West Bromwich ,
West Midlands
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Xtasia offers a superb venue for those interested in a liberated adult lifestyle choice, from Swingers to Fetish as well as LGBTQ friendly and welcoming to all.
In the heart of the Midlands, Xtasia is located within half a mile of Junction 1 of the M5, and 2 miles from Junction 8 of the M6. The Xtasia complex provides a welcoming cosy bar called “Flirts”, serving alcohol and soft drinks from midday to midnight throughout the week. With its 40 seater cinema, playrooms and dungeon, it’s a wonderful place to meet others during the week, with hotel rooms available to book as well. A new swimming spa, sauna and steam room and leisure complex is now available for a daily chill out by guests.
The main club opens at 8pm to 3am Friday and Saturday nights, and comprises of a main reception and cloak area, a massive dance area, fully licenced bar, pole dance areas, heated smoking area, playrooms of all descriptions including a dungeon, a chill out lounge, a dogging area with genuine car bonnets, a Jacuzzi, showers and cinema.
Friday nights we are open to all full members from 8pm to 3am. Saturday nights are Ladies and Couples only. Predominantly a relaxed, social nightclub feel, with the added benefit of being able to keep it very sexy, Xtasia music is provided by a range of excellent DJ’s bringing you nights of modern dance, classic hits, and various genre evenings throughout the year. Xtasia also runs numerous niche fetish events for the more adventurous, normally on Sunday afternoons and evenings.
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OK
by Sunriser 20 May 2025
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Attended cougar and cubs night…was very quiet and not alot of playing happening unfortunately for us. Best to visit on select nights-so will pay more attention next time to the event-great club plenty of rooms and great dance floor |
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Fun
by newcouplemids 18 May 2025
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We went along to youthful night was a little quieter than usual and although we aren't exactly youthful or very exuberant we had a great night
Dj was on top form banging out the tunes
Bar staff were excellent and always seem to enjoy their work
Club was clean and has something for everyone
Seems to attract some very attractive couples
See you soon xx |
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OK
by Aarron 18 May 2025
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Went to xtasia Friday stayed over night and decided to have breakfast there were a wide variety to pick from and the cooked breakfast was really nice thank you |
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Fabulous
by crizo 14 May 2025
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We called in to the Open Doors social on Tuesday, hosted by wolvesXcouple. They did a great job of making everyone feel welcome, relaxed and included. We're already looking forward to the next one :-)
While we there we took advantage of Flirts Bar's new food menu too. Food was lovely, good sized portions and fairly priced. We'll definitely be back soon for more :-) |
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Fabulous
by XXHNH 11 May 2025
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Always fabulous, recently visited for the first time in forever for the casino evening and it’s clear the club is constantly being worked on and improved, hosts are lovely, facilities are some of the best I’ve ever seen in a club, lovely mix of people and one of my favourite parts of the club have always been that people dress up, so for those new or shy there is no expectation to be stripped down as soon as you arrive, it very much has the vibe of a regular night out when you arrive (although there is lots of fun happens around the multiple spaces in the club)
Spent many evenings here in the past, don’t get out much these days, but it was lovely to see how the club has continued to evolve. |
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Fabulous
by BALM 5 May 2025
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Had a fabulous time at the Casino Royale event on Saturday night. The games were top notch and a great icebreaker. We still had lots of fun ;-P |
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OK
by HiddenWonders 4 May 2025
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Had an okay evening at Feel Good Friday.
It was a quiet night and we put on some entertainment for people although couldn't tenpt many to get involved.
We left after too many single guys were getting in the way.
If you is there say hi x |
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OK
by wanterx 4 May 2025
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Attended Feel Good Friday as onr half of HiddenWonders.
The place was great although a bit quiet. We had fun as HiddenWonders but didn't see much mixing between friend groups going on. Towards the end of rhe night there were lots of single guys and some were all known to each other.
All in all an okay night |
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OK
by ThatGirlie 28 April 2025
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Stayed overnight at xtasia hotel on a quiet Sunday evening to be able to have a wander around and get used to the environment whilst it wasn’t too busy. Stumbled upon a peer rope and a spanks-a-lot event. My partner and I spent most time at the spanks-a-lot, very friendly and super welcoming. This part of our visit was great.
The hotel however is where we fall disappointed. The room we stayed in was fine, 2 pieces of bdsm furniture and some lovely artwork. The rooms are definitely NOT soundproof. We were kept awake with music and talking which was particularly loud between 1-3am, and then again with talking at 6am. Whilst I expected/anticipated hearing people having fun, I didn’t expect that, at those times, on a Sunday - as the club is essentially closed from 8pm, and we were told we were the only guests!!
Would attend the club again but would stay somewhere else. |
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Fabulous
by CuriousKee 27 April 2025
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Went to another wild temptations night at Xtasia Friday and as always I had an amazing time and as always i felt safe and looked after going as a single woman. The staff are always great and friendly, I appreciate the safe space where I can just enjoy myself and can't stop going back! |
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Fabulous
by thechonkyduo 26 April 2025
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Another great night at Xtasia this time attending the Wild Temptations bi night.
The set up was excellent and the area set aside for bi play and curious people was excellently done. Hope this is the first of many bi nights! |
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Fabulous
by BALM 26 April 2025
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Great night at xtasia last night. Made some new friends from wales . We had great fun in the dogging area . The club was absolutely buzzing. Thanks to all the team and the hosts for making it such a remarkable night . See you all again soon |
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Fabulous
by wolvespair 26 April 2025
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Absolutely brilliant night at Wild temptations Bi event! So well organized by the hosts. Loved the dedicated Bi area, great idea and it really encouraged people to relax and enjoy the atmosphere:-). Hope to see this event grow more popular as it really did bring out some amazing people x |
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Fabulous
by Funflirty 22 26 April 2025
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Another fabulous event held at this amazing club. Wild Temptation was exactly that and more. The host's went above and beyond especially for the dedicated bi play area. It was fantastic to see so many people enjoying the safe and respectful area and indulging in new experiences 10/10 |
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Fun
by Lounmac 26 April 2025
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Amazing night at the wild temptations Bi Night. Loved the sectioned off area for Bi play. Hosts made it feel sexy and cosy. Always a great night at Xtasia and the hosts always put on a great night full of sexy people. |
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Fabulous
by bunnygirl85 26 April 2025
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We attended Chloe & Sammy’s bi night at Xtasia last night — it was our very first visit, and we couldn't have asked for a better experience! Chloe and Sammy made us feel so welcome and comfortable from the moment we arrived. The atmosphere was amazing, and everyone was so friendly. We're already looking forward to our next visit and hope to see you both again very soon! |
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Fabulous
by Horn of Gondor 26 April 2025
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Attended the Wild Temptations event last night and it was another amazing night by the event organisers.
An area of the club was put to great use as a bi-play area and I can honestly say I’ve never seen so many people fulfilling their fantasies and that was because so much effort was put into making the area a relaxed safe space.
I’d recommend this night to anyone, especially if you want to carry out some of your strongest desires for the first time.
Absolutely the best event organisers out there Cx |
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Fabulous
by Slutwelshwife 26 April 2025
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As always another great night tonight, was quite busy and most of playrooms full (some full of people just chatting), but played in dungeon area with many watching / joining, thank you!!! |
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Fabulous
by fly69691 21 April 2025
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Our first time on Saturday, we had a great time. A lovely warm welcome, followed by a tour. Highly recommend to anyone fairly new to the scene, no pressure and great facilities, which we certainly put to use ?? Thank you for wonderful evening, we most certainly will be back xx |
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OK
by h123100 20 April 2025
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What nights would be good for a single male? Been there a few times mostly quiet |
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OK
by Lover of ladies 20 April 2025
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Another great friday night,at the best club I've visited here or abroad,staff always helpful,polite and friendly,attendees some beautiful people,but with any club you do get a few blokes who hunt as a pack,but REPORT them,and they will be removed.
Love the place and can't wait to return |
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Fabulous
by FiveMinutesAlone 20 April 2025
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Went for the alt night and it was awesome. Fun, sex, naughty. Staff made us feel welcome, everyone was there for a fun time, and the music was a blast. Can't wait to go back again. |
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OK
by Xtasia 20 April 2025
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Replying to the below review, as I can't contact you directly. One mention of this to the staff during the evening and the group of them would have been out. Please do not feel you need to put up with this behaviour in anyway, it is not acceptable and we will remove the element causing it. |
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Avoid
by Sophisticatedfun 19 April 2025
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We can only speak of our unfortunate experience of a Friday hot wife night event, we can't comment on other event nights that this club run which we are told are very good.
The club is large with lots of fantastic playrooms. The staff were polite and welcoming.
Unfortunately there were a number of men allowed into the event that were far from respectful gentleman. They were extremely derogatory and their view of the women in the club was quite honestly disgusting.
One of the comments that was made "get up and dance with the other fucking tarts" and another comment "the women in here are just quick shags" further comment " why don't you dress down so I can see your arse"
Miss/female...each time my partner went to the toilet or to the bar the guys would come across and make these comments at me. There were five of them and they hung out in a pack. When I said that I didn't like their disrespectful comments I was told " you're clearly not from the streets, this is how we treat women" he continued even when I asked him to move away. He then put his arm around me making further remarks until my partner returned from the bathroom.
The group of men seemed to be friends of the staff so we didn't feel we could complain. The group of men were also allowed to break the dress code rule of the evening as they were wearing trainers, joggers and sports wear.
Their attitude has no place within the lifestyle. Women should feel comfortable and safe to express their sexual freedom without judgement.
We have been in the lifestyle for many years and experienced many different clubs in the UK and abroad, however we have never experienced a group of intimidating disrespectful men in a club like this before.
Hopefully the club will tighten their vetting of single guys and not allow men to come along in scruffy clothes.
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Fabulous
by Cambridgezwinger 18 April 2025
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I recently attended this wonderful venue. Friendly staff and fantastic play areas. Hope to return soon. Cx |
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Fabulous
by Beauty with the Beast 17 April 2025
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We love this club!! Met some absolutely fantastic people and the staff are so nice and friendly 10/10 |
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OK
by Blondie and Baldy 17 April 2025
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Went yesterday for Quiz night.
Had some good play up stairs late on and thank you to the kind gentleman who joined us. |
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Fabulous
by ptiscool 16 April 2025
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Great staff! Hopefully have the confidence to enter the night club on Friday x x |
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Fabulous
by DiscreetShropsMan 15 April 2025
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Went with my wife to Flirts Bar/cinema yesterday afternoon and had a great time. As always the staff were very relaxed and welcoming, and met 2 lovely couples. Ended up with all 3 couples in the playroom downstairs, and my wife and I were lucky enough to have fun with a very attractive and friendly couple while there. Will definitely be going again. |
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Fun
by wanterx 14 April 2025
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Had great time with some sexy couples this afternoon. I went with my partner as hiddenwonders. If you spotted us there then say hello |