FabSwingers.com forum: Tips?

By *ladivar2022 OP Man
13 weeks ago

weybridge

What am I doing wrong on here? Send msgs, send pics if asked, never abusive but hardly ever get a reply, any tips?

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By *issing DoryCouple
13 weeks ago

the seaside

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By *issing DoryCouple
13 weeks ago

the seaside

We would not reply as you have no profile pic, not many pics on your profile and what you have got is just of your dick. Your profile text does not sell you, its not standing out

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By *elNRoobsCouple
13 weeks ago

Swansea

Get yourself to an organised social event to get verified. Most people won’t entertain meeting someone unverified.

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By *idnightMattMan
13 weeks ago

Llanelli

Having the same issue. Either ignored or blocked. Socials i will say you'll get to know people much better

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By *ladivar2022 OP Man
13 weeks ago

weybridge

Hard to get to socials as I work away.

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By *lessing2016Woman
13 weeks ago

Cardiff

Hi,

Just some things that stick out for me.

1. No profile pic

2. Can't accommodate (and no context in your bio)

3. 53 year old man who wants to meet 18 years olds (personally, that's an ick for me)

4. As good as empty bio

5. If you work away, go to socials local to where you are staying

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By *ladivar2022 OP Man
13 weeks ago

weybridge

Socials are more often than not advertised a week before the event, I don’t know where I’m going to be on that date as I move around with work.

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By *lessing2016Woman
13 weeks ago

Cardiff

You move every day and don't know where you're going every day? 365 days of the year? No days off?

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By *ladivar2022 OP Man
13 weeks ago

weybridge

Ok, I’m off tomorrow, what socials are happening in wales tomorrow night?

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
13 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

Ask yourself, would you meet yourself if you had the chance to, looking at your own profile? What makes you stand out from everyone else in your area, to warrant a reply from anyone? What's your USP?

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By *hadowSirenWoman
13 weeks ago

Near

"Socials are more often than not advertised a week before the event, I don’t know where I’m going to be on that date as I move around with work."

Most socials are advertised at least a month in advance. For example, the Cardiff social was held on the 30/01 and the next date is the 20/03, so plenty of time to organise to attend. All most socials are generally held on a weekend (well, the ones that involve a fair amount of drinking anyway!) and you’ll get the odd ‘pop up’ socials like bowling mid week.

Search in the forums for an area you’ll be working in and see what’s happening on the dates you’ll be there. But if you can’t attend after you’ve put your name down, you need to tell the organisers as most will then block no shows with no message to let them know from attending future ones, which then significantly limits your options going forward

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By *issP69Woman
13 weeks ago

Neath

"Ask yourself, would you meet yourself if you had the chance to, looking at your own profile? What makes you stand out from everyone else in your area, to warrant a reply from anyone? What's your USP? "

This

Have a think about why should/would a woman/couple etc choose to meet you over everyone else based purely on your profile?

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By *lessing2016Woman
13 weeks ago

Cardiff

"Ok, I’m off tomorrow, what socials are happening in wales tomorrow night? "

Look on the forums, I'm not your pa 🤣🤣

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