Some of the people that read this will have met us. Most of the people who read will have not.
As a couple that originally met on Fab (despite the hiatus I remind her CONSTANTLY about whenever I get chance), we have grown together, bonded together, bought a house together and try to continue with the Fab lives we had but in a way that doesn't change us.
All the while we are still two very different people, two very different personalities but wanting the same thing whilst still trying to be a part of 'Fab'. To swing.
Over time it's becoming ever harder to meet new people. I don't mean to play with, but to just say to oneself 'oh, haven't seen you before'. Whether we've wanted to talk to them or smile politely as they pass, new people are becoming less frequent. Is that just us?
Then there is the whole 'Lord Marmite is a cunt' which let's face it is a bit of fact that can't be ignored, all things considered. And so by proxy Lillia gets labeled too. Surely she's a victim somewhere in this, right? Why is she still there.....?
I have made some friends along my journey, some only wanted to know me whilst I was single because I was offering the single guy energy in their lives. Some people found me a sentient rage dump with the ability to recycle that back to them in a way that they could use. A sort of emotional recycling plant. Others, lost touch, moved away, some people I wish I had tried harder to stay in contact with but didn't because my 'need to be important' meant that they didn't message me for an entire month once Lillia came along (it's not all her fault, really, just mostly lol).
We're looking at other websites for swinging connections because as much as Fab worked for us initially, it no longer does. It sounds arrogant like "we've found ours, see you later bitches" but it's not that. It's the constant logging on to dozens of people messaging "Can my Mr pound ur Mrs" when we have status up expressly stating that we are only visible for verification/attendance acceptance.
It's the constant Wales forum threads. Beach threads. Chams how do I get in as a single male. Meet now in the back of my garden in the shed wearing a gnome outfit whilst you are dressed as Santa. Constant constant nonsense and people just lacking any perception of the things they say or do. Status's of people saying that they are wanting to have someone walk in through their back garden gate in to their kitchen and drop to their knees and suck them off, walk away and that's that.
Like where is the moderation? Where is the 'if you are the only one thinking about it, there is probably a reason why?' attitude? Is it just me? Am I just so far gone?
Is swinging just Fab, or is Fabbing not the same as swinging? Is Fab like a dumbed down version and we've yet to find the elite level where people are actually making sense? Kinda like the movie 'Now You See Me' where they get invited to the Magic Circle.
Or is it simply because I have the ability to seriously upset people with words, my intentions about what we want and because they are not compatible or prepared to be compatible with everything and everyone else that I find we struggle? Because many many people will attest, in person we aren't that bad when we turn up and chat with people.
Don't know. Is it us. Is this the wrong place. Do we need to step back. Our friends are always welcome to message privately (or not) because it's not a popularity contest.
Fab ain't what it was. Is it just us?
Flame away, Forum Admins, we are prepared so let it fly. Thanks in advance.
-Lord
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