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"I’m led to beleive that if she stays there will be trouble, but if she goes there will be double…" Come on just let me know | |||
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"I’m led to beleive that if she stays there will be trouble, but if she goes there will be double… Come on just let me know" Should she stay or should she go? | |||
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"And.... ...she lost Excellent news and welcome deterrent." Only if you believe we should be responsible for foreign terrorists. | |||
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"And.... ...she lost Excellent news and welcome deterrent. Only if you believe we should be responsible for foreign terrorists. " Fair shout | |||
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"Children who are groomed should be looked after by their home nation, not made stateless." Agree | |||
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" 1. She was groomed when she was 15. If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.why are we blame what was, a 15 year old girl for being groomed into something she did not have the capacity to fully understand. She was a child. " So. Let's say a young male was groomed online from age 15 to get involved in sadistic sexual activity by predators. After six months he moved to an area with these predators and (from 16-20) he helped to lure in children and he participated in abducting a couple of people who were then assaulted and killed. Do we still feel the same way? | |||
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" 1. She was groomed when she was 15. If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.why are we blame what was, a 15 year old girl for being groomed into something she did not have the capacity to fully understand. She was a child. So. Let's say a young male was groomed online from age 15 to get involved in sadistic sexual activity by predators. After six months he moved to an area with these predators and (from 16-20) he helped to lure in children and he participated in abducting a couple of people who were then assaulted and killed. Do we still feel the same way?" I don’t think anyone should be suggesting that Begum didn’t do wrong - the argument I believe is who is responsible for dealing with her now. I fail to see any argument against her being our responsibility. | |||
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" 1. She was groomed when she was 15. If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.why are we blame what was, a 15 year old girl for being groomed into something she did not have the capacity to fully understand. She was a child. So. Let's say a young male was groomed online from age 15 to get involved in sadistic sexual activity by predators. After six months he moved to an area with these predators and (from 16-20) he helped to lure in children and he participated in abducting a couple of people who were then assaulted and killed. Do we still feel the same way?" Australia are currently prosecuting a young woman who was groomed and abused as a minor for trying to arrange to have sex with other minors, (once she was of age). I'm pretty disgusted with how a badly abused young woman is being treated in that case. | |||
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"Children who are groomed should be looked after by their home nation, not made stateless." In this case I disagree, I suggest that those who groomed her, The religious institutions are well known and the one local to her family specifically are still open and doing what they always did. Once these criminals are recognised as such, then bring home the victims. Undoubtedly I need to stop now or I will get cancelled from the chat rooms. | |||
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" 1. She was groomed when she was 15. If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.why are we blame what was, a 15 year old girl for being groomed into something she did not have the capacity to fully understand. She was a child. So. Let's say a young male was groomed online from age 15 to get involved in sadistic sexual activity by predators. After six months he moved to an area with these predators and (from 16-20) he helped to lure in children and he participated in abducting a couple of people who were then assaulted and killed. Do we still feel the same way? I don’t think anyone should be suggesting that Begum didn’t do wrong - the argument I believe is who is responsible for dealing with her now. " "If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.” This was purely a response to the above text in point 1 above. About "not blaming". | |||
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" 1. She was groomed when she was 15. If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.why are we blame what was, a 15 year old girl for being groomed into something she did not have the capacity to fully understand. She was a child. So. Let's say a young male was groomed online from age 15 to get involved in sadistic sexual activity by predators. After six months he moved to an area with these predators and (from 16-20) he helped to lure in children and he participated in abducting a couple of people who were then assaulted and killed. Do we still feel the same way?" Yes. Because he would still be dealt with by the law. Why have you framed this like he was saying she should be let off? | |||
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" 1. She was groomed when she was 15. If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.why are we blame what was, a 15 year old girl for being groomed into something she did not have the capacity to fully understand. She was a child. So. Let's say a young male was groomed online from age 15 to get involved in sadistic sexual activity by predators. After six months he moved to an area with these predators and (from 16-20) he helped to lure in children and he participated in abducting a couple of people who were then assaulted and killed. Do we still feel the same way? I don’t think anyone should be suggesting that Begum didn’t do wrong - the argument I believe is who is responsible for dealing with her now. "If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.” This was purely a response to the above text in point 1 above. About "not blaming"." He’s completely right. In fact, he’s basically reiterated the age of responsibility in the mental capacity act. That’s still not to say that people won’t be dealt with for breaking the law | |||
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"I have been watching and following this case since 2015 and realise that there is much I don't and will never know about the whole situation...so I have to trust the professionals/ experts with judgement and hope they have reached the right decision..." They have bowed to pressure from the British public. | |||
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"I have been watching and following this case since 2015 and realise that there is much I don't and will never know about the whole situation...so I have to trust the professionals/ experts with judgement and hope they have reached the right decision... They have bowed to pressure from the British public. " And rightly so. | |||
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" 1. She was groomed when she was 15. If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.why are we blame what was, a 15 year old girl for being groomed into something she did not have the capacity to fully understand. She was a child. So. Let's say a young male was groomed online from age 15 to get involved in sadistic sexual activity by predators. After six months he moved to an area with these predators and (from 16-20) he helped to lure in children and he participated in abducting a couple of people who were then assaulted and killed. Do we still feel the same way? Yes. Because he would still be dealt with by the law. Why have you framed this like he was saying she should be let off? " Because the comparison to a young girl groomed into sex is wrong. In one case, the girl is a victim and nothing more. In the other, the girl is a perpetrator of a crime. It was not a comment on whether the outcome was right or wrong, or even whether there should or should not be blame. You could equally ask why the comparison was framed as a girl groomed into sex. Blame can also be shared, and mitigated by indoctrination, surely? In the example given with the 15yo groomed into sex, there's almost certainly no blame. In Shamima's case, there is an argument that there is shared blame, but also mitigation. | |||
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" 1. She was groomed when she was 15. If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.why are we blame what was, a 15 year old girl for being groomed into something she did not have the capacity to fully understand. She was a child. So. Let's say a young male was groomed online from age 15 to get involved in sadistic sexual activity by predators. After six months he moved to an area with these predators and (from 16-20) he helped to lure in children and he participated in abducting a couple of people who were then assaulted and killed. Do we still feel the same way? Yes. Because he would still be dealt with by the law. Why have you framed this like he was saying she should be let off? Because the comparison to a young girl groomed into sex is wrong. In one case, the girl is a victim and nothing more. In the other, the girl is a perpetrator of a crime. It was not a comment on whether the outcome was right or wrong, or even whether there should or should not be blame. You could equally ask why the comparison was framed as a girl groomed into sex. Blame can also be shared, and mitigated by indoctrination, surely? In the example given with the 15yo groomed into sex, there's almost certainly no blame. In Shamima's case, there is an argument that there is shared blame, but also mitigation." If you have to frame your thoughts on a question as an hypothetical rather than the question, it’s because you know your thoughts on the original question don’t bear any scrutiny. | |||
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" If you have to frame your thoughts on a question as an hypothetical rather than the question, it’s because you know your thoughts on the original question don’t bear any scrutiny." What rubbish. There was an analogy given. A more accurate analogy was proposed. | |||
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"I have three point, two points that might not be unpopular. 1. She was groomed when she was 15. If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.why are we blame what was, a 15 year old girl for being groomed into something she did not have the capacity to fully understand. She was a child. 2. You often see in news papers and people's opinions on immigrants/asylum seekers who commit crimes in this country to be sent back home. I would expect that if a UK national had committed a crime in another country to serve their sentence and be sent back to the UK. 3. Once back in the UK she should be risk assessed, tried and sentenced accordingly." I don't have a strong argument against 2 and 3. But 1 is not valid. When a young girl is groomed for sex, it's not her having sex that's the crime. It's only grooming that's crime. But when it comes to terrorism, both her act of terrorism and grooming itself are both crimes. Not to mention she doesn't look like she regrets her decision at all. People would have some sympathy if she feels sorry for what she did. But that definitely doesn't seem to be the case? | |||
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"I found these documentaries on the subject of Isis brides interesting: "My daugthter and the caliphate" "Leaving the Islamic State -- Life back in Germany" Both available on the DW channel on YouTube." Thanks | |||
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"There is more to this story than meets the eye" I thought that surely there must be more evidence of her being a threat, to merit the stripping of her citizenship, than viewing her like the other returned British born pro ISIS fighters, or young victims of trafficking. They don't see her as a brainwashed teen that's now radicalised, traumatized & numb to emotion but essentially harmless, our problem & able to face concequences on her return, so seems there's more reasoning thats hidden?! Or is it that she's an easy political goal to humour the public & keep her from returning? | |||
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"I’m led to beleive that if she stays there will be trouble, but if she goes there will be double…" haha very good. | |||
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"I have three point, two points that might not be unpopular. 1. She was groomed when she was 15. If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.why are we blame what was, a 15 year old girl for being groomed into something she did not have the capacity to fully understand. She was a child. 2. You often see in news papers and people's opinions on immigrants/asylum seekers who commit crimes in this country to be sent back home. I would expect that if a UK national had committed a crime in another country to serve their sentence and be sent back to the UK. 3. Once back in the UK she should be risk assessed, tried and sentenced accordingly. I don't have a strong argument against 2 and 3. But 1 is not valid. When a young girl is groomed for sex, it's not her having sex that's the crime. It's only grooming that's crime. But when it comes to terrorism, both her act of terrorism and grooming itself are both crimes. Not to mention she doesn't look like she regrets her decision at all. People would have some sympathy if she feels sorry for what she did. But that definitely doesn't seem to be the case?" I point one I never mention if it's a crime or not. All I said we don't appropriate blame in grooming cases. The point I was trying to make is that when someone who is young and is groomed are being manipulated into an act. | |||
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"Let her rot with the rest of them were she is . At 15 yrs old you no right from wrong ." If at 15 a child is not deemed to have the capacity to consent to sex or enter many other contracts, then she is not old enough to understand the long-term consequences of other actions. | |||
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"Quite concerning the number of people who are absolutely convinced that 15 year old girls are definitely old enough to know exactly what they are doing and can definitely consent and take responsibility for whatever anyone does to them." Even after she became an adult, she was supportive of ISIS and said she didn't regret joining them | |||
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"Quite concerning the number of people who are absolutely convinced that 15 year old girls are definitely old enough to know exactly what they are doing and can definitely consent and take responsibility for whatever anyone does to them. Even after she became an adult, she was supportive of ISIS and said she didn't regret joining them" So you think that after being groomed to join ISIS in the first place, then being part of ISIS for a few years, where she would’ve been controlled in very frightening ways, she would risk her life and say how terrible ISIS is? | |||
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"This will be unpopular she Gave up her citizen ship & detested Britain wanting acts of terror to be committed to the country she abandoned. Her & any other party who were to do this should never be allowed to step back into this country. She was actively celebrating the decapitation of British taken hostage by Isis what about there families they will not want her back in the UK. She gave up her citizenship by choice let her live with the consequences, i know there will be a lot who won’t agree & those that will but it’s my opinion on this & it won’t change! " I totally agree with this point. She has to accept her actions have consequences and now live with it! | |||
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"There is more to this than they are telling us I believe. Decisions made are underpinned by knowledge we have no clue about sourced by those in higher places. I have a friend in counter terrorism and some stuff he tells me is terrifying. I trust their judgement because they know more than I ever will on the subject." This makes sense. I assume she is a national security threat, rather than just another innocent who has been groomed! I'd rather not give a terrorist the benefit of the doubt! | |||
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"Quite concerning the number of people who are absolutely convinced that 15 year old girls are definitely old enough to know exactly what they are doing and can definitely consent and take responsibility for whatever anyone does to them. Even after she became an adult, she was supportive of ISIS and said she didn't regret joining them So you think that after being groomed to join ISIS in the first place, then being part of ISIS for a few years, where she would’ve been controlled in very frightening ways, she would risk her life and say how terrible ISIS is?" She said she had no regrets joining ISIS even after she left ISIS. She said she left ISIS because it was corrupt and oppressive, but she didn't really mind the beheadings. | |||
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"Quite concerning the number of people who are absolutely convinced that 15 year old girls are definitely old enough to know exactly what they are doing and can definitely consent and take responsibility for whatever anyone does to them. Even after she became an adult, she was supportive of ISIS and said she didn't regret joining them" Absolutely this. Don't forget the beheading she said she was fine about and didn't bother her. The whole saga is a massive deterrent for any UK citizen thinking of joining a terrorist group. All the sympathisers, would you be saying this if it was a man instead. | |||
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"Quite concerning the number of people who are absolutely convinced that 15 year old girls are definitely old enough to know exactly what they are doing and can definitely consent and take responsibility for whatever anyone does to them. Even after she became an adult, she was supportive of ISIS and said she didn't regret joining them So you think that after being groomed to join ISIS in the first place, then being part of ISIS for a few years, where she would’ve been controlled in very frightening ways, she would risk her life and say how terrible ISIS is?" Impossible to say. The two videos I referenced earliet in this thread document a similar case in Germany. | |||
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"Quite concerning the number of people who are absolutely convinced that 15 year old girls are definitely old enough to know exactly what they are doing and can definitely consent and take responsibility for whatever anyone does to them. Even after she became an adult, she was supportive of ISIS and said she didn't regret joining them Absolutely this. Don't forget the beheading she said she was fine about and didn't bother her. The whole saga is a massive deterrent for any UK citizen thinking of joining a terrorist group. All the sympathisers, would you be saying this if it was a man instead. " She was a girl, not a woman. I’d be quite disturbed if anyone were to consider a 15 year old girl a woman. So the equivalent would be a boy. And yes, I would be saying this if she had been a boy. She should be brought home and tried in a British court, the face whatever sentence is deemed correct. Again, Google Rhianan Rudd and see how a white child was treated in a similar position. | |||
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" All the sympathisers, would you be saying this if it was a man instead. " Pointing out that she is our responsibility is not being a sympathiser. Yes, I would expect the same of a man - a terrorist born in the UK is the UK’s responsibility. | |||
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"Quite concerning the number of people who are absolutely convinced that 15 year old girls are definitely old enough to know exactly what they are doing and can definitely consent and take responsibility for whatever anyone does to them." Quite concerning, the number of sycophantic, hand-wringing, bleeding heart apologists! She will die in a dusty, flea-bitten refugee camp surrounded by her ilk.. Good! | |||
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"Quite concerning the number of people who are absolutely convinced that 15 year old girls are definitely old enough to know exactly what they are doing and can definitely consent and take responsibility for whatever anyone does to them. Even after she became an adult, she was supportive of ISIS and said she didn't regret joining them Absolutely this. Don't forget the beheading she said she was fine about and didn't bother her. The whole saga is a massive deterrent for any UK citizen thinking of joining a terrorist group. All the sympathisers, would you be saying this if it was a man instead. She was a girl, not a woman. I’d be quite disturbed if anyone were to consider a 15 year old girl a woman. So the equivalent would be a boy. And yes, I would be saying this if she had been a boy. She should be brought home and tried in a British court, the face whatever sentence is deemed correct. Again, Google Rhianan Rudd and see how a white child was treated in a similar position." Again, google what she said about beheadings when aged 19 which is adult age and a woman. | |||
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"Quite concerning the number of people who are absolutely convinced that 15 year old girls are definitely old enough to know exactly what they are doing and can definitely consent and take responsibility for whatever anyone does to them. Even after she became an adult, she was supportive of ISIS and said she didn't regret joining them So you think that after being groomed to join ISIS in the first place, then being part of ISIS for a few years, where she would’ve been controlled in very frightening ways, she would risk her life and say how terrible ISIS is? She said she had no regrets joining ISIS even after she left ISIS. She said she left ISIS because it was corrupt and oppressive, but she didn't really mind the beheadings." Plenty of people in this country are pro capital punishment. Should we make them stateless too? | |||
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" 1. She was groomed when she was 15. If a young girl was groomed into sex then we would not blame her for the acts she committed.why are we blame what was, a 15 year old girl for being groomed into something she did not have the capacity to fully understand. She was a child. So. Let's say a young male was groomed online from age 15 to get involved in sadistic sexual activity by predators. After six months he moved to an area with these predators and (from 16-20) he helped to lure in children and he participated in abducting a couple of people who were then assaulted and killed. Do we still feel the same way?" Exactly, it's a deterrent to any other person wanting to join an enemy state. | |||
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"She’s easily corrupted, not very bright and aligns herself with destructive organisations. Next Tory leader me thinks " | |||
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"She went away at 15 lost 2 children. Young and stupid. Let her back in to the UK . Get job in the Home Office Talking the danger of doing what she did . " Who da fuk is this guy! | |||
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"Quite concerning the number of people who are absolutely convinced that 15 year old girls are definitely old enough to know exactly what they are doing and can definitely consent and take responsibility for whatever anyone does to them. Even after she became an adult, she was supportive of ISIS and said she didn't regret joining them Absolutely this. Don't forget the beheading she said she was fine about and didn't bother her. The whole saga is a massive deterrent for any UK citizen thinking of joining a terrorist group. All the sympathisers, would you be saying this if it was a man instead. She was a girl, not a woman. I’d be quite disturbed if anyone were to consider a 15 year old girl a woman. So the equivalent would be a boy. And yes, I would be saying this if she had been a boy. She should be brought home and tried in a British court, the face whatever sentence is deemed correct. Again, Google Rhianan Rudd and see how a white child was treated in a similar position. Again, google what she said about beheadings when aged 19 which is adult age and a woman. " Yes because the grooming and brainwashing wears off on your 18th birthday… I wish I could see the world in such simple terms, dealing with nuance is so tiring. | |||
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