FabSwingers.com forum: To what extent is your forum persona...

By *ake_or_death OP Man
29 weeks ago

Manchester

...representative of your persona in real life? If someone got to know you through your forum posts and then met you in person, would they be surprised in any way or are you the same IRL and online?

I come across better in the forums, not because I'm projecting a different persona but because I'm better with the written than the spoken until I'm comfortable with you. Plus in the forums you can imagine me as devilishly handsome with the voice of your choice!

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By *eordieJeansCouple
29 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’m exactly the same in real life. Outspoken, a bit of a dick and think I’m funnier than I am but I have a caring side that doesn’t come out very often on here.

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By *iker JackMan
29 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I will not write anything here that I will not say out of here

If the idea of this place is to meet someone then you’ll soon come unstuck when they realise you are totally different to here

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By *ozzybear1981Man
29 weeks ago

preston

I’d say I’m exactly the same in real life, just a positive, cheeky unfiltered guy that says exactly what’s on his mind really.

I’m just like marmite but I’m just me also.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I wear more clothes in real life.

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By *ffervescentMan
29 weeks ago

winfrith

I'm me take me or leave me but don't judge me

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By *exxyyDy11Man
29 weeks ago

North West

I'm the same on this site in general as I am in real life.

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By *andT2023Couple
29 weeks ago

in the middle

What you see in here is what you get in real life ...i dont have the energy for different personas lol ...essentially lazy 🤣

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By *929Man
29 weeks ago

bedlington

Try to be more serious here as approaching double figures for bans whenever I act like to in real life haha

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By *rHotNottsMan
29 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Probably a bit better in real life with women once they have my attention and I know them - things you won’t see online.

Other than that I’m the same. Authenticity is also something I really respect in others on here - particularly men.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
29 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I’m not here for the personalities 😏

I’m as annoying/awkward real life as I am on here

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
29 weeks ago

Essex

I think I project 80% of me on here and it is representative. I’m bouncy, sarcastic, flirty occasionally a bit sharp.

The missing 20%…. A more sensible thoughtful side & some important shit that only certain people get to see.

I think I’m bigger in real life as well 🤣

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By *endalshaggersCouple
29 weeks ago

Lake District

We try and come across in the same way

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
29 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"I’m exactly the same in real life. Outspoken, a bit of a dick and think I’m funnier than I am but I have a caring side that doesn’t come out very often on here."

Saves me writing anything. Repeat this for me. Centre of anything social going on, extrovert. Sarcastic AF. In fact, if anything I probably tone it down a touch on here.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
29 weeks ago

Tamworth

"I’m exactly the same in real life. Outspoken, a bit of a dick and think I’m funnier than I am but I have a caring side that doesn’t come out very often on here.

Saves me writing anything. Repeat this for me. Centre of anything social going on, extrovert. Sarcastic AF. In fact, if anything I probably tone it down a touch on here."

You did well on the not writing anything 😂

For me - if I am happy to put it in a post, I’d have been happy to say it in real life. No point in putting on a persona.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
29 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I’m exactly the same in real life. Outspoken, a bit of a dick and think I’m funnier than I am but I have a caring side that doesn’t come out very often on here.

Saves me writing anything. Repeat this for me. Centre of anything social going on, extrovert. Sarcastic AF. In fact, if anything I probably tone it down a touch on here."

It has to be toned down. Certain humour is frowned upon round these parts.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
29 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"I’m exactly the same in real life. Outspoken, a bit of a dick and think I’m funnier than I am but I have a caring side that doesn’t come out very often on here.

Saves me writing anything. Repeat this for me. Centre of anything social going on, extrovert. Sarcastic AF. In fact, if anything I probably tone it down a touch on here.

It has to be toned down. Certain humour is frowned upon round these parts."

No shiiiiiiiit. A few forum bans, a multi-block, ability to quickly get the Offended Brigade assembled. I have learned. There is always someone else who will take the hit nowadays. Usually a noob. I was that noob. 😂

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
29 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"I’m exactly the same in real life. Outspoken, a bit of a dick and think I’m funnier than I am but I have a caring side that doesn’t come out very often on here.

Saves me writing anything. Repeat this for me. Centre of anything social going on, extrovert. Sarcastic AF. In fact, if anything I probably tone it down a touch on here.

You did well on the not writing anything 😂

For me - if I am happy to put it in a post, I’d have been happy to say it in real life. No point in putting on a persona. "

I thought that as I read it CR. Thanks for picking up on my continued bellendery. Now I'm still writing ffs

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
29 weeks ago

Wherever

I think I don’t come across well through the forum, mainly due to language barrier, cultural differences and inability to express myself in written form which may come across as rude or bitter.

I’m a very different person in real life, when I can fully engage with the person, and express myself through spoken words, body language, eye contact and other forms of interaction.

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By *illy IdolMan
29 weeks ago

Midlands

I don't like using the term real life so I'll say face to face I'm more caring and not as cocky/arrogant. I can still be quite direct though.

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By *a LunaWoman
29 weeks ago

South Wales

I’m very shy and quiet. That probably doesn’t across on the forums. Or maybe it does. I dunno.

If I meet someone, irrespective of whether we have chatted online or on the phone or whatever for ages beforehand, it can take me months until I’m relaxed around them in person to be my sassy true self (in person).

I’m also more of a listener than a talker. And I don’t waffle and go on about my past sexploits in person

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
29 weeks ago

East Sussex

This is real life.

My forum persona is representative of 'fab' me. Its not false but it isn't quite the same one my dad sees for instance or my children. People are multi faceted.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I don't like using the term real life so I'll say face to face …"

Hard agree from me there.

The thing our grandchildren will find quaintest about us is that we distinguish the online from the ‘real’.

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By *maginitivemindMan
29 weeks ago

east mids

Always honest and straightforward you soon would get found out if youre just hiding behind the keyboard

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
29 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *illy IdolMan
29 weeks ago

Midlands

"I don't like using the term real life so I'll say face to face …

Hard agree from me there.

The thing our grandchildren will find quaintest about us is that we distinguish the online from the ‘real’."

I don't know why we do it. Escapism maybe

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By *affron40Woman
29 weeks ago

manchester

I don’t think my fun, friendly side comes across on the forum, but I’m just as dark in the flesh.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
29 weeks ago

somewhere

I'm quite confident here, I'm also a funny fuck, neither of which I am in real life.

Also my tits aren't always as perky

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
29 weeks ago

Leeds

Yeah I’m a nob in real life too.

Who knew 🤷🏻‍♂️.

The mr

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
29 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
29 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Exactly the same, obnoxious and I make no apology for it. I'm outspoken and don't have the time for people's bullshit.

I don't know how to be anything other than myself

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
29 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Those who have met me would know better. But I think I'm very much the same in person. The only difference is that if I'm sad I try not to bring it here. I'll let people see me be more vulnerable face to face.

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By *ubikslongswordMan
29 weeks ago

Rubiksville

I'm the same both online and offline, I'm annoying I know but I don't mean to be.

I just get something in my head and have to get it out, which I know comes across as rude

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By *obilebottomMan
29 weeks ago

All over

Not that different really though probably a bit more reserved till I get to know you, trust you and feel comfortable in your company. However, happy to have cake with anyone

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
29 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm willing to bet not many people show their absolute worst side.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
29 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I'm willing to bet not many people show their absolute worst side. "

The forum rules don’t allow it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
29 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I take everything each person has said with a pinch of salt. All of them are projections and to be fair, it's possible to perceive your mind without all the guff you exude on this thread.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
29 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I'm willing to bet not many people show their absolute worst side.

The forum rules don’t allow it."

Well there is that.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
29 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm quiet and fairly shy which is more apparent face to face, you can't see shyness online.

Other than that I'm equally shit at flirting in person as online and my views are the same.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I think I’m the same wherever I am. The people who I’ve met from here could give you a better answer though

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By *erfHerder74Man
29 weeks ago

Inverclyde

I’m an introvert (shy) and quiet (peaceful) in real life.

On the forum my mind and questions are the same, I try to be authentic for both.

Also like real life I’m often ignored or passed over

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By *ell GwynnWoman
29 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

This version of me has been filtered to exclude the mundane crap, the vulnerable side, the things I'm not comfortable a load of strangers seeing. I won't post when I'm having a particularly bad spell of intrusive thoughts, for example.

Everyone does this. What I allow through isn't false, it's just not the full picture.

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
29 weeks ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

I have many personas , from the history fan, the swashbuckling nerd, to the sensitive passionate & intense fab play, to the jokey not taking life too seriously……..it’s all me …..just not all about me . Only when one brings other people into the mix do you see all of me

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By *aseylee324Couple
29 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I'm less scary in real life, I've been told

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By *aomilatteCouple
29 weeks ago

Midlands

We're much more proffesonal in real life.

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By *hilloutMan
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

My forum persona is very much an accurate representation of how I am in person. Even the fab name has been described by many as apt in applying to my person.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
29 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Totally different probably. I don’t really say much or talk about personal things in public. I think only people who’ve met me and know me well actually know me.

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By *ealitybitesMan
29 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't have a persona.

I'm just me.

I'm not confrontational by nature but I will give my opinion even if it is the exact opposite of what everyone else is saying.

Anyone who has met me can confirm that I do wear clothes when out in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I take myself very seriously in real life, am anti social, hate humour, despise acerbic or ironic language, expect people to be serious in their conversation, and am clearly gay with no interest in women.

(* some of the above comments may not be an accurate reflection of what is said in my profile)

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By *uriousscouserWoman
29 weeks ago

Wirral

I'm much quieter on the forum than in real life. I don't have friends on here so don't feel the sense of community that would prompt me to join in a lot of discussions, which is not representative of real life me at all!

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By *asterMeliodasMan
29 weeks ago

Newmill

The way I am on here is the way I am in meatspace. I don't see any point in artifice. (And yes, I talk like I've swallowed a thesaurus in person as well)

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By *iker JackMan
29 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"The way I am on here is the way I am in meatspace. I don't see any point in artifice. (And yes, I talk like I've swallowed a thesaurus in person as well)"

Is meatspace done in a butchers or a deli 🤣🤣

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
29 weeks ago

Reading

I can be shy irl but otherwise pretty much the same.

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By *B69Woman
29 weeks ago

Wiltshire

So different in real life, I’m not one to share anything personal online and a lot quieter

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By *inxy777Woman
29 weeks ago

essex

I’m exactly the same in real life, well breasts are more covered!! X

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By *ornycougaWoman
29 weeks ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

I certainly don't curate a different online persona so I think I'm similar irl. I'm a sarcastic cow that doesn't take anything seriously, but I think I'm kinder and more sensitive than I probably come across when I'm active on here.

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
29 weeks ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

Same here and in real life.. Who has the energy to fake it?

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By *d mirerMan
29 weeks ago

lost

Just the same , if I had the inclination to invent a persona I’d make it better than this one 😂😂

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By *ake_or_death OP Man
29 weeks ago

Manchester

"Same here and in real life.. Who has the energy to fake it? "

I wasn't asking about faking anything. Just whether there's a natural difference between how you might come across on the forums or in-person. There's lots of reasons why you might (nerves, being better in writing than speaking, etc).

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

A real dichotomy from me, IRL im typically willing to be vulnerable with people that I choose to know better, 1:1.

A bit of spectrum thing, I have a thing here on the Forums and real life to always be authentic, but i nuance it here, turn the personal down, turn the cheeky up, the DNA of authentic me there.

But 1:1 100% authentic, self deprecatingly so. Things make sense better 1:1.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
29 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

I wouldn't like to say lol

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Someone once said I am "Like Night and Day."

Two sides to me , not in a bad way or a change in my personality, but you'll always see and get more of the real me in person 😊

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By *oiluvfunMan
29 weeks ago

Penrith

I’d like to think I’m exactly the same IRL as the image I project in here? I’m not trying to win any popularity contests by being someone I’m not, I say what I think as I see things, and people can either love me or not love me, that’s their prerogative. It’s not like I’ll be meeting anyone from the forums anytime soon!

I do have a much sexier voice IRL though, even if I do say so myself…..

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By *d mirerMan
29 weeks ago

lost

"Someone once said I am "Like Night and Day."

Two sides to me , not in a bad way or a change in my personality, but you'll always see and get more of the real me in person 😊"

The front and back ain’t bad either 😉

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
29 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm the same. I'd hope anyone I've met would see that.

We all have our ups and downs at times. These days when I'm not in the right head space I don't post. But that's a lot less frequent these days than a year or so ago.

I've seen some cases over the years where someone's online persona is significantly different from the reality though. When that happens I'll distance myself from them, both on and offline. There's enough drama in life to not need any additional input from people I can easily choose to avoid.

Generally though every forum user I've met has been lovely. And I've met a fair few. 😁

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By *elix SightedMan
29 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I’m fucking spectacular in person, maybe 10% more so than on the forums.

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By *viatrixWoman
29 weeks ago

Redhill

I used to say I am the same, what you see is what you get etc, but I think people like me better in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I pull the same nonsense in person. Sarcastic, dry wit, and people don’t know if I’m serious or full of nonsense.

I also dress the same as my photos in person. Minus full on lingerie out and about. I hide that with clothes on top.

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By *r.SJMan
29 weeks ago

Wellingborough

"...representative of your persona in real life? If someone got to know you through your forum posts and then met you in person, would they be surprised in any way or are you the same IRL and online?

Something similar to this... the genuine article across the board, though far more shy in real life and wouldn't go for the handsome bit on any account.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
29 weeks ago

Llanelli

Exactly the same, I just tone it down a little if think I'll offend someone

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"I’m fucking spectacular in person, maybe 10% more so than on the forums. "

You crack me up!! 😂🤣

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By *iscean_dreamMan
29 weeks ago

Llanelli

"I pull the same nonsense in person. Sarcastic, dry wit, and people don’t know if I’m serious or full of nonsense.

I also dress the same as my photos in person. Minus full on lingerie out and about. I hide that with clothes on top. "

That would get some looks walking around London in lingerie 🤣

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By *illan-KillashMan
29 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"...representative of your persona in real life? If someone got to know you through your forum posts and then met you in person, would they be surprised in any way or are you the same IRL and online?

Based on one of my veris, my forum and public persona are very different.

Quote: "Not as funny in person"

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"Someone once said I am "Like Night and Day."

Two sides to me , not in a bad way or a change in my personality, but you'll always see and get more of the real me in person 😊

The front and back ain’t bad either 😉"

You are such a cheeky sod! 🤣

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By *d mirerMan
29 weeks ago

lost

"Someone once said I am "Like Night and Day."

Two sides to me , not in a bad way or a change in my personality, but you'll always see and get more of the real me in person 😊

The front and back ain’t bad either 😉

You are such a cheeky sod! 🤣"

Aww thank you

That’s the nicest thing anyones said to me all day

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Me?????

I'm even bigger in real life than I am on here.

Even more so after a few drinks.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
29 weeks ago

Ends

I’m alright in person to those that like me online.

Nothing more to add tbh

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
29 weeks ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

"Same here and in real life.. Who has the energy to fake it?

That's me tellt

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By *laytime_13Woman
29 weeks ago

Lincs

Slightly more sarcastic and quick witted in person… online my brain has to think about it, by which time the conversation’s long moved on

If I wouldn’t say it in person I wouldn’t say it online.

I’d like to say I think here is as much of a reflection as who I am ‘for reals’ but perhaps best to ask that of people who’ve met me

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I dunno…. I’m much more miserable in real life.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
29 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I am the same in person - although it’s easier once you’ve met someone in person as the written word can be taken so many different ways. Sarcasm or a joke can get lost here so a lot of the times I don’t go there.

I don’t take myself seriously and look to have fun as much as possible.

On here, I don’t get involved in anything too serious as it’s a site for connecting with fellow swingers or people who enjoy the lifestyle so to me, I’ll just pass posts that encourage divisions.

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By *aizyWoman
29 weeks ago

west midlands

Pretty much the same really.

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Slightly more sarcastic and quick witted in person… online my brain has to think about it, by which time the conversation’s long moved on

If I wouldn’t say it in person I wouldn’t say it online.

I’d like to say I think here is as much of a reflection as who I am ‘for reals’ but perhaps best to ask that of people who’ve met me

(Note to self - get a meet with Playtime_13).

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By *laytime_13Woman
29 weeks ago

Lincs

"Slightly more sarcastic and quick witted in person… online my brain has to think about it, by which time the conversation’s long moved on

If I wouldn’t say it in person I wouldn’t say it online.

I’d like to say I think here is as much of a reflection as who I am ‘for reals’ but perhaps best to ask that of people who’ve met me

(Note to self - get a meet with Playtime_13).

Seems excessive to validate the above, I’m not sure I’m that interesting

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
29 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"I dunno…. I’m much more miserable in real life.

Absolute fibs

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Ilkley

My profile is more or less who I am, the bad as well as the good. I add a "diary note" to it a couple of times a year, I never remove any of the older words. Likewise my photos, I add a few new ones once in a while, most of the older ones are still there, the dates on the photos are the dates they were taken. I never reload old pictures with new date.

It's not a self-flattering profile, but I hope it gives a reasonably true impression of who I am.

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Slightly more sarcastic and quick witted in person… online my brain has to think about it, by which time the conversation’s long moved on

If I wouldn’t say it in person I wouldn’t say it online.

I’d like to say I think here is as much of a reflection as who I am ‘for reals’ but perhaps best to ask that of people who’ve met me

(Note to self - get a meet with Playtime_13).

Seems excessive to validate the above, I’m not sure I’m that interesting

I just want to see if I can laugh your knickers off.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
29 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Exactly the same as in real life. But in real life I’m more smol 💯

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"Exactly the same as in real life. But in real life I’m more smol 💯"

And loud 🤭

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By *till gameMan
29 weeks ago

Oldham

Not much difference, I tone my humour down a bit incase I get in trouble 😀

Prefer to chat face to face than online though

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By *ittlebirdWoman
29 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Exactly the same as in real life. But in real life I’m more smol 💯

And loud 🤭"

I love being loud. And I love your tits Boo. Fact 😘

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By *HUSH-Man
29 weeks ago

London

Pretty much the same. I can be quite shy until I get to know someone, that seems to be the same on here too though. I’d also say I’m more witty in real life as my humour is more situational.

I also wear a lot more clothes. The vast majority of people I know haven’t seen me with my top off….let alone my bum….. still can’t believe my arse is on the internet. I’ll never have a career in politics.

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By *laytime_13Woman
29 weeks ago

Lincs

"Pretty much the same. I can be quite shy until I get to know someone, that seems to be the same on here too though. I’d also say I’m more witty in real life as my humour is more situational.

On the contrary, isn’t that almost a pre-requisite for that sort of job?! The clothes thing is over rated though…

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By *HUSH-Man
29 weeks ago

London

"Pretty much the same. I can be quite shy until I get to know someone, that seems to be the same on here too though. I’d also say I’m more witty in real life as my humour is more situational.

On the contrary, isn’t that almost a pre-requisite for that sort of job?! The clothes thing is over rated though…"

You’re right. It’s actually quite tame in comparison. I need a saucy scandal.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"Exactly the same as in real life. But in real life I’m more smol 💯

And loud 🤭

I love being loud. And I love your tits Boo. Fact 😘"

Learn something new everyday.....

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"Someone once said I am "Like Night and Day."

Two sides to me , not in a bad way or a change in my personality, but you'll always see and get more of the real me in person 😊

The front and back ain’t bad either 😉

You are such a cheeky sod! 🤣

Aww thank you

That’s the nicest thing anyones said to me all day

You're welcome sweet cheeks! 🤪

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By *ipsforlipsMan
29 weeks ago

Midlands

Written down is always different to IRL, but I think I'm similar in both, so no surprises here

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By *riar BelisseWoman
29 weeks ago

Bliss

Exactly the same

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
29 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

we are totally what you see is what you get. Genuine and down to earth. Respectful. Kind, considerate and supportive to those on the same kind of wavelength.

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
29 weeks ago

Medway

I'm opinionated but definitely friendlier than I may seem on here.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
29 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I'm very laid back in real life until something pisses me off

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By *ilthycouple24Couple
29 weeks ago

Glasgow

My online me is me just more chatting in person I am socially awkward can say most boring thing and Burton out what ever my brain tell me no filters (shaggy)

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I think I perhaps come across better on the forums as I have time to collect my thoughts and write an appropriate response which you can't do in real life you're put on the spot.

I don't think I create a persona just for the forums as it's about the same in real life in that I probably came across as a bit nondescript to start with and once people became familiar with me, that's when more of my real personality started to come out.

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