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Fun
by Owen1973 16 March 2026
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| Another Naughty meet at bmfc night and talk to a few lovely couples and single ladies. See you all April I'll be bringing a few eggs. Xx69 |
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Fabulous
by Rcqg 15 March 2026
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| Just arrived back after a fantastic few hours at Xtasia and a lovely warm welcome from the staff.
Was an amazing opportunity to explore parts of the club I’d yet to experience and experience a well organised, chilled but erotic fetish/bdsm themed afternoon.
As above, staff so friendly and welcoming. Been a member for a while; only distance prevents me from visiting more frequently; but was so looked after and welcomed in today. Very kindly I’ve been told I can upgrade now to full member status and and take advantage of many other of the fantastic, spotless, thought provoking aspects and facilities the club has to offer.
Thanks again for a great themed afternoon and fab visit :) |
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Fabulous
by Cici_is_here 10 March 2026
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| I've been to Xtasia as a single lady and as a couple, both on Saturdays. The staff are lovely and the club is amazing. The club is huge on consent and safeguarding their members. I feel safe and relaxed here.
Excellent evenings I've been, and the event organised by Zoe and Chris was fabulous too!
Highly recommend ***** |
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OK
by Hotcouple94 8 March 2026
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| Amazing night Friday night at xtasia. Staff are amazing and really friendly! 2nd time visiting and wouldn’t turn back! Love it x |
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Fun
by Swayd 8 March 2026
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| We visited this club last night for our first time. We were met by friendly staff and had a tour round. Great bar prices. We loved the music and vibe and will definately be back for another visit soon. Thanks guys for a fab first visit!! |
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Fabulous
by Chiller83 8 March 2026
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| Me and my new Partner attended Xtasia last night (7th March) and we were blown away how amazing the staff were, the size of the venue and the options of rooms and areas and how good the bar, DJ and other visitors were. We met some lovely couples, were made to feel at ease by everyone and we are definitely coming back. 5 ????? Thank You Xtasia for making our first visit so special and memorable |
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OK
by Hambert 7 March 2026
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| Attended the new fantasy playrooms evening. Attended as a couple. Really good night, very well organised and great layout.
Fridays can be a bit quiet in general, but I thought it was a good mix of people and decent numbers for a new event. Will certainly look to attend again :) |
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OK
by CP Company 7 March 2026
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| A bit quiet tonight for a new theme night but wife had lots of fun dancing and getting to know the dj |
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Fabulous
by KinkyKouple40 1 March 2026
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| We had such a fantastic experience at Xtasia & the hotel from start to finish.
The night itself was amazing — brilliant music, a great crowd and such a fun atmosphere. The staff made us feel safe and comfortable throughout, which makes such a difference in this type of environment. Everything was well managed and relaxed.
We also spent the afternoon in the spa, which was really lovely. It was a little quiet but it was nice & peaceful.
The next morning, however, we realised our very distinctive car key (if you have the same car you'd think it was yours) was missing. We had no way of contacting the couple we’d spent time with and genuinely thought we were facing up to £1,000 replacement bill.
What happened next was incredible. The staff immediately stepped in — checking CCTV, walking through our movements from the night before, identifying the couple involved, obtaining their contact details and calling them directly. The cleaner & staff even checked the bins, smoking area and the nightclub itself to rule everything out.
Without their help this would have been a very expensive and stressful situation. Instead, it cost us just £20 for an Uber to collect the key.
They kept us calm, brought us complimentary tea and coffee and went completely above and beyond what anyone could reasonably expect.
Exceptional customer service, an amazing atmosphere, and a team that genuinely cares about their guests. We are so grateful — thank you for turning a stressful situation into such a positive memory. |
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OK
by southstaffscouple 28 February 2026
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| Another great night at xtasia for us at the wild temptations event last night.
Without a doubt our favourite club. Fantastic hosts and staff as always. |
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Fun
by Pixie_Emx 25 February 2026
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| Had a lovely afternoon in Flirts-
Staff were so friendly, they went above and beyond.
Spa was clean and well set up.
Playroom had nice feel had options to play privately open the curtains.
Bar prices are good and is nice and relaxed.
Perfect for daytime fun, I am now looking forward to trying the club xx
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Fun
by Soft_swap_couple 21 February 2026
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| Visited Flirts for the first time today. The staff are amazing and showed us around the main club, we had a few drinks and played in the cinema, great place to spend a few hours during the day. We will definitely be going back to Flirts and the main club. If any couples want to arrange a daytime meet there, let us know. |
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Fabulous
by BeckyTim 17 February 2026
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| We have been to events at the club itself on a couple of weekends now and they don't disappoint! additionally, have also attended Flirts bar a few times and can equally say that the staff at both venues are friendly and approachable and ensure that it's a welcoming and safe environment to be sociable and enjoy playing with other members.
While we have not been able to try all the facilities yet, there are plenty of different areas in which to indulge in your particular kink with reasonable prices at the bars and for the accommodation and membership. The website has a pretty comprehensive events calendar and we hope to see more of you in the future, as will certainly be back. |
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Fabulous
by Vikingsunrise 16 February 2026
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| This was our first time at Xtasia, on the recommendation of many people, and we were not disappointed! We attended the ‘it wasn’t a phase’ night and it was incredible, from the club and the lovely staff, to the club itself and the night, it was brilliant, we can’t wait to return! |
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Fun
by Kinkyalternatives 16 February 2026
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| Our 3rd visit to Xtasia and our 2nd visit to the Alt night.
Its a fantastic club night with a great bunch of people, all having fun and enjoying themselves. Its got such a good energy and is not one to miss.
Staff are always friendly and attentive.
We will definitely be back :)
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Fabulous
by Mrxmrsx 16 February 2026
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| Our first time at xtasia on the 14th for Valentine’s great venue will definitely be back soon lol |
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Fun
by Jakren 15 February 2026
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| First time attending Xtasia last night, for the Alt Night. Hosts and staff were very friendly and we met some lovely people throughout the night.
Looking forward to visiting again! |
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Fabulous
by 09couple 15 February 2026
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| Fist time visiting Xtasia for the Alt night, the Club is massive and awesome, hopefully be back soon xx |
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Fabulous
by SirandGoodGirl69 15 February 2026
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| Always have good nights there, the staff a friendly and prices on the drinks are good prices. Lovely people there every time and we've had no issues.
The rock night was the best one we've been too at a club, and far better than any at the local pubs. |
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Fabulous
by NerdyCouple 15 February 2026
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| Attended the Alt night last night.
As always, a great atmosphere, the hosts are chatty and welcoming.
A brilliant club and this is our favourite event by far. |
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Fun
by KDCoupleNotts 15 February 2026
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| As our first ever club visit, the alt night was great, there are plenty of options for you to choose for activities, the place is warm and friendly, the staff are a delight.
I would definitely recommend to others, only reasons for not putting fabulous are...
No food (would be nice to have snacks after activities)
Layout of orgy room could be revised perhaps.
Otherwise excellent place, great hosts! Loved it. |
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OK
by Welovecookiesandcream 12 February 2026
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| Last time we went to this club was over 10 years ago and it looks no different now. Staff are friendly and prices are good. Really needs to have some money spending on it, as not much has been upgraded over the years. I don’t think we would go back as there are clubs that offer similar nights and better atmosphere. Can’t fault the staff and cost of drinks. |
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Fun
by sizequeenxoxo 9 February 2026
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| Had a good night at lock and key Saturday, was surprised how much of a attraction crowd there was a proper nice vibe everyone seemed to be enjoying their self’s no judgement
Never got a chance to mingle if you was there pop up say hello |
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Fabulous
by Mr Oreo 1 February 2026
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| What's above fabulous??
Just back from Shamed at Xtasia and it was absolutely bloody brilliant. Our first visit there and was so much fun, especially the females glory hole.
One of the best clubs I've been to for kink play too as so much kit there to use and very well spread out. |
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Fabulous
by BALM 26 January 2026
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| Great night at xtasia on Saturday. Place of full interesting people full of fun . Also in the chill out lounge they had a karaoke ( which I believe is every 3rd Saturday of every month ) great place . Thanks to all the staff for there hard work. See you soon . |
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Fabulous
by Doris500 25 January 2026
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| Attended Xtasia for the Newcummers Event. Had a amazing time in the 'play room' surrounded by like minded couples. Also had the added bonus of sex on a car bonnet!!!!!! |
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Fabulous
by Curiouscouple6606 19 January 2026
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| Attended xtasia for the youthful exuberance night for our first evening experience having used the spa facilities a couple of times previously and have to say what a fantastic venue. Great atmosphere with fantastic staff. Will definitely be going again |
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Fabulous
by Spacouple1990 19 January 2026
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| Attended YE on 17th loved it served quick lots of fun and enjoyed the pole dancing first time visiting will be back again |
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Fabulous
by notsogentleplease 18 January 2026
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| Stayed here, to attend the Youtful exuberance event. As usual check in seemless, great communication from staff, made us feel at ease.
We had a few drinks then went to change for the main event. Security staff greeted us, very nice, professional and relaxed. Entered and met by our hot hosts, friendly and chatty.
We then went down the bar, served quickly and with genuine warmth, staff are a credit to the club.
Then sat back and enjoyed the evening. A lot of very sexy people, everyone gave off a good vibe, and some beautiful sites were seen. Great music and some very hot bootys shaken on the dance floor.
Will attend again. This morning had a really tasty and well prepared breakfast, done by Andy and Leanne, would definitely recommend it.
Thanks to all the staff involved in making this a great weekend xx |
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Fun
by SpicyPassionfruit 18 January 2026
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| An unforgettable night from start to finish killer music, a crowd that looked way too good to be real, and a pole dance performance so captivating it should probably come with a warning label. Add ridiculously fast bar service and flawless hospitality, and suddenly “just one drink” became a very long, very fun night. |
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OK
by us202469 18 January 2026
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| we went to Xtasia on new years eve and was a really good night me and My partner enjoyed are self everyone's we spoke to was nice and we will be going back to Xtasia soon.Xx |