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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

When in your life did you feel the hottest? Be that physically and/or most desirable? And what's changed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last Thursday

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

About an hour ago. It's passed now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About an hour ago. It's passed now"

Did my pic do that

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

Usually only on days with a ‘Y’ in them …

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"About an hour ago. It's passed now

Did my pic do that "

He asked did I feel sexy!

But the pic of your hole caused a reaction

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

The best is yet to come!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say a few months before I got pregnant, I was 24. I look back at pictures and I was actually quite pretty. I had lost loads of weight, my face wasn't as moon like as it usually is and my skin was clear and gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4:17 Wednesday.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I'm hoping tomorrow!!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Every time a new message tells me I’m stunning and need pounding into next week.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"I would say a few months before I got pregnant, I was 24. I look back at pictures and I was actually quite pretty. I had lost loads of weight, my face wasn't as moon like as it usually is and my skin was clear and gorgeous. "

You still are pretty! Even without the pixels!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

It depends what version of me we're talking about.

TV me is the sexiest she's ever been.

Man me looked better a couple years ago when I was still working a physical job every day.

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time a new message tells me I’m stunning and need pounding into next week."

What’s so good about next week?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Every time a new message tells me I’m stunning and need pounding into next week.

What’s so good about next week? "

Maybe I should find out

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

25yr old me was gorgeous. I wish I could go back in time and tell her.

Ah well, such is life!

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh that’s a good question!

I’d say probably the beginning of this year when I was having a casual relationship with someone. He made me feel sooo desirable and it was just

What about you, OP?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"25yr old me was gorgeous. I wish I could go back in time and tell her.

Ah well, such is life!

MrsAbz "

You’re still gorgeous!!!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Every time a new message tells me I’m stunning and need pounding into next week.

What’s so good about next week?

Maybe I should find out "

I think that is the boasting about their stamina. You will be getting fucked right through until next week. Seems a bit dull to be going that long

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Never lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say a few months before I got pregnant, I was 24. I look back at pictures and I was actually quite pretty. I had lost loads of weight, my face wasn't as moon like as it usually is and my skin was clear and gorgeous.

You still are pretty! Even without the pixels!"

Thanks lovely!! But if you could see me now you'd definitely only get half a hard on.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Every time a new message tells me I’m stunning and need pounding into next week.

What’s so good about next week?

Maybe I should find out

I think that is the boasting about their stamina. You will be getting fucked right through until next week. Seems a bit dull to be going that long "

Oh god I have to stop for snacks!!!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"I would say a few months before I got pregnant, I was 24. I look back at pictures and I was actually quite pretty. I had lost loads of weight, my face wasn't as moon like as it usually is and my skin was clear and gorgeous.

You still are pretty! Even without the pixels!

Thanks lovely!! But if you could see me now you'd definitely only get half a hard on. "

Challenge accepted!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Every time a new message tells me I’m stunning and need pounding into next week.

What’s so good about next week?

Maybe I should find out

I think that is the boasting about their stamina. You will be getting fucked right through until next week. Seems a bit dull to be going that long

Oh god I have to stop for snacks!!!"

Nope! I don't think it's allowed. Rumour is it is none stop. Or else it won't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19

Everything.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Probably as a baby from all the ooohs and ahhhs I received from the ladies

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"19

Everything."

Was that pic wasn't it?

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By *ammygaryCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"When in your life did you feel the hottest? Be that physically and/or most desirable? And what's changed?"

Definitely in my mid 20s and my body was banging, nowadays not so much haha

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

My early 40s were my most attractive years, very handsome.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

In my early 30s or 2 years ago when pregnant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"19

Everything.

Was that pic wasn't it? "

19 year old me would of posted a lost worse.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"25yr old me was gorgeous. I wish I could go back in time and tell her.

Ah well, such is life!

MrsAbz

You’re still gorgeous!!!"

Thanks Misty,

(Had a wee formatting fail on the last post, old age catching up with me )

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 6 years time when I hit my prime.

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By *andy CanesWoman
over a year ago

south

Still waiting for it to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my 20's and now again.

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By *eardedbloke300Man
over a year ago

cardiff

When I was 25. I had long dark hair, a metabolism that worked and no weight of the world on my shoulders.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Today

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

Before i had kids. I was slim and definitely looked my best. I just didn't appreciate it then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 20 years ago. Mainly because i was about eight stone less and very perky boobs!

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

You know what this thread makes me think?

We can be very harsh on our current bodies and only appreciate what we have now, once it has passed us by.

MrsAbz

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I think now, but that's more to do with confidence and speaking up about what I want and enjoy.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Right now, I just come out the shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24/7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure, maybe now I feel my best in how I look as I like to think I have a good balance of muscle and leanness

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Oh that’s a good question!

I’d say probably the beginning of this year when I was having a casual relationship with someone. He made me feel sooo desirable and it was just

What about you, OP?"

This can also definitely be a thing, if someone else makes you feel desirable.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

When wasn’t I ?

Only joking. In all seriousness, I’d have no idea how to gauge that.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

now at the grand old age of 63

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's due in 2095

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

This morning at 7:32 am but I then I realised I just had wind

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By *anniellaBiTSTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Tbh, this year. All this year. The feeling is still.going strong. X


"When in your life did you feel the hottest? Be that physically and/or most desirable? And what's changed?"

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

8 years ago. Just before I fell and needed surgery. Goal is to get back there after this next one.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

2017-2018 I was at my thinnest, blondest, happiest, and in my opinion, hottest

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Right in this phase of my life Now. No hangups, totally happy in my body no pressure to keep up with anyone else. Total freedom to just be me as I am

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

About an hour ago whilst I was sitting on the John

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By *lendermanMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

22 year old me was a fantastic specimen. I was boxing every couple of months, running every night. Then life happened.

I have some cool tattoos now though so I almost look as good naked as back then. Hairline is shit though

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Is "never" not an acceptable answer?! I look at myself now and really feel like I've been hijacked by an alien.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Tomorrow about 7.30pm

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

When I was around 30. I started to feel like I had my shit together by then, I had all my hair, I was full of confidence and it felt easy talking to women, all be it usually just general chit chat, but I could hold a conversation without my mind asking me stupid questions and making me doubt myself. I think that confidence showed because I got a lot more smiles than I do now. So, 13 years ago

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

When I put the tip in

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"When I put the tip in "

Aye, can you give me a quick heads up as regards your intent first in future though please?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When I was 50

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Couple of minutes ago when I was on the shower!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"When I put the tip in

Aye, can you give me a quick heads up as regards your intent first in future though please? "

You was worth it

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"When I put the tip in

Aye, can you give me a quick heads up as regards your intent first in future though please?

You was worth it "

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

1998 in ibiza, on stage dancing in swimwear, with thousands of people watching and dancing along with me felt pretty darn amazing

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

Before I got pregnant with my last baby ,so 29

Em x

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Physically, probably about six years ago when I was real serious about weight training and bodybuilding. I was in great shape, now I've had way too much pizza and pasta but I feel a lot better in my skin. So about two years from now when I'm jacked again too

LvM

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By *exyCarla181Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

If I'm honest I think I've matured like a fine wine.. Better now than ever

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I was well fit when I was in my 20's and 30's but I feel far sexier now.

I just didn't k ow what do do with it all when I was younger.

They say youth is wasted on the young....

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By *ennyleeeWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Definitely the last 4 years since I've been lean and fit.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I really don't know. Maybe around 30 when I was training for a marathon. I was a lot leaner then. Training for another now so hopefully I can get back to that again.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

When I was 24. Long permed hair and much bigger boobs. A bad relationship really knocked my confidence and after breast feeding 2 childten my boobs shrunk and my weight dropped.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

When I have a lover, outside of that I can feel unattractive

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

Mid to late 20's before childbirth wrecked my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never lost it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face-wise, probably 32ish. Body-wise, I'd say now.

Nell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never lost it "

Mid 20's until now.

Still got it.

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By *accar305Man
over a year ago

Somerset/Oxford

Once feared aging as I thought I’d get less attractive, but to my amazement, I seem to have more interest these days. Perhaps I’m happier in my own skin and others see it…..so yes, I guess I’m at my most attractive now…and more confident too

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Peak face? I reckon about 30/32. Comfortable in my own skin but no wrinkles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When in your life did you feel the hottest? Be that physically and/or most desirable? And what's changed?"

… I’m at my peak,

… I’m at my peak,

I’m a queen, champion, QueenofSuccubi

because I’m at my peak…

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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago

Colne

Now... Never been more confident

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By *otwifecplCouple
over a year ago

bham

I (M) feel like I'm losing it as each day comes. K however is sexier everyday. She was super hot when we first met. Now she's smoking hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tomorrow.

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By *omanarab43287653975Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve never been hot lol

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By *ike OxmallMan
over a year ago

Elderslie

Between about 1997 and 2001. I was doing physically demanding work, and it overcame my natural tendency to be fat. It's all been downhill since then!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think about 45-47, I was literally living my best life in so many ways. Training 6 times a week , really into clothes , really into women.

I think I just moved on from needing that hedonistic stuff and value different things , so there’s no need to make the sane kind of effort that makes you feel that way

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

2 years ago.

Personal responsibilities and some injuries have set me back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I had a better body when I was in my 20s but I have a much better head for the game now.

I am actually feeling myself lately, the last few months I've just felt really good about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 7 years ago visually but probably felt my sexiest about 5 years ago. Least sexy right now, full of insecurities and struggling to come to terms with body changes since I had a C-section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 7 years ago visually but probably felt my sexiest about 5 years ago. Least sexy right now, full of insecurities and struggling to come to terms with body changes since I had a C-section "

Ah I had a c section and they messed it up. It gets better and you get used to the scar etc.

Honestly it is a big change and it takes time but you will find your pep again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I had a better body when I was in my 20s but I have a much better head for the game now.

I am actually feeling myself lately, the last few months I've just felt really good about me. "

My body is probably better now, a little weight has done me good. My head is messed up with life and shit, so my vibe was a lot more easy going when I was younger.

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By *randmrslookingCouple
over a year ago

london

My body and looks were best in my mid 20s, but my mind is definitely at its sexiest which in turn makes me sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 7 years ago visually but probably felt my sexiest about 5 years ago. Least sexy right now, full of insecurities and struggling to come to terms with body changes since I had a C-section

Ah I had a c section and they messed it up. It gets better and you get used to the scar etc.

Honestly it is a big change and it takes time but you will find your pep again. "

It's more my shape since C-section. I've always been large but I have this apron that just gets me down. Plus the constant look of tiredness

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood


"Never lol"

Can you be more specific, please? I'm the the 12th by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have, but from my experiences I would say women found me most desirable in my mid-late 30's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I had a better body when I was in my 20s but I have a much better head for the game now.

I am actually feeling myself lately, the last few months I've just felt really good about me.

My body is probably better now, a little weight has done me good. My head is messed up with life and shit, so my vibe was a lot more easy going when I was younger. "

Aww that sucks a bit. Life can mess you up this is true. I was fucked up for a while a divorce etc but took time put and processed and now I'm back to me but better than ever I think mentally definitely physically that's a subjective opinion but I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 7 years ago visually but probably felt my sexiest about 5 years ago. Least sexy right now, full of insecurities and struggling to come to terms with body changes since I had a C-section

Ah I had a c section and they messed it up. It gets better and you get used to the scar etc.

Honestly it is a big change and it takes time but you will find your pep again.

It's more my shape since C-section. I've always been large but I have this apron that just gets me down. Plus the constant look of tiredness "

Yes I know what you mean.

Mine sits weird now this pouch but I have gotten used to it. I think it is just mentally getting your head round it. The tiredness lasted a while for me honestly it is a long recovery it's not just about scars and stitches.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

At the age I am now x

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

My mid 30s onwards - I’ve come to accept the skin I’m in. I was in quite a turbulent relationship where I was stripped of any confidence, I felt unloved, unworthy and generally like I was at fault somehow.

I’ve learned that it’s ok to feel sexy, to be liberated, strong and independent without feeling like I owe explanation to anyone and more importantly I’ve learned to laugh again.

I feel sexy because I know exactly who I am and I’ll be damned if I allow anyone to take even an ounce of that for granted.

I found love in someone unexpected and whilst I wasn’t looking happiness came and smacked me in the face! It’s true what the say a smile is the sexiest thing a woman can wear xx

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I probably *felt* sexiest in my mid-30s. Just out of a fucked-up 10-year mistake, freshly divorced, and realising for the first time that all sorts of amazing women actually fancied me. I spent damn near every night for a year out on dates. The sudden rush of self-confidence did a lot for me.

Physically is a different matter. All those nights out took a toll on my body. I think I’m doing that annoying man thing of getting better looking with age. Plus the beard. My second wife (the one who counts) made me grow the beard. It’s doing a lot for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When there's a power cut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Right now! "

I like this attitude. Go you.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

About 25.

28 inch waist,44inch chest,17inch arms

9% bodyfat,full head of hair unlimited erections and no lack of self confidence.

All downhill after that.

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By *ennyleeeWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"About 25.

28 inch waist,44inch chest,17inch arms

9% bodyfat,full head of hair unlimited erections and no lack of self confidence.

All downhill after that."

That's pretty much my husband now, he's 57.

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

28 to 35

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Oh that’s a good question!

I’d say probably the beginning of this year when I was having a casual relationship with someone. He made me feel sooo desirable and it was just

What about you, OP?"

Ooh I never responded to my own thread!

In spirit, maybe 26. I was doing pretty well with women and well if you thought I had a high sex drive now...

More recently and as I'm getting older I think I am getting more attractive to certain women. I still have good hair (according to my barber) but a youngish face. Think I'm gonna hit sexy attractive prime late 30s probably...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In particular moments in scenes with men across my life at various ages, because in the moment their reaction and what they did or said told me I was hot and sexy to them in that moment.

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

When I put on my latex shorts

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