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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen

Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
24 weeks ago

Ends

People attracted to people based on hair colour should be studied I think. It’s too hilarious

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

So they were attracted to you and your body on show, until they found out you have ginger hair on your head?

People are fucken weird.

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester

I see it just as a preference. Sounds harsh making a comment like that without even seeing the person but maybe you dodged a bullet?

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By *ristol_nicolaTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Bristol

Of course, this also people like me who think ginger is sexy! Not everyone of course, but the same can be said about brunettes.

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen


"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen)."

Jeeez 7 foot? And yeah I can understand. Just a little taken a back. But oh well. It is what it is.

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen


"People attracted to people based on hair colour should be studied I think. It’s too hilarious "

Is it mostly a UK thing?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
24 weeks ago

Ends


"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen)."

YOU CYAN NOT TRICK MEEEEEE

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).

Jeeez 7 foot? And yeah I can understand. Just a little taken a back. But oh well. It is what it is. "

He was 6 foot 10 at that age. The year photo is a bit funny, he's nearly a foot taller than everyone else.

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).

YOU CYAN NOT TRICK MEEEEEE"

wtf

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
24 weeks ago

Ends


"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).

YOU CYAN NOT TRICK MEEEEEE

wtf "

Oh shit you’re being serious

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).

YOU CYAN NOT TRICK MEEEEEE

wtf

Oh shit you’re being serious "

Deadly serious ffs

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
24 weeks ago

Ends


"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).

YOU CYAN NOT TRICK MEEEEEE

wtf "

meme reference btw of course

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By *amantha_NiteTV/TS
24 weeks ago

The Lake District

Sounds like the "oh no,your a ginger" could have been an excuse to duck out.

Put it down too their lose OP

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).

YOU CYAN NOT TRICK MEEEEEE

wtf meme reference btw of course"

"So I tied an onion to my belt, which was the style at the time..."

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen


"So they were attracted to you and your body on show, until they found out you have ginger hair on your head?

People are fucken weird."

Maybe I should wear a cap from now on

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen


"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).

Jeeez 7 foot? And yeah I can understand. Just a little taken a back. But oh well. It is what it is.

He was 6 foot 10 at that age. The year photo is a bit funny, he's nearly a foot taller than everyone else."

He would have been a great basketball player haha

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By *asterMeliodasMan
24 weeks ago

Newmill

I mean there's been a running joke among partners I've had that I almost exclusively date curvy redheads, but I'd never discount anyone just for not being one. XD Hair colour seems like one of the least logical things to discount potential matches with, but everyone has their preferences I guess.

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By *mber and FireCouple
24 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire

As a fellow ginge it always seemed to be one of two ways; I was an idle curiosity to be discussed, or something bordering an exotic fetish.

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By *revaunanceCouple
24 weeks ago

Exeter


"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. "

Try being grey!

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen


"Sounds like the "oh no,your a ginger" could have been an excuse to duck out.

Put it down too their lose OP"

Yeah it could have been. Never had an issue outside of here. But ah we. Yeah I will deffo see it as their loss

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen


"As a fellow ginge it always seemed to be one of two ways; I was an idle curiosity to be discussed, or something bordering an exotic fetish."

I remember being on holiday in Thailand and having locals pointing and coming up to me.

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By *anforkinkywomenMan
24 weeks ago

Barwell


"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. "

One persons trash is another person's treasure. I know that sounds a bit rude but they'll be plenty of stunning women who are attracted to gingers. You're an active person who takes care of your diet with them abs which is a turn on for a lot of women. Although dad bods are all in so don't worry if you want to replace your eggs and avocado with pizza and a beer.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
24 weeks ago

Wherever

Love a ginge.

Not enough on here though sadly.

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By *parkle1974Woman
24 weeks ago

Leeds

They maybe thought you would be to hot to handle

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen


"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion.

One persons trash is another person's treasure. I know that sounds a bit rude but they'll be plenty of stunning women who are attracted to gingers. You're an active person who takes care of your diet with them abs which is a turn on for a lot of women. Although dad bods are all in so don't worry if you want to replace your eggs and avocado with pizza and a beer."

Cheers mate. Appreciate that. Used to be pretty insecure about my hair growing up. But now. Wouldn't change it for the world. And yeah had plenty of compliments about the abs. Once again appreciate that buddy.

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen


"Love a ginge.

Not enough on here though sadly."

Yeah need more ginger guys on here. Spice things up (literally)

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By *nnCeeWoman
24 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. "

I like redheads.

There are those out there who like them, those who don't.

As someone else said, their loss x

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By *eroLondonMan
24 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...Or am I just blowing things out of proportion."

Yes, you're blowing things out of proportion. There are people on here who will vehemently state that they're not into Asians or Blacks.

You can dye your hair (as a possibility) but they ^ can't bleach their skins. ♥️

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen


"...Or am I just blowing things out of proportion.

Yes, you're blowing things out of proportion. There are people on here who will vehemently state that they're not into Asians or Blacks.

You can dye your hair (as a possibility) but they ^ can't bleach their skins. ♥️"

Yeah I get we all have preferences. Guess just taken aback as never had an issue with it outside of here. But ah well. It is what it is. Onwards and upwards.

As for dying my hair colour. I can't do that and I wouldn't want to do it.

Sadly a lot of people do bleach their skin in a lot of countries which is a terrible shame.

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
24 weeks ago

Leamington Spa


"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. "

We aren't usually bothered what the person looks like as long as they are clean and well groomed... Its not like we are entering into a full blown relationship with them.. We are looking for a short fun meet... Not interested in looks just cleanliness, respect and a good personality

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By *host63Man
24 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. "
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When it comes to this site w ery tiny thing is an issue to rejection

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen


"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion.

We aren't usually bothered what the person looks like as long as they are clean and well groomed... Its not like we are entering into a full blown relationship with them.. We are looking for a short fun meet... Not interested in looks just cleanliness, respect and a good personality "

Good mindset to have and judging from your profile. You've had a lot of success with that too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Central

Could have had a temporary hair dye

Someone may have had prior partners who looked like you, so they declined, when seeing your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

The cuts of not having a face picture in show dude.

Welcome to fab 👍🏻

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
24 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

You were chatting to someone some one some ONE ....... ONE ONE person expressed a preference.

How does that make it an issue on FAB ?

I have a preference for dark haired men. It wouldn't stop me being attracted to others but dark haired people I find more attractive than others.

I'm a natural blonde ( or was born )

Across the world I am as rare if not more rare than a red-head.

Why do men find blonde women so attractive ? They don't. It's a myth that gets embedded into society just like the red head myth - we will both be extinct in a 100 years or so though. Blonde is definitely a recessive gene.

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By *entlad 100Man
24 weeks ago

otford


"You were chatting to someone some one some ONE ....... ONE ONE person expressed a preference.

How does that make it an issue on FAB ?

I have a preference for dark haired men. It wouldn't stop me being attracted to others but dark haired people I find more attractive than others.

I'm a natural blonde ( or was born )

Across the world I am as rare if not more rare than a red-head.

Why do men find blonde women so attractive ? They don't. It's a myth that gets embedded into society just like the red head myth - we will both be extinct in a 100 years or so though. Blonde is definitely a recessive gene.

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By *vaRose43Woman
24 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Absolutely nothing wrong with red headed men!!

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By *ozzybear1981Man
24 weeks ago

preston


"Absolutely nothing wrong with red headed men!!"

My head is more a deep pink than a red

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By *edman60Man
24 weeks ago

south wales

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By *edman60Man
24 weeks ago

south wales

But its ok for them to change their natural colour. Ie purple black blue and a mix of all. Its a preference that should be needed given a try first. They may have lost a good person just because hes a ginge. Anyway. hair loss if u get the pun. once u had ginge u have to replace ur minge.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
24 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. "

If they're can't see beyond your hair colour and get to know you for you then I would say it's a bullet dodged.

People are very strange indeed

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen


"You were chatting to someone some one some ONE ....... ONE ONE person expressed a preference.

How does that make it an issue on FAB ?

I have a preference for dark haired men. It wouldn't stop me being attracted to others but dark haired people I find more attractive than others.

I'm a natural blonde ( or was born )

Across the world I am as rare if not more rare than a red-head.

Why do men find blonde women so attractive ? They don't. It's a myth that gets embedded into society just like the red head myth - we will both be extinct in a 100 years or so though. Blonde is definitely a recessive gene.

"

Oh no not an issue. I did state it is a preference and that is fine. However, was just taken aback by it. Primarily as never happened to me before. And never had an issue outside of this site. But ah well.

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Darwen


"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion.

If they're can't see beyond your hair colour and get to know you for you then I would say it's a bullet dodged.

People are very strange indeed"

People can be strange but it is what it is. We all have preferences. Onwards and upwards.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
24 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

What's the name of that British Long Jump Athlete with red hair .... now he's gorgeous and it's mostly in his smile and not his hair

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By *ffervescentMan
24 weeks ago

winfrith


"What's the name of that British Long Jump Athlete with red hair .... now he's gorgeous and it's mostly in his smile and not his hair "
Is he a ginger swinger though ?

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By *vaRose43Woman
24 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"What's the name of that British Long Jump Athlete with red hair .... now he's gorgeous and it's mostly in his smile and not his hair "

Greg Rutherford

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

It kinda is a problem although women with ginger hair isn't a problem for me. It's actually women with with wild hair colours like the colours of the rainbow that I find unattractive

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
24 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"What's the name of that British Long Jump Athlete with red hair .... now he's gorgeous and it's mostly in his smile and not his hair

Greg Rutherford "

Ah yes... great sportsman

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By *enelope2UWoman
24 weeks ago

Fife

It's an attribute just like anything else.. I just find it crazy that people base stuff on changeable attributes

Guess simple minds can't fathom knowing hair dye, colour eye contacts exist.

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