FabSwingers.com forum: Annoying random friend requests!

Oxford

Why do guys do this? It’s so annoying. My pictures and videos are locked to friends only because surprise surprise, they’re private and for people that I trust!

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By *airyfatmanMan
1 week ago

by 'ere

"Why do guys do this? It’s so annoying. My pictures and videos are locked to friends only because surprise surprise, they’re private and for people that I trust! "

I get that too. Think people just want to perv, but I'm not exactly normal perving material lol

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By *orphia2003Woman
1 week ago

Tonypandy.

Had 2 yesterday. Wrote about it in the Wales forum.

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By *ardigan SpiceWoman
1 week ago

Cardigan/Aberystwyth

At least once a week. I just leave them sit there and don't accept

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By *airyfatmanMan
1 week ago

by 'ere

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By *airyfatmanMan
1 week ago

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By *airyfatmanMan
1 week ago

by 'ere

"At least once a week. I just leave them sit there and don't accept "

Ffs. I'll get this right without stupid typos at some point... lol. What I was trying to say was:-

I just dont get why they do it.. i mean it even says in your profile not to do it without chatting first and they must have viewed you to be able to send a friend request....

Oh silly me. I forgot most people on here can't read... 😂😂

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By *3xymamaWoman
1 week ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"At least once a week. I just leave them sit there and don't accept "

I leave them sitting there too. It means they can't send anymore friend requests..

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By *isexualrugbyguy OP Man
1 week ago

Oxford

"At least once a week. I just leave them sit there and don't accept

I leave them sitting there too. It means they can't send anymore friend requests.."

Great shout, I didn’t realise that. I thought once declined they couldn’t send one again

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
1 week ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I had started message the random friends requests asking them why they had done that when we’d not even spoken and how very rude they were. But I get so many I can’t keep up with them so now ignore them.

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By *airyfatmanMan
1 week ago

by 'ere

Incase it wasn't clear - on my previous comment about people on here not being able to read - it was clearly a tongue in cheek comment about the fact thay so many people, but mostly men, never seem to actually read or adhere to what people write in their profiles. It's happened to me and I hear of so many other people that this has happened to. If you have a problem with that then guess what? I don't care.....

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Mayfair

Whenever I receive an unsolicited friend request I wait until the sender is offline for over an hour, usually around midnight, before accepting the request and looking at their photos. Then I immediately unfriend them.

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By *issP69Woman
1 week ago

Neath

Delete the request, or if you want to, block and move on. The site tools are easy to use

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By *ariadx2Couple
1 week ago

Wrexham

We like to send friend requests and are happy to receive them. We want to see faces and want people to see ours, it's as simple as that. We see lots of profiles getting all grumpy about it, get over yourselves!

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By *airyfatmanMan
1 week ago

by 'ere

"We like to send friend requests and are happy to receive them. We want to see faces and want people to see ours, it's as simple as that. We see lots of profiles getting all grumpy about it, get over yourselves!

Its fine when its people you've been chatting with, but this is about randoms sending requests without even talking. People don't necessarily have face pictures in friends gallery anyway

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By *isexualrugbyguy OP Man
1 week ago

Oxford

I’m more than happy to send face pics, multiple tbh but my private, friends only stuff is completely different.

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By *3xymamaWoman
1 week ago

Uptown Top Ranking

It's not about being grumpy at all.. I wouldn't accept or send a friend request to someone I hadn't met face to face. My friend pictures are for my friends..☺️

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By *rs Twisted1Woman
1 week ago

neath

They get blocked straight away , it states in my profile and my couples profile we don't accept friends request unless we have met ect anyone doing so will be blocked

To me it's just being noisy, if we wanted everyone to see what's on our profile pics then we would set it to public ,

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By *ilffadMan
1 week ago

swansea

To add to this, my profile states my preferences

Every male, bi, trans, etc that like my pics, immediate block

If they cannot read, they are doomed

"They get blocked straight away , it states in my profile and my couples profile we don't accept friends request unless we have met ect anyone doing so will be blocked

To me it's just being noisy, if we wanted everyone to see what's on our profile pics then we would set it to public , "

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By *o againTV/TS
1 week ago

swansea

Don't get that many friend requests. So ain't a problem for me.. if I've sent a request that is not approved then I move on. And chill out.

Jo xx

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By *igboy198240Man
1 week ago

swansea

I dont really send many unless i spoken to them first never random

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By *ne.eyed.willyMan
7 days ago

Ammanford

I don't tend to send them unless I know them or have been chatting to them for a while

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By *carlett CumslutWoman
7 days ago

cardiff

I find it amusing how many people learn to send a message after deleting their friend request to ask why I didn’t accept. Couldn’t message before sending one though

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By *airyfatmanMan
7 days ago

by 'ere

"I find it amusing how many people learn to send a message after deleting their friend request to ask why I didn’t accept. Couldn’t message before sending one though

Its amazing isn't it? I mean your profile is pretty clear but i suspect they just get blinded by your pictures, which is understandable, and just have to see more and click to add friend.

I, however, have joined the 0.01% club.....

Now where is Lee Mack?? Lol

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By *ORDERMANMan
7 days ago

wrexham

Problem with sites like fab that grow in popularity..

People get selfish and think of their own needs forgetting swinging is two way scenario..it's give and take..

The reality is those who extend friend invites without prior communication and more often than not males who are the time wasters..no shows..want things on their terms..fantasist...

Though we've all been guilty of chancing their arm at times..

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By *atXXXMan
5 days ago

Caerphilly

I don't have random friend requests but I do get anywhere between 2 to 6 messages from "straight" guys asking if I want a BJ each week!

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By *airyfatmanMan
5 days ago

by 'ere

"I don't have random friend requests but I do get anywhere between 2 to 6 messages from "straight" guys asking if I want a BJ each week!"

I get it the other way around - people listed as straight asking me to meet and give them a blow job.....

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By *ommy trucker1Man
4 days ago

south wales

I've blocked single men due to the amount of requests I was receiving. Clearly states on my profile straight and not looking for single men or tv/ts. I don't send requests unless I've chatted for a while.

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By *oxyred9Couple
3 days ago

South Wales (Mr Portsmouth mid week)

We took off friends only photos for that very reason and still get friend requests. Mr likes to call them out and the response is isually "well I wanted to see your photos..."

We choose what we share amd who to. If you want free images google or porn sites

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By *pdudeMan
3 days ago

newtown

Don't get friends requests anyway so.

Bit gutted to be fair

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By *coutDWoman
3 days ago

Pontypridd

"Whenever I receive an unsolicited friend request I wait until the sender is offline for over an hour, usually around midnight, before accepting the request and looking at their photos. Then I immediately unfriend them."

This is exactly what I do

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By *coutDWoman
3 days ago

Pontypridd

It’s an automatic block from me.

My friends list is for people ive met. Hotlist can be used for anything else and even my friends dont get photos of my face and all my best photos are kept for private messages.

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