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Need to meet a nice gentle soul who’s not pushy for sex!! It’s not all about that you know!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago

This popped up in my Hot list feed.

The question is, is it true?

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
30 weeks ago

wonderland.

I'd say it's true

Cali

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By *WB85Man
30 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It can be true, some want friendship etc etc.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
30 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Different people want different things

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Women just want the penis whether they admit it or not.. true story.

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Potentially. My best meets have been with those with a bit more dimension than thrust and grunt.

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By *arialoueWoman
30 weeks ago

bradford

I'm looking for someone localish n friendship with potential for more

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I want a guy that has a rough soul with a dreamy voice. (And a nice penis as it is mainly about the sex)

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!! "

He'll go far^

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By *he Silver FuxMan
30 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!!

He'll go far^"

We’re all hoping it’s far away

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By *aTina HeadTurnerWoman
30 weeks ago

Travelling


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!! "

Sorry to break it to you but that’s bollocks.

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!! "

I want to be treated like a human being.

If that's too woke or hard work for anyone, I suggest investing in a fleshlight.

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By *agnar73Man
30 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Dunno, at the end of the day, sex is what both are after, but don’t need to shout shag me now, if you know it’s a sure thing I guess

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
30 weeks ago

Middle England


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!! "

It's all about you; anyone would be so lucky to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!!

I want to be treated like a human being.

If that's too woke or hard work for anyone, I suggest investing in a fleshlight."

I’m not saying u can’t be treated the right way but if you are looking to date and go for coffees the use dating sites.. This is a sec site where people meet to have sex and fuck and be filthy!! Not for you to be wined and dined and then offer nothing in return…

Sorry to break it to all the woke people but no one owes you anything… stop asking to be worshipped and expect no give nothing in return!

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By *obilebottomMan
30 weeks ago

All over

Cake anyone?

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think we're all here for sex.

And while some people see coffee and a chat as an impediment and an unnecessary burden, let me explain it like this.

Not everyone treats people as well as you might hope. I was raised - as I guess many women were - to be wary of the prospect of being taken advantage of, both sexually and in terms of violence. It might have been overdone, but it's done. And it's part of my psyche.

Coffee and a chat is part of my psycho check. Can we have a reasonable conversation in a public place (where I can *escape* if it turns out I have met a psycho)? Can I look you in the eye and not worry that you're being deceptive? Do I feel like you value my safety? That you respect my humanity above your pleasure?

If I can't establish that, I'm not meeting. I want to go home at the end of the night, unscathed. With a smile on my face.

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!!

I want to be treated like a human being.

If that's too woke or hard work for anyone, I suggest investing in a fleshlight.

I’m not saying u can’t be treated the right way but if you are looking to date and go for coffees the use dating sites.. This is a sec site where people meet to have sex and fuck and be filthy!! Not for you to be wined and dined and then offer nothing in return…

Sorry to break it to all the woke people but no one owes you anything… stop asking to be worshipped and expect no give nothing in return! "

Don't worry, I owe you nothing, either. My safety protocol of talking to someone before being naked and vulnerable with them comes with two options: take it, or leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

To many fucking dumb ass 2’s and 3’s on here thinking they are 10’s… wake the fuck up and please do me a favour and block me!! Would much rather avoid you…. so do us both a favour and block me, I welcome it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!!

I want to be treated like a human being.

If that's too woke or hard work for anyone, I suggest investing in a fleshlight.

I’m not saying u can’t be treated the right way but if you are looking to date and go for coffees the use dating sites.. This is a sec site where people meet to have sex and fuck and be filthy!! Not for you to be wined and dined and then offer nothing in return…

Sorry to break it to all the woke people but no one owes you anything… stop asking to be worshipped and expect no give nothing in return! "

How's that working out for you?

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By *agnar73Man
30 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Cake anyone? "

Yes please.

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By *intiemintieWoman
30 weeks ago

Scottish Borders


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!! "

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Is this the knob-end option/alternative to the ubiquitous dickpic as an opening gambit?

It's put me right off sex.

lol xx

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By *rowley616Man
30 weeks ago

Scarborough

Impossible, nice never gets us noticed.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
30 weeks ago

Middle England


"To many fucking dumb ass 2’s and 3’s on here thinking they are 10’s… wake the fuck up and please do me a favour and block me!! Would much rather avoid you…. so do us both a favour and block me, I welcome it!!!! "

And no one owes you anything either.

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"To many fucking dumb ass 2’s and 3’s on here thinking they are 10’s… wake the fuck up and please do me a favour and block me!! Would much rather avoid you…. so do us both a favour and block me, I welcome it!!!! "

Oh, so people you find unattractive should just put out in the way you see fit?

I don't give a fuck if I'm a negative ten million: the most ugly woman to have ever walked the planet, that makes penises shrivel and fall off. I still have a right to do things my way. If you don't like it, jog on.

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By *agnar73Man
30 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Impossible, nice never gets us noticed."

Don’t be so sure. Women notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"Cake anyone? "

No, give him a rusk and his blankie. That's what you do to calm a tantrum, isn't it?

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By *appytaffWoman
30 weeks ago

blackwood


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!!

He'll go far^

We’re all hoping it’s far away"

I’m sure he will be popular lol

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

How do you tell the whole of the forums you aren't getting any.....see above.

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By *obilebottomMan
30 weeks ago

All over


"Cake anyone?

Yes please."

Lovely, any preference? I have lemon drizzle, berry pavlova, carrot cake and sackertorte (my favourite)

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Impossible, nice never gets us noticed."

Nice is necessary not sufficient.

Imagine if someone complained that they didn't get a job because they wipe their arse.

That's about the same thing. Yes, XYZ Corp wants to hire people who are toilet trained, but they also want other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I don't expect to be wined and dined ... but if we go for a coffee and you pay that doesn't mean I owe you sex. I am not a sex worker so don't treat me like one.

I also need intellectual stimulation as a prelude to foreplay.

And weirdly enough between the thrusting and grunting I'd like a conversation and a laugh.

And I thought this was a swinging site not a sex site where women in any way owe men or couples anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I’m perfectly fine lol, I just find it absolutely hilarious these woke idiots are trying to turn this into a dating site, one of their safe spaces… like they get triggered because someone actually comes on here for sex… imagine coming to a sex site for site!! But yet these 2’s and 3’s can’t get it in the real world with their unrealistic expectations so they try to take over other forums…. Ship em all off to mars and leave them there!!

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By *WB85Man
30 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I love the different opinions that topic has shown.

Swinging isn't just one set of rules on how it works. Make it what you want it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"I think we're all here for sex.

And while some people see coffee and a chat as an impediment and an unnecessary burden, let me explain it like this.

Not everyone treats people as well as you might hope. I was raised - as I guess many women were - to be wary of the prospect of being taken advantage of, both sexually and in terms of violence. It might have been overdone, but it's done. And it's part of my psyche.

Coffee and a chat is part of my psycho check. Can we have a reasonable conversation in a public place (where I can *escape* if it turns out I have met a psycho)? Can I look you in the eye and not worry that you're being deceptive? Do I feel like you value my safety? That you respect my humanity above your pleasure?

If I can't establish that, I'm not meeting. I want to go home at the end of the night, unscathed. With a smile on my face."

Exactly this too.

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By *aTina HeadTurnerWoman
30 weeks ago

Travelling


"To many fucking dumb ass 2’s and 3’s on here thinking they are 10’s… wake the fuck up and please do me a favour and block me!! Would much rather avoid you…. so do us both a favour and block me, I welcome it!!!! "

Gotta love it when trash takes themselves out. And people didn’t even need to lift their finger.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"How do you tell the whole of the forums you aren't getting any.....see above.

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of course you pay for a subscription and you are then meant to be awash with wet pussy begging for your dick.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
30 weeks ago

cardiff


"I’m perfectly fine lol, I just find it absolutely hilarious these woke idiots are trying to turn this into a dating site, one of their safe spaces… like they get triggered because someone actually comes on here for sex… imagine coming to a sex site for site!! But yet these 2’s and 3’s can’t get it in the real world with their unrealistic expectations so they try to take over other forums…. Ship em all off to mars and leave them there!! "

It sounds like you can't get 'it' in the real world or here. Oh well..

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m perfectly fine lol, I just find it absolutely hilarious these woke idiots are trying to turn this into a dating site, one of their safe spaces… like they get triggered because someone actually comes on here for sex… imagine coming to a sex site for site!! But yet these 2’s and 3’s can’t get it in the real world with their unrealistic expectations so they try to take over other forums…. Ship em all off to mars and leave them there!! "

Is it woke for a woman to make sure she's safe before she meets someone for sex?

How attractive does a person have to be to be able to determine what they do with their own body and their time? Does anyone under a 4 not have a right to decide if they want to be safe?

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By *GentlemanMan
30 weeks ago

Worcestershire

It absolutely is in my book!

Mental connection and stimulation is so much more powerful and addictive than just physical!

I’m happy to chatting to folks on here, meeting them. Doesn’t mean I want sex with them all! I’d rather have a great social connection than a wham bam meeting with no mental connection! Can’t be arsed with the later, in fact, never have! Rather pleasure myself than shag someone with no mental attraction!

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


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How attractive does a person have to be to be able to determine what they do with their own body and their time? Does anyone under a 4 not have a right to decide if they want to be safe?"

I would happily be a mediocre 3 if that meant I avoided having cavemen waving their dicks in my face demanding they are owed a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"Cake anyone? "

A nice slice of Lemon Drizzle please

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"

How attractive does a person have to be to be able to determine what they do with their own body and their time? Does anyone under a 4 not have a right to decide if they want to be safe?

I would happily be a mediocre 3 if that meant I avoided having cavemen waving their dicks in my face demanding they are owed a shag. "

My guess is they'd get even more upset.

If you're a 2, you should take it and be grateful!!!!

Whereas if you're a ten, ... well, you're probably (insert a bunch of horrible things here) but at least you have an excuse because of the queue out your door.

Or everyone has a right to bodily autonomy. What a fucking concept.

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By *illy IdolMan
30 weeks ago

Midlands

It depends who wrote it. Male or female?

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"It absolutely is in my book!

Mental connection and stimulation is so much more powerful and addictive than just physical!

I’m happy to chatting to folks on here, meeting them. Doesn’t mean I want sex with them all! I’d rather have a great social connection than a wham bam meeting with no mental connection! Can’t be arsed with the later, in fact, never have! Rather pleasure myself than shag someone with no mental attraction! "

This ^^^^^

Do you come with cake?

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It depends who wrote it. Male or female?"

Not going to lie, if I saw a guy writing that I might actually be more inclined to message them.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
30 weeks ago

North East / London

Some interesting reactions to say the least.

Actually, I was thinking: why doesn’t something like that pop up on my feed - sounds a really intriguing lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"I’m perfectly fine lol, I just find it absolutely hilarious these woke idiots are trying to turn this into a dating site, one of their safe spaces… like they get triggered because someone actually comes on here for sex… imagine coming to a sex site for site!! But yet these 2’s and 3’s can’t get it in the real world with their unrealistic expectations so they try to take over other forums…. Ship em all off to mars and leave them there!! "

This very much reminds me of Beautiful Ladies (In Honour of Chris de Burgh) by Bill Bailey

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
30 weeks ago

SPALDING

Obviously sex is part of swinging we all know that, but it's also about the social side of things too. So for someone to not consider that is just foolish of himself. Sounds like a right selfish moron, he'd probably cum first and then leave and let the woman finish herself off. As for saying he doesn't want to go for a coffee then that's fine, but some people just need that little social meet to vent and relax. If a woman wanted to just go for a innocent social then I'd be up for it, as you never know that person is dealing with and could make their day.

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By *unchalMan
30 weeks ago

Dartford


"This popped up in my Hot list feed.

The question is, is it true?"

What does it mean? Someone wanting sex from someone they met on a sex site? Doesn’t seem unreasonable. This is a sex with strangers kinda site? A bit weird, if you ask me. This might not be the best place for them.

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By *agnar73Man
30 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"How do you tell the whole of the forums you aren't getting any.....see above.

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Accurate.

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Obviously sex is part of swinging we all know that, but it's also about the social side of things too. So for someone to not consider that is just foolish of himself. Sounds like a right selfish moron, he'd probably cum first and then leave and let the woman finish herself off. As for saying he doesn't want to go for a coffee then that's fine, but some people just need that little social meet to vent and relax. If a woman wanted to just go for a innocent social then I'd be up for it, as you never know that person is dealing with and could make their day. "

An innocent social is also the starting point for me meeting someone for more. It's a safety thing.

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By *GentlemanMan
30 weeks ago

Worcestershire


"It absolutely is in my book!

Mental connection and stimulation is so much more powerful and addictive than just physical!

I’m happy to chatting to folks on here, meeting them. Doesn’t mean I want sex with them all! I’d rather have a great social connection than a wham bam meeting with no mental connection! Can’t be arsed with the later, in fact, never have! Rather pleasure myself than shag someone with no mental attraction!

This ^^^^^

Do you come with cake? "

As a Cornishman I’ll certainly tell you the correct order to apply jam and cream to a scone.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
30 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!! "

^^ he got the secret, he got the key

Mr

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By *agnar73Man
30 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I think we're all here for sex.

And while some people see coffee and a chat as an impediment and an unnecessary burden, let me explain it like this.

Not everyone treats people as well as you might hope. I was raised - as I guess many women were - to be wary of the prospect of being taken advantage of, both sexually and in terms of violence. It might have been overdone, but it's done. And it's part of my psyche.

Coffee and a chat is part of my psycho check. Can we have a reasonable conversation in a public place (where I can *escape* if it turns out I have met a psycho)? Can I look you in the eye and not worry that you're being deceptive? Do I feel like you value my safety? That you respect my humanity above your pleasure?

If I can't establish that, I'm not meeting. I want to go home at the end of the night, unscathed. With a smile on my face."

This.

I’d like to know a little about someone, even if it’s the basics, have a chat and a laugh if possible, make a connection before jumping their bones.

Having sex, getting sex needs a little finesse and at minimum some people skills and at the end of every single profile is a person (fakes too) and there’s a human factor to all of it.

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By *imisugarWoman
30 weeks ago

Rugby

Definitely true and I think it's great you can connect with lots of people on here. I've geneuinely had some wonderful conversations from here and meet some really interesting people.

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
30 weeks ago

Durham

It is sometimes about exploring in sensual that involves indulging in various physical pleasures and sensations with a partner. It’s not always just a shag.

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
30 weeks ago

SPALDING


"Obviously sex is part of swinging we all know that, but it's also about the social side of things too. So for someone to not consider that is just foolish of himself. Sounds like a right selfish moron, he'd probably cum first and then leave and let the woman finish herself off. As for saying he doesn't want to go for a coffee then that's fine, but some people just need that little social meet to vent and relax. If a woman wanted to just go for a innocent social then I'd be up for it, as you never know that person is dealing with and could make their day.

An innocent social is also the starting point for me meeting someone for more. It's a safety thing."

Exactly, safe place with plenty of people about. I don't blame you at all. Safety comes first at all times.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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30 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!!

I want to be treated like a human being.

If that's too woke or hard work for anyone, I suggest investing in a fleshlight.

I’m not saying u can’t be treated the right way but if you are looking to date and go for coffees the use dating sites.. This is a sec site where people meet to have sex and fuck and be filthy!! Not for you to be wined and dined and then offer nothing in return…

Sorry to break it to all the woke people but no one owes you anything… stop asking to be worshipped and expect no give nothing in return! "

I hate to break it to you...

But plenty do date from here. They also meet partners. Some even end up getting married.

Almost as if it's possible for the site to be used by different people in different ways.

If all you want is sex then that's fine. There'll be others seeking the same. But you'll generally find that those that like a little more of a social aspect to their Fab life, including sometimes wining and dining, coffees and yes, dates, are often more successful than those that expect it to be all about quick hook ups.

Use the site as you wish and let others do the same. Their choices don't impact anyone but themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again…

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again… "

So if I'm on here, I should not make sure I'm safe?

You've used pronouns in your diatribe, for what it's worth. Do you know what they are?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
30 weeks ago

Reading

Yes!!!!

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By *ootnootboopCouple
30 weeks ago

Cheshire


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!!

He'll go far^"

Very very far indeed

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By *rHotNottsMan
30 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Very true.

The sex is important but pretty much anyone here can do a decent job of that , so the other things become the important stuff to choose on

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again… "

You're actually contradicting the website itself, which advises us users to "have a social meet somewhere safe and public first e.g. cafe, pub."

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By *obilebottomMan
30 weeks ago

All over


"Cake anyone?

A nice slice of Lemon Drizzle please "

On the way

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By *hingumyWoman
30 weeks ago

Somewhere


"I think we're all here for sex.

And while some people see coffee and a chat as an impediment and an unnecessary burden, let me explain it like this.

Not everyone treats people as well as you might hope. I was raised - as I guess many women were - to be wary of the prospect of being taken advantage of, both sexually and in terms of violence. It might have been overdone, but it's done. And it's part of my psyche.

Coffee and a chat is part of my psycho check. Can we have a reasonable conversation in a public place (where I can *escape* if it turns out I have met a psycho)? Can I look you in the eye and not worry that you're being deceptive? Do I feel like you value my safety? That you respect my humanity above your pleasure?

If I can't establish that, I'm not meeting. I want to go home at the end of the night, unscathed. With a smile on my face."

Exactly this.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
30 weeks ago

Reading


"Cake anyone?

Yes please.

Lovely, any preference? I have lemon drizzle, berry pavlova, carrot cake and sackertorte (my favourite)"

Now you are just showing off.

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again…

You're actually contradicting the website itself, which advises us users to "have a social meet somewhere safe and public first e.g. cafe, pub." "

There's a Venn diagram for this.

If a woman wants safety checks, she's a stuck up bitch. If something happens, she should have made sure she was safe.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
30 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again… "

I'm going to give my reality of experience of fab, I met my partner through fab. And yes we dated and swung at thr same time, so that's proves your bollocks rationale wrong

Mr

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again…

I'm going to give my reality of experience of fab, I met my partner through fab. And yes we dated and swung at thr same time, so that's proves your bollocks rationale wrong

Mr "

I joined on a Sunday. Met someone for a social on Monday. Liked him, we were going to meet for more on Thursday.

Landed in hospital needing surgery on Wednesday

Meet postponed for a month.

We're still friends all these years later.

There are a couple of people I've talked to for up to two years before I met them for the first time. (2020 happened) One, at the moment we're talking almost every day even though our in person meetings are annual.

They enrich my life. And I don't think I've asked anything outrageous of them. My guess is they'd agree.

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By *ansoffateMan
30 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"I have just had a similar one in my feed!! ITS A FUCKING SEX SITE!! I mean I don’t get this whole dating approach to this site… if people want to date go to Facebook or tinder! This is a swinging site, people meet to fuck and have fun! Way too many woke people joining and making it such a boring site!!! No one wants to meet anymore because most single blokes on here don’t wna meet you for a coffee and a chit chat about ur boring life at work and how ur kids won the egg and spoon race at sports day!!! "

It's a swingers site and swinging is inherently inclusive of couples so it is fundamentally about 'dating' as much as it is about sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again…

You're actually contradicting the website itself, which advises us users to "have a social meet somewhere safe and public first e.g. cafe, pub."

There's a Venn diagram for this.

If a woman wants safety checks, she's a stuck up bitch. If something happens, she should have made sure she was safe."

Are the women on the diagram are called Stacy and Becky?

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again…

You're actually contradicting the website itself, which advises us users to "have a social meet somewhere safe and public first e.g. cafe, pub."

There's a Venn diagram for this.

If a woman wants safety checks, she's a stuck up bitch. If something happens, she should have made sure she was safe.

Are the women on the diagram are called Stacy and Becky?"

I think it's more, choose your own adventure. Whatever you choose, it's your fault.

(I did read some of those series where none of the outcomes were pleasant. Door A, fiery death. Door B, death by other unpleasant means. Turn around and walk away, eaten by a tiger)

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
30 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again…

I'm going to give my reality of experience of fab, I met my partner through fab. And yes we dated and swung at thr same time, so that's proves your bollocks rationale wrong

Mr

I joined on a Sunday. Met someone for a social on Monday. Liked him, we were going to meet for more on Thursday.

Landed in hospital needing surgery on Wednesday

Meet postponed for a month.

We're still friends all these years later.

There are a couple of people I've talked to for up to two years before I met them for the first time. (2020 happened) One, at the moment we're talking almost every day even though our in person meetings are annual.

They enrich my life. And I don't think I've asked anything outrageous of them. My guess is they'd agree."

Alas Swing some don't see the opportunity's of connection available to them on fab, and have a twisted sense of what others want, or plain don't give a fuck about what they want

Mr

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again…

I'm going to give my reality of experience of fab, I met my partner through fab. And yes we dated and swung at thr same time, so that's proves your bollocks rationale wrong

Mr

I joined on a Sunday. Met someone for a social on Monday. Liked him, we were going to meet for more on Thursday.

Landed in hospital needing surgery on Wednesday

Meet postponed for a month.

We're still friends all these years later.

There are a couple of people I've talked to for up to two years before I met them for the first time. (2020 happened) One, at the moment we're talking almost every day even though our in person meetings are annual.

They enrich my life. And I don't think I've asked anything outrageous of them. My guess is they'd agree.

Alas Swing some don't see the opportunity's of connection available to them on fab, and have a twisted sense of what others want, or plain don't give a fuck about what they want

Mr "

This is why fleshlights exist though

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
30 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again…

I'm going to give my reality of experience of fab, I met my partner through fab. And yes we dated and swung at thr same time, so that's proves your bollocks rationale wrong

Mr

I joined on a Sunday. Met someone for a social on Monday. Liked him, we were going to meet for more on Thursday.

Landed in hospital needing surgery on Wednesday

Meet postponed for a month.

We're still friends all these years later.

There are a couple of people I've talked to for up to two years before I met them for the first time. (2020 happened) One, at the moment we're talking almost every day even though our in person meetings are annual.

They enrich my life. And I don't think I've asked anything outrageous of them. My guess is they'd agree.

Alas Swing some don't see the opportunity's of connection available to them on fab, and have a twisted sense of what others want, or plain don't give a fuck about what they want

Mr

This is why fleshlights exist though "

Never needed one, hope I never do....

Mr

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again…

I'm going to give my reality of experience of fab, I met my partner through fab. And yes we dated and swung at thr same time, so that's proves your bollocks rationale wrong

Mr

I joined on a Sunday. Met someone for a social on Monday. Liked him, we were going to meet for more on Thursday.

Landed in hospital needing surgery on Wednesday

Meet postponed for a month.

We're still friends all these years later.

There are a couple of people I've talked to for up to two years before I met them for the first time. (2020 happened) One, at the moment we're talking almost every day even though our in person meetings are annual.

They enrich my life. And I don't think I've asked anything outrageous of them. My guess is they'd agree.

Alas Swing some don't see the opportunity's of connection available to them on fab, and have a twisted sense of what others want, or plain don't give a fuck about what they want

Mr

This is why fleshlights exist though

Never needed one, hope I never do....

Mr "

Fair.

But I suppose... if I have options between stuff I don't want or staying at home... staying at home is also a valid option many people don't consider.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
30 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Some of these degenerates have more fucking Pronouns than brain cells!!! Completely missed the point that it’s ok for you to feel safe and it’s ok for to go on coffee date… but use a different platform! This isn’t a dating site!! Like seriously I reckon if we combined all of your IQ’s together we would still be in trouble… It’s the typical Victim mentality bullshit again… it gets boring and I’m so glad it’s slowly dieing out… can’t wait to see the back of this movement and go back to normal again…

I'm going to give my reality of experience of fab, I met my partner through fab. And yes we dated and swung at thr same time, so that's proves your bollocks rationale wrong

Mr

I joined on a Sunday. Met someone for a social on Monday. Liked him, we were going to meet for more on Thursday.

Landed in hospital needing surgery on Wednesday

Meet postponed for a month.

We're still friends all these years later.

There are a couple of people I've talked to for up to two years before I met them for the first time. (2020 happened) One, at the moment we're talking almost every day even though our in person meetings are annual.

They enrich my life. And I don't think I've asked anything outrageous of them. My guess is they'd agree.

Alas Swing some don't see the opportunity's of connection available to them on fab, and have a twisted sense of what others want, or plain don't give a fuck about what they want

Mr

This is why fleshlights exist though

Never needed one, hope I never do....

Mr

Fair.

But I suppose... if I have options between stuff I don't want or staying at home... staying at home is also a valid option many people don't consider."

And at times the best option, especially with the pickings on here at times

Mr

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