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"I'm on time. Maybe I'm unusual but it doesn't really bother me. Although I'm always unsure whether to leave my socks on. J" Socks stay on to ensure a speedier exit! | |||
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"I'm on time. Maybe I'm unusual but it doesn't really bother me. Although I'm always unsure whether to leave my socks on. J" I had knee high, fluffy socks on for my last one. I was freezing and left them on | |||
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"I'm on time. Maybe I'm unusual but it doesn't really bother me. Although I'm always unsure whether to leave my socks on. J Socks stay on to ensure a speedier exit!" I usually go skirt and flip flops to avoid the dilemma. It feels so weird to have no pants on with socks. J | |||
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"I'm on time. Maybe I'm unusual but it doesn't really bother me. Although I'm always unsure whether to leave my socks on. J Socks stay on to ensure a speedier exit! I usually go skirt and flip flops to avoid the dilemma. It feels so weird to have no pants on with socks. J" Yep don't do what I did once adverse boots and tights | |||
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"last time I went the nurse said I had a pretty cervix because when you've had treatment and had part of cervix removed and cauterized it's nice and smooth in there " Not to play Topps Trumps or anything, but aside from ablation surgery, I was told by the nurse I have a "tilted cervix", which might account for the really intense sensation guys get in there. | |||
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"Something you can’t say in regular company, anyone else find it physically pleasant? Same with transvaginal scans? Colposcopies with a biopsy and anything iud related, unpleasant, but now they have plastic speculum for smears and not the awful metal ones I have to focus on not showing signs that I’m getting turned on " Don't find it a complete turn on but there's something about it, I enjoy the chit chat, and the medical play fantasies might surface in my mind | |||
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"Something you can’t say in regular company, anyone else find it physically pleasant? Same with transvaginal scans? Colposcopies with a biopsy and anything iud related, unpleasant, but now they have plastic speculum for smears and not the awful metal ones I have to focus on not showing signs that I’m getting turned on Don't find it a complete turn on but there's something about it, I enjoy the chit chat, and the medical play fantasies might surface in my mind " Yeah I have strong medical fantasies after a pair of student drs tried to give me an unnecessary breast exam when I was a teenager in hospital. Turning trauma into kink is fairly standard, right? | |||
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"Something you can’t say in regular company, anyone else find it physically pleasant? Same with transvaginal scans? Colposcopies with a biopsy and anything iud related, unpleasant, but now they have plastic speculum for smears and not the awful metal ones I have to focus on not showing signs that I’m getting turned on Don't find it a complete turn on but there's something about it, I enjoy the chit chat, and the medical play fantasies might surface in my mind Yeah I have strong medical fantasies after a pair of student drs tried to give me an unnecessary breast exam when I was a teenager in hospital. Turning trauma into kink is fairly standard, right? " Standard no ,happens yes . | |||
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"Yes, you are allowed to have someone with you. I was late for mine once years ago and had to go through further treatment on that smear. I know me being late didn't cause it but it was scary enough to make sure I always had them on time after that. Had mine a couple of weeks ago, just waiting on the results. " Yeah I have to go for a follow up. I'm not worried the chances of it being the big c are small and treatment usually easy. But they are not fun. | |||
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"When I first got my letter 3 years ago, I kept putting it off. Had it done last year and didn’t take a chaperone but the woman was so incredibly kind and patient, and held my hand while I had a breakdown after it happened. I’m not due again for a while, but I’ll still definitely try my best to get it done" • Was your breakdown due to the (uncomfortable/painful) procedure or due to nervousness? | |||
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"I can't remember the last time I went, which must mean I'm due for one pretty soon. I might drop the surgery an email (if such things exist at the one I go to) to see... or just pick up the phone... " Checked back in my phone's diary, and turns out my last appointment was September 2022, so I've over a year to go until the next one. I also echo the checking your nuts boys, as well as everyone checking their chests for breast cancer (it's rare, but it can affect those with YY chromosomes too!) | |||
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"Luckily thanks to HPV vaccine being rolled out to girls (why not boys ffs) cervical cancer rates have gone down dramatically." Boys do get the vaccine. Both of my sons have. | |||
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"Get it booked bump. J" • Thank you my dårling. | |||
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"I had a smear when I was 21 for one of my chronic illnesses and it wasn’t fun at all (tilted uterus probs) and the funniest part of it was me moving and the speculum flying out lol " Ive had that, flew passed the drs face as she shouted, “oh my god!”. Asking them to use a longer speculum has stopped it. | |||
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"I'm on time. Maybe I'm unusual but it doesn't really bother me. Although I'm always unsure whether to leave my socks on. J" Yes. Either way feels odd | |||
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"I heard on the radio this morning that one in three women do not get tested. However, although it will take some years for trials to be completed, there is some improvement on the horizon. Obviously there is a HPV vaccination now, absolutely wonderful news for the kids but for adults, a young lady who had a distressing first experience but happened to be an engineering studying, has designed a device to help. No appointment needed, test done at home, results in 15 minutes." · Thank you for this dear fellow. | |||
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" Giving this a Monday bump Ladies please book in if you haven’t yet. " Got my reminder and booked in for 1st August x | |||
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" Giving this a Monday bump Ladies please book in if you haven’t yet. Got my reminder and booked in for 1st August x" Brilliant , glad to hear your booked in | |||
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"I'm still over due I've tried once to get an appointment but all the nurses were busy and I have tried again. It's so painful, I can't bare the thought " Do you have a trusted person who might be able to go with you and offer support? | |||
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"I'm still over due I've tried once to get an appointment but all the nurses were busy and I have tried again. It's so painful, I can't bare the thought " If you take some painkillers before you got it may help, also ask them to use loads of lube and explain to them when you book that you find in uncomfortable and painful and then again when you attend for the appointment. Hopefully they will be able to help you relax a little. It is uncomfortable but it shouldnt really be painful so do mention this to them x | |||
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"I'm still over due I've tried once to get an appointment but all the nurses were busy and I have tried again. It's so painful, I can't bare the thought " Aw Tess please bite the bullet and go. It's not pleasant but in my experience the nurses are absolute angels and will do everything to put you at ease, take your mind off it whilst it's happening and be as gentle as they can. It's worth the temporary discomfort for the peace of mind it brings x | |||
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"I'm still over due I've tried once to get an appointment but all the nurses were busy and I have tried again. It's so painful, I can't bare the thought " I'm the same Tess, I was actually in tears once it hurt so much, there is a fantastic nurse at my surgery though who actually listened and understood me when I explained to her how much it hurts when I have them, I always book in with her now when I have to have them. | |||
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"Id just like to add to this. Ive never missed a smear test nor have i ever had hpv or abnormal results until recently. 2 years ago i had my smear. Came back that hpv was present but no abnormal cells and to come back in 12 months for a further smear. So 1 year later i had my smear. Results were hpv was still present and ive had cell changes so i was called in for a colposcopy. I had my appt yesterday (16th july) and they took 2 biopsies. It wasnt pleasant but this could save my life. Im now waiting anxiously for my results. Ladies, smear tests are not a joke. Do not miss them or delay them. They could save your life." I can remember you posting and asking for info x Hopefully your results have come back and all is well x Also for anyone else who has recently had any tests and was waiting for results, I hope they are all coming back “safe” x | |||
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"Id just like to add to this. Ive never missed a smear test nor have i ever had hpv or abnormal results until recently. 2 years ago i had my smear. Came back that hpv was present but no abnormal cells and to come back in 12 months for a further smear. So 1 year later i had my smear. Results were hpv was still present and ive had cell changes so i was called in for a colposcopy. I had my appt yesterday (16th july) and they took 2 biopsies. It wasnt pleasant but this could save my life. Im now waiting anxiously for my results. Ladies, smear tests are not a joke. Do not miss them or delay them. They could save your life. I can remember you posting and asking for info x Hopefully your results have come back and all is well x Also for anyone else who has recently had any tests and was waiting for results, I hope they are all coming back “safe” x " Yes i did thank you for your kind words x | |||
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"Id just like to add to this. Ive never missed a smear test nor have i ever had hpv or abnormal results until recently. 2 years ago i had my smear. Came back that hpv was present but no abnormal cells and to come back in 12 months for a further smear. So 1 year later i had my smear. Results were hpv was still present and ive had cell changes so i was called in for a colposcopy. I had my appt yesterday (16th july) and they took 2 biopsies. It wasnt pleasant but this could save my life. Im now waiting anxiously for my results. Ladies, smear tests are not a joke. Do not miss them or delay them. They could save your life." I'm having the letter treatment in a few weeks, always have my snears done in time, had the colpscopy a few weeks and abnormal cells were found . Ladies please look after yourselves, if your nervous or uncomfortable just tell the nurse, please get the tests done | |||
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"Not a smear test but late for a mammogram call , when I went they found Dcis said if I had come earlier they probably wouldnt have found it . 7 weeks later I had a lumpectomy followed by radiotherapy. Dont put off your recalls they are important . Keep healthy everyone . " • 🌸 🌈 | |||
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"Bumping this as a public cervix message. 🩶" You know what OP, this thread kind of nagged me to go get mine. Had left it far too long and every time this thread popped up it made me feel a bit guilty for not getting it done. Did get it done and all good. So thank you 🙏🏻 | |||
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