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By *reamcaramel OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

wonderland

Why do it.. so disrespectful.. or are they just full of bullshit and actually can't deliver or can't handle this fiery lass.

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By *oves2please2021Man
44 weeks ago

cardiff

I’ve had a few let downs over the last Cpl of weeks.

Not completely stood up but last minute cancellations.

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By *reamcaramel OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

wonderland


"I’ve had a few let downs over the last Cpl of weeks.

Not completely stood up but last minute cancellations.

I was waiting patiently...

"

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By *ood times 2023Couple
44 weeks ago

Cardiff

Bless you

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By *arriet54Woman
44 weeks ago

Newport

Unfortunately this happens a lot, absolutely infuriates me!

Just be honest.. id rather a "not for me or got a shag " than my cat has died or I've run out of fuel bullshit.

I feel for you, onwards and upwards and their loss

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By *3xymamaWoman
44 weeks ago

Uptown Top Ranking

A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too discouraged. There are some genuine ones

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By *reamcaramel OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

wonderland


"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too

discouraged. There are some genuine ones "

I met him at a social been full on all week..

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By *highstrokerMan
44 weeks ago

West Wales


"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too

discouraged. There are some genuine ones

I met him at a social been full on all week.. "

His loss!

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By *etefinMan
43 weeks ago

swansea

Ive said it before name and shame .his loss

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By *highstrokerMan
43 weeks ago

West Wales


"Ive said it before name and shame .his loss "

No excuse for this type of behaviour- it happens too often. Too many complete time wasters and dreamers here I’m afraid; and that’s not just the single guys, it’s happened to me.

If he had a shred of decency he’d have been in contact.

Trouble is if you name and shame (which is dangerous and open to abuse anyway) he’d just be back with a different profile.

Unfortunately it comes with the territory here.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I've been stood up seven times on this site, nearly as many as actual meets over the years

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By *OutOfTenMan
43 weeks ago

SA7


"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too

discouraged. There are some genuine ones

I met him at a social been full on all week.. "

That really does make it even worse, you’ve got the connection, had the sparky fly and then been burnt. It’s a pretty poor show given the time invested and effort you’ve both put in. He’s either got a bad case of nerves, a better offer or he’s just a kn@b. Box it away and move on. You’re a catch, he didn’t have the balls to fry and catch you.

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By *reamcaramel OP   Woman
43 weeks ago

wonderland


"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too

discouraged. There are some genuine ones

I met him at a social been full on all week..

That really does make it even worse, you’ve got the connection, had the sparky fly and then been burnt. It’s a pretty poor show given the time invested and effort you’ve both put in. He’s either got a bad case of nerves, a better offer or he’s just a kn@b. Box it away and move on. You’re a catch, he didn’t have the balls to fry and catch you."

There was definitely was a connection.. I would have definitely let my Dom side come out to play this weekend.. but yup he missed out..

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By *hriscaroline36Couple
43 weeks ago

Treharris


"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too

discouraged. There are some genuine ones

I met him at a social been full on all week.. "

Sounds like he's married, no other reason a guy would stand a lady up without telling them

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too

discouraged. There are some genuine ones

I met him at a social been full on all week..

Sounds like he's married, no other reason a guy would stand a lady up without telling them"

There is literally a plethora of reasons why he didn't show. None of the are acceptable. It would have taken seconds to log on and send a message along the lines of 'sorry something has come up and I can't make it'

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By *reasyMan
43 weeks ago

Caerphilly

I am very sorry, I don’t understand why manners seems to have left this site. Why would anybody bother to arrange specifically to meet and then just not turn up we all have emergencies and we all have an expected turns of events but it doesn’t take two seconds to drop a message saying sorry not going to make it for XYOZ

I just hope the next guy that you click with and arrange to meet doesn’t do the same, but he proves that there are some really nice honest genuine guys on this site

Good luck and have fun

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By *ental monkeysCouple
43 weeks ago

caerphilly

Life happens and people may cancel but we always say you let us down once you don’t get a second chance.

For us we know there’s life outside fab but when your sat waiting for the person to show up and they cancel they won’t get a second chance!

I say move on and don’t dwell on it! As a single sexy and friendly lady I bet you have hundreds of messages. Move onto the next person because they will sure appreciate you x

Mrs Monkey

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
43 weeks ago

Neath valley.

Lots talk big on the keyboard but shit out when the meet is in the cards. Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Block and move on.

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By *OutOfTenMan
43 weeks ago

SA7


"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too

discouraged. There are some genuine ones

I met him at a social been full on all week..

That really does make it even worse, you’ve got the connection, had the sparky fly and then been burnt. It’s a pretty poor show given the time invested and effort you’ve both put in. He’s either got a bad case of nerves, a better offer or he’s just a kn@b. Box it away and move on. You’re a catch, he didn’t have the balls to fry and catch you.

There was definitely was a connection.. I would have definitely let my Dom side come out to play this weekend.. but yup he missed out.. "

The silly sod is probably kicking himself now. Or busy with his wife and kids this weekend…

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By *rs Twisted1Woman
43 weeks ago

neath

It happens sadly people are too happy to lead others on with no intentions of meeting

People like them make it harder for genuine people but try not to take it personally tho , you'll soon see the genuine ones

The girls talk about this happening all the time at my parties so your not the only one

Keep smiling hun , it's their loss

If you ever want to attend a ladies night have a chat laugh an drink pm me x

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
43 weeks ago

Neath valley.


"It happens sadly people are too happy to lead others on with no intentions of meeting

People like them make it harder for genuine people but try not to take it personally tho , you'll soon see the genuine ones

The girls talk about this happening all the time at my parties so your not the only one

Keep smiling hun , it's their loss

If you ever want to attend a ladies night have a chat laugh an drink pm me x"

As above it's their loss. You are not alone on here as most of us have experienced the keyboard wanker brigade.

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By *hewankinmanMan
43 weeks ago

wales


"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too

discouraged. There are some genuine ones

I met him at a social been full on all week..

Sounds like he's married, no other reason a guy would stand a lady up without telling them"

I think single men can be spineless just the same as married

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By *3xymamaWoman
43 weeks ago

Uptown Top Ranking

It's the leading on with no intentions I find annoying. You chat, there's a connection discuss meeting up and they are all for it. Then they let you down.. I try and make sure I get on with something else if I've been let down, so I don't feel I've had my time wasted

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too discouraged. There are some genuine ones "

Yes - plenty of us genuine guys around, waiting on the fringes after all of the others have been filtered out and for our messages to be accepted and read, instead of instantly deleted.

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By *ponty88Man
43 weeks ago

pontypridd

Definitely disrespectful to let people down.

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By *oby le roneMan
43 weeks ago

Treorchy


"Why do it.. so disrespectful.. or are they just full of bullshit and actually can't deliver or can't handle this fiery lass. "

Probably full of shit and can't handle your fiery ass

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By *issP69Woman
43 weeks ago

Neath

Fortunately never happened to me during my active years but you have to see this for what it is. If you're getting stood up often,maybe review your criteria. Take the majority of communication with a pinch of salt and always have an easy plan B. Don't put too much expectation on a meet as you will probably end up disappointed. Loads of blokes are on here with no intention of meeting. They'll probably lull you into communicating to help them wank by pretending they want to meet you when they don't. It's the way of the Fab world unfortunately. Good luck

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By *issP69Woman
43 weeks ago

Neath


"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too

discouraged. There are some genuine ones

I met him at a social been full on all week.. "

The fact he has been "full on" all week is probably all the alarm bells you need.

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By *ilverbadgerMan
43 weeks ago

Neath


"I am very sorry, I don’t understand why manners seems to have left this site. Why would anybody bother to arrange specifically to meet and then just not turn up we all have emergencies and we all have an expected turns of events but it doesn’t take two seconds to drop a message saying sorry not going to make it for XYOZ

I just hope the next guy that you click with and arrange to meet doesn’t do the same, but he proves that there are some really nice honest genuine guys on this site

Good luck and have fun"

Because this site is no longer a swinger site, there is no etiquette anymore. Its a fuck site, plain and simple. Go back to the old days of magazines and see how ma y people don't show up then lmao. Sorry 2o odd years and I've watched it change so much ?? ??

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By *heoriginalCJMan
43 weeks ago

mystic valley


"Why do it.. so disrespectful.. or are they just full of bullshit and actually can't deliver or can't handle this fiery lass. "

It's such a common thing on here.

Not just single guys, but rife with couple accounts.

What makes it even worse is that I have seen you at plenty of social events, and you've been doing the right thing.

Maybe there is a valid reason, but I highly doubt it if he hasn't even had the decency to say or apologise as to why he didn't make it.

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By *reen EyesMan
43 weeks ago

Wales

It is really frustrating. I had a hotel booked as promised. Tabke.f9r meal booked and no show, no reply and no apology. It is really such a let down know.how you feeel

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By *unnybunsWoman
43 weeks ago

Between here and over there

I only meet at parties or events now. Sick of the BS. Never been stood up but the amount of rude and disrespectful people I’ve come across is just mindless.

If we vibe when we meet I may consider meeting up again. It’s just the way it is it seems. The site has definitely changed over the years sadly xxx stay strong xxx

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By *hewankinmanMan
43 weeks ago

wales


"I only meet at parties or events now. Sick of the BS. Never been stood up but the amount of rude and disrespectful people I’ve come across is just mindless.

If we vibe when we meet I may consider meeting up again. It’s just the way it is it seems. The site has definitely changed over the years sadly xxx stay strong xxx "

100% agree it’s changed. But the whole swinging scene has sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Wow, what a total asshat!

I couldn't imagine getting the chance to talk with someone as beautiful as you, let alone actually having the opportunity to meet up and make the sexy time with you!!

So infuriating when you get a no show, or you travel to them and you get blocked when you enter the postcode!

Id say you definitely Neo'd the Agent here.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

sorry, some men are twats

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By *uicy and wetCouple
43 weeks ago

swansea

It has happened to us a few times, we have even been waiting in hotel but no show. Feel like its just a fantasy to alot of men but when it comes down to it shit out.

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By *igonepetexxxMan
43 weeks ago

swansea

I ve been stood up 3 times in last 2 weeks

Loads messages time date place arranged ged

I turn up and then no shows

Why do it

I'm 100percent genuine

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
43 weeks ago

Heads of the Valleys

I think anyone who's genuine have been messed around and stood up. It's shitty but just block and move onwards and upwards

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By *elshcouple18Couple
43 weeks ago

Cardiff

We sat in a pub awaiting a single gut to turn up once, he ni showed no message to say why, no apology, and even had the cheek of messaging a few months later asking to meet, obviously forgot he'd stood us up. Suffice to say, we blocked him. His loss. And gives single men a bad name.. we'd never bail on a meet..

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
43 weeks ago

Heads of the Valleys

I think with experience on fab you can smell a bullshitter a mile off.

I'd give anyone a chance but if they do the dirty then it's a instant block and forget them

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I saw you but unfortunately didn't chat at the Swansea social. Definitely his loss.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
43 weeks ago

All over the place

Yeah not a fan of this, it doesn't take much to send a quick message even if a genuine reason

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By *hocoDick1983Man
43 weeks ago

Newport

It is unfortunately something which I believe comes with the site. So many people are acting out a fantasy which doesn't actually involve them ever going through with it. Be it someone in a relationship just looking for something that brings a smile to their face or a couple open to it but too afraid to actually go through with it.

Never seems to get easier to take, regardless of how many times it happens.

Though the worst is when they do contact afterwards and say they didn't turn up because they thought "you" wasn't real

As a few have said, it brings more questions than anything for me and a wish that they'd simply just say "no thanks"

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By *issing DoryCouple
43 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way

Thankfully, I've only had this happen once on my single profile; we were supposed to meet at a pub. I don't give second chances and blocked him.

Chin up lovely, you are a gorgeous, vibrant woman.

Dory x

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By *udda316Man
43 weeks ago

Stroud

Most definitely his loss !

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