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"Think people realising it needs to be more relaxed and slow buildup in real life has helped. Porn where unlubed cocks get shoved deep into the arse didn't do anything for making it pleasurable for many. " That’s because in shoots the anus is already prelubed before filming | |||
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"Think people realising it needs to be more relaxed and slow buildup in real life has helped. Porn where unlubed cocks get shoved deep into the arse didn't do anything for making it pleasurable for many. That’s because in shoots the anus is already prelubed before filming " TIL! I always wondered about that thinking that can't be comfortable for the arse or the cock 😂 | |||
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"Think people realising it needs to be more relaxed and slow buildup in real life has helped. Porn where unlubed cocks get shoved deep into the arse didn't do anything for making it pleasurable for many. That’s because in shoots the anus is already prelubed before filming TIL! I always wondered about that thinking that can't be comfortable for the arse or the cock 😂" On sets we always just prelubed the talent. Plus dont forget it’s all piece meal shooting The final scene is not how the scene was constructed. Now I have seen amateurs just shove it with spit and whince | |||
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"Think people realising it needs to be more relaxed and slow buildup in real life has helped. Porn where unlubed cocks get shoved deep into the arse didn't do anything for making it pleasurable for many. That’s because in shoots the anus is already prelubed before filming TIL! I always wondered about that thinking that can't be comfortable for the arse or the cock 😂 On sets we always just prelubed the talent. Plus dont forget it’s all piece meal shooting The final scene is not how the scene was constructed. Now I have seen amateurs just shove it with spit and whince " And they're the real heroes! | |||
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"I think it's more men putting pressure on women to do it." Yeah. Apparently more and more women going to hospital with tearing too because it’s not being done properly. Porn shit. | |||
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"No one should feel pressured into anything. I love it. Nowadays there’s so much helpful info online if you look in the right places to help people learn the right way. Anal plug sets to stretch, different lubes to help. If it hurts, you’re doing it wrong. " Would you mind hovering over my face so I can practice on you?  | |||
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"I don't want anything up my bum. " Same! | |||
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"I think it's more men putting pressure on women to do it." There's definitely sone of this that goes on. Some women do not always feel like they can say no. | |||
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"I think it's more men putting pressure on women to do it. There's definitely sone of this that goes on. Some women do not always feel like they can say no. " Then hopefully the guy would learn not to be selfish if he realises she apprehensive | |||
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"There are some men who seem to see it as an expectation. Strangely those are the ones who aren’t quite to keen for me to put my dildo up their arse first so they see how it feels 🤷♀️ Caveat - I know some men would love that!"  | |||
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Can we normalise the use of condoms and contraception please. So many practicing unsafe sex without a thought for STIs | |||
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"I'm not a fan and I have felt pressured in the past by men. Someone kept asking me, almost begging me tbh, if he could "fuck me in the arse because my arse is so fuckable" in the middle of sex the first time we were in bed, I said no every time he asked (which was several and was pissing me off) but he kept pulling his cock out of my pussy and prodding my bum hole with it even though I kept saying no. Or aggressively shoving his finger in my bum hole while fucking me doggy. It absolutely turned me off and I did not see him again. Or when they tease the head of their cock against your bum hole when you're getting to ready to fuck and I say "it's not going in there" and they say... "yet..." just fuck off. "There are so many men that do this sadly! WTAF! It's my body not yours! | |||
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"I'm not a fan and I have felt pressured in the past by men. Someone kept asking me, almost begging me tbh, if he could "fuck me in the arse because my arse is so fuckable" in the middle of sex the first time we were in bed, I said no every time he asked (which was several and was pissing me off) but he kept pulling his cock out of my pussy and prodding my bum hole with it even though I kept saying no. Or aggressively shoving his finger in my bum hole while fucking me doggy. It absolutely turned me off and I did not see him again. Or when they tease the head of their cock against your bum hole when you're getting to ready to fuck and I say "it's not going in there" and they say... "yet..." just fuck off. "Wow sounds like a complete disregard of boundaries  | |||
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"I'm not a fan and I have felt pressured in the past by men. Someone kept asking me, almost begging me tbh, if he could "fuck me in the arse because my arse is so fuckable" in the middle of sex the first time we were in bed, I said no every time he asked (which was several and was pissing me off) but he kept pulling his cock out of my pussy and prodding my bum hole with it even though I kept saying no. Or aggressively shoving his finger in my bum hole while fucking me doggy. It absolutely turned me off and I did not see him again. Or when they tease the head of their cock against your bum hole when you're getting to ready to fuck and I say "it's not going in there" and they say... "yet..." just fuck off.
Wow sounds like a complete disregard of boundaries "Yep 🫤 sadly some men will just push and push hoping you relent | |||
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"I'm not a fan and I have felt pressured in the past by men. Someone kept asking me, almost begging me tbh, if he could "fuck me in the arse because my arse is so fuckable" in the middle of sex the first time we were in bed, I said no every time he asked (which was several and was pissing me off) but he kept pulling his cock out of my pussy and prodding my bum hole with it even though I kept saying no. Or aggressively shoving his finger in my bum hole while fucking me doggy. It absolutely turned me off and I did not see him again. Or when they tease the head of their cock against your bum hole when you're getting to ready to fuck and I say "it's not going in there" and they say... "yet..." just fuck off.
There are so many men that do this sadly! WTAF! It's my body not yours! "Exactly. It's more common that it should be sadly. | |||
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"I love it. Never used to be interested but did it once and had the best orgasms so. " Same  | |||
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"I first had anal sex when I was 22. I am now a big fan and find it easy to do." Ive seen a few of your videos. You definitely enjoy it. Ooft. | |||
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"I first had anal sex when I was 22. I am now a big fan and find it easy to do. Ive seen a few of your videos. You definitely enjoy it. Ooft. " Same here, I've become a regular visitor to this ladies profile. | |||
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"I think it's more men putting pressure on women to do it. Yeah. Apparently more and more women going to hospital with tearing too because it’s not being done properly. Porn shit. " Mostly the tearing is from poor hygiene from men with looking after finger nails. Not porn | |||
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"After browsing the pics and videos, I've noticed quite a few where women are enjoying sex the anal way. What is your preference ladies?" Tell us your experiences with asking the ladies you meet | |||
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"Not with me " Just a few playful smacks then?  | |||
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"There are some men who seem to see it as an expectation. Strangely those are the ones who aren’t quite to keen for me to put my dildo up their arse first so they see how it feels 🤷♀️ Caveat - I know some men would love that!" guilty | |||
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"I really enjoy it " Noted x | |||
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"I think its dirty. And men who love to bum women are definitely a bit lost in my own oponion. Leave it to the guys if you ask me..." What a funny opinion 🤣 | |||
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"I think its dirty. And men who love to bum women are definitely a bit lost in my own oponion. Leave it to the guys if you ask me... What a funny opinion 🤣 " People are allowed them. . Now..... fancy some bum sex??? 😋 | |||
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"I think its dirty. And men who love to bum women are definitely a bit lost in my own oponion. Leave it to the guys if you ask me..." * the only time it could ever be exceptional is when double vaginal doesn't work, with a condom anal may be an exceptional case | |||
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"I think its dirty. And men who love to bum women are definitely a bit lost in my own oponion. Leave it to the guys if you ask me... * the only time it could ever be exceptional is when double vaginal doesn't work, with a condom anal may be an exceptional case" Straight men who enjoy giving anal to a woman who loves it definitely aren’t lost. 😜 sounds like right place, right time to me. | |||
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"I think its dirty. And men who love to bum women are definitely a bit lost in my own oponion. Leave it to the guys if you ask me... * the only time it could ever be exceptional is when double vaginal doesn't work, with a condom anal may be an exceptional case Straight men who enjoy giving anal to a woman who loves it definitely aren’t lost. 😜 sounds like right place, right time to me. " You're right, theres something for everyone, we can all be happy if we find it... I don't mean to come across obnoxious  | |||
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"I really want to learn to love it.... (mrs)" Your inbox is about to fill with guys offering free lessons. 😆 | |||
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"I don't want anything up my bum. Same!" Being aged 67 The NHS has suddenly taken a big interest in my Jacksie for my enlarged prostrate . If its a male doing the examination. Its rubber glove lube one finger and a quick in and out. When its a female its the same except its two fingers and a right good rummage around. First time that happened I thought someone is getting their revenge on my ass.As I hobbled out it felt like a Telegraph pole had been up there. | |||
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"I really want to learn to love it.... (mrs) Your inbox is about to fill with guys offering free lessons. 😆 " In all honesty, there isn't much i wouldn't do with another guy other than my partner, but anal would be one of them, 1 because it's nice to have something just us and 2 he won't judge me if I accidentally shit on it 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"It's something we really enjoy and the mrs actually prefers it, which gets no argument from me." I always enjoy listening to others experience how would you compare it | |||
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"Not with me Just a few playful smacks then? "Always down for non stingy smacks | |||
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"After browsing the pics and videos, I've noticed quite a few where women are enjoying sex the anal way. What is your preference ladies?" It might be that it's more popular but I think the reason for photos/videos is there's still something taboo about it - seen as kinkier than piv. I've never had proper anal sex, don't want that to change any time soon. It can look hot sometimes, other times...  . | |||
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"I think it's more men putting pressure on women to do it." I think you may be correct. I think it was done once upon a time too to avoid pregnancy. Only 1 guy I was ever with wanted anal sex but no way was I doing it. | |||
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"I don't understand anal sex the appeal of it. I've never done it & never will, my ass is a one way street ⬇️ . Toxic waste comes out of everyone's ass, yes sh*t can be toxic & why anyone would wanna put their penis up there, I don't get it. " Well I understand what your saying and that's the reason for most besides the content factor. Girls have a choice, hence not really understanding or able to appreciate the pleasure of anal. It's down to preparation. Nobody wants a log jam or a smelly surprise. But playing both sides of the game, I can tell you that anal is incredibly different and so much more hotter than a pussy. Feels better which is why most guys will blow their load almost straight away. But it's not an endless tube so some of you might not get in all the way. X | |||
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"I don't understand anal sex the appeal of it. I've never done it & never will, my ass is a one way street ⬇️ . Toxic waste comes out of everyone's ass, yes sh*t can be toxic & why anyone would wanna put their penis up there, I don't get it. Well I understand what your saying and that's the reason for most besides the content factor. Girls have a choice, hence not really understanding or able to appreciate the pleasure of anal. It's down to preparation. Nobody wants a log jam or a smelly surprise. But playing both sides of the game, I can tell you that anal is incredibly different and so much more hotter than a pussy. Feels better which is why most guys will blow their load almost straight away. But it's not an endless tube so some of you might not get in all the way. X" I appreciate that & yes I have heard on fab that anal is way tighter but that may depend on the pussy too. Texture would be different too & some women prefer anal sex too to vaginal, it's just not for me 👍 | |||
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"Tried it once cos I had thrush but was feeling horny🙈 It was with a long term partner, we used lube and a condom and went nice and slow. It was kinda like a second virginity moment for both of us so that was nice and special. It didnt have as much sensation and control for me as I like so wouldn't bother doing it again to be honest. " What???? 👀🤮 | |||
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"No idea if more popular, but definitely butt plugs are. Now you can spot them in the gym. But sure its your body enjoy it as you see fit. " Now I'm going to be on the lookout 😂 | |||
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