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By *xpatinwales OP   Man
10 weeks ago

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Hi all, this may be a controversial post but I’m curious

Ladies, how do you define BBW/Curvy, I’m not at all sizeest (not sure if that’s a word)

But is there a difference?

What one person sees as Curvy, another might see as BBW.

I’ve known size 10 say curvy and a size 22 Curvy, also a size 16 says they are BBW or Fabulous

To me a ladies body shape is irrelevant if she is happy in her skin.

All asked in love and a good way

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By *lessing2016Woman
10 weeks ago

Cardiff

I think it's down to how the individual personally identifies themselves.

Naturally everyone has their own thoughts and opinions about how they see themselves and as long as others respect that and don't try and infringe on that, each to their own 😊😊

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By *ngry IngridWoman
10 weeks ago

Cardigan

I'm a size 16 and see myself as curvy but wouldn't label myself as a BBW. I suppose it's all about perception.

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By *ory xWoman
10 weeks ago

Seaside

I am a size 26 and count myself as a SSBBW; when I was a size 22 I identified as a BBW. A long time ago when I was a size 18 I saw myself as curvy.

I think it's upto how we feel inside.

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By *xpatinwales OP   Man
10 weeks ago

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"I think it's down to how the individual personally identifies themselves.

Naturally everyone has their own thoughts and opinions about how they see themselves and as long as others respect that and don't try and infringe on that, each to their own 😊😊"

I totally agree with you. As long as you are happy in your skin.

Everyone has preferences just don’t be a dick if someone doesn’t fit your box.

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By *xpatinwales OP   Man
10 weeks ago

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"I'm a size 16 and see myself as curvy but wouldn't label myself as a BBW. I suppose it's all about perception. "

A lot of ladies I know say the same thing

Curves are a real turn on for me.

But I can appreciate a lady size 10/12 etc.

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By *xpatinwales OP   Man
10 weeks ago

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"I am a size 26 and count myself as a SSBBW; when I was a size 22 I identified as a BBW. A long time ago when I was a size 18 I saw myself as curvy.

I think it's upto how we feel inside."

Does the SS mean super sexy because you are.

If you are loved for you, best feeling in the world

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By *ory xWoman
10 weeks ago

Seaside


"I am a size 26 and count myself as a SSBBW; when I was a size 22 I identified as a BBW. A long time ago when I was a size 18 I saw myself as curvy.

I think it's upto how we feel inside.

Does the SS mean super sexy because you are.

If you are loved for you, best feeling in the world "

Lol SS = Super Sized.

@KissesNCwtches loves me for who I am and youre right its the best feeling.

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By *nsatiable21Woman
10 weeks ago

neverland

Out of curiosity, why do we need to define size?

I agree that confidence is the sexiest thing a man/woman can have definitely regardless of their body shape.

Definitely dependent on the person, same as some people on here call themselves well endowed and sometimes it makes me think... really?

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By *xpatinwales OP   Man
10 weeks ago

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"Out of curiosity, why do we need to define size?

I agree that confidence is the sexiest thing a man/woman can have definitely regardless of their body shape.

Definitely dependent on the person, same as some people on here call themselves well endowed and sometimes it makes me think... really?"

I get you, we should look at the person not the body.

Confidence is a sexy thing

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By *hino69007Man
10 weeks ago

Port Talbot

Nothing better than a bbw in my eyes although i do like all sizes but im drawn to a lady with a big big chest and more often than not they are a bbw mmmmmm great love it xx

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By *3achyBWoman
10 weeks ago

Aberpennar

I choose fabulous because, for me it's a state of mind rather than a size. But I'm also curvy, I go in & out in all the right places X

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By *xpatinwales OP   Man
10 weeks ago

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"I choose fabulous because, for me it's a state of mind rather than a size. But I'm also curvy, I go in & out in all the right places X"

This is exactly what I mean.

Love it

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By *ed FlameWoman
10 weeks ago

South Gloucestershire

Well an average UK lady is a 16 apparently so I personally wouldn't call anything smaller a BBW put that is my own opinion.

I am a SSBBW.

Xx

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By *an1978Woman
10 weeks ago

Gwynedd/ Powys Border

I'm size 16 and have curvy on my profile...

But more like chunky 🤪

I don't go for slim/athletic men or women, so it is handy to know at a glance.

There is someone for everyone.

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By *issP69Woman
10 weeks ago

Neath

It's very much like the term athletic

It can vary hugely. To me an athletic man is someone with a strong muscular rugby type build/gym fit. But it could equally apply to a really really slim guy with very little muscle mass who runs marathons.

I think as long as people are happy to provide up to date photos of themselves to a person they are arranging to meet then whatever term they choose to use to describe themselves is of little relevance really. Everyone sees themselves differently and that's fine

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By *xpatinwales OP   Man
10 weeks ago

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"It's very much like the term athletic

It can vary hugely. To me an athletic man is someone with a strong muscular rugby type build/gym fit. But it could equally apply to a really really slim guy with very little muscle mass who runs marathons.

I think as long as people are happy to provide up to date photos of themselves to a person they are arranging to meet then whatever term they choose to use to describe themselves is of little relevance really. Everyone sees themselves differently and that's fine "

Well said. Couldn’t have put it better, but I’m not so eloquent with words

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By *orphia2003Woman
10 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

In terms of size, I'm fat.

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By *hino69007Man
10 weeks ago

Port Talbot


"In terms of size, I'm fat."

Ive just checked your pics out and i gotta say your not fat in my eyes, figure looking good and very inviting!

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By *issP69Woman
10 weeks ago

Neath


"In terms of size, I'm fat.

Ive just checked your pics out and i gotta say your not fat in my eyes, figure looking good and very inviting! "

Why is fat seen as a negative term? If someone chooses to use it to describe themselves, then there's not really any need for people to try and persuade them otherwise. A person can be fat and still look good and have an inviting figure

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By *antaCarlaCouple
10 weeks ago

Cardiff

Yes, fat is just a descriptive word really. Let's be honest, some of us are fat. It's not really a negative thing.

Now calling someone a fat bitch or similar because they won't fuck you, is a whole different thing.

If that's not for you, move along.

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By *hino69007Man
10 weeks ago

Port Talbot

Fair comments and your correct never really thought of it that way round, you've made me think differently about it!

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