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Bi curious (f) but I cant go down there

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By *andt3744 OP   Couple
13 weeks ago

swansea

Had 1st mff 3way the other day but I couldn't do anything to her below the waist. I was happy with her going down there on me but I just had this block. Luckily my hubby easily took up the slack and we all had a great night. How can I get over this annoying block.

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By *ifemale32GGWoman
13 weeks ago

Telford

It was probably just the wrong woman! When you feel really attracted to someone you will want to make her feel good.

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By *andt3744 OP   Couple
13 weeks ago

swansea

Thankyou xx

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By *unnySaturdayMan
13 weeks ago

Bridgend

There's not rule that says what you're expected to be doing - it's personal choice, you may or may not choose to go down on a woman at some point but there's no worries if you don't and definitely no shame. Just continue to explore your desires in your own way x

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
13 weeks ago

Newport

No advice just commiseration. Haha

I have the EXACT same block. Like boobs seem fun, probably could even make out with another woman..but when it comes to below the belt..I'd Rather not lol.

Luckily Mister is bi so we can still have the pleasure of a threesome in full. It's also hard to find partners because we're not the typical bi couple where the woman is bi and the man is straight.

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By *rs Twisted1Woman
13 weeks ago

neath

Hun it was your 1st time honestly don't worry about it , always go with the flow an if things happen then great if they don't then so be it

Just relax and enjoy what comes your way , it's all about learning and discovering our likes and dislikes and go from there

I do ladies only parties so if you ever want to come along and chat with other ladies have a laugh ect just give me a message

Enjoy x

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By *eviationMan
13 weeks ago

Brynamman

Don't pressure yourself either

If you do you do if you don't you don't

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By *rong and RightCouple
13 weeks ago

green, green grass of home


"Had 1st mff 3way the other day but I couldn't do anything to her below the waist. I was happy with her going down there on me but I just had this block. Luckily my hubby easily took up the slack and we all had a great night. How can I get over this annoying block."

Don't worry about it, if it happens it happens. There are lots of pillow princesses about!

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Everyone is different!

I love going down on a girl but as far as fingering… nope! I feel awkward as f and just don’t enjoy as much

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By *hewankinmanMan
13 weeks ago

wales


"Had 1st mff 3way the other day but I couldn't do anything to her below the waist. I was happy with her going down there on me but I just had this block. Luckily my hubby easily took up the slack and we all had a great night. How can I get over this annoying block."

I was in a similar position with men. I could lay back and enjoy, but couldn’t go down on a guy. In the end it just happened naturally with someone….. you can’t hold me back nowadays

Just enjoy what you enjoy, it’s all a learning curve xx

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By *andt3744 OP   Couple
13 weeks ago

swansea

Thankyou everyone I will persevere and if not what was it pillow princess (it sounds derogatory)

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By *issP69Woman
13 weeks ago

Neath

I was always the opposite, loved eating another woman's cunt but had zero interest in her returning the favour

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"Had 1st mff 3way the other day but I couldn't do anything to her below the waist. I was happy with her going down there on me but I just had this block. Luckily my hubby easily took up the slack and we all had a great night. How can I get over this annoying block."

Interesting as my gf is same. Happy to have a 3 sum n to be licked but no going there herself. Says it turns her stomach to think about it. She licks her own fingers too ?!!

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By *oxy babeWoman
13 weeks ago

gower


"Had 1st mff 3way the other day but I couldn't do anything to her below the waist. I was happy with her going down there on me but I just had this block. Luckily my hubby easily took up the slack and we all had a great night. How can I get over this annoying block."

Tbh if you can’t go down on a woman you need to be completely honest with them in the first instance and let them know so they can make a choice whether to play with you both or not.

I had a mff and I went down on the other woman for around 45 mins, she went down on me for 5 mins tops then walked out the room saying she couldn’t do it but never offered a reason.

I was made to feel pretty shit and I am reluctant to engage with couples any more.

Good luck in the future in maybe over coming your block

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By *rong and RightCouple
13 weeks ago

green, green grass of home


"Thankyou everyone I will persevere and if not what was it pillow princess (it sounds derogatory)"

Sorry I didn't mean to offend

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By *andt3744 OP   Couple
11 weeks ago

swansea

Update for anyone interested we did it again and I took a step closer lol. I played with her clit while m fingered her and used a dildo on her. She did cum and said she couldn't believe I'd never done it before ( I don't know if she's trying to massage my ego lol)

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
11 weeks ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Update for anyone interested we did it again and I took a step closer lol. I played with her clit while m fingered her and used a dildo on her. She did cum and said she couldn't believe I'd never done it before ( I don't know if she's trying to massage my ego lol)"

Baby steps. Do what you feel comfortable with as others have said. And it's right when you have that absolute spark you'll wanna give as well as recieve if you have that side to you. Don't beat yourself up though if you don't. It's not the law of swinging that you have to be Bi. Plenty aren't. Plenty of straight ladies on here that like kissing women and love boobs aka bendy 😂

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By *orphia2003Woman
11 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I think as long as all parties are honest and upfront about Thier interests, it gives everyone the opportunity to decide for themselves if they want to get intimate.

I've had wonderful play with a number of women who only soft play with other women, which I was fully aware of before we met. It was totally fine.

I've also met women or couples with bi women where I've only discovered on arrival that they are very happy to have me pleasure them, but not reciprocate. Or that they are only doing because it's the guys fantasy. Not my thing at all, and I wasn't best impressed with the deception.

So just go at your own pace and be honest about what you are comfortable with.

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By *3xymamaWoman
11 weeks ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"Update for anyone interested we did it again and I took a step closer lol. I played with her clit while m fingered her and used a dildo on her. She did cum and said she couldn't believe I'd never done it before ( I don't know if she's trying to massage my ego lol)

Baby steps. Do what you feel comfortable with as others have said. And it's right when you have that absolute spark you'll wanna give as well as recieve if you have that side to you. Don't beat yourself up though if you don't. It's not the law of swinging that you have to be Bi. Plenty aren't. Plenty of straight ladies on here that like kissing women and love boobs aka bendy 😂"

Or like me.. bi-playful. If the vibe, attraction and chemistry is there I'm all in. I think I'm more of a giver though.. what you think Snow?

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By *issing DoryCouple
11 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way


"I think as long as all parties are honest and upfront about Thier interests, it gives everyone the opportunity to decide for themselves if they want to get intimate.

I've had wonderful play with a number of women who only soft play with other women, which I was fully aware of before we met. It was totally fine.

I've also met women or couples with bi women where I've only discovered on arrival that they are very happy to have me pleasure them, but not reciprocate. Or that they are only doing because it's the guys fantasy. Not my thing at all, and I wasn't best impressed with the deception.

So just go at your own pace and be honest about what you are comfortable with."

Totally agree x

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By *andt3744 OP   Couple
11 weeks ago

swansea

Thankyou very helpful.

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By *enuine photographerMan
11 weeks ago

Swansea

I had a play partner and we met many ladies.

She loved boobs and kissing

She enjoyed the attention down below from another woman even fisting but couldn’t do it herself xxx

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
10 weeks ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Update for anyone interested we did it again and I took a step closer lol. I played with her clit while m fingered her and used a dildo on her. She did cum and said she couldn't believe I'd never done it before ( I don't know if she's trying to massage my ego lol)

Baby steps. Do what you feel comfortable with as others have said. And it's right when you have that absolute spark you'll wanna give as well as recieve if you have that side to you. Don't beat yourself up though if you don't. It's not the law of swinging that you have to be Bi. Plenty aren't. Plenty of straight ladies on here that like kissing women and love boobs aka bendy 😂

Or like me.. bi-playful. If the vibe, attraction and chemistry is there I'm all in. I think I'm more of a giver though.. what you think Snow? "

Definitely. And Gove the best massages 🥰

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By *enuine photographerMan
10 weeks ago

Swansea


"Update for anyone interested we did it again and I took a step closer lol. I played with her clit while m fingered her and used a dildo on her. She did cum and said she couldn't believe I'd never done it before ( I don't know if she's trying to massage my ego lol)

Baby steps. Do what you feel comfortable with as others have said. And it's right when you have that absolute spark you'll wanna give as well as recieve if you have that side to you. Don't beat yourself up though if you don't. It's not the law of swinging that you have to be Bi. Plenty aren't. Plenty of straight ladies on here that like kissing women and love boobs aka bendy 😂

Or like me.. bi-playful. If the vibe, attraction and chemistry is there I'm all in. I think I'm more of a giver though.. what you think Snow?

Definitely. And Gove the best massages 🥰"

Love you to join me and my FB

Swansea xxx

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
10 weeks ago

All over the place

Like everybody has said there are no written rules about what has to happen, maybe next time you will want too x

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By *unnybunsWoman
10 weeks ago

Between here and over there

I was bi-selfish as I called it however it all changed when I actually did it to someone I really liked. It was lush

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By *andt3744 OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

swansea

Update i did it i found her Gspot with my fingers and went to town on her clot she came so hard she sid i was lying about never touching a woman. It was amazing.

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By *andt3744 OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

swansea

Clit lma0

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