don’t … I started this thread because I had gotten used to the perks and now kissed them … it wasn’t to call people out or make them feel any less than those who do subscribe…. Some that don’t subscribe bring more than the money …. They bring profiles for you to admire … they bring the chance for you to interact with them … they bring the shared desire to swing amongst like minded people" I don’t think it’s uncalled for… the site supporter fee isn’t that much money and my bank account is like a car running on fumes at this point in January. People are perfectly within their right not to pay, but the more you use the site and the more results you see, thinking that they should be bunging them the odd tenner occasionally isn’t that unreasonable. | |||
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"I think anyone who doesn’t support the site, even if only once or twice a year, needs to wonder how the site is funded and remains viable. Are you this cheap elsewhere in life? An uncalled for comment … there are many reasons why people don’t … I started this thread because I had gotten used to the perks and now kissed them … it wasn’t to call people out or make them feel any less than those who do subscribe…. Some that don’t subscribe bring more than the money …. They bring profiles for you to admire … they bring the chance for you to interact with them … they bring the shared desire to swing amongst like minded people I don’t think it’s uncalled for… the site supporter fee isn’t that much money and my bank account is like a car running on fumes at this point in January. People are perfectly within their right not to pay, but the more you use the site and the more results you see, thinking that they should be bunging them the odd tenner occasionally isn’t that unreasonable." Everyone is entitled to their opinion… I just wouldn’t consider calling others cheap as the thread wasn’t formed for that … it was done to bring discussion not insult just here to be nosey not judging | |||
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"Doesn't bother me, why know who's looked? If they were interested they'd message? I don't want to see the vids I'd be put off my lunch. And I can't remember the other benefits. Mrs " You’re right about some videos | |||
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"Although am not currently subscribing, I would support a subscription only site. If only to out timewasters and people who keep changing profile to troll others. No guarantee, as have meeting arranged then ghosted by verified subscribers. But I think it would make less often." Something you have suggested to admin ? | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha Not seeing who’s nearby ..not seeing videos …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha " That’s no way to live  I’ll get you upgraded again. | |||
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"I think the 'who's viewed me' is probably what I miss as it can be a way to find people of interest. But just because they looked doesn't mean they liked what they saw 😂 I also like seeing the interaction history if I've messaged and when, notes, etc. There's lots to appreciate " Agreed  | |||
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"Although am not currently subscribing, I would support a subscription only site. If only to out timewasters and people who keep changing profile to troll others. No guarantee, as have meeting arranged then ghosted by verified subscribers. But I think it would make less often." I think the current filter to block non-subscribers messaging you is essentially the same thing as a subscription only platform and there's no guarding against ghosters really. | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha Not seeing who’s nearby ..not seeing videos …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha That’s no way to live I’ll get you upgraded again."Honestly …cold turkey over here ha | |||
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"Although am not currently subscribing, I would support a subscription only site. If only to out timewasters and people who keep changing profile to troll others. No guarantee, as have meeting arranged then ghosted by verified subscribers. But I think it would make less often. I think the current filter to block non-subscribers messaging you is essentially the same thing as a subscription only platform and there's no guarding against ghosters really." The filters help where needed | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha Not seeing who’s nearby ..not seeing videos …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha That’s no way to live I’ll get you upgraded again.
Honestly …cold turkey over here ha "Ha, have you given up on site supporter through choice? Trying to abstain? | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha Not seeing who’s nearby ..not seeing videos …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha That’s no way to live I’ll get you upgraded again.
Honestly …cold turkey over here ha
Ha, have you given up on site supporter through choice? Trying to abstain?"Noooo I wouldn’t do that to myself ha | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? " Very well thanks "Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha " You may consider them benefits, they do not bother me and I do not miss them as I have never bothered having them. "Not seeing who’s nearby " I can search and see who is within five miles, i can click on the who is nearby on my phone. "..not seeing videos " not interested in the videos, if I was I could always go to an online site. "…. Not seeing who’s taken a peek" If they take a peek and are interested they will get in touch "…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha " "simple things please simple minds" glad that it suits you OP. I quite like seeing my friends off Fab either in person or using text, phone and watsapp to communicate with them. | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha Not seeing who’s nearby ..not seeing videos …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek…. Just simple things that I’m used to ha That’s no way to live I’ll get you upgraded again.
Honestly …cold turkey over here ha
Ha, have you given up on site supporter through choice? Trying to abstain?
Noooo I wouldn’t do that to myself ha"Ha I’ve got a spare code after I text twice the other day. You can have it | |||
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"I just have one question … how do you cope ?? Very well thanks Not being able to see the many benefits that a site support brings is driving me nuts haha You may consider them benefits, they do not bother me and I do not miss them as I have never bothered having them. Not seeing who’s nearby I can search and see who is within five miles, i can click on the who is nearby on my phone. ..not seeing videos not interested in the videos, if I was I could always go to an online site. …. Not seeing who’s taken a peek If they take a peek and are interested they will get in touch …. Just simple things that I’m used to ha "simple things please simple minds" glad that it suits you OP. I quite like seeing my friends off Fab either in person or using text, phone and watsapp to communicate with them." Oh I communicate with friends away from here too thankfully …. Just something I’ve not done before as always had a support … merely my point to the thread | |||
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"I've yet to see a video that is even remotely sexy. Can I get a refund?" I’ve heard they do them | |||
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"Although am not currently subscribing, I would support a subscription only site. If only to out timewasters and people who keep changing profile to troll others. No guarantee, as have meeting arranged then ghosted by verified subscribers. But I think it would make less often. Something you have suggested to admin ? " No, I don't think suggesting would change it. Unless it was demanded by majority of subscribers. | |||
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"Subscribing wouldn't bring me anything I need. I get all I want without it." I got curious so I've subscribed. Oh well! | |||
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"Subscribing wouldn't bring me anything I need. I get all I want without it. I got curious so I've subscribed. Oh well!" I was going to comment on your earlier post cos when I went to your profile I saw that you were a silver site supporter - consequently I wondered if 'subscribing' was something different! Well, you will have to say if you find any benefits in being a supporter. | |||
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"It's a fiver! Basically, one of your daily fancy coffees 🤷♂️🤓🥷" What’s a fancy coffee ? Black Americano at home for me | |||
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"Subscribing wouldn't bring me anything I need. I get all I want without it. I got curious so I've subscribed. Oh well! I was going to comment on your earlier post cos when I went to your profile I saw that you were a silver site supporter - consequently I wondered if 'subscribing' was something different! Well, you will have to say if you find any benefits in being a supporter." I can view videos lol. But I've just been messaged by a guy who says a woman being a site supporter is a red flag apparently. Oh well lol. | |||
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"Subscribing wouldn't bring me anything I need. I get all I want without it. I got curious so I've subscribed. Oh well! I was going to comment on your earlier post cos when I went to your profile I saw that you were a silver site supporter - consequently I wondered if 'subscribing' was something different! Well, you will have to say if you find any benefits in being a supporter. I can view videos lol. But I've just been messaged by a guy who says a woman being a site supporter is a red flag apparently. Oh well lol. " Did he say why | |||
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"Plenty of others places I can find videos of men wanking if the desire strikes me. "  | |||
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"Plenty of others places I can find videos of men wanking if the desire strikes me. " Yeah, but how many of them are wanking while holding the camera phone so it's shaking all over the place? 😉 | |||
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"I think anyone who doesn’t support the site, even if only once or twice a year, needs to wonder how the site is funded and remains viable. Are you this cheap elsewhere in life?" I'm not being cheap. I'm being very generous. I post my tits and ass. For free. | |||
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"I think anyone who doesn’t support the site, even if only once or twice a year, needs to wonder how the site is funded and remains viable. Are you this cheap elsewhere in life? I'm not being cheap. I'm being very generous. I post my tits and ass. For free." And we appreciate | |||
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"Subscribing wouldn't bring me anything I need. I get all I want without it. I got curious so I've subscribed. Oh well! I was going to comment on your earlier post cos when I went to your profile I saw that you were a silver site supporter - consequently I wondered if 'subscribing' was something different! Well, you will have to say if you find any benefits in being a supporter. I can view videos lol. But I've just been messaged by a guy who says a woman being a site supporter is a red flag apparently. Oh well lol. Did he say why "No, just waffling | |||
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