FabSwingers.com forum: Sterilisation

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been giving this serious thought recently....I can't take any oral hormonal contraception due to a bleeding disorder and have tried the Mirena which made my life hell for 3 months. Anyway, I'm 32 this year and I 1000000% do not want any more children. I have been referred to have my tubes tied before but I shit out. Felt it was too final at the time.

But after recent shit and my current circumstances I feel it probably is the right choice for me. Just looking for any ladies' views or experiences, good or bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex had them tied at 42 no regrets and no problems (she's 65 now)

Seems like the only way forward specially if your a thousand% sure no more kids

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ta hoping to hear first hand experiences from women who have been there

I don't want to do it then regret it after

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Can't contribute, (IUD here), but good luck with your decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh ok sorry to butt in ?? My ex isn't on here ??

Our daughter is 34 so it must have been earlier than 42 thinking about it.

It must have been around 32 ish docs didn't want to but she has 3 kids and each one came sooner last (ours) was 6 weeks early so she was million % she was not going to have any more kids

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No it's fine I said thankyou

Just I would like to hear first hand experiences off women on here who have had it done

Your input was appreciated

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

If your tubes are tied, can't it be reversed if you find your circumstances have changed?

I had to have a hysterectomy, I was a little sad the day of the op, but I have two kids and lost two. The sadness of having the op, certainly outweighs the pain of losing.

Plus side, no more periods!! Op is done keyhole these days so not as invasive as it used to be.

Chat it over with your doc, express your concerns and ask all the questions you need to x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks luv. Yea I will ring my doctor on Monday ask for a referral

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I'm gonna do the usual been there with my ex wife story lol bit seriously tho us guys can't ever get the side a woman goes through and kinda vice-versa!!--my only opinion really miss p is in your final thoughts you used the word probably!!-the right decision--so maybe take abit more time on it--either way your a switched on girl so you'll do what's right for YOU!!--goodluck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good afternoon miss p I was sterilised after I had my daughter in 1988 I had clips best thing I ever done these days I'm sure they do it by key hole only one thing I found was alot more bleeding and stomach cramps but everyone is different yes it can be reversed but only has a private patient and there's no guarantee that u will conceive once reversed hope this helps id say go for it chick but take your time and think about it xxx

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By *ires_and_IceCouple
over a year ago

Over the Rainbow

I was sterilised after the birth of my youngest bout ten years ago due to complications in pregnancy. So to be honest i didnt have a choice... i would have liked to have had one more child but cannot have it reversed xx

Have a serious think about it weight the pros and cons xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many years back when i was in my 30s i had tubes tide no probs at all xx

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Hope u get things sorted op anyo e know is there any other injections apart from depo needs some advice cnt go on like this thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say best ppl to ask would be your local family planning clinic xx

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

My Dr wouldn't give me a hysterectomy at 38 said I was to young. Had an early menapause at the age of 40 not a flush or sweat or soaking bed in 13 yrs must be one of the lucky ones but good luck to you in yr decision

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By *ussiesCouple
over a year ago

gwent

I did not want any more children (having 3) so at the age of 26 I was sterilised. They clipped my tubes. I have never looked back.

Best thing for surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was sterilized at the age of 26 and never regretted it once

I knew I didn't want anymore children so wasn't a problem with me

It was keyhole surgery and was fine after it

If it's for you ms p go for it hun

It's not a difficult op x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it done after my 4th baby because nothing worked, couldn't take the pill, got pregnant with the coil & then on the injection. I was 32 when they finally agreed, I always mourned the loss of choice & did later get into a new relationship where I would've liked another child but then I got cancer & all choice was taken away from me, I don't regret so much now but it is something you need to weigh the pro's & cons of very carefully & only you can know what might be best for you. Take care & don't rush into anything X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was sterilized when I was 31, I had keyhole surgery which was fine but I was left with horrendous periods after it and had to have a hystorectomy at 32 i have never regretted it though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had it done after my 4th baby because nothing worked, couldn't take the pill, got pregnant with the coil & then on the injection. I was 32 when they finally agreed, I always mourned the loss of choice & did later get into a new relationship where I would've liked another child but then I got cancer & all choice was taken away from me, I don't regret so much now but it is something you need to weigh the pro's & cons of very carefully & only you can know what might be best for you. Take care & don't rush into anything X"

Awwww big hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm desperate for more but cant get an effing date let alone a stable relationship ship hahaha

Time I ever need anyone my eggs will have dried up and I'll be a grandmother looool

I hope you are given the opportunity to choose and by sent away and told your too young .. you know your mind and body ..

Whatever you choose good luck xx

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I was sterilised at the age of 30. It was with clips and keyhole surgery. I had 2 children and definitely did not want any more... I was a bit sore afterwards but had no other problems.

Don't rush into anything unless you are definitely sure about it x

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

I had it done no probs no ill effects no scars so I would say go for it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No experience. But I would say that your current circumstances will change and the recent shit will soon be a memory... so please don't make any life changing decisions based on other idiots xxx

Are there any other alternatives which are less "final"? Might be worth pushing your doctor/family planning advisor?

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By *apri_n_CurvyCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

I was sterilised at 22. My tubes were cut. I didnt have the choice but l knew l didnt want anymore. The upside was l knew l couldnt get pregnant again but the downside was that my periods got so much heavier. It dont happen that way for everyone. But its something to think about!

Curvy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was sterilised at 22. My tubes were cut. I didnt have the choice but l knew l didnt want anymore. The upside was l knew l couldnt get pregnant again but the downside was that my periods got so much heavier. It dont happen that way for everyone. But its something to think about!

Curvy x"
this shows my total ignorance

- why do they get heavier? I thought they would have stopped if not releasing an egg?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assuming you use condoms with meets and only bareback with your partner, has he considered being done? Only takes 20 mins and you get some great drugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a lighter note...

I'd like to offer my services, seeing that the NHS is so cash strapped these days.

I'm a highly qualified electrical engineer, used to working with/in fine tolerances and tight spaces I assume it is tight ?? However I have found that it is much easier if you can get two hand on to the work object, this would depend on usage of the orifice...

But I digress..

Again to save the NHS we could hire a room with a sex swing, having made sure that its thoroughly cleaned by some of the "maids" on fab.

Once your legs are strapped into the stirrups, we could enlist the use of a perve...erh professional fanny hair removal specialist, I'm sure more than a few would like the task, a quick squirt of shaving gel and a mach 3 razor and before you know it fanny is smooth.

I suppose we should consider anaesthetic, personally I wouldn't recommend dark fruits.... I'd be more inclined towards special brew, does the job twice as quick

I have a LED head torch that should be capable of lighting up the cavern, however if that proves incapable of the task then spotlights should suffice.

Finally we could stream the whole operation on a pay to view channel, thus ensuring that you have sufficient cash to have a week in trecco bay recovering... minus my 25% fee of course

Please consider this worthwhile proposition and think of the NHS saving our hard cash.

seriously

Good luck in your choice, I'm sure that it will be the right one.

PS you still owe me a pint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the snip twenty years ago to make sure of no more kids...love my two dearly, but it was definitely the right decision at the right time.

Good luck with your decision.

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