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By *obbymac OP   Man
21 weeks ago

cardiff

Hi

I was wondering if anyone has turned up at a meet, may be someone’s home and recognised them. Maybe a relative or close friends. I always ask for a pic but sometime. Don’t always get one.

I always feel nervous as I walk up someone’s drive and knock the door. Would die of embarrassment lol

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By *CBoyTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Rhondda Fawr

Well as they are also looking for sex with strangers they may be similarly embarrassed initially. BUT it would benefit you both to get over it and discuss your mutual hobby. Consider the opportunity to have a fuck buddy you could meet openly. Or perphaps go to sex parties and clubs together etc

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By *eachykeen97Woman
21 weeks ago

swansea

Why on earth is the relative even part of potential futures of your fab endeavours 🫠🫠 I think you should probably stick to no photo no meet

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By *issP69Woman
21 weeks ago

Neath

I don't understand how someone would agree to meet someone from here without seeing a face pic first. How would you know if you were attracted to them to want to meet them? I don't get it

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By *3xymamaWoman
21 weeks ago

...., Wales


"I don't understand how someone would agree to meet someone from here without seeing a face pic first. How would you know if you were attracted to them to want to meet them? I don't get it "

This for me too MissP.. I base my decision to meet on whether I'm attracted to someone. No face picture = no meet

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By *alleylad123Man
21 weeks ago

valleys


"I don't understand how someone would agree to meet someone from here without seeing a face pic first. How would you know if you were attracted to them to want to meet them? I don't get it "

The word is desperate

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By *eroLondonMan
21 weeks ago

Mayfair

These types of inane threads often crop up. I wonder if it's a form of titillation that is beyond my comprehension (thankfully) and that people get a kick from asking such hypothetical questions.

Do people even meet without even knowing what the other person looks like, let alone meeting a relative?!

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By *orphia2003Woman
21 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I won't meet without a face pic, and I always insist on public meet first.

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
21 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

How would you know who you're meeting if you don't know what their face looked like? It'd be a bit weird if the only image you had (of a woman in this instance) was of her jugs. Would you walk around a pub/cafe just looking until you found the corresponding funbags?

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By *issP69Woman
21 weeks ago

Neath

It's like the threads where some bloke posts claiming to be arranging a gangbang for a female, then a string of blokes comment to say they would love to attend. How like, when there are no photos at all of the female, or is it that they literally will fuck anything? It baffles me. Maybe I am old fashioned lol

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
21 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)


"It's like the threads where some bloke posts claiming to be arranging a gangbang for a female, then a string of blokes comment to say they would love to attend. How like, when there are no photos at all of the female, or is it that they literally will fuck anything? It baffles me. Maybe I am old fashioned lol "

Any hole's a goal... I've got that tattooed on my pubic mound.

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By *artofacoupleMan
21 weeks ago

merthyr tydfil

Not being funny but sometimes people use so many filters they look a completely different person

Some of the pics I’ve seen of people are ludicrous I just hope they never go missing because they will never be found using those pics

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By *inkerellaWoman
21 weeks ago

Swansea

But at an event. Not meeting 1-2-1 but getting to a house party, a club… you don’t know the guest list!

You go in the party , get a drink, turn around… bam! Someone you know staring at you!

What would you do? Is there an etiquette for this?

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

From a male point of view, if theres a female profile no pics no written bio its probably a no from me im not that desperate id turn up to a random house not knowing what your walking into, people who are unwilling to swap details before a meet is also a no. So many scams dodgy men and women its a huge no. People who wont meet even if its in spoons for a beer and burger also raises alarm bells. The more effort you put on the more youll get back

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By *issP69Woman
21 weeks ago

Neath


"From a male point of view, if theres a female profile no pics no written bio its probably a no from me im not that desperate id turn up to a random house not knowing what your walking into, people who are unwilling to swap details before a meet is also a no. So many scams dodgy men and women its a huge no. People who wont meet even if its in spoons for a beer and burger also raises alarm bells. The more effort you put on the more youll get back "

This is what I tend to see on here. People who seem to claim to want to meet but with no face pic exchange either way, I guess I just get confused

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
21 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)


"From a male point of view, if theres a female profile no pics no written bio its probably a no from me im not that desperate id turn up to a random house not knowing what your walking into, people who are unwilling to swap details before a meet is also a no. So many scams dodgy men and women its a huge no. People who wont meet even if its in spoons for a beer and burger also raises alarm bells. The more effort you put on the more youll get back

This is what I tend to see on here. People who seem to claim to want to meet but with no face pic exchange either way, I guess I just get confused "

It's like Blind Date.

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By *un guy300Man
21 weeks ago

Swansea

I can't see it being a problem ,as you both are after the same thing so why not enjoy giving them pleasure

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By *an1978Woman
21 weeks ago

Gwynedd/ Powys Border

I'm no pic no meet, but have had it where I've gone for it and sent my pic first, and the pic back has been a friend of many years.

No longer playing the game, but am sure it would be very awkward for some.

Those of you who do anon glory hole.. I shudder to think about potential grim realities

Have a think of the worst possible...

A sibling? Your boss? Your ex?

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By *un guy300Man
21 weeks ago

Swansea

That would definitely a shock if it was a close relative

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By *irtyProfessionalMan
21 weeks ago

Bristol

I spotted someone I knew from my childhood, she is 15 years older than me and was married with a daughter when I knew her as a teenager. She always had massive tits and was the subject of many a boyhood wank. Anyway, I started messaging her and it took ages for her to click who I was. We arranged to meet and had a really nice afternoon in a pub where we spoke about the past and my teenage crush on her. We have been fucking now for several years and have had an awful lot of naughty sex everywhere you can think of including her favourite activity of me making her cum whilst I finger her and tease her clit sat in a car or even a lorry in laybys (I used to be a lorry driver) .

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"But at an event. Not meeting 1-2-1 but getting to a house party, a club… you don’t know the guest list!

You go in the party , get a drink, turn around… bam! Someone you know staring at you!

What would you do? Is there an etiquette for this?"

Depends on the level of maturity, I've met very familiar people in those sorts of situations. On one occasion I chose to leave, on another they chose to leave & with another person we agreed to keep distance, because the venue was big enough. I'm not saying it's comfy but if you can get over the oh fuck, it's manageable. With one facility member we agree not to attend a certain club at the same time & we're blocked by each other on here X

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By *hisismeXXXMan
21 weeks ago

Welsh Wales


"It's like the threads where some bloke posts claiming to be arranging a gangbang for a female, then a string of blokes comment to say they would love to attend. How like, when there are no photos at all of the female, or is it that they literally will fuck anything? It baffles me. Maybe I am old fashioned lol "

Rest assured, you are not being old fashioned

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Met my husbands sister for the first time at one of the local socials.

Hell of a way to break the ice

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By *nky666Woman
21 weeks ago

Bridgend


"Met my husbands sister for the first time at one of the local socials.

Hell of a way to break the ice"

At least we laughed 🤣🤣about it 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"Why on earth is the relative even part of potential futures of your fab endeavours 🫠🫠 I think you should probably stick to no photo no meet "

Why anyone meets without a face pic is a bit odd?

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"These types of inane threads often crop up. I wonder if it's a form of titillation that is beyond my comprehension (thankfully) and that people get a kick from asking such hypothetical questions.

Do people even meet without even knowing what the other person looks like, let alone meeting a relative?!"

This is what worries me with OP more understanding would be turned up and didn't fancy the person

Why relative is in his head is a bit off

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"I'm no pic no meet, but have had it where I've gone for it and sent my pic first, and the pic back has been a friend of many years.

No longer playing the game, but am sure it would be very awkward for some.

Those of you who do anon glory hole.. I shudder to think about potential grim realities

Have a think of the worst possible...

A sibling? Your boss? Your ex?"

I've had this not with a close friend but without somebody I knew lol

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By *itherofustwoMan
21 weeks ago

swansea

Took my wife to a local house party.... we always had good times there... this night her ex husband attended as single m.

awkward at first.... but after a while we all got into the swing of it... and as nights go it was a good night....

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