FabSwingers.com forum: A sexual term you don’t like

By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP Couple
8 weeks ago

West Suffolk

Is there a sexual term you don’t like? Not the action itself but the slang for it. For example for me it’s “breeding”. A man that wants to get fucked bareback and the top cums inside them. I have no issues at all with the act, just really dislike it being called “breeding”

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Central

Titties

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By *oomerangboyMan
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Yeah I’m with you on that one OP, the term breeding makes my skin crawl !

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Bristol

Panties. Total cringe.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

East Sussex

Quite a few but 'body count' puts me in mind of mass murderers. I abhor the phrase

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By *odgerMooreMan
8 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

I hadn’t really thought of one then you said breeding…

yup that!!

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By *r.EdibleMan
8 weeks ago

Fraserburgh

Pussy - call it anything other than that!

Any objectifying terms - BBC, BBW etc Bull.

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By *est_Yorkshire_GentMan
8 weeks ago

Leeds

For some reason panties bothers me and so does beaver.. I don’t get why adults are calling it a beaver

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By *orksBBW36Woman
8 weeks ago

Mansfield

‘Heavy cummer’

🤢

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By *tainesMan
8 weeks ago

_taines

Cum dump..yuk

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By *luebell888Woman
8 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Eat you out

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
8 weeks ago

South Wales

"Eat you out

This one!!

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By *hat.coupleCouple
8 weeks ago

Dartford

Daddy and breeding kink, just fuck right off!

Mrs x

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By *umlover30sWoman
8 weeks ago

Burgess Hill

Lol i’m ok with eating out and heavy cummer. For me its when a guy tells me he will “ruin me”. Ewww

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By *eeling naughty 1324Man
8 weeks ago

london

"Eat you out

This one!! "

Yeah agreed

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
8 weeks ago

Beverley

All suggestions so far, to be honest. Also 'man pussy'

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By *alf GarnetMan
8 weeks ago

Adlington x

I despise the word Cunt

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By *lirty_fit2Couple
8 weeks ago

Northumberland

I've heard the term being used for bareback between a man and woman too, we don't like it...

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP Couple
8 weeks ago

West Suffolk

"I've heard the term being used for bareback between a man and woman too, we don't like it..."

Yeah but you can actually “breed” with a woman, never gonna happen with a blokes arse lol

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By *g16discreetMan
8 weeks ago

Derby/Notts

Definitely breeding and daddy

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Not in your area

"Fuck-licking"

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By *ucka39Man
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

Village bike

Shag wagon

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
8 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Yeah, breeding sounds horrendous.

Cum dump, is also 🤢

When people call it a cunt. Only because I use that term as my top tier insult. 😅

Oh, and... I will never (sexually) call anyone Daddy, because that's what my little kids call their dad. 😬

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By *iamond couple twoCouple
8 weeks ago

Wakefield

Schoolgirl …. Instant block

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By *allucinatingGMan
8 weeks ago

Wild West Lothian

Anything disrespectful to women.

And breeding isn't a horrible term.

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By *ucka39Man
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

Just the term girl/girls as it's an adult site

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By *fffunCouple
8 weeks ago

Somewhere just outside London

There's quiet a few cingeyones

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By *onnynclaireCouple
8 weeks ago

Reading

Finger/fingering/fingered.

What are you like 16 years old!

Daddy. No thanks

To completion. It ain’t no computer game!

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By *ortySwitchMan
8 weeks ago

london

Daddy is one term that I hate. I know women say it’s not weird but…. There wrong. It IS weird.

Panties or titties are also cringe.

Squirt is a odd one too, that’s really off putting.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP Couple
8 weeks ago

West Suffolk

Yeah daddy is just 🤮 never understood how that can be remotely sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Titties, spunk, Jizz, C**t, and totally agree on the ‘Daddy’ thing, that’s fucking weird.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Not in your area

I don't like cuck/cuckold either.

If you're being objectively honest about it, it's people getting off on the idea of psychologically abusing their partner.

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By *vaRoseWoman
8 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Alpha

Daddy/mummy

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
8 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

Throat fuck, cum dump/bucket. Referring to someone as meat. Breeding is an awful term, I agree

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By *aizyWoman
8 weeks ago

west midlands

"Alpha

Daddy/mummy"

Yeah just these for me too, had a man in his 60's wanting to call me mummy

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By *midnight-Woman
8 weeks ago

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I gotta be honest, none mentioned so far really repel me

Squirting maybe... Oh and I've discovered that I most definitely do not like being squirted on

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"Definitely breeding and daddy"

Spot on!!

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By *s2walesCouple
8 weeks ago

Gwent...

C××t is our no no

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
8 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

And yeah the whole Daddy/little girl thing....

I don't particularly like the self proclaimed Dom because you never know what angle it's being approached from, I find it's used too freely as a way to behave abusively towards someone. As in my experiences those dynamics are organically formed over time. Rarely it's an instant thing

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Only heard it once tongue punch

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By *veenBeeTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Winchester

The word SPUNK, I hate it...

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By *immers123Woman
8 weeks ago

South Molton

When someone who's never met me, or knows anything about me says I will make you squirt.

I've never squirted in my life I doubt you will change that

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
8 weeks ago

Halloween Town, Dudleyish.

Breeding, Daddy, Dom, Aplha, Bull amongst others.

Sorry to breedingdaddydomaplhabull.

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
8 weeks ago

Anyone using the terms "flower, foof, kitty" etc. If you're a grown woman and using baby talk or kiddy language, I'll think you've got childhood issues and a hard pass.

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By *ndymac888Man
8 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Any American terms people might of heard watching porn, pussy or eat out.

It annoys me in a normal setting to “it’s my daughters prom this week” it’s her school disco ya melt.

I over heard some guy call his mate a douche bag in the pub the other day and honestly wanted to pray for a lightning strike on the pair of inbreds.

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By *rymedownunderMan
8 weeks ago

London/Australia

Can I see your bazookas?

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By *uziTV69TV/TS
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

Daddy, creepy as fuck

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By *heelerMan
8 weeks ago

Northants

Calling a pussy a cunt hate the word

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By *lex46TV/TS
8 weeks ago

Near Wells

"I despise the word Cunt

So do I

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By *.M79Man
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

Momma, daddy, and refering to adults as boys n girls, it's creepy n a bit wrong imo

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By *verageHoesCouple
8 weeks ago

Leeds

Fanny.

Also, years ago a bloke kept talking about how "wet" I made him. I think he was talking about pre-come? I dunno. Anyway, it was not arousing.

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By *asked_ebonyTV/TS
8 weeks ago

London & Brum

BBC

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By *um2me123Man
8 weeks ago

burin

Step...anything

Cun*

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By *onnynclaireCouple
8 weeks ago

Reading

Bull and alpha on our list too.

Don’t get the whole humiliation thing either

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Not in your area

"BBC"

Also this. And QoS.

If anyone was calling themselves QoS in certain parts of London they'd risk getting punched in the face, and rightly so.

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By *allipygousMan
8 weeks ago

Leicester

Hearing men refer to a woman as 'it'. Usually overheard in a gangbang situation.

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By *rPeachyMan
8 weeks ago

Bristol

Fanny. Closely followed by panties.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
8 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"Village bike yes this is so outdated now

Shag wagon "

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By *r lotharioMan
8 weeks ago

newcastle-under-lyme

gash. it's one step away from the c word

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By *edfordjohnMan
8 weeks ago

bedfordshire

Phrase I used to hear back in military days could never stand “Up to my nuts in guts” (slang for sex if you didn’t work it out), always thought was pretty vile term

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
8 weeks ago

Up North

"gash. it's one step away from the c word"

Yeah gash is awful, as is clunge and minge

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
8 weeks ago

belfast

Fuck licking.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Referring to women as girls

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Moist 🤢🤢

Anything that fetishises someone too

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By *exxyyDy11Man
8 weeks ago

North West

BBC, BWC, Snowbunny, QOS. Anything like that to do with race or race play turns me off big time.

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By *ife NinjaMan
8 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"And yeah the whole Daddy/little girl thing....

Got called Daddy once. Yeah, to be honest, it gave me a bit of sick in my mouth. 😬

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By *ansoffateMan
8 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

It's really how things are said and meant that matters to me.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
8 weeks ago

Hatfield

Hate the words

Minge

Cunt

Baps

Baby batter

Other rude word i can tolerate…

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By *eliWoman
8 weeks ago

Play.

Used for all manner of sexual acts

A standard example.

"Such a hot playtime ur the best babes cant wait for r next playdate xoxo"

Fucking awful.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
8 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"Eat you out

This!!! 🤮

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
8 weeks ago

Someplace

Bull, mommy, spunk, bareback

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By *exxyyDy11Man
8 weeks ago

North West

"Bull, mommy, spunk, bareback "

Oh jeeezzzz yeah mommy and spunk absolute no-no. You can add daddy there too

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
8 weeks ago

Norwich

"And yeah the whole Daddy/little girl thing....

Got called Daddy once. Yeah, to be honest, it gave me a bit of sick in my mouth. 😬"

Agreed it gives me the heebie jeebies!

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By *ife NinjaMan
8 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I dislike and mix up between sex and drugs. I don't want to know you're 420, honestly I hate the stench 😬

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By *oeBeansMan
8 weeks ago

Derby

"Play" or "fun" in relation to sex.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
8 weeks ago

North West

This word is probably not in relation to anything sexual, but I really hate the word "vibes". It really annoys me.

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By *atty CoramWoman
8 weeks ago

Wimbledon

"This word is probably not in relation to anything sexual, but I really hate the word "vibes". It really annoys me."

hate the word vibes

and fun.... and naughty... and pussy... and hung.... and bull.. and dom and sub and ....licking.. and ...gawjus

babes hun queen heavy cummer... load... pounding....tits....

i think i just hate crude base (sexual) terms

I dont find them or the people who use them particularly sexy

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple
8 weeks ago

Border of London

Words are interesting things.

We both grew up in (very different) environments where crude language was generally not used. We don't naturally use crude language or swear much ourselves. Interestingly, we don't get triggered particularly much by most of the terms brought up on this thread, despite never having used them in a sexual context (nor intending to).

On a conceptual level, we like to think that what consenting adults do is pretty much their business and it's not our place to judge others based upon what they want, and language forms a part of this: cuckold/dominance/parental/dehumanising terms are all fair enough for preferences, even if we don't relate to them. It gets a little iffy where terms implying children and lack of consent are concerned, outside of tightly controlled scenarios (and even then...).

That said... "gash" is somewhat awful. Simply because it reduces something beautiful into something brutal.

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