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By *iscean_dream OP   Man
28 weeks ago

Llanelli

Someone just messaged my fwb saying they're parked down the street, they weren't because I went to look but if they had been it really wouldn't have gone down well.

Don't be stalky guys, it's not a good look

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By *issing DoryCouple
28 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way

That must've been so frightening for her, we hope she is okay.

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By *jbootsMan
28 weeks ago

Cardiff

Report the fella to admin.

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By *iscean_dream OP   Man
28 weeks ago

Llanelli


"That must've been so frightening for her, we hope she is okay."

She's ok, he wasn't actually parked down the road as I went and looked

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By *iscean_dream OP   Man
28 weeks ago

Llanelli


"Report the fella to admin."

There's no point as didn't actually do anything

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By *ikesfun1Man
27 weeks ago

around and about

That is proper creepy to be fair

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By *emorefridaCouple
27 weeks ago

La la land

Oh that's crap. I had someone message saying they'd seen me walking a st in the village I live. Which made me worry if they'd followed me back home or not. It's not pleasant. Hope she's ok x

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By *iscean_dream OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Llanelli


"That is proper creepy to be fair "

Yeah it is

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By *iscean_dream OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Llanelli


"Oh that's crap. I had someone message saying they'd seen me walking a st in the village I live. Which made me worry if they'd followed me back home or not. It's not pleasant. Hope she's ok x"

She's fine and why do people have to be weird?

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By *mber and FireCouple
27 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire

This explains perfectly why some people don't give their location on here, answering another thread.

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By *emorefridaCouple
27 weeks ago

La la land


"Oh that's crap. I had someone message saying they'd seen me walking a st in the village I live. Which made me worry if they'd followed me back home or not. It's not pleasant. Hope she's ok x

She's fine and why do people have to be weird? "

Goodness knows, think it's a power thing

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By *issP69Woman
27 weeks ago

Neath

I've had it regularly over the years blokes messaging me to say they have seen me in various places etc or they know where I live. I tell them to fuck off and that is the end of that. Tell your friend to do the same rather than sending your out to check. It's important as a woman that if you choose to be active on Fab that you prepare yourself to be able to manage risk etc. Women are allowed to be firm and harsh towards any unwanted attention without needing a male to do it for them

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By *iscean_dream OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Llanelli


"I've had it regularly over the years blokes messaging me to say they have seen me in various places etc or they know where I live. I tell them to fuck off and that is the end of that. Tell your friend to do the same rather than sending your out to check. It's important as a woman that if you choose to be active on Fab that you prepare yourself to be able to manage risk etc. Women are allowed to be firm and harsh towards any unwanted attention without needing a male to do it for them "

She's definitely capable of doing it but I was here anyway so I looked just in case

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By *iscean_dream OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Llanelli


"Oh that's crap. I had someone message saying they'd seen me walking a st in the village I live. Which made me worry if they'd followed me back home or not. It's not pleasant. Hope she's ok x

She's fine and why do people have to be weird?

Goodness knows, think it's a power thing "

It probably is, not achieving anything by doing it

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By *arberellasswimsuitCouple
27 weeks ago

hengoed

Baby reindeer lol

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By *issSexyBootsTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Cardiff

I’ve had it happen to me and it’s very unnerving. Being a cross dresser who keeps one side of their life secret from the other (my choice) to have someone I worked with many years ago pestering me on social media after they found me on another site that wasn’t Fab, was pretty unpleasant.

I denied it many times and he kept sending screen shots of my photos saying it’s definitely you. Then he starts wanting to meet me dressed which I didn’t, as I never liked or trusted him yet he just kept on.

In the end I had to double bluff him, and say that if I was the person you thought I was, I’d have blocked you in the first instance, but I haven’t so that’s got to be telling!

He got the message apologised and after I’d lectured him on how his behaviour was unacceptable and the distress it could have caused had I been the person he thought I was he could have landed himself in hot water!

Two days later I blocked all males from contacting me

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By *eard and TattsCouple
27 weeks ago

Cwmbran

That's the risk you take being on here

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By *iscean_dream OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Llanelli


"Baby reindeer lol "

I've not watched it but seen bits on Gogglebox and she's loopy

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By *iscean_dream OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Llanelli


"I’ve had it happen to me and it’s very unnerving. Being a cross dresser who keeps one side of their life secret from the other (my choice) to have someone I worked with many years ago pestering me on social media after they found me on another site that wasn’t Fab, was pretty unpleasant.

I denied it many times and he kept sending screen shots of my photos saying it’s definitely you. Then he starts wanting to meet me dressed which I didn’t, as I never liked or trusted him yet he just kept on.

In the end I had to double bluff him, and say that if I was the person you thought I was, I’d have blocked you in the first instance, but I haven’t so that’s got to be telling!

He got the message apologised and after I’d lectured him on how his behaviour was unacceptable and the distress it could have caused had I been the person he thought I was he could have landed himself in hot water!

Two days later I blocked all males from contacting me "

I blocked all males straight away, it's definitely less traumatic that way

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By *iscean_dream OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Llanelli


"That's the risk you take being on here "

It is but people shouldn't be stalky, saying you're parked on someones street is very unlikely to go down well

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By *eard and TattsCouple
27 weeks ago

Cwmbran


"That's the risk you take being on here

It is but people shouldn't be stalky, saying you're parked on someones street is very unlikely to go down well "

I wonder what's the best they were hoping for?

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By *iscean_dream OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Llanelli


"That's the risk you take being on here

It is but people shouldn't be stalky, saying you're parked on someones street is very unlikely to go down well

I wonder what's the best they were hoping for? "

Probably a message back inviting them in, I live with her so she's not having to go without and we're only meeting couples

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