West Bromwich ,
West Midlands
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Xtasia offers a superb venue for those interested in a liberated adult lifestyle choice, from Swingers to Fetish as well as LGBTQ friendly and welcoming to all.
In the heart of the Midlands, Xtasia is located within half a mile of Junction 1 of the M5, and 2 miles from Junction 8 of the M6. The Xtasia complex provides a welcoming cosy bar called “Flirts”, serving alcohol and soft drinks from midday to midnight throughout the week. With its 40 seater cinema, playrooms and dungeon, it’s a wonderful place to meet others during the week, with hotel rooms available to book as well. A new swimming spa, sauna and steam room and leisure complex is now available for a daily chill out by guests.
The main club opens at 8pm to 3am Friday and Saturday nights, and comprises of a main reception and cloak area, a massive dance area, fully licenced bar, pole dance areas, heated smoking area, playrooms of all descriptions including a dungeon, a chill out lounge, a dogging area with genuine car bonnets, a Jacuzzi, showers and cinema.
Friday nights we are open to all full members from 8pm to 3am. Saturday nights are Ladies and Couples only. Predominantly a relaxed, social nightclub feel, with the added benefit of being able to keep it very sexy, Xtasia music is provided by a range of excellent DJ’s bringing you nights of modern dance, classic hits, and various genre evenings throughout the year. Xtasia also runs numerous niche fetish events for the more adventurous, normally on Sunday afternoons and evenings.
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Fabulous
by Joyl3
16 June 2025
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| Had our first visit to xtasia for the "it wasn't a phase" event. Fantastic music, full of amazing people, hosts were amazing and ended in a pile in, in the cinema room. Fantastic time had by us and roll on the next one |
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Fabulous
by warm sunshine
16 June 2025
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| I had a great time soaking up the sun on the Flirts / Xtasia sun terrace.
Jeremy was a great host as ever. |
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Fabulous
by BALM
15 June 2025
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| Absolutely fantastic night at the rock night at xtasia last night . Music was banging ,people were singing dancing laughing. Thanks to all the staff and hosts . See you all again soon xx |
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Fun
by nfkcpl4group
14 June 2025
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| We made our first visit to the spa whilst staying on site. A lovely addition to their venue. As always all the staff were friendly and welcoming with plenty of banter exchanged. We even got them to update Bull Nite’s video playlist.
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Fabulous
by wolvesxcouple
11 June 2025
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| We hosted the monthly social evening at Flirts Bar last night. We tried out some new options on the new menu, and it was absolutely delicious, and so reasonably priced too! As always, the staff cannot do enough for you. Absolute diamonds! Would definitely recommend eating here. |
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Fabulous
by Disnerds
9 June 2025
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| Attended our first foam party at the club and had an absolute blast. Not as busy as we thought it would be but that didn’t matter. It was fun and very sexy! Also stayed in the hotel for the first time and had a lovely spa day!! Fantastic all round. Just what was needed!! |
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Fabulous
by NewCouple7375
9 June 2025
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| Attended foam party on Saturday the 7th. Spectacular. The DJ did a fine job, and the staff - especially the gentleman helping us in and out of the foam - brilliant. Very sexy vibe all night, and could not have had more fun. Naked in the foam on the dancefloor was really quite liberating! Thanks to all who arrange, it must be quite the clean up.
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Fabulous
by PikachuandSquirtle
8 June 2025
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| Foam Party 7th June
Oh sweet jesus what an incredible night. An amazing party vibe facilitated by the hosts who set up a vibrant chat before hand. The DJ was on point during the foam section and so many people there were friendly and approachable. We've been many times before and we'll keep coming back |
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Fabulous
by Wanttohavefunnow69
6 June 2025
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| Great night again at xtasia for Phukt 31 May - some new glory holes, but the dark room is always our favourite. Had lots of fun and met some lovely people. Def be back again :) |
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Fabulous
by Eager 2 Please
5 June 2025
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| Another great ‘Games Night’ at Flirts, the place was packed and the atmosphere was amazing. It is just the most relaxed place to spend a night with friends.
I wouldn’t want to be anywhere else when you have such amazing bar staff and such a good laugh.
Who would have thought that bingo could be so much fun? I’m still laughing the next morning ?? |
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OK
by you only yolo once
3 June 2025
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| Had the best night sat 31st may. Very nice chap gave us a tour. Great music, great vibe, beautiful people. Plenty of rooms to explore.
We will definitely be back! |
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Fun
by Mr Roar Mrs Black-Noir
2 June 2025
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| We attended on Saturday, good mix of people who attended.
A couple of downsides was the music was very loud that it was difficult to socialise & was very warm. |
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Fabulous
by LiberatedPair
1 June 2025
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| Back to where we first started in the lifestyle on Saturday night for Phukt carnival. Realised how much we miss the place and had a cracking night. All the Djs were amazing along with the night itself. Clubs always in great order and maintained to a high standard. We stayed in the double double room at Flirts and also had a few drinks in the afternoon there. Have always loved the place and we will be back when we can. |
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OK
by Beauty with the Beast
1 June 2025
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| Ended up at the club on Friday night for our first BMFC event and we thoroughly enjoyed it met some really respectful guys but unfortunately didn't get to play with a couple of guys we wanted to... but hopefully bump into them next time x |
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OK
by Boboko
31 May 2025
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| Great night last Friday night BMFC Bulls night :) |
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Fun
by Heliosxxx
29 May 2025
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| The quiz night at Xtasia Flirts was good fun tonight. It’s such a great way to mingle and meet people. There was a good crowd in, and the quiz master had everyone laughing. Who knew knowledge of American history was going to come in handy in a club?!
Keep up the good work, these social nights are good fun. |
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Fabulous
by WalsallCouple2022
25 May 2025
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| We visited xtasia on Friday on WILD TEMPTATIONS RUM®GAE PARTY. We usually go on Saturdays and our first Friday at the club was definitely not our last. Amazing atmosphere and a super group of people and a lot of couples!! We felt safe and no pressure. The staff are again incredibly friendly, everyone is like one big family and we are always very happy to see them and feel very welcome. See you again on Saturday at PHUKT! |
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Fabulous
by Horn of Gondor
24 May 2025
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| Went to Wild Temptations at Xtasia last night and the place was buzzing. Another great theme by the best hosts in the business. Everyone seemed to be having loads of fun, dance floor was always full and playrooms were busy. Another brilliantly organised night Cx |
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OK
by randycpl
24 May 2025
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| Went to the wild temptations night rum and reggae it was a great night really enjoyed the music and the atmosphere would definitely recommend it can't wait for the next one |
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Fabulous
by CAVEMAN 4 BLONDIE
23 May 2025
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| Popped in to flirts as we do most Wednesday for the socials
This week was bingo, as always nice group friendly people , we took advantage of the new food menu and had some banging grub and some beers, lots of laughs and some bingo xx |
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Fabulous
by LOU LOU BLONDIE
23 May 2025
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| I’ve been regularly going into @flirts bar on a Wednesday evening from 8pm for there social game nights, this weeks was bingo.
Super chuffed as I won twice, was a good amount of very chilled very social people. With some taking advantage of there being a naughty cinema and play room x x x
Had my self bangers and mash swilled down with a strawberry cocktail ?? |
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Fun
by countrycouple100
23 May 2025
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| Attended YE on Saturday. It was the quietest we've seen the club, but it's definitely what you make of it. We had an absolutely fabulous night, met a lovely couple and ticked some things off our list. |
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OK
by Sunriser
20 May 2025
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| Attended cougar and cubs night…was very quiet and not alot of playing happening unfortunately for us. Best to visit on select nights-so will pay more attention next time to the event-great club plenty of rooms and great dance floor |
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Fun
by newcouplemids
18 May 2025
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| We went along to youthful night was a little quieter than usual and although we aren't exactly youthful or very exuberant we had a great night
Dj was on top form banging out the tunes
Bar staff were excellent and always seem to enjoy their work
Club was clean and has something for everyone
Seems to attract some very attractive couples
See you soon xx |
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OK
by
18 May 2025
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| Went to xtasia Friday stayed over night and decided to have breakfast there were a wide variety to pick from and the cooked breakfast was really nice thank you |
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Fabulous
by crizo
14 May 2025
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| We called in to the Open Doors social on Tuesday, hosted by wolvesXcouple. They did a great job of making everyone feel welcome, relaxed and included. We're already looking forward to the next one :-)
While we there we took advantage of Flirts Bar's new food menu too. Food was lovely, good sized portions and fairly priced. We'll definitely be back soon for more :-) |
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Fabulous
by XXHNH
11 May 2025
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| Always fabulous, recently visited for the first time in forever for the casino evening and it’s clear the club is constantly being worked on and improved, hosts are lovely, facilities are some of the best I’ve ever seen in a club, lovely mix of people and one of my favourite parts of the club have always been that people dress up, so for those new or shy there is no expectation to be stripped down as soon as you arrive, it very much has the vibe of a regular night out when you arrive (although there is lots of fun happens around the multiple spaces in the club)
Spent many evenings here in the past, don’t get out much these days, but it was lovely to see how the club has continued to evolve. |
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Fabulous
by BALM
5 May 2025
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| Had a fabulous time at the Casino Royale event on Saturday night. The games were top notch and a great icebreaker. We still had lots of fun ;-P |
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OK
by HiddenWonders
4 May 2025
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| Had an okay evening at Feel Good Friday.
It was a quiet night and we put on some entertainment for people although couldn't tenpt many to get involved.
We left after too many single guys were getting in the way.
If you is there say hi x |
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OK
by wanterx
4 May 2025
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| Attended Feel Good Friday as onr half of HiddenWonders.
The place was great although a bit quiet. We had fun as HiddenWonders but didn't see much mixing between friend groups going on. Towards the end of rhe night there were lots of single guys and some were all known to each other.
All in all an okay night |
