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"Boring…" Why don't you kick things off then. Others may join in. 😁 | |||
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"I left a last minute late night meet with a couple when I found out it was just the male and he wanted me to do, shall we say some very questionable and arrestable things to his sleeping wife and then lie about it if she woke up while he stood there masturbating. I told him I'm not comfortable with this and walked away. The profile got deleted within seconds of leaving so it reinforced the idea that it was dodgy and unsafe. I refuse to do anything with anyone that isn't agreed with 1st with everyone involved." This is terrifying. Good on you for leaving.. my God ! | |||
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"I left a last minute late night meet with a couple when I found out it was just the male and he wanted me to do, shall we say some very questionable and arrestable things to his sleeping wife and then lie about it if she woke up while he stood there masturbating. I told him I'm not comfortable with this and walked away. The profile got deleted within seconds of leaving so it reinforced the idea that it was dodgy and unsafe. I refuse to do anything with anyone that isn't agreed with 1st with everyone involved. This is terrifying. Good on you for leaving.. my God ! " Thank you. I'm quite a shy and nervous guy but I was not going to put myself in that situation. Not now, not ever | |||
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"Ooh how about finding out the guy you were exclusively dating had an active couples account on here with an ex? That was pretty bad at the time " Unbelievable. Sorry that happened to you x | |||
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"Many years ago on an old account, met for a social. Guy (without any prior warning or consent) stuck his tongue down my throat, groped my nether regions and then wondered why I wasn't up for meeting him again. " Taking liberties… he should have read the room better! | |||
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"I met someone for a social once, seemed cool over message etc, they then messaged on the way to say they'd had a few drinks because they were nervous. But when I arrived they were absolutely trashed and I suspect alcohol wasn't the only reason... So much so when we arrived at the bar to chat after a while he went to the bathroom and a staff member came over to ask if I was safe! I left pretty quickly but it was difficult as he was very pushy about me 'going back to his' And this is why I always do a social! (Mrs)" | |||
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"I left a last minute late night meet with a couple when I found out it was just the male and he wanted me to do, shall we say some very questionable and arrestable things to his sleeping wife and then lie about it if she woke up while he stood there masturbating. I told him I'm not comfortable with this and walked away. The profile got deleted within seconds of leaving so it reinforced the idea that it was dodgy and unsafe. I refuse to do anything with anyone that isn't agreed with 1st with everyone involved." | |||
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"Someone completely indiscreet, asking others if they had seen me because they were meeting me, and then calling across the street when they saw me 🤦 Someone wouldn't take no for an answer until I warned them that I would be contacting the police. Someone was messaging my verifications asking them to chat about me. (Hence no longer displayed) The catfish is a given... But it is still annoying. I left within 2 minutes when someone was 10+ years older and had sent a filtered pic which hid the smokers lines. When I do send my face pic, it is an after work, bags under eyes, no makeup pic so there are no illusions, what you see is what you get Let it all out girl. Release the negative energy to the wind! | |||
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"So, so many experiences. The guy who trapped me in the bathroom & wouldn't let me leave unless I made him cum. Luckily a female friend turned up, told me his wife had left him that day, he was high on & not himself. She distracted him while I left. I'd met him serval times at mine, believed him to be single & no problem. This was my 1st time at his. Long time regular, meet with a policeman via the site, always respectful etc. Came to mine after a bad day, told me stand against the wall with my did closed, kicked me full force between the legs with his steel toe caps. I was bruised right up to my belly button, that was when I had a belly button. Kicked him down the stairs & out the door. The maddest part though, he continued to meet women here, despite me earning them & I know he abused several of them. Oh my list goes on, but luckily the good outweighs the bad & tbh I no longer meet from here X" Bloody hell love.. I know you've had some weird experiences but that copper.. he needs a taste of his own medicine! | |||
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"So, so many experiences. The guy who trapped me in the bathroom & wouldn't let me leave unless I made him cum. Luckily a female friend turned up, told me his wife had left him that day, he was high on & not himself. She distracted him while I left. I'd met him serval times at mine, believed him to be single & no problem. This was my 1st time at his. Long time regular, meet with a policeman via the site, always respectful etc. Came to mine after a bad day, told me stand against the wall with my did closed, kicked me full force between the legs with his steel toe caps. I was bruised right up to my belly button, that was when I had a belly button. Kicked him down the stairs & out the door. The maddest part though, he continued to meet women here, despite me earning them & I know he abused several of them. Oh my list goes on, but luckily the good outweighs the bad & tbh I no longer meet from here X Bloody hell love.. I know you've had some weird experiences but that copper.. he needs a taste of his own medicine!" He's probably still here Mama, but the women here like to victim blame. It's a shame he did worse to others, but you're onto a loser when the messenger is always the one getting shot. | |||
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"So, so many experiences. The guy who trapped me in the bathroom & wouldn't let me leave unless I made him cum. Luckily a female friend turned up, told me his wife had left him that day, he was high on & not himself. She distracted him while I left. I'd met him serval times at mine, believed him to be single & no problem. This was my 1st time at his. Long time regular, meet with a policeman via the site, always respectful etc. Came to mine after a bad day, told me stand against the wall with my did closed, kicked me full force between the legs with his steel toe caps. I was bruised right up to my belly button, that was when I had a belly button. Kicked him down the stairs & out the door. The maddest part though, he continued to meet women here, despite me earning them & I know he abused several of them. Oh my list goes on, but luckily the good outweighs the bad & tbh I no longer meet from here X Bloody hell love.. I know you've had some weird experiences but that copper.. he needs a taste of his own medicine! He's probably still here Mama, but the women here like to victim blame. It's a shame he did worse to others, but you're onto a loser when the messenger is always the one getting shot. " Yeah I get what you mean. Just be careful, if I meet anyone dodgy I let my girl friends know.. | |||
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"So, so many experiences. The guy who trapped me in the bathroom & wouldn't let me leave unless I made him cum. Luckily a female friend turned up, told me his wife had left him that day, he was high on & not himself. She distracted him while I left. I'd met him serval times at mine, believed him to be single & no problem. This was my 1st time at his. Long time regular, meet with a policeman via the site, always respectful etc. Came to mine after a bad day, told me stand against the wall with my did closed, kicked me full force between the legs with his steel toe caps. I was bruised right up to my belly button, that was when I had a belly button. Kicked him down the stairs & out the door. The maddest part though, he continued to meet women here, despite me earning them & I know he abused several of them. Oh my list goes on, but luckily the good outweighs the bad & tbh I no longer meet from here X" That is terrifying!! | |||
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"So here's one from me.. I met a guy socially and things went well so a few days later decided to meet to play. Things were underway and I was getting bored, so I thought I'd give him a bj, he can cum and he will leave. So be has the desired effect and he cums. Then he starts to shake. At first I thought it was after shock kind of thing, but it went on. It wasn't a seizure. So the kind hearted woman that I am, told him get downstairs. He's in my dressing gown as he couldn't get dressed at that point. I give him a drink of water and I'm talking soothingly to him. All the time thinking "fucking hell!" What if he needs an ambulance? I've got no idea what his real name is, where he lives, date of birth, does he have any allergies.. eventually he calms down, I get out of my house and on his way home with instructions to phone his GP... more to this story but I've waffled on long enough 😂" We need to get them to complete a health questionnaire prior to activity Mama, a project to consider | |||
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"Ok, I'll go. I was chatting with a lady on here for a few weeks and out of nowhere she asked me to go to her house for a bit of rumpy pumpy. Being the gentleman I am, I jumped at the opportunity and drove to the area of Cardiff where she lived. The block of flats where she resided looked a bit shabby to say the least. Anyways, I triple locked my car and made my way into the maze of flats looking for hers. I eventually found it, someone had spray painted "YOU FUCKING WHORE" on the front door. I turned to get out, but she saw me and said that she'd just moved in and the writing was already there. I gave her the benefit of the doubt, and went inside. Holy shit... literally. The rooms were full of bags of rubbish, dirty nappies, empty food containers and cat shit was everywhere. The smell was gut wrenching, and I threw up in my mouth. She asked if I wanted a drink, or just get straight down to business. The kitchen was overflowing with more rubbish bags and about 3ft of dirty dishes, cups etc. I told her I needed to leave before I fainted, she offered me a quick blow job. End of story. " & you took the bj? | |||
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"Ok, I'll go. I was chatting with a lady on here for a few weeks and out of nowhere she asked me to go to her house for a bit of rumpy pumpy. Being the gentleman I am, I jumped at the opportunity and drove to the area of Cardiff where she lived. The block of flats where she resided looked a bit shabby to say the least. Anyways, I triple locked my car and made my way into the maze of flats looking for hers. I eventually found it, someone had spray painted "YOU FUCKING WHORE" on the front door. I turned to get out, but she saw me and said that she'd just moved in and the writing was already there. I gave her the benefit of the doubt, and went inside. Holy shit... literally. The rooms were full of bags of rubbish, dirty nappies, empty food containers and cat shit was everywhere. The smell was gut wrenching, and I threw up in my mouth. She asked if I wanted a drink, or just get straight down to business. The kitchen was overflowing with more rubbish bags and about 3ft of dirty dishes, cups etc. I told her I needed to leave before I fainted, she offered me a quick blow job. End of story. & you took the bj?" I wouldn't kiss and tell 😁. But no. | |||
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"Ok, I'll go. I was chatting with a lady on here for a few weeks and out of nowhere she asked me to go to her house for a bit of rumpy pumpy. Being the gentleman I am, I jumped at the opportunity and drove to the area of Cardiff where she lived. The block of flats where she resided looked a bit shabby to say the least. Anyways, I triple locked my car and made my way into the maze of flats looking for hers. I eventually found it, someone had spray painted "YOU FUCKING WHORE" on the front door. I turned to get out, but she saw me and said that she'd just moved in and the writing was already there. I gave her the benefit of the doubt, and went inside. Holy shit... literally. The rooms were full of bags of rubbish, dirty nappies, empty food containers and cat shit was everywhere. The smell was gut wrenching, and I threw up in my mouth. She asked if I wanted a drink, or just get straight down to business. The kitchen was overflowing with more rubbish bags and about 3ft of dirty dishes, cups etc. I told her I needed to leave before I fainted, she offered me a quick blow job. End of story. & you took the bj? I wouldn't kiss and tell 😁. But no. " You know I was judging there | |||
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"Ok, I'll go. I was chatting with a lady on here for a few weeks and out of nowhere she asked me to go to her house for a bit of rumpy pumpy. Being the gentleman I am, I jumped at the opportunity and drove to the area of Cardiff where she lived. The block of flats where she resided looked a bit shabby to say the least. Anyways, I triple locked my car and made my way into the maze of flats looking for hers. I eventually found it, someone had spray painted "YOU FUCKING WHORE" on the front door. I turned to get out, but she saw me and said that she'd just moved in and the writing was already there. I gave her the benefit of the doubt, and went inside. Holy shit... literally. The rooms were full of bags of rubbish, dirty nappies, empty food containers and cat shit was everywhere. The smell was gut wrenching, and I threw up in my mouth. She asked if I wanted a drink, or just get straight down to business. The kitchen was overflowing with more rubbish bags and about 3ft of dirty dishes, cups etc. I told her I needed to leave before I fainted, she offered me a quick blow job. End of story. & you took the bj? I wouldn't kiss and tell 😁. But no. You know I was judging there Yeah it's fine. My standards are pretty high. 🫡 | |||
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"I tried to flirt with, woo and court a lady from here. It was just in the nick of time when I discovered she detested Åfternoon Teå! 🫖 That wasn't just a horror but a full blown spectre that was averted! That is shocking! | |||
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"I tried to flirt with, woo and court a lady from here. It was just in the nick of time when I discovered she detested Åfternoon Teå! 🫖 That wasn't just a horror but a full blown spectre that was averted! • It's a travesty, your lådyship...but I'm glad that you agree. | |||
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"I met up with a guy with my partner in Bristol. Guy had been working all day so asked if he could shower in our hotel room, no issues there...until after we fucked and he left we realised there were shit marks on the bed where he hadn't washed his ass properly..." Wiped his arse properly you mean!?! 🤢🤮 | |||
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"I met up with a guy with my partner in Bristol. Guy had been working all day so asked if he could shower in our hotel room, no issues there...until after we fucked and he left we realised there were shit marks on the bed where he hadn't washed his ass properly... Wiped his arse properly you mean!?! 🤢🤮" He was in the shower so he should have washed his butt hole haha! | |||
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"My experience was (I sincerely hope) unique I was an experienced Fabber I was meeting who I thought was a single guy for several months who assured me he had had a vasectomy(I cannot take any hormonal contraception due to an inherited bleeding disorder, which I informed him when we started meeting so would need to use condoms etc ) Anyway months down the line it presented that he had lied It still lives with me a decade on. I will never be the same person I was before But I absolutely appreciate my experience is absolutely thankfully in the extreme minority That was such an awful time for you P & I know it still lives with you X | |||
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"Someone cyber stalked me and then began threatening to actually stalk me, he got removed off fab but now he's back, messaging me again and has verifications smh" Report to the Police xx | |||
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"Think the most comical experience, and there have been quite a few, was when I went to a guy's flat in Cardiff. It had been arranged for days so was surprised when I arrived that the kitchen (kitchen/lounge) was a bit of a mess from obviously the evening befores meal. The lounge part was a little better but it was toys lying around was the one. I asked if he had a little one or a niece/nephew. To which he replied "no they're mine" 🙈 Sexymama was my rescue call for that one 🤣🤣 " 😂😂😂 I'm a good rescue mama | |||
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"Our second ever meet. The guy kept trying to stick his cock in Mrs belly button. Nothing against this as a preference, but she absolutely hates having her belly button touched and this was specifically communicated before our meet. I'd have asked him to leave right then and there but let's just say the position I was in didnt afford me a view of that area. Needless to say we never met again and that was the catalyst to a long break from us trying any form of swinging again " Forgive me for laughing, but I’m trying to work out the cock in the belly button drill. Each to their own, I’m not judging anyone, but I have all sorts of weird images of a tiny dick into a belly button and ball slapping against a tummy, while the two of you look on in disbelief….. | |||
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"So, so many experiences. The guy who trapped me in the bathroom & wouldn't let me leave unless I made him cum. Luckily a female friend turned up, told me his wife had left him that day, he was high on & not himself. She distracted him while I left. OMG that’s horrific I'd met him serval times at mine, believed him to be single & no problem. This was my 1st time at his. Long time regular, meet with a policeman via the site, always respectful etc. Came to mine after a bad day, told me stand against the wall with my did closed, kicked me full force between the legs with his steel toe caps. I was bruised right up to my belly button, that was when I had a belly button. Kicked him down the stairs & out the door. The maddest part though, he continued to meet women here, despite me earning them & I know he abused several of them. Oh my list goes on, but luckily the good outweighs the bad & tbh I no longer meet from here X" | |||
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"So here's one from me.. I met a guy socially and things went well so a few days later decided to meet to play. Things were underway and I was getting bored, so I thought I'd give him a bj, he can cum and he will leave. So be has the desired effect and he cums. Then he starts to shake. At first I thought it was after shock kind of thing, but it went on. It wasn't a seizure. So the kind hearted woman that I am, told him get downstairs. He's in my dressing gown as he couldn't get dressed at that point. I give him a drink of water and I'm talking soothingly to him. All the time thinking "fucking hell!" What if he needs an ambulance? I've got no idea what his real name is, where he lives, date of birth, does he have any allergies.. eventually he calms down, I get out of my house and on his way home with instructions to phone his GP... more to this story but I've waffled on long enough 😂" The phrase “sucking the life out of it” springs to mind | |||
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"Ok, I'll go. I was chatting with a lady on here for a few weeks and out of nowhere she asked me to go to her house for a bit of rumpy pumpy. Being the gentleman I am, I jumped at the opportunity and drove to the area of Cardiff where she lived. The block of flats where she resided looked a bit shabby to say the least. Anyways, I triple locked my car and made my way into the maze of flats looking for hers. I eventually found it, someone had spray painted "YOU FUCKING WHORE" on the front door. I turned to get out, but she saw me and said that she'd just moved in and the writing was already there. I gave her the benefit of the doubt, and went inside. Holy shit... literally. The rooms were full of bags of rubbish, dirty nappies, empty food containers and cat shit was everywhere. The smell was gut wrenching, and I threw up in my mouth. She asked if I wanted a drink, or just get straight down to business. The kitchen was overflowing with more rubbish bags and about 3ft of dirty dishes, cups etc. I told her I needed to leave before I fainted, she offered me a quick blow job. End of story. " Did you report her? If there were dirty nappies it means a child lived there. I would worry for the child. | |||
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"I think most women on here have a few horror stories, one of mine was when I visited a club and a guy asked if I wanted to play, I agreed and we went to a room together, I brought up the subject of condoms and he reluctantly went downstairs to get some, we begun playing after he put one on but after a short while something felt “off” I felt down there and he’d claimed he was using his fingers. I said I wanted to stop and sat up, only to find that he had removed the condom and it was thrown close to where my head was. I got up and walked out with him asking me what was wrong. When I went downstairs I told the staff and pointed him out but no one did anything about it which I was pretty upset about. I chatted to another guy that night who mentioned him and told me they had played together that night several times and he was “such a nice guy” and that he had just been given the all clear as he’d recently had clamydia ! Needless to say I got tested asap ! I’ve seen him a few more times in the club and still mentioned it but as far as I know he still goes, I also saw him at a party once where I left as soon as I saw him and told the hosts why. His profile is still active on here as well. I'm so sorry. This is sexual assault and a serious offence. Hope you're ok lovely ❤️ xxx (Mrs) | |||
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"I think most women on here have a few horror stories, one of mine was when I visited a club and a guy asked if I wanted to play, I agreed and we went to a room together, I brought up the subject of condoms and he reluctantly went downstairs to get some, we begun playing after he put one on but after a short while something felt “off” I felt down there and he’d claimed he was using his fingers. I said I wanted to stop and sat up, only to find that he had removed the condom and it was thrown close to where my head was. I got up and walked out with him asking me what was wrong. When I went downstairs I told the staff and pointed him out but no one did anything about it which I was pretty upset about. I chatted to another guy that night who mentioned him and told me they had played together that night several times and he was “such a nice guy” and that he had just been given the all clear as he’d recently had clamydia ! Needless to say I got tested asap ! I’ve seen him a few more times in the club and still mentioned it but as far as I know he still goes, I also saw him at a party once where I left as soon as I saw him and told the hosts why. His profile is still active on here as well. I have my days but I’m now overly cautious about people now and tend to judge more harshly now xx | |||
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"I was chaperone to a friend at club, and she was enjoying herself in the hot tub. So a guy was kissing her and trying to progress things, when she stopped him and insisted on a condom being worn. The guy reached over and grabbed a discarded used condom from the side and rinsed it out in the water, before putting it on and trying to continue. Needless to say, I suggested we go elsewhere for a bit." Oh God that reminds me of hot tub play where I was getting it on with someone and this old guy kept trying to get involved, no matter how many times we told him to stop. A mutual friend ended up using his body to block him, and the old guy just started to scratch up his leg with his crusty toenails. Left a pretty nasty wound | |||
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"Dont judge But met a girl who turned out ti be v disabled, and at no point had pointed this out! " No judgement, bit of a shock. But did you meet the challenge and make her feel good anyway? | |||
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