FabSwingers.com forum: Much youngers guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

Ladies, I have a question… do any of you meet much younger guys?

I’ve been chatting with a few younger men lately and honestly, I really like some of them. I’ve even met a couple in person for a bit of fun, but sometimes I end up feeling a little guilty about it.

I’m still pretty new on Fab and figuring things out, so I’m curious how others approach this. Do you meet younger guys? How do you handle the age gap and your own feelings about it?

I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences or any advice you might have.

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By *rMrsTwistedCouple
10 weeks ago

Neath

Its Mrstwisted here , I like younger lads and have met a few

I've not felt guilty its all in good fun

I do only meet the younger ones who are respectful and not a fuckboy who's every two word is Bro

May I ask why you feel guilty x

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By *3xymamaWoman
10 weeks ago

...., Wales

I prefer younger men and people in general. I have a young outlook, and enjoy younger company. As for playing with younger men I've found as a rule they have been respectful and very eager to please.. my attitude is, I'm not looking to marry them, just to enjoy their company and fine bodies

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By *3achyBWoman
10 weeks ago

Aberpennar

I've always met younger men & found them to be far more respectable & certainly more eager to please & be adventurous. I've also had very long lasting arrangements with men 20+ years younger, I've never felt any guilt about it X

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By *lessing2016Woman
10 weeks ago

Cardiff

"Ladies, I have a question… do any of you meet much younger guys?

I’m still pretty new on Fab and figuring things out, so I’m curious how others approach this. Do you meet younger guys? How do you handle the age gap and your own feelings about it?

I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences or any advice you might have."

While I have an age range and filters on here, if I'm at a club or social and chat with a younger person that I find engaging and I'm attracted to, I'm not against playing with them and have played with younger men and women in the past.

I can't say I've ever felt guilty, but I'd be lying if I said I never thought in hindsight, "was that a good idea?", mainly because of the age difference and possibly because of some old trauma and self confidence issues.

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By *hadowSirenWoman
10 weeks ago

Near

Definitely a younger guy convert here. Oddly I used to prefer older thsn me. But some do show their youth and naivety on occasion when they realise exactly what Fab is all about and that it’s not simply a hook up site like the dating apps are (well, I mean technically people use it for that reason but most use it for sex and fun sociable times too)

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By *tudentForFunMan
10 weeks ago

Lurgan

Why guilty?

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By *issP69Woman
10 weeks ago

Neath

I always found younger men much more fun on here when I used to meet.

Far less entitled, less drama, no moaning about not getting any action etc.

Not stuck in miserable marriages they're too weak to get out of.

Don't get clingy or pushy.

Just an all round far more positive experience

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By *leasureQueenWoman
10 weeks ago

Wales

I like the company of younger people. The age gap never bothers me whether I’m friends with them or play pals. I have a young outlook and energy ( not to say more mature people don’t) but I find a younger crowd more experimental and fun.

I don’t feel at all guilty about playing with younger people. I own the fact im a “cougar” .

It’s all about vibing with people and my vibe gravitates towards a younger crowd.

Enjoy what you enjoy and try not to overthink it. Sexual liberation is nothing to feel guilty about lovely. Embrace it x

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
10 weeks ago

South Wales

We meet younger guys, I’ve never even worried about the age gap and have found the guys we meet to be respectful and fun xx 😘

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By *veragedad93Man
10 weeks ago

Bridgend

I prefer meeting older than me.

Life's to short do what makes you happy

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By *uietCuriosity24Man
10 weeks ago

Pontywuan

whatever makes you happy and comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I prefer to meet old lady than myself

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By *issing DoryCouple
10 weeks ago

the seaside

Not for me. Last younger guy I met turned up at my house when my family was there, kept trying to "date" me and was a nuisance. Dory x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

Thank you for all 😘

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
10 weeks ago

Cardiff

No for obvious reasons.

I've always got on better with older people in general

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By *harger25Man
10 weeks ago

Cardiff

"We meet younger guys, I’ve never even worried about the age gap and have found the guys we meet to be respectful and fun xx 😘

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I love older women. It was lovely to meet you last week at the social and would love to meet again. X

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By *ir Rob Bin of CocksleyMan
10 weeks ago

Cwmbran

I used to be a younger man, this thread has been triggering.

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By *atSitterMan
10 weeks ago

pontypool

Rob your old enough to be my dad!!! Definitely not on about you

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By *ngry IngridWoman
10 weeks ago

Cardigan

I slept with a 26 year old when I was 32 and felt dirty afterwards.

Fast forward to 42 and I was meeting up with a 28 year old and that was amazing.

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By *T113Man
10 weeks ago

visiting

If you’re ever at a loose end let me know x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

I don't want to play with you... sorry... but it's nice to see you at the gym from time to time.

It's a shame you don't have the courage to talk to me.

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By *T113Man
10 weeks ago

visiting

Have you the courage to speak to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

I have the courage to talk to everyone... you are a man... you should make the first move

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By *T113Man
10 weeks ago

visiting

Message me

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By *ngry IngridWoman
10 weeks ago

Cardigan

"If you’re ever at a loose end let me know x"

Why?

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
10 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

"If you’re ever at a loose end let me know x

Why? "

Because....

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By *hewankinmanMan
9 weeks ago

wales

When I was in my early twenties I had a six month affair with a 61 year old married woman.

We both had the best time, she didn’t feel guilty and I definitely didn’t. So I’d say go for it.

61 is still my magic number….. shame it doesn’t come up on the lottery

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By *ilkmilkmilkMan
9 weeks ago

cardiff

I wish this was me haha

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By *otstuff77Woman
9 weeks ago

to close for comfort

I've only been with 3 guys off fab,all younger

The biggest gap being 15 years. I don't have a problem with it. They were all mature,respectful and gave me a bloody good time

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By *akey199Man
9 weeks ago

work all over

Considering the frontal lobe of younger men isn’t developed until early to mid 20’s it depends how much younger. If it were a man in his 40’s going after teenage girls you’d all be frowning upon it. This isn’t any different. So depending on what you mean by younger, if it’s a reasonably mature lad that’s a bit younger than you knock yourself out, or lock yourself up if you’re going after some 16 year old saying ‘well it’s legal’ to yourself

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By *rick or treatCouple
9 weeks ago

land of the rising sun

Hubby is 10yrs younger than me, I never used to go for younger but he changed my mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
9 weeks ago

My husband is 19 years older than me.... I met guys 15-20 years younger than me but I didn't feel good with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I prefer and older women and think they deserve respect

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