FabSwingers.com forum: I know who you are

By *oungAtHeartCurvyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

When you get messages saying I recognise you and know who you are despite no face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip had that one before

Just brush it off and go so what who cares

Not like your doing anything wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get messages saying I recognise you and know who you are despite no face pics "

Have you looked at your own profile?

You will be easily recognisable to people who know you.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk

"When you get messages saying I recognise you and know who you are despite no face pics "

Use the block button so they can’t see your pics anymore especially if you think that person could screen shot your pics and “out” you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a tactic to get a reply. I get messages like that daily.. Susie is that you? Betty is that you? I know that's you Carol.

Nope, not me.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

If you want to be discreet you can put a postcode from somewhere else, so you'll show up say 50 miles away.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"Its a tactic to get a reply. I get messages like that daily.. Susie is that you? Betty is that you? I know that's you Carol.

Nope, not me."

I get those too. Had someone ask me if I was there Postman the other day! Not worth responding too, instablock

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes, I’ve had a message saying they recognise me, even though I’ve no public face pictures.

My mum accepted my apology

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"When you get messages saying I recognise you and know who you are despite no face pics "

Nope! I’ve checked your photos. Very thoroughly. I haven’t a clue who you are. No idea. Don’t know you.

I’d quite like to though.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's really disrespect when people open with this straight away and often clearly done in a creepy way. It's a massive turn off.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Maybe you should reply 'I've got the clap, and I've given it to your wife/husband'. That should shut the cunts up

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Never happened to me before, unless you recognise me by my pants

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

They're probably lying and if they're not they're irredeemably creepy.

Block.

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

I've had this a few times, or people using my real name. Or even worse, full name, and they never want to reveal who they are, so they get blocked

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I've had this a few times, or people using my real name. Or even worse, full name, and they never want to reveal who they are, so they get blocked

When I had my first initial on my profile people would say "I know who you are (not my name)". Yes, very good, go away.

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

I know who you are Allison Burgers... Ladies Washroom... Employees Must Wash Hands... Maximum Occupancy 120.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I got pranked by a mate years ago. She gets a pass!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get messages saying I recognise you and know who you are despite no face pics "

Always a worry-but quite exciting too xx

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

Heck no, not sure I even know who I am lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don’t actually know who you are. They just say that to get a reply.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Nope. In 10 years I’ve never had that message

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By *dc1Man
over a year ago

essex and all over the south

"When you get messages saying I recognise you and know who you are despite no face pics

Always a worry-but quite exciting too xx"

Ow i dont recognise you but i do recognise the smuglers cove. Clacton

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Apart from last 6 month always had face pic visable.

Decided few days ago to upload and show a recent one considering its nearly halloween.

while face pic hidden never had anyone say they knew me.

I have recognised people over the years from tattoo's ,scars or if photo of them in a pub i know.just by clothes they wear ,build of their body ,what their drinking and fact they stand at same place at the bar everyday etc .

Jobs i have done in the past such as helping my mate behind a bar you get to recognise people by clothes ,stance ,build ,hair colour/style etc even if they have their back to you .

pics taken in homes/gardens where i have done work or friends houses etc.

The photo's on wall etc the decor ,furniture.

Its actually not that difficult if they just partly blanked out a face but showing a full clothed body pic in familar surroundings.

easier if its a couple.

I have never messaged and told them

but if they messaged me i would point out i knew them.Though normally i would have blocked them soon as i knew who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all the years I've been here, I've never received one of those messages.

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By *ianoSpankMan
over a year ago

Stockport

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By *eductive_chaosWoman
over a year ago

Northumberland

Regularly, you work at such and such don't you. But then won't show their face and say that they'll say hi next time they see me.

I don't think so!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope I'm still trying to figure out who I am so they'll be lost

I change from day to day

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By *ianoSpankMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I recognised one person on here once. Took a few vinos to pluck up the courage to message and say hi. I was actually shocked that I got a response, so thank you tor that. But now I’m now blocked?

Here’s hoping that person might unblock me and teach me where I went wrong?

Positive or negative feedback welcome - BB x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I recognised one person on here once. Took a few vinos to pluck up the courage to message and say hi. I was actually shocked that I got a response, so thank you tor that. But now I’m now blocked?

Here’s hoping that person might unblock me and teach me where I went wrong?

Positive or negative feedback welcome - BB x"

You can't use forum posts to get around a block.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Regularly, you work at such and such don't you. But then won't show their face and say that they'll say hi next time they see me.

I don't think so!"

I've had variations on "oh, (not my name), the boss is going to be fascinated when I show him your profile!"

Creepy as fuck

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over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Ew"

On the rare occasion I push back on this - usually by asking what colour my eyes are or something else they're not likely to get right - they become really pitiful, it was just a ploy for attention, why won't anyone reply, etc etc.

In the abstract I sympathise with people who struggle to get attention. In the specific instance of an implicit threat to out me... not so much. It's a gross power play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get messages saying I recognise you and know who you are despite no face pics

Always a worry-but quite exciting too xx

Ow i dont recognise you but i do recognise the smuglers cove. Clacton"

That’s right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've already been outed before so at this point I have nothing valuable to lose from showing face pics on here. Honestly, I kinda enjoy the thrill of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you should reply 'I've got the clap, and I've given it to your wife/husband'. That should shut the cunts up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apart from last 6 month always had face pic visable.

Decided few days ago to upload and show a recent one considering its nearly halloween.

while face pic hidden never had anyone say they knew me.

Jobs i have done in the past such as helping my mate behind a bar you get to recognise people by clothes ,stance ,build ,hair colour/style etc even if they have their back to you .

pics taken in homes/gardens where i have done work or friends houses etc.

The photo's on wall etc the decor ,furniture.

Its actually not that difficult if they just partly blanked out a face but showing a full clothed body pic in familar surroundings.

easier if its a couple.

I have never messaged and told them

but if they messaged me i would point out i knew them.Though normally i would have blocked them soon as i knew who they are.

Happy Halloween!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get messages saying I recognise you and know who you are despite no face pics

Always a worry-but quite exciting too xx

Ow i dont recognise you but i do recognise the smuglers cove. Clacton

That’s right lol"

I thought the same. I take it you was in the hotel over the back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get messages saying I recognise you and know who you are despite no face pics

Always a worry-but quite exciting too xx

Ow i dont recognise you but i do recognise the smuglers cove. Clacton

That’s right lol

I thought the same. I take it you was in the hotel over the back"

Yes

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