FabSwingers.com forum: Biggest ick from fabbers

By *hiskas OP Man
43 weeks ago

Llanelli

Lady's and gent's what is your biggest ick from the people that message you, eg no pictures, unwanted pictures, spelling or grammar.

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By *andy CanesWoman
43 weeks ago

south

Sending unwanted dick pics

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By *aigressMan
43 weeks ago

Cardiff

Gay men asking if they can ....

"Ask me a question"

"Suck my dick"

"Buy my pants"

** I'm not anti Amy of that energy.. like you go girl.. shoot your shot...

I'm no prude.. but it says in my profile no taah..so I guess it just makes me feel not special..

And arnt we all princesses at heart who want to feel "special"

On a wider note...

Hygiene... ffs soap and water are virtually free...

Should be very basic

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By *ancardiff7Man
43 weeks ago

Near Cowbridge

I'm feeling quite left out that nobody wants to bum me

But turn offs? Poor grammar, stuck up attitudes and overly explicit photos.

Less is often more and a photo of your delicate little flower isn't the first thing I look for. Worse still are the close up pics of a gaping chocolate starfish. Just no!

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
43 weeks ago

Neath valley.

Not everyone is Einstein so grammar don't bother me. It's the ones who message who clearly have not read our profile piss me off.

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By *hiskas OP Man
43 weeks ago

Llanelli

You see the not reading profile part I don't understand, there is 1000 men to each lady on here, so you need to pay attention to the details I think. But for a lot it's a numbers game, and eventually someone will message back.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
43 weeks ago

Neath valley.

1.People who don't read our profile and message and are not what we are after.

2. Macro pics of gaping bumhole and vaginas.

3.chancer who have not read our profile, aren't what we are looking for but still bloody message.

4. Abusive types who hate being told no thank you.

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By *hiskas OP Man
43 weeks ago

Llanelli

I agree with you totally, pics are to be asked for not just sent over, if you want to see pics of them, you go on there profile and look. Number 4 is a strange 1, its like there in school still, 1 lady was telling me about the abuse she got for a week because she said no, I would have blocked them my self. I know of another lady that gets hounded every day by the same person, and why would you do it to your self, get some self respect I think lol

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
43 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

Unwanted dick pics and not reading my profile.

I don't mind poor grammar but I hate the whole Hi/How's you/wanna suck my cock one liners. Put some fucking effort in please!

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Gay men, I'm One way traffic only lol. Shit come out it nah go in.

Women, requesting money for their time. Isn’t there a place called Viva St?

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

There are those that don't read profiles are annoying and the repeated friends invite from same person just because they wish to see more photos.

Biggest ick tho is the macro cream pie photos..... not for us we find it a real put off x

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By *issing DoryCouple
43 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way

1. Silhouette profiles

2. One line messages

3. Unsolicited dick/pussy pics

4. Fuck now demands

5. Only addressing one of us in the messages and not both

6. Abuse when ignored or told no thanks

7. Not reading our profile

Dory x

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By *JandCMCouple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

People who don't read profiles.

We ask,

no dick pics.

no messages like "wanna fuck tonight".

If you have no pictures on you profile do not message us.

Yet no one ever reads the profile n we still get lots of the above messages.

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By *ardigan SpiceWoman
43 weeks ago

Cardigan/Aberystwyth

Not reading my profile and vile status updates

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
43 weeks ago

Swansea

"Not reading my profile and vile status updates

. Plus stupid messages

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By *nterBlissCouple
43 weeks ago

Town

Pics where the lady’s foo looks like a bashed up pork sandwich with come seeping out . Gross just gross

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
43 weeks ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

There’s simply too many things to list and we agree with most of the suggestions. However, the first line asking “What u looking 4?” Without even a greeting or even some small talk really grates on us…

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
43 weeks ago

Swansea

What you do for work is another annoying one

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By *oby le roneMan
43 weeks ago

Treorchy

"I'm feeling quite left out that nobody wants to bum me

But turn offs? Poor grammar, stuck up attitudes and overly explicit photos.

Less is often more and a photo of your delicate little flower isn't the first thing I look for. Worse still are the close up pics of a gaping chocolate starfish. Just no! "

Don't worry mate, no one wants to bum me either

Totally agree with the photos too.

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By *onesyf50Man
43 weeks ago

mid wales

Where they demand 2 face pics, body pic, dick pic and they don't have any pics on their profile or won't send any.

Cancel last minute

Heavily edited/filtered pics

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By *hiskas OP Man
43 weeks ago

Llanelli

The pics definitely are an issue, any1 reading this please take note of what is being said, clearly people will ask for them. I get what the site is for, but you can tell who is swinging and who is just after a quick 1 in my opinion.

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By *lackwoodGentMan
43 weeks ago

Pontllanfraith

Negative, Facebook style status updates

"You know who you are.." ugh

Legal mumbo jumbo, clearly copy pasta trash

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By *ouchme69Woman
43 weeks ago

Swansea

Dick pics is my ick x

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By *aigressMan
43 weeks ago

Cardiff

"Negative, Facebook style status updates

"You know who you are.." ugh

Legal mumbo jumbo, clearly copy pasta trash

Aww yeah the attention / drama seeking one's... no taa.

That and the same people posting the same status repeatedly

Bore off

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By *almprintsWoman
43 weeks ago

deepest, darkest West

Use of the word "mmmm" when perving.

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By *reenleavesCouple
43 weeks ago

North Wales

Randomly ending a message with ?????? when there isn't even a question.

Going straight in with sex / suggestive talk in the first sentence.

Addressing only one of us.

Txt spk

One or two word messages.

Shadow profiles with no pics sending us friend requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

inflated egos on here, when they are the opposite in real life, egos inflated by the people who would get up on anything

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By *elshcouple18Couple
43 weeks ago

Cardiff

Unsolicited friend invites, shows folk haven't read our profile..

Single men messaging who have no public pics, guys it's a shop window!!! We ain't gonna look if there's nothing on display..

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By *issSexyBootsTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Cardiff

Hairy dick pics as well as profiles with loads of pictures of a big hairy fanny resembling a giant Cornish pasty at various angles ??????

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
43 weeks ago

Wales/ All over UK

The biggest “icks” for me are…

Text speak in messages.

No pictures at all.

Messages from “couples” that are quite obviously just a guy pretending for cheap thrills

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By *orphia2003Woman
43 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Shadow profiles

Dick / pussy pics

One word messages / txt speak

Not reading profile or thinking doesn't apply to them

'can I be your sub, mistress?' type stuff.

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By *exySiren01Woman
43 weeks ago

RCT

The what are you looking for messages

Fancy a fck messages when never spoke before

The abuse if you ignore or delete a message without replying

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By *eroLondonMan
43 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Women who attach unsolicited photographs of their quim in solicited messages. Thankfully it doesn't happen often but it's hardly unprecedented.

Don't get me wrong — I like a pussy like the next man but I don't need to see it in inglorious technicolour.

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By *oupleforfun2000Couple
43 weeks ago

Newport

First ever message ‘ I’m in the area are you free?’ Like really come on……

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By *issP69Woman
43 weeks ago

Neath

Yummie

Panties

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By *ancardiff7Man
43 weeks ago

Near Cowbridge

"Yummie

Panties"

I hear you. Yummy isn't even spelt correctly

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By *coutDWoman
43 weeks ago

Pontypridd

Unsolicited friend requests - you’ll not find a face or a pussy in there either

Not reading my profile (and then being surprised when I have a partner etc)

Not taking no for an answer and trying again anyway

Dick pics or videos. They do nothing for me

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By *coutDWoman
43 weeks ago

Pontypridd

"Randomly ending a message with ?????? when there isn't even a question.

Going straight in with sex / suggestive talk in the first sentence.

Addressing only one of us.

Txt spk

One or two word messages.

Shadow profiles with no pics sending us friend requests. "

The ??? Show up when someone accidentally uses emojis from their keyboard instead of the ones for the site. It’s really confusing.

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By *issing DoryCouple
43 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way

Mmmmmm

Hehe

Sooooo

The above in messages makes Dory cringe

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By *inx300Woman
42 weeks ago

SWANSEA

So many things.

1. Not reading my profile

2. I'd smash fuck outta you messages

3. No face pics

4. Only sending face pics that have

sunglasses on

5. Wanna suck my cock messages

Just urgh!

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By *inx300Woman
42 weeks ago

SWANSEA

Abuse when you tell someone they're not your type or repeat messages. Asking me why they're not my type??? Like seriously, move on

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By *ewportfun123Man
42 weeks ago

barry

Being ignored a polite no thanks would suffice but I do get why most ignore with the amount of comments about abuse. Don't understand why people do that christ would you be abusive in a bar if somebody rejected you

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By *unnybunsWoman
42 weeks ago

Between here and over there

Lies - just anyone who lies

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By *RR2021Couple
42 weeks ago

Cardiff

1. What you looking for?

Umm our profile is pretty detailed so I guess if you had read that you may know vs their one line bio! Haha

2. Photos of loads of females and none of the guy in a single male profile. Like how am I suppose to see if I like you if I don’t have a clue what you look like.

3. What a 3 sum? - I’m not gay…

no one said you were hunny, but what do people think I would do if hubby not present?

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By *lessing2016Woman
42 weeks ago

Cardiff

"Randomly ending a message with ?????? when there isn't even a question.

Going straight in with sex / suggestive talk in the first sentence.

Addressing only one of us.

Txt spk

One or two word messages.

Shadow profiles with no pics sending us friend requests. "

The multiple ????? I'd where I think they've tried to add am emoji from their phone. I had this in the past.

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By *lessing2016Woman
42 weeks ago

Cardiff

For me

1. Not reading my profile (seems to be common)

2. Poor grammar (spelling isn't an issue as mine is shit, but a bit of punctuation so I can take a breath would be awesome)

3. People who assume the relationship/dynamic between my husband and I.

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By *urious-couple33Couple
42 weeks ago

Wales/ Tenerife

Toilet photos!

Holding a cock over the toilet pan! Why??

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By *za dragon ladyWoman
42 weeks ago

the twilight zone nr swansea

Personally its butt hole pics ..simple and straight to the point

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By *nihorn40Woman
42 weeks ago

Barry

The Sydney University nonsense lol.

It's like 2005 Myspace chain letters but even dumber

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By *aigressMan
42 weeks ago

Cardiff

"The Sydney University nonsense lol.

It's like 2005 Myspace chain letters but even dumber"

Hahahahahahahahaha

Very this...

If someone at Sydney University or anywhere else wants to gawk at me... or God forbid have one off the wrist to me... crack on .. enjoy yourself

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By *edman60Man
42 weeks ago

south wales

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By *edman60Man
42 weeks ago

south wales

"Where they demand 2 face pics, body pic, dick pic and they don't have any pics on their profile or won't send any.

Cancel last minute

Heavily edited/filtered pics

I have to agree to this.

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By *ancardiff7Man
42 weeks ago

Near Cowbridge

"The Sydney University nonsense lol.

It's like 2005 Myspace chain letters but even dumber"

Surely you're too young to remember MySpace!

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By *unnybunsWoman
42 weeks ago

Between here and over there

My biggest ick is being falsely lead into a relationship with someone on here who claimed their wife died ! I am a widow and I can’t fathom why someone would lie like that.

They have met my children, even made up elaborate lies about how he took his children to put flowers on their dead mums grave ! Told a sob story to myself and my son how hard his life has been bringing up two children.

I did not deserve that - I really didn’t. I was vulnerable and he took advantage of it. I was groomed and manipulated. Even got told I was an over thinker when I questioned by doubts about the relationship.

Talk about sociopath! Manipulator and gas lighter. I really hope no one else on here gets caught up with this parasite of a “man”

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By *ubyRichardsWoman
42 weeks ago

swansea

"My biggest ick is being falsely lead into a relationship with someone on here who claimed their wife died ! I am a widow and I can’t fathom why someone would lie like that.

Talk about sociopath! Manipulator and gas lighter. I really hope no one else on here gets caught up with this parasite of a “man”"
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Good grief!!! I had no idea. What a dangerous person! Thanks for the heads up. I will definitely avoid like the plague.

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By *unnybunsWoman
42 weeks ago

Between here and over there

"My biggest ick is being falsely lead into a relationship with someone on here who claimed their wife died ! I am a widow and I can’t fathom why someone would lie like that.

Talk about sociopath! Manipulator and gas lighter. I really hope no one else on here gets caught up with this parasite of a “man”m

Good grief!!! I had no idea. What a dangerous person! Thanks for the heads up. I will definitely avoid like the plague. "

Everyone should avoid like the plague- unless you are into being lied to

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By *coutDWoman
42 weeks ago

Pontypridd

I have a new ick!! Worse than a toilet bowl…a urinal pick with a cock. Just don’t guys

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By *nihorn40Woman
42 weeks ago

Barry

"The Sydney University nonsense lol.

It's like 2005 Myspace chain letters but even dumber

Surely you're too young to remember MySpace!

Well I originally typed Facebook but realised it probably wasn't around that long ago and couldn't be assed to check lol

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By *nihorn40Woman
42 weeks ago

Barry

"The Sydney University nonsense lol.

It's like 2005 Myspace chain letters but even dumber

Hahahahahahahahaha

Very this...

If someone at Sydney University or anywhere else wants to gawk at me... or God forbid have one off the wrist to me... crack on .. enjoy yourself "

They aren't looking at anybody lol. It's literally made up to see who's dumb enough to copy it. If they did want your pics, they could get a deal with Fab and make you agree to it on signing up - what you did or didn't write on your profile would have zero bearing lol.

But even that isn't realistic when they have access to stuff like FB

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