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Intensity or duration?

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I saw this fun quote and I want to see what you think of it, it is about intensity or duration in sex.

Did you know that both the intensity and duration of sexual activity contribute to a fulfilling sexual experience, but they do so in different ways, like intense could be hard and fast, whilst duration could be long time but slower.

What do you you prefer? I prefer a mix of them, but generally I like the intensity one.

That got me thinking, ladies, do you think that intensity is a more satisfying experience than duration?

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

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The most satisfying experience for me is when things are fluid during the experience - one moment there could be the primal intensity and next that gives way to slower, more playful fucking.

That being said... slower and longer can be intense. Like during missionary when I can feel every inch and it's teasingly good. Lots of kissing, the eye contact, when we move together.

I think I find them both important and want both. Can't choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Hard and fast, if its good then do it again. I'm not into slow and sensual unless it's someone I want to spend lots of time with/on.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
3 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

Depends what's needed in the moment I think. Both are amazing experiences...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It's definitely possible to maintain intensity for prolonged periods.

I'm not a huge fan of spending hours on the actual penetrative part of sex, I do usually prefer that to be on the intense side and without much need for longevity. But I do like the prolonged periods of build up. The best sex for me generally takes a good few hours, but I consider everything outside the penetrative as sex, I only really want the penetration for a short time around the climax 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"It's definitely possible to maintain intensity for prolonged periods.

I'm not a huge fan of spending hours on the actual penetrative part of sex, I do usually prefer that to be on the intense side and without much need for longevity. But I do like the prolonged periods of build up. The best sex for me generally takes a good few hours, but I consider everything outside the penetrative as sex, I only really want the penetration for a short time around the climax 💜"

Well said

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By *atinaChica54Woman
3 weeks ago

Marlborough


"The most satisfying experience for me is when things are fluid during the experience - one moment there could be the primal intensity and next that gives way to slower, more playful fucking.

That being said... slower and longer can be intense. Like during missionary when I can feel every inch and it's teasingly good. Lots of kissing, the eye contact, when we move together.

I think I find them both important and want both. Can't choose. "

This ⬆️

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"The most satisfying experience for me is when things are fluid during the experience - one moment there could be the primal intensity and next that gives way to slower, more playful fucking.

That being said... slower and longer can be intense. Like during missionary when I can feel every inch and it's teasingly good. Lots of kissing, the eye contact, when we move together.

I think I find them both important and want both. Can't choose. "
Hi _eli, that is good the most satisfying experience for you is, when things are fluid during the experience, yes, you are right there, both are important too

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By *ust and PoundCouple
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

This is where edging is good. You can get the intensity and the duration of hours or days.

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By *vaRoseWoman
3 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Are we talking about simple penis-in-vagina fucking? Because that on its own isn’t going to butter my crumpets.

There’s so much more to sex than a hump and a grunt at the finish line, no matter how hard or fast it is.

I like things fluid. Natural. The kind of sex where intensity isn’t a race to some predictable end, and duration isn’t just fucking pumping away for hours.

I want it messy. I want it controlled. I want slow needy kisses that turn into gasping moans, and firm hands that suddenly soften just to make you crave the grip again. It should ebb and flow, pull you under, then let you breathe just enough before the next wave.

Great sex is intense. It’s pressure. It’s rhythm. It’s knowing when to stop just before the edge, and when to shove someone right over it.

Give me something that makes me forget how many hours we’ve spent. Something that drags out, crashes in, and leaves us both panting and utterly spent. I don’t want one speed or one goal. I want the whole fucking symphony

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

I want it all. I'm greedy.

I want a mix of sensations and intensity. Hard, fast, animalistic... Slow, languid and sensual. Little breaks in between for strokes and giggles.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

Tbh all this is great but women are getting what my little pickle has the capacity to give. 🥱

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By *sStephenPickleMan
3 weeks ago

Ends


"Tbh all this is great but women are getting what my little pickle has the capacity to give. 🥱 "

KIDDING. I am quite excellent at sex

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Hate to sound like a stuck record, repeating what everybody else has said but it just depends / both.

If she’s on all fours with her head and shoulders trapped in the tumble dryer then a bit of intensity, hard and fast from behind is what’s needed to unloosen her & get her out, but if I’m in a romantic mood and it’s the last load of washing , I might go nice and slowly, I’ll be there for a good hour or so, listening to her sexy little cries of ‘help me I’m stuck’ .

So both / it depends.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

For me it's both situationally dependent and also varie on who I'm with.

Variety is the spice and all that. A long drawn out session with a partner can be amazing, but then so can a brief quickie.

Likewise spontaneous fun in clubs can be enjoyable.

There's no one size fits all or specific favourite to me. 🤷‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Nothing to add, your honour.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Hard and fast, if its good then do it again. I'm not into slow and sensual unless it's someone I want to spend lots of time with/on. "
Hi cinnamon, that is good you like it hard and fast, yes, unless it is someone you want to spend lots of time with too

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By *uitedSuitorMan
3 weeks ago

Halifax / Leeds

Build the intensity up, build the tension, build the desire…then relax into passion.

The duration depends on who can take the tension the longest

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Hate to sound like a stuck record, repeating what everybody else has said but it just depends / both.

If she’s on all fours with her head and shoulders trapped in the tumble dryer then a bit of intensity, hard and fast from behind is what’s needed to unloosen her & get her out, but if I’m in a romantic mood and it’s the last load of washing , I might go nice and slowly, I’ll be there for a good hour or so, listening to her sexy little cries of ‘help me I’m stuck’ .

So both / it depends."
That is good it is both too

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By *onnie 90Woman
3 weeks ago

Leeds


"I saw this fun quote and I want to see what you think of it, it is about intensity or duration in sex.

Did you know that both the intensity and duration of sexual activity contribute to a fulfilling sexual experience, but they do so in different ways, like intense could be hard and fast, whilst duration could be long time but slower.

What do you you prefer? I prefer a mix of them, but generally I like the intensity one.

That got me thinking, ladies, do you think that intensity is a more satisfying experience than duration? "

I'd say a firm 7/10 meets I've had off fab lack both duration and intensity.

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By *otsowickedCouple
3 weeks ago

Galway

It's both for me, we can switch from hard intense sex to slow sex and it's just as intense and satisfying.

The duration doesn't seem to bother us either, as we have fucked for hours without realising how long it was.

We are late for most things 🤣🙊

Mrs. 🩷

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Depends what's needed in the moment I think. Both are amazing experiences...

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Hi missilia, yes, you are right there, it depends what is needed in the moment, yes, both are amazing experiences too

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By *entlemanG8orgeMan
3 weeks ago

nearby

When you have intensity, you want it longer si they go hand in hand.

I'm greedy always wanting more of everything

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Intensity definitely.

A hard fucking, followed by that wonderful twitching release.

But then I want it again...

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"I want it all. I'm greedy.

I want a mix of sensations and intensity. Hard, fast, animalistic... Slow, languid and sensual. Little breaks in between for strokes and giggles. "
Hi kinkyycurvyy, that is good you want it all and a mix of it too

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By *entmike76Man
3 weeks ago

bury

Mix it up

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By *aybeLadyWoman
3 weeks ago

West Dublin

Intensity. But not like 2mins duration 😁

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances


"The most satisfying experience for me is when things are fluid during the experience - one moment there could be the primal intensity and next that gives way to slower, more playful fucking.

That being said... slower and longer can be intense. Like during missionary when I can feel every inch and it's teasingly good. Lots of kissing, the eye contact, when we move together.

I think I find them both important and want both. Can't choose. "

Perfectly stated... finding a man that comprehends that is rare!! Especially on this site

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By *each_BananaCouple
3 weeks ago

China

Sex with my Wife is the best ever...

We do mix it up alot, she usually cums from my licks and sucks. Recently she has started to cum from me just sucking her titties which is amazing.

Slow and tender at the beginning but usually gets harder and faster. As I've got older I'm much better at staying, I use no enhancements and we can f*** for three to four hours no problem. It's hot in China now so we are so sweaty afterwards.

Every now and then we stop to caress, lick and suck each other. Everytime she cums with my cock I love to lick her cum, she loves it and will then quickly orgasm again. She also loves sucking me when I'm sticky from her cum.

Sometimes we make love but very often we f***.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
3 weeks ago

Coventry

Either/or. Great sex is great sex and great sex is what I want. Its about the quality and result, not about if it was short or long. And it's great to have sexual variety and the type of sex that fits the moment just right.

Mr

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Intensity. But not like 2mins duration 😁"
Hi _aybelady, that is good you like intensity, yes, longer than 2min too

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By *isskxxyvWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading


"I saw this fun quote and I want to see what you think of it, it is about intensity or duration in sex.

Did you know that both the intensity and duration of sexual activity contribute to a fulfilling sexual experience, but they do so in different ways, like intense could be hard and fast, whilst duration could be long time but slower.

What do you you prefer? I prefer a mix of them, but generally I like the intensity one.

That got me thinking, ladies, do you think that intensity is a more satisfying experience than duration? "

I want both OP..🙃 I’m a greedy girl who needs high intensity but long long sessions. I always want more, always want to cum and cum and cum.

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By *andering_welshman2025Man
3 weeks ago

KIRKBY


"Tbh all this is great but women are getting what my little pickle has the capacity to give. 🥱

KIDDING. I am quite excellent at sex "

I’m not….so I’ll go with your original remark 😜😂😂

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