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Club snobs who won't entertain people who don't go to clubs - discuss!

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By *asygoing8 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

aldringham

Why are you on here?

Surely there is a more elite meeting group for you holy people?

Why are you so damn rude?

And who wants to be in a filthy room of used condoms and dirty cum covered furniture anyway???

PLEASE ENLIGHTEN ME AND CHANGE MY MIND! I like the idea, but it just seems like the Bowery or some kind of elite addiction which rings alarm bell for me!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading

What clubs have you been visiting? Try a different one.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
11 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Are you ok hun?

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By *oeBeansMan
11 weeks ago

Derby

"And who wants to be in a filthy room of used condoms and dirty cum covered furniture anyway???"

"I like the idea..."

Which one is it dude? 🤨

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By *vaRoseWoman
11 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I’m a little confused.

Are you upset that there are members who won’t meet others outside of a club?

My thoughts on that is that is entirely up to them to set the boundaries they’re willing to meet people in. Perhaps they’ve been repeatedly let down outside of clubs so choose to only meet there where there is at least a chance of playing with others if the other person doesn’t turn up.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
11 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Bro for many Fab isn’t just a site, it’s a lifestyle.

Part of the SWINGER LIFESTYLE.

Theirs a massive social aspect that goes with it.

And going to a club will do you good.

Not only will it expand your options & increase your chances. But you might also make some friends.

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By *xydadbodMan
11 weeks ago

Milton keynes


"Why are you on here?

Surely there is a more elite meeting group for you holy people?

Why are you so damn rude?

And who wants to be in a filthy room of used condoms and dirty cum covered furniture anyway???

PLEASE ENLIGHTEN ME AND CHANGE MY MIND! I like the idea, but it just seems like the Bowery or some kind of elite addiction which rings alarm bell for me!"

I'm not quite sure what the rant is about but this is a new one for me.. I didn't realised there a turf war between club goers and non club goers to be honest..

To be honest, I'm not really here to convince anyone anything really.. if it's not your thing, then it's not your thing.. but I do have to say for someone who hasn't been to clubs,how would you know it's filthy in there if you haven't seen it for yourself? I find most clubs to be quite clean, they provide anti bac sprays and paper rolls and expect goers to clean up after themselves as part of the club expectations.. OK, admittingly, not all club goers do this but you'll find this is quite rare in cases.. besides, I find it ironic that for someone who states in his profile he's looking for sweaty filthy dirty sex, by your assumptions. This should be right up your street won't it? 🤷🏻‍♂️🤣

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By *rdere OpusCouple
11 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Serious answer.

The better clubs are clean - spotlessly so.

Meeting in a club means if there’s no attraction with someone you’re meeting for the first time, you can part guilt free without feeling like the night is a loss.

Clubs are fantastic places to meet other people, even if you don’t play, and to have a great night out.

Clubs have facilities you’d never be able to access at home - we’re not all lucky enough to have room for a St Andrew’s Cross.

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By *asygoing8 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

aldringham

Looking for filthy sex but not std's arse hat

Belittling me will get you nowhere

Thanks for your attention!

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By *uenevereWoman
11 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Sorry OP but I'm a bit baffled...

I am not aware that "club snobs" exist. Though I'm sure there are plenty who only meet at clubs, I don't understand why this is an issue, just don't engage with them if clubs aren't your thing.

Your idea of what swinging clubs are like is also rather strange. It's not clear if you've had a bad club experience or if this is what you perceive them to be like. I've attended many clubs and I've never come across what you described. Although not everyone is good at cleaning up after themselves, this is the exception not the rule.

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By *ildTimes.Man
11 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

Don't offend the "Lifestyles" it's all they've got going on...terribly serious lot..., OP don't worry, clubs are for people that can't get laid with 1 to 1 meets, you're not missing anything 🥪

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By *uenevereWoman
11 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Looking for filthy sex but not std's arse hat

Belittling me will get you nowhere

Thanks for your attention!"

Are you OK?

According to your user names you are easy going, but you seem to be overly unhappy about those who attend swinging clubs.

People have different ways of doing things. Most people are not compatible. You can't allow others choices or preferences to impact on you, or Fab will be an unpleasant experience.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
11 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Looking for filthy sex but not std's arse hat

Belittling me will get you nowhere

Thanks for your attention!"

You think your more likely to catch an sti in a club?!?!?!?

Isn't that more to do with the activities you partake in, rather than the environment you are in?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
11 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"Looking for filthy sex but not std's arse hat

Belittling me will get you nowhere

Thanks for your attention!"

Because of course, you can't contract an std playing outside of clubs

OP, if you started this thread looking for answers, information and understanding, then throwing wild generalisations about things you seemingly know nothing about, you will only attract bad vibes.

Maybe people don't meet you because of your lack of compassion and understanding - both for them, and the lifestyle generally.

C

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By *uenevereWoman
11 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Don't offend the "Lifestyles" it's all they've got going on...terribly serious lot..., OP don't worry, clubs are for people that can't get laid with 1 to 1 meets, you're not missing anything 🥪"

I disagree.

Clubs are generally a much safer option for single ladies and area ideal for those who have busy lives and want to meet and swing without the weeks of swapping messages.

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
11 weeks ago

land of overweight munters

Enters the thread

Reads the posts

Sees the Diss

Exit...exit....exit

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By *asygoing8 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

aldringham

So it seems! Very odd bunch that love to promote!

Should be a Facebook click on my self esteem but you can't fuck me button for them!

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By *ou only live onceMan
11 weeks ago

London


"So it seems! Very odd bunch that love to promote!

Should be a Facebook click on my self esteem but you can't fuck me button for them!"

Qué??

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By *ildTimes.Man
11 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"Don't offend the "Lifestyles" it's all they've got going on...terribly serious lot..., OP don't worry, clubs are for people that can't get laid with 1 to 1 meets, you're not missing anything 🥪

I disagree.

Clubs are generally a much safer option for single ladies and area ideal for those who have busy lives and want to meet and swing without the weeks of swapping messages."

I guess it's for less picky types that are happy to jump into bed with someone they've met for 5 mins but I take your point , I check veris of people that go to clubs and it's overwhelmingly the more questionable and less attractive types , just my opinion though , though I am always right 😂🥪

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By *uenevereWoman
11 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"So it seems! Very odd bunch that love to promote!

Should be a Facebook click on my self esteem but you can't fuck me button for them!

Qué??"

I think the OP is disappointed at his lack of success.

At least that's my take on it.

Ladies are happy to flaunt themselves but not have sex with him.

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By *WBiOnlyCoupleCouple
11 weeks ago

St Helens


"So it seems! Very odd bunch that love to promote!

Should be a Facebook click on my self esteem but you can't fuck me button for them!"

Fuck, call the stroke, I just had an ambulance.

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By *uenevereWoman
11 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Don't offend the "Lifestyles" it's all they've got going on...terribly serious lot..., OP don't worry, clubs are for people that can't get laid with 1 to 1 meets, you're not missing anything 🥪

I disagree.

Clubs are generally a much safer option for single ladies and area ideal for those who have busy lives and want to meet and swing without the weeks of swapping messages.

I guess it's for less picky types that are happy to jump into bed with someone they've met for 5 mins but I take your point , I check veris of people that go to clubs and it's overwhelmingly the more questionable and less attractive types , just my opinion though , though I am always right 😂🥪"

Club goers come in all shapes and sizes and "attractiveness", just like the general population.

People often arrange to meet at clubs.

We often attend clubs but don't swing because there's nobody we want to have sex with who also wants to have sex with us.

Contrary to popular opinion, many swingers are quite picky.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
11 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders


"Why are you on here?

Surely there is a more elite meeting group for you holy people?

Why are you so damn rude?

And who wants to be in a filthy room of used condoms and dirty cum covered furniture anyway???

PLEASE ENLIGHTEN ME AND CHANGE MY MIND! I like the idea, but it just seems like the Bowery or some kind of elite addiction which rings alarm bell for me!"

Some people find it safer to meet in clubs...

Being so ranty is not a good look

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By *iss DevilWoman
11 weeks ago

Bedford

As others have said, clubs are much safer places for women to meet people. They also offer facilities you can't get at home, and only very few "clubs" are sleazy and dirty. Most are very clean, with antibacterial sprays available in playrooms so people could clean after themselves. Some clubs also have staff freshening the playrooms regularly.

Also, if you want to get into the lifestyle instead of just fucking around, clubs and organised socials are the best ways. However, if that's not your "scene", OP, just leave it to those who do enjoy it. It would limit your options but it's not impossible to meet away from clubs.

Just one more thing - you are aware that, by expressing your opinion about clubs and club goers (Which you are absolutely entitled to express, it's a public forum), you have alienated people who meet outside of clubs, too?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"As others have said, clubs are much safer places for women to meet people. They also offer facilities you can't get at home, and only very few "clubs" are sleazy and dirty. Most are very clean, with antibacterial sprays available in playrooms so people could clean after themselves. Some clubs also have staff freshening the playrooms regularly.

Also, if you want to get into the lifestyle instead of just fucking around, clubs and organised socials are the best ways. However, if that's not your "scene", OP, just leave it to those who do enjoy it. It would limit your options but it's not impossible to meet away from clubs.

Just one more thing - you are aware that, by expressing your opinion about clubs and club goers (Which you are absolutely entitled to express, it's a public forum), you have alienated people who meet outside of clubs, too? "

Yep.

As one of 'the more questionable and less attractive types' I have to agree.

I/we meet both in and out of clubs. But it's always useful to read the views, comments and opinions of others re club goers, as it definitely helps make decisions on who we'd look to engage with anywhere.

Even in Costa. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

Preferences and tolerance rule

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"PLEASE ENLIGHTEN ME AND CHANGE MY MIND!"

Because the events forum is handy to see what's on.

And no thanks, I'm okay with going to clubs without people who view them that way 💜

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By *he Filthy Gorgeous OnesCouple
10 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Have you explored a club atmosphere.

Probably not.

Try it once. Maybe twice.

Then you can see that you are a snob.

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By *avexxMan
10 weeks ago

cheshire

is it full of thatchers children

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Why are you on here?"

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To meet elite women. Failing that, to meet classy women. Failing that further, to meet chic women. And if all else fails...to meet quintessential ladies.

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By *tacie-JaneTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

I started in a club before arriving here…good fabbers will always leave a private room tidy.

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By *ife NinjaMan
10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I love a club. Quest and Kestrels are my faves. Not a snob, not precious, but I like to feel comfortable 🤓

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