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By *uckMe12Free OP   Man
22 weeks ago

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As the title suggests, what has this site taught you in the time you've been on here? It can be sexual or non-sexual. For me, I've experienced several different sexual positions that I'd only ever dreamt of, and how to eat bolognaise properly with a fork and spoon.

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By *0ftAndRisingMan
22 weeks ago

Swansea

Trust nothing, verify everything

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By *issP69Woman
22 weeks ago

Neath

That people can and will tell very dangerous lies without any thought for the consequences to other people .I learned a very hard lesson on here a long time ago now. I no longer meet but if I did my motto would be "Believe nothing, trust noone"

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By *uckMe12Free OP   Man
22 weeks ago

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"That people can and will tell very dangerous lies without any thought for the consequences to other people .I learned a very hard lesson on here a long time ago now. I no longer meet but if I did my motto would be "Believe nothing, trust noone" "

I agree with your motto.

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By *ark ScoutMan
22 weeks ago

Swansea

That they live among us

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By *oyo1972Man
22 weeks ago

Cardiff

Never give your phone number out

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By *torminnormanMan
22 weeks ago

Pontypridd

Never let your guard down...

🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

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By *avenwrexham75TV/TS
22 weeks ago

Wrexham

That there are some lovely people out there, but sadly they seem outweighed by the weirdos!

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By *uckMe12Free OP   Man
22 weeks ago

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We need some positivity, come on... surly there are some good points about being on here, otherwise you wouldn't still be hanging around. 😁

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By *r Romantic 64Man
22 weeks ago

NEWPORT

Not everyone is as honest as they make out.

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By *ilverjagMan
22 weeks ago

swansea

Taught me that fab is like a deck of cards, and there's a joker in every pack.

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By *avenwrexham75TV/TS
22 weeks ago

Wrexham


"We need some positivity, come on... surly there are some good points about being on here, otherwise you wouldn't still be hanging around. 😁"

Well, I get plenty of sex when I want so that's a positive!

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By *rMrsBiCardiffCouple
22 weeks ago

Roath

That excellent cheese toasties can be found in the most unlikely places 😄

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Taught me that I like being the centre of attention in a room full of cocks.

Dont know if I should be proud or ashamed. But I really am proud.

Taught me to invite at least 3 more than the number you want because so many just dont turn up.

Taught me that people cant read profiles

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By *ordermanreturnsMan
22 weeks ago

Llangollen

Trust your gut instinct when arranging meet when prepared to travel..

But

On the other hand ..as money python said about the Spanish inquisition..always expect the unexpected..

And that's in a good way

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By *ordermanreturnsMan
22 weeks ago

Llangollen

Monty python said not money python

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By *ingle_professional42Man
22 weeks ago

swansea

That what was said about me in my vanilla life wasn’t actually true!

There are people out there who are interested in what I have to offer!

And I’m not as unattractive to people as I thought x

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By *eachykeen97Woman
22 weeks ago

swansea

Fab taught me the amount of people who don’t know how to act like a human being towards people on this website, and that there are way more lunatics in south wales than I was aware of 😅😅

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By *atLikeThiefMan
22 weeks ago

crosshands

Nothing life hasn’t already taught me, however what it has offered me is the opportunity through which to meet people many of which are open and genuine. Like every site you don’t meet them on here but through social events that are organised by some of those lovely people on here. Get to the socials, be yourself, mingle and make no expectations.

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By *issP69Woman
22 weeks ago

Neath

On the positive side I have been on here for over 15 years and made some life long friends, attended weddings, nursed newborns of friends I have made on here over the years/decades. Even unfortunately attended a funeral of someone I met through here.

Its a bizarre place.

Its very different now to how it was. It was always quite close knit especially the south Wales scene. There's still an element of it there but you can see it is absolutely nothing like it used to be and never will be again. But things change

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By *ordermanreturnsMan
22 weeks ago

Llangollen


"Fab taught me the amount of people who don’t know how to act like a human being towards people on this website, and that there are way more lunatics in south wales than I was aware of 😅😅 "

Re lunatics in south Wales.. its what I call being full of valley bravado..

Maybe youre begi ing to see the light and realise us gogs are the way to go..

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By *irstrodeoCouple
22 weeks ago

South Wales

In the first few months of our experience that there are some really good people that you meet in some unexpected and diverse ways.

Also there is someone for everyone!

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By *uckMe12Free OP   Man
22 weeks ago

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I've also learnt not to put all your eggs in one basket, unless you're 100% sure you've found a keeper.

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By *atLikeThiefMan
22 weeks ago

crosshands


"On the positive side I have been on here for over 15 years and made some life long friends, attended weddings, nursed newborns of friends I have made on here over the years/decades. Even unfortunately attended a funeral of someone I met through here.

Its a bizarre place.

Its very different now to how it was. It was always quite close knit especially the south Wales scene. There's still an element of it there but you can see it is absolutely nothing like it used to be and never will be again. But things change "

I completely agree, it’s not what it once was. I came off here 12yrs ago and came back not so long. It is much different to what it was. Yet there is still that element here.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Everyone's very angry that they aren't entitled to a hot NSA-loving woman with the sole wish of fulfilling their cliche-arsed MFF fantasies.

People are very proud of their penises. Regardless of whether there is realistic justification for it.

Lots of people should just get a divorce really and be done with it.

A lot of people's sexual fantasies are very informed by cultural hegemony rather than originality and imagination.

Love it.

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By *attoodchapMan
22 weeks ago

Swansea

Every man on here is athletic with a 8 inch+ willy (according to bio's!)

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By *hadowSirenWoman
22 weeks ago

Near


"That people can and will tell very dangerous lies without any thought for the consequences to other people .I learned a very hard lesson on here a long time ago now. I no longer meet but if I did my motto would be "Believe nothing, trust noone" "

Absolutely this (usually due to jealousy), along with never giving out my number.

However, I’ve learnt my phone camera takes better pics than a professional one and that sometimes when you least expect it but need it the most, the best support can come from a stranger you’ve never met…. And that when you manage to find them, there are still a small number of genuinely awesome people on here that don’t spend their time on here entirely focused on sex!

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By *uckMe12Free OP   Man
22 weeks ago

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"That people can and will tell very dangerous lies without any thought for the consequences to other people .I learned a very hard lesson on here a long time ago now. I no longer meet but if I did my motto would be "Believe nothing, trust noone"

Absolutely this (usually due to jealousy), along with never giving out my number.

However, I’ve learnt my phone camera takes better pics than a professional one and that sometimes when you least expect it but need it the most, the best support can come from a stranger you’ve never met…. And that when you manage to find them, there are still a small number of genuinely awesome people on here that don’t spend their time on here entirely focused on sex!"

I think I'm one of those genuinely awesome people you speak of 🤣.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Thai first rule of fight club is not to town about fight club....or something like that.

But in all truth alongside some great experiences I've had some odd, very odd and even quite fucking scary experiences.

So id be very careful on giving our personal details, mobile number etc

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By *hadowSirenWoman
22 weeks ago

Near


"That people can and will tell very dangerous lies without any thought for the consequences to other people .I learned a very hard lesson on here a long time ago now. I no longer meet but if I did my motto would be "Believe nothing, trust noone"

Absolutely this (usually due to jealousy), along with never giving out my number.

However, I’ve learnt my phone camera takes better pics than a professional one and that sometimes when you least expect it but need it the most, the best support can come from a stranger you’ve never met…. And that when you manage to find them, there are still a small number of genuinely awesome people on here that don’t spend their time on here entirely focused on sex!

I think I'm one of those genuinely awesome people you speak of 🤣."

I’d agree with you but it might massage your ego too much! 🤣

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By *unnybunsWoman
22 weeks ago

Between here and over there

Hate the fakes, snakes, and half bakes !

Don’t waste my time !

Also Fab politics ! Jesus ! Even after years of being on here !!! THIS! People getting too big for their boots and thinking they are top tier !

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

That even the ugliest of women can get laid

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By *uckMe12Free OP   Man
22 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)


"That even the ugliest of women can get laid"

Controversial... but true 🤣

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By *JandCMCouple
22 weeks ago

cardiff

There are a lot more people in this world who are time wasters that I originally thought.

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By *nsatiable21Woman
22 weeks ago

neverland

Fab has shown me that I can't control everything and overthinking hinders not helps.

Its also shown me how vulnerable I can be as a single female

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By *hadowSirenWoman
22 weeks ago

Near


"Fab has shown me that I can't control everything and overthinking hinders not helps.

Its also shown me how vulnerable I can be as a single female"

I agree with this as well. Why should it just be us women that be/feel vulnerable?

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By *ischievous ElfWoman
22 weeks ago

here there and everywhere


"Fab has shown me that I can't control everything and overthinking hinders not helps.

Its also shown me how vulnerable I can be as a single female

I agree with this as well. Why should it just be us women that be/feel vulnerable?"

I don't think being vulnerable applies to just single women, I've heard enough on the scene to know that it can apply to anyone unfortunately

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By *ischievous ElfWoman
22 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

Fab has taught/shown me that the community spirit is so important,and that when it works well, great things come from it

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By *uckMe12Free OP   Man
22 weeks ago

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"Fab has taught/shown me that the community spirit is so important,and that when it works well, great things come from it "

Agreed. Local social events are great to meet new people. I'm trying to get the good folk of Wales engaging with each other through these forum threads. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

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By *hadowSirenWoman
22 weeks ago

Near


"Fab has taught/shown me that the community spirit is so important,and that when it works well, great things come from it

Agreed. Local social events are great to meet new people. I'm trying to get the good folk of Wales engaging with each other through these forum threads. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿"

I wouldn’t call it engaging, I’d call it annoying everyone….. 🤣

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By *uckMe12Free OP   Man
22 weeks ago

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"Fab has taught/shown me that the community spirit is so important,and that when it works well, great things come from it

Agreed. Local social events are great to meet new people. I'm trying to get the good folk of Wales engaging with each other through these forum threads. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

I wouldn’t call it engaging, I’d call it annoying everyone….. 🤣

"

😱

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By *hadowSirenWoman
22 weeks ago

Near


"Fab has taught/shown me that the community spirit is so important,and that when it works well, great things come from it

Agreed. Local social events are great to meet new people. I'm trying to get the good folk of Wales engaging with each other through these forum threads. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

I wouldn’t call it engaging, I’d call it annoying everyone….. 🤣

😱"

😘

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By *lmond SkinMan
22 weeks ago

Wales

Be kind yourself but be patient you have to have courage to go to social events as too many trolls on hear. The social events ice breaker will defo open another door from my experience. People who run these events like Kinky pair are so welcoming for newbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

The best motto so far 'believe nothing & trust no one'. I've stood by that for years & whilst guys don't like to hear it & it loses me meets, I don't really give a fuck because it's true. Everything on Fab is fake, including me X

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"On the positive side I have been on here for over 15 years and made some life long friends, attended weddings, nursed newborns of friends I have made on here over the years/decades. Even unfortunately attended a funeral of someone I met through here.

Its a bizarre place.

Its very different now to how it was. It was always quite close knit especially the south Wales scene. There's still an element of it there but you can see it is absolutely nothing like it used to be and never will be again. But things change "

So bloody true X

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By *ardiffcouple2024Couple
22 weeks ago

cardiff

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By *ornstarts7Couple
22 weeks ago

Leicestershire

There are a lot of timewasters out there

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