FabSwingers.com forum: Premature ejaculation

By *ay5043 OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Probably been asked a million times before. But what do people do to prevent the old premature ejaculation?

Is there anything herbal out there?

Having an old Tom Tank prior to the main job might not be the answer as with the age related problem of recovery time and labido levels.

Asking for a friend.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Watching this thread. Also for a friend

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By *heknobbyoneMan
over a year ago

gateshead

Not a problem I’ve had for many years but I know there’s sprays out there that numb you or you could use the thickest condom you can buy.

I remember once I was given a viagra type pill that had an ingredient that stopped prem ejaculation. Problems was I was exhausted by the time I finally came lol!

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By *ay5043 OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

My friend says thanks. I’ll ….he will look in to that.

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Don't hold back let it flow then get to work with your tongue and hey presto few minutes later look at what is rising again.

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By *aturecpl15Couple
over a year ago

Chester

Ive sent a private message on a few techniques that I have used. They seem to be quite effective.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I used to have a bit of a problem when I was younger. I always found thinking of Ann Widdecombe helped

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By *rettCoolMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I used to have a bit of a problem when I was younger. I always found thinking of Ann Widdecombe helped "

Haha brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably been asked a million times before. But what do people do to prevent the old premature ejaculation?

Is there anything herbal out there?

Having an old Tom Tank prior to the main job might not be the answer as with the age related problem of recovery time and labido levels.

Asking for a friend. "

Kegel exercises are meant to work and they are now prescribing medications on men’s heath websites to delay them. I think it’s an antidepressant.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Hard.shoulder of the M1

Distraction.

I don’t struggle these days but when I’ve had my moments then calculating prime numbers, alphabet backwards, that sort of thing has worked.

Probably not singing out out though.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

There is an antidepressant that is prescribed to take before sex, that delays ejaculation, but can't for the life of me remember what it's called.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"There is an antidepressant that is prescribed to take before sex, that delays ejaculation, but can't for the life of me remember what it's called."

It's paroxetine, taken 3-4 hrs before sex.

Obviously this is prescription only from a Dr and this doesn't constitute any form of medical advice!

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By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

How fast, is premature ejaculation class, I mean how shorter time can you last? I have used what they call delay wipes and I easily lasted over an hour and really had to push to make myself come

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Guys..please remember there's something for everyone..

A minority of us actually like quick cummers..

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"There is an antidepressant that is prescribed to take before sex, that delays ejaculation, but can't for the life of me remember what it's called.

It's paroxetine, taken 3-4 hrs before sex.

Obviously this is prescription only from a Dr and this doesn't constitute any form of medical advice!"

Always to to know what to DISCUSS WITH YOUR GP BEFOREHAND.

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By *r. LovejoyMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day......Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day!!

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By *oliteSinMan
over a year ago

Essex&London

One of my friends had the same issue and he said a pill called priligy helped a lot..

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By *pandjMan
over a year ago

Sparkford

Control your breathing as you get near is the best and .oat basic thing you can do to help you delay yourself

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By *inchwillyMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

I went to a herbal shop in Watford and the girl asked me to wank off so she could see how long I lasted then gave me tablets xx

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"How fast, is premature ejaculation class, I mean how shorter time can you last? I have used what they call delay wipes and I easily lasted over an hour and really had to push to make myself come"

One medical definition is less than one minute of penetration. It’s debated of course. My guess is that an hour would not reasonably count.

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

Get old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get old.

I agree, worked well for me. If only my old girlfriend could see me going now 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ever have sex again it'll definitely happen to me.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

Switch positions

Kegal Muscle Control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now ya getting me going

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By *enrythe8thMan
over a year ago

worthing west Sussex

Cock and ball ring will make you a champion

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By *erry 58Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I think of Dianne Abbott

It never fails

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By *aturecpl15Couple
over a year ago

Chester

people keeping messaging to ask for the tips. These are fine that have definitely worked. Some are repeats of others suggestions;

1. Use the spray that numbs the end of your cock but my experience is that if the chemical goes down your tube - it stings like hell for about 30 seconds - but it does work. Also note that I used it when I was very young so I had no problems maintaining an erection.

2, As others have hinted, think of something else if you are perhaps fucking your wife. Something mundane like what you are having for dinner and whatever you do, don't think of your wifes sister or mother or you will cum instantly.

3. When hard push your cock all the way in so that your loins are pushing up against her vagina. Instead of thrusting in and out like one of those porn stars push in firmly and rotate your loins so that her clitoris is being stimulated. In my experience, the lady will cum and there is far less chance that your cock will explode prematurely.

2 & 3 do take some control and practice but they have worked well for me until my wifes sister springs to mind then its all over in a flash.

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I went to a herbal shop in Watford and the girl asked me to wank off so she could see how long I lasted then gave me tablets xx"

Hold on... see as in watch you tugging away??

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By *trkenitMan
over a year ago

Clovis

Stop looking at porn material. Defrag!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"I went to a herbal shop in Watford and the girl asked me to wank off so she could see how long I lasted then gave me tablets xx"

Asking for a friend, where was this shop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently sertraline (the anti depressant) delays ejaculation

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By *orneyloverMan
over a year ago

Boston

"I used to have a bit of a problem when I was younger. I always found thinking of Ann Widdecombe helped "

Maggie Thatcher did it for me 🤣

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Definitely don’t think of a naked woman with firm breasts and a warm, wet, inviting puss

Oh ffs to late, never mind

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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over a year ago

Central

Be careful with the numbing gels, as they could transfer to your partner and numb them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually just think about my dad muffin my sister to stop me Cumming too fast.

Has a 100% success rate so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been concerned about this as i technically am like this when I'm anxious or nervous but if I'm calm and comfortable I can go for a good while.

I honestly don't know if there's a way to help the anxiety and nerves or to allow me to last longer if i am

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

"Ive sent a private message on a few techniques that I have used. They seem to be quite effective."

Messaged!

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By *xstevenxxMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Ive sent a private message on a few techniques that I have used. They seem to be quite effective.

Messaged!

Love to know also

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Guys..please remember there's something for everyone..

A minority of us actually like quick cummers.."

Can't beat them when there's a queue at the gang bang.

Just so long as they don't invoke plan B and shove their head between her legs and compound the felony by blocking the view as well.

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By *uss and peenCouple
over a year ago

West of the Midlands

"How fast, is premature ejaculation class, I mean how shorter time can you last? I have used what they call delay wipes and I easily lasted over an hour and really had to push to make myself come"

I started reading this like a poem 🤦 lost its flow half way through 🤣

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By *upanovaMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Train yourself when playing with yourself. Try the squeeze technique to prevent ejaculation when close.

Come, then second session usually lasts longer.

Lots of foreplay, building and building then letting it all subside before penetration used to work for me.

Get on antidepressants!!

See the doctor, there are pills that help.

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By *upanovaMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Apparently sertraline (the anti depressant) delays ejaculation"

It does, I can go for over an hour now!

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By *upanovaMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"people keeping messaging to ask for the tips. These are fine that have definitely worked. Some are repeats of others suggestions;

2 & 3 do take some control and practice but they have worked well for me until my wifes sister springs to mind then its all over in a flash.

2 and 3 are good options. 3 especially as it is usually the thrusting or up and motion that makes men cum.

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By *horshammer132Man
50 weeks ago

Stockport

I went to a workshop/session for men that suffer premature ejaculation today! ...

Turns out it's tomorrow

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By *orny PTMan
50 weeks ago

Peterborough

"Apparently sertraline (the anti depressant) delays ejaculation

It does, I can go for over an hour now! "

Be careful, this drug can leave this sdie effect years later.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Didn’t think you could do it hat in the middle of boots

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By *effdelightMan
50 weeks ago

Grimsby

Used to but I don't now I'm a bit older. Could always just go again very quick anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Didn’t think you could do it hat in the middle of boots

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By *rRuhbarbMan
50 weeks ago

London

I once got into a hotel lift with Anne Widdecomb, 20 years ago, she is tiny height wise but what a wrack, I tried not to stare!

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By *eadpool-ishMan
49 weeks ago

Horam

I looked at this to find an answer, I think I came too early....

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
49 weeks ago

Prestwich

I used to be able to hold the wolf from the door, but since I went to having less sex, I find it much harder

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By *olo180Man
49 weeks ago

Greater London

More regular sex…going a long time without always makes it harder (no pun intended)

Also a few beers helps ha

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By *irthmasterCoolMan
49 weeks ago

Leeds

I do but cu loads

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By *HE ONLY PLAN IS NO PLANMan
47 weeks ago

Westmidlands

In and out

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By *parky1.4.69Man
41 weeks ago

gravesend

"I went to a workshop/session for men that suffer premature ejaculation today! ...

Turns out it's tomorrow

I literally came here to tell that joke damn you came before me again

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By *rikTheVikingMan
41 weeks ago

Llanelli

Tadalafil 5mg daily

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By *nthony50069Man
41 weeks ago

yesh near oldham

"Probably been asked a million times before. But what do people do to prevent the old premature ejaculation?

Is there anything herbal out there?

Having an old Tom Tank prior to the main job might not be the answer as with the age related problem of recovery time and labido levels.

Asking for a friend. "
. Cum again

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By *on CarlosMan
37 weeks ago

Birkenhead

Emla cream. It works a treat. Just rub a small amount around the end of your todger about 20 mins before entry. You’ll last ages. Downside is you don’t feel a thing. It’s an anaesthetic cream.

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By *myKnightCouple
37 weeks ago

London

Embrace it! I've had many guys cum prematurely but the ones that own it, can laugh and enjoy the orgasm and then make me cum end up being the best fun

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By *ray_BTWMan
36 weeks ago

Worcester

Delay spray called Stud 100 as worked for me very well in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

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By *loydyMan
36 weeks ago

British

"I used to have a bit of a problem when I was younger. I always found thinking of Ann Widdecombe helped "
I get a boner looking at her lol

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By *iker34Man
36 weeks ago

east lothian

Had an agreement with my ex she could fuck outher guys

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

At beginning of sex your cock is most sensitive.

If your cock is thrusting into a tight pussy at that time, nothing will stop you. You need to do at least 10 minutes of foreplay that primes your cock to get you past that early hypersensitivity without you being so aroused you cum.. a bit of tit wanking or bellend licking works.

Then, your cock is over the short period of hypersensitivity, you can fuck for a lot longer before cumming.

My source - my cock

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
36 weeks ago

Norwich

"At beginning of sex your cock is most sensitive.

Then, your cock is over the short period of hypersensitivity, you can fuck for a lot longer before cumming.

My source - my cock "

I must try this

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Not a problem I’ve had for many years but I know there’s sprays out there that numb you or you could use the thickest condom you can buy.

I remember once I was given a viagra type pill that had an ingredient that stopped prem ejaculation. Problems was I was exhausted by the time I finally came lol!"
what was the tablet

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By *arriedfun69Man
36 weeks ago

Bedford

I find it quite a turn on when a guy cums quickly and then we start slowly for the 2nd round

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By *etishfreakMan
36 weeks ago

Teddington

Im a quick cummer but can stay hard and go a second round right away

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Anyone tried delay wipes for this

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By *untime40Man
36 weeks ago

"There is an antidepressant that is prescribed to take before sex, that delays ejaculation, but can't for the life of me remember what it's called."

Could be Sertraline I’m on them and takes ages to cum I have to give up sometimes

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By *entfootloverMan
36 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

"There is an antidepressant that is prescribed to take before sex, that delays ejaculation, but can't for the life of me remember what it's called.

Could be Sertraline I’m on them and takes ages to cum I have to give up sometimes"

No, it's Dapoxetine. According to Google it works in 1-3 hours and you can have it on demand.

Sertraline certainly helps to numb you but it takes time and can't be taken as a one-off.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
36 weeks ago

stockport

Blue pill works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I cum too fast and it does frustrate me and get me down, hence being single,masturbating and porn keeps me sane.

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By *iker34Man
36 weeks ago

east lothian

My ex used to fuck outher guys was amazing

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
36 weeks ago

Ryde

There are some practical thing for it.

One is to build up the pelvic floor muscles, which can be done by clenching as though trying to hold back a fart or stopping a piss in mid-stream. You clench for, say, 10 seconds and repeat 10 times.

You gradually increase the duration and number of times, which builds up the muscles.

Another is to pick up a "ball stretcher". There are rubber ones out there, and they help to delay orgasm.

I've done both, and they work for a lot of people.

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
36 weeks ago

Cheshire

Think of Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day!

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
36 weeks ago

Ryde

"Think of Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day!"

Oh, behave...

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
36 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Think of Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day!

Oh, behave...

Groovy, baby!

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By *w funwifeWoman
35 weeks ago

near taunton

i can always tell if a guys had a wank before hand as its often a boring shag ... better off cumming and then foreplay until your ready again and i know quite a few women who feel this way as its often the covo on partie nights .....

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By *iker34Man
35 weeks ago

east lothian

Embrace it and let the gf fuck outher guys

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By *effdelightMan
35 weeks ago

Grimsby

"i can always tell if a guys had a wank before hand as its often a boring shag ... better off cumming and then foreplay until your ready again and i know quite a few women who feel this way as its often the covo on partie nights .....

100% all grown ups just move on enjoy other things and have another go lol

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By *myKnightCouple
35 weeks ago

London

100 this! Bring on the full package even if the first delivery is express

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I don’t mind how quickly a guy cums x

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"I don’t mind how quickly a guy cums x"

I mean as long as we keep going after I don’t see any issue

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By *etishfreakMan
35 weeks ago

Teddington

I'm a quick cummer but I can stay hard and go another round without stopping

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By *ornyTr00perMan
35 weeks ago

Diss

"I'm a quick cummer but I can stay hard and go another round without stopping "

👆🏻 this exactly!! Sometimes it happens but I can for for another 2-3 rounds

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By *otbadreallyMan
35 weeks ago

dirtford

I was on sertraline for years for depression and can say without shadow of a doubt it does work and you'll be knackered by the time you actually cum.

I've been off it a few years now and suffer quite badly from PE. To the point it's actually bringing on anxiety and depression because I can't perform well enough.

Kinda a self fulfilling prophecy really.

I've tried the stop n squeeze n go again but this requires self control. Of which I have very little!

I have found that relaxing your butt muscles (not THAT much lol) helps but I figured that I'm 50 now and my tubes are tied so meh, what happens happens.

Enjoy your youth!

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
35 weeks ago

west london

One banana two raw eggs....blitz them...drink and the magic starts

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By *onMogsMan
35 weeks ago

Lincoln

I suffer from it I suspect cause it takes me a minute to cum from wanking let alone sex, I try and edge but when I take my hand off my cock throbs and makes me cum. Might have to keep trying that way or get a fleshlight

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By *atguyontheblockMan
35 weeks ago

dundee

Can't be arsed reading all the previous replies but if no one has mentioned Sertraline then it's worth a try if you can convince your doctor that you have depression

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By *agise3Man
35 weeks ago

wigan

Ive gone from thinking who's on match of day who's scored to now if I think im going to blow it stop and got back on liver until tthowd fellas calmed down before I loose it and go again which most women think your not just a whip it in whip it out and wipe it type of guy shows also your not a selfish lover

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By *ony 2016Man
35 weeks ago

lincs /Hudd & Derby cinema

Not really able to help with a solution but I suffer from quite extreme ( very extreme) PE , probably because of this I have become a voyeur and now just enjoy watching others ,

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Probably been asked a million times before. But what do people do to prevent the old premature ejaculation?

Is there anything herbal out there?

Having an old Tom Tank prior to the main job might not be the answer as with the age related problem of recovery time and labido levels.

Asking for a friend. "

A 'friend' I know kinda had that issue when he first started having sex so would knock one out before apparently it helped 🤷

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By *eyedwillyMan
35 weeks ago

Bedford

Class it as winning the race

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By *ertcoupleCouple
35 weeks ago

Welwyn Garden City

There's an antidepressant that contains bromide that will stop premature ejaculation.

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By *b03Man
35 weeks ago

Exeter

Honestly the odd finishing too soon is all part of normal response, it's only a problem if it's happening as all the time

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By *ldbutnice2Man
35 weeks ago

durham

Wife says you suffer from premature ejaculation I said no you suffer from it😂

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By *ourplusCouple
35 weeks ago

Near Irvine

My wife says you have a small cock and have premature ejaculation, which is good she says, it means I can get on with something more interesting quicker.

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By *eedsfun1989Man
35 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I use a delay spray called "VIDA ####" It's available from loads less reputable looking sex shops online with a different number after it.

None of the ones sold by UK shops do the job for me, only this. I'm assuming it's concentration of lidocaine or whatever the numbing agent is is too high to be sold by other shops.

If anyone knows of one that's as good, please let me know!

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By *ayKellyMan
34 weeks ago

Kinross

"Probably been asked a million times before. But what do people do to prevent the old premature ejaculation?

Is there anything herbal out there?

Having an old Tom Tank prior to the main job might not be the answer as with the age related problem of recovery time and labido levels.

Asking for a friend. "

This may sound odd, but it's worked for me,

I've stopped wearing boxers or any underwear, so your cock rubbing on your jeans dumbs down sensation, similar to someone who's circumcised.

If driving, I have my cock out and have foreskin pulled right back just rubbing the head of my cock to dumb it's senses.

Been doing this for years now and the problem now is trying to work myself up to cum.

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By *ovefist84Man
34 weeks ago

Oswestry

I've tried thinking about odd things like some of you suggested-didn't work.

Tried numbing sprays, yes, works a little bit, but then I go from fully hard to semi hard and numbs her as well, so- didn't work.. I guess I just have to embrace it and wait till I get older??

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
34 weeks ago

Prestwich

"Probably been asked a million times before. But what do people do to prevent the old premature ejaculation?

Is there anything herbal out there?

Having an old Tom Tank prior to the main job might not be the answer as with the age related problem of recovery time and labido levels.

Asking for a friend.

This may sound odd, but it's worked for me,

I've stopped wearing boxers or any underwear, so your cock rubbing on your jeans dumbs down sensation, similar to someone who's circumcised.

If driving, I have my cock out and have foreskin pulled right back just rubbing the head of my cock to dumb it's senses.

Been doing this for years now and the problem now is trying to work myself up to cum."

Wtf

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By *otbadreallyMan
34 weeks ago

dirtford

"screech SMASH BANG"

Hmm. I'd get carried away and crash the car...

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By *ornucopiaMan
34 weeks ago

Bexley

...

This may sound odd, but it's worked for me,

I've stopped wearing boxers or any underwear, so your cock rubbing on your jeans dumbs down sensation, similar to someone who's circumcised.

If driving, I have my cock out and have foreskin pulled right back just rubbing the head of my cock to dumb it's senses.

Been doing this for years now and the problem now is trying to work myself up to cum."

Couple of matters arising:

(1) Curious as to how often you wash the jeans.

(2) Presumably the view into your vehicle makes interesting entertainment for passing coach passengers.

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By *onny1969Man
34 weeks ago

local

Can I get her number, please

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By *ookingWathMan
34 weeks ago

Dodworth

"I used to have a bit of a problem when I was younger. I always found thinking of Ann Widdecombe helped "

Or Ann Stopsyoucombe as she's also known...

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Sheffield Wednesday

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"Apparently sertraline (the anti depressant) delays ejaculation"

Sertraline Sometimes prevents it altogether, quite frustrating

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By *edmasseyMan
34 weeks ago

Tonbridge

"I used to have a bit of a problem when I was younger. I always found thinking of Ann Widdecombe helped "

That doesn't work, made it worse

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By *rex1990Man
34 weeks ago

Clapham

Next to the underground station in Balham is a pharmacy/chemist (Healthchem, Balham High Road) and just by the counter discreetly tucked away there’s a little gold topped spray “STUD 100 Spray for Men 12g / Stud Spray”. (Please note despite the product name this is not to be used for any equine related activities lol)

I discovered this whilst working as a gentleman of the night for one of my clients who suffered severely with premature ejaculation and had considered his life behind closed doors to be just a bottom as he was too humiliated under the circumstances however this really changed his life. A quick puff of this on your willy 10 mins beforehand, rinse it off….. very important otherwise it’s a naaaasty taste….. and all of a sudden you can wank and fuck all day all night like a teenager all over again hahaha . It’s approximately £20 will last you six months and make you a very happy man.

Yup. You’re very welcome.

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By *rex1990Man
34 weeks ago

Clapham

Please note that taking antidepressants such as PROZAC will in fact completely ruin sex as you will be unable to orgasm all together and eventually turn full circle on you and make life worse than ever

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By *rex1990Man
34 weeks ago

Clapham

I’m not medically qualified or endorsed by any pharmaceutical companies so please appreciate my comments as personal life experience only!!

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By *ilva69Man
34 weeks ago

stockport

Double bagging decreases the sensitivity to last longer

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By *DNuneaton55Man
34 weeks ago

nuneaton

"Please note that taking antidepressants such as PROZAC will in fact completely ruin sex as you will be unable to orgasm all together and eventually turn full circle on you and make life worse than ever "

I agree, I was on antidepressants on and off 20 years ago and eventually noticed i struggling to reach orgasm during sex.. even now it's incredibly rare for me to cum through intercourse, I need to finish by hand

Of course, on the plus side, it means I can often go on for a long time.

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By *heikyerboutiMan
34 weeks ago

Leicester

Citalopram (SSRI antidepressant) user for over 30 years. It prevents premature ejaculation but can often have the opposite effect (particularly if you've had a drink beforehand).

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By *igad999Man
34 weeks ago

wolverhampton

I found in last some meds would make me go ages without cumming

I’m a repeat cummer but if I know I’ve got a good session ahead I will have a tactical wank couple hours before which makes me last bit longer round one

But me and wife will spend lot of time in between rounds touching playing teasing kissing cuddling taking etc so not as important if I do cum quick.

And she will go for as long as I last normally

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Buy a masturbator. When you get used to not cumming quick from that, you'll be cured lol

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By *k_123Man
34 weeks ago

the north

I think masturbating more helps. I never lasted long when I was in my 20’s, now in my 40’s I struggle to finish in under an hour. Sounds great but often find partners don’t like it.

Cuming quick and going again seems far better imo

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"Citalopram (SSRI antidepressant) user for over 30 years. It prevents premature ejaculation but can often have the opposite effect (particularly if you've had a drink beforehand)."

Citalopram killed my sex drive and it took months to regain it after 3 years of 40mg daily dose.

After my ex gf broke up with me I was prescribed citalopram for my depression. In a way I was happy with the side effect as I wasn’t interested in either a new relationship or hook ups as I wanted my ex back!

But I did go on holiday with her a year after and she did notice how I lasted longer 😂

But after the holiday I was back on my own and I wouldn’t have morning erections or any desire to wank.. and when I did it would take me ages to cum ..

Now I’m off it and it took me a long time until I finally got back to normal!

I’m usually H&H when I wank, so that also delays my 💦… but if I’m stone cold sober and horny I can cum in a couple of minutes like the old days 😞😂

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By *ostindreamsMan
34 weeks ago

London

I cum in few seconds of touching

I learned to embrace it instead as fighting it. Me being a submissive helps. I am always wary of taking drugs for these things. If I want to last longer, thicker condoms and cumming once before the meet helps

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

SSRI's like sertraline ( antidepressants) will prolong your orgasm.

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By *arkhorse30Man
33 weeks ago

Cavan/ Dublin/ Meath

"Ive sent a private message on a few techniques that I have used. They seem to be quite effective."

Might I ask, what those techniques are?

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
33 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Guys..please remember there's something for everyone..

A minority of us actually like quick cummers.."

Well said. Mrs RC is in that club. She's on a quest as she's quick herself. We both don't get the 3 hour session idea. Better things go off like fireworks than a slow burning camp fire.

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By *entfootloverMan
33 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

"Next to the underground station in Balham is a pharmacy/chemist (Healthchem, Balham High Road) and just by the counter discreetly tucked away there’s a little gold topped spray “STUD 100 Spray for Men 12g / Stud Spray”. (Please note despite the product name this is not to be used for any equine related activities lol)

Yup. You’re very welcome.

Just bought one from Boots online. It's less than ten quid.

We'll see how it goes!

Would love a few prolonged solo sessions and to last when I'm asked to go in doggy. The sight of an arse in doggy always sets me off way too quickly!

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By *aj420Man
33 weeks ago

leeds

Tried that lost my boner half way through even before cumming.

I think of suella braverman chasing me shouting get back on the boat u cunt that seems to work

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By *ronzed300Man
33 weeks ago

Strood

Think of giving it to Theresa May mmmm. You’re welcome

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By *effdelightMan
33 weeks ago

Grimsby

Rolling about in those fields of wheat 🥵 I bet she's a right shag 🤣

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By *eluga2Man
32 weeks ago

Hampstead London

I think the antidepressant you are refering to is Imapramine 10mg.

It has many uses. It will not work as an antidepressant in such a low dose. But be ware, it can cause problems with maintaining an erection

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By *HE ONLY PLAN IS NO PLANMan
30 weeks ago

Westmidlands

Doesn't bother me , in and out put the kettle on 😮

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By *ocket and RocketCouple
30 weeks ago

Canterbury

Just get old

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
30 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Probably been asked a million times before. But what do people do to prevent the old premature ejaculation?

Is there anything herbal out there?

Having an old Tom Tank prior to the main job might not be the answer as with the age related problem of recovery time and labido levels.

Asking for a friend. "

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
30 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Probably been asked a million times before. But what do people do to prevent the old premature ejaculation?

Is there anything herbal out there?

Having an old Tom Tank prior to the main job might not be the answer as with the age related problem of recovery time and labido levels.

Asking for a friend. "

Put a condom on it. Tried & tested method of controlling things.

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By *unguy2429Man
30 weeks ago

worthing

We have all done it nothing to be ashamed off. Just go again

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By *arkdawsonMan
30 weeks ago

around

"Probably been asked a million times before. But what do people do to prevent the old premature ejaculation?

Is there anything herbal out there?

Having an old Tom Tank prior to the main job might not be the answer as with the age related problem of recovery time and labido levels.

Asking for a friend. "
how long we talking ? I’m two minutes not a problem.

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By *untocum1000TV/TS
30 weeks ago

newmarket

"I used to have a bit of a problem when I was younger. I always found thinking of Ann Widdecombe helped "
. That always made me cum quicker !

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By *evonspankMan
30 weeks ago

Tiverton

The answer is very simple, isn't it? She sucks, then fuck her

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By *ayd100Man
30 weeks ago

clitheroe

Get a bull to satisfy her

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By *evlishduncMan
30 weeks ago

north suffolk south norfolk

… another great reason for safe play.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I used to have a bit of a problem when I was younger. I always found thinking of Ann Widdecombe helped . That always made me cum quicker !

One man's meat is another man's poison!

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By *ony-JonesMan
30 weeks ago

Gillingham

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By *ony-JonesMan
30 weeks ago

Gillingham

"I used to have a bit of a problem when I was younger. I always found thinking of Ann Widdecombe helped I get a boner looking at her lol"
maybe you should go to spec savers

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I’d ratchet pre cum continues and the lady feeling good she’s getting you off than fucking hope days and never cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"I used to have a bit of a problem when I was younger. I always found thinking of Ann Widdecombe helped . That always made me cum quicker !

Mmmm Ann Wddecombe in a thong.... shit I've just cum

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By *ust_us999Couple
29 weeks ago

Somewhere

Condoms with numbing stuff, or the stuff you spray on your knob.

I have to say, the condoms work best, as it's a double whammy. The spray works, but be careful not to numb the other person and you have to put it on 30min prior to the fun part.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

My chastity cage prevents ejaculation, premature or otherwise

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By *ayKellyMan
29 weeks ago

Kinross

My wife loves sucking cock and talking dirty during sex, the combination of her talking like a real dirty slut desperate for cock, and her sucking me, has me Cumming on entry at times when she's begging to be fucked

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By *an662021Man
29 weeks ago

ribble valley

Just get a bull in to service her, save you the messing.

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By *_the_impalerMan
29 weeks ago

canterbury

I think it’s the mental element rather than get worked up before you even meet. Relax and treat it like meeting any other person. If you’re attracted to them you will get hard. But also while having sex it should be at least 50/50 stimulation for both participants (if only 2!) so OP use all the toys in your arsenal not just ram away with your cock

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By *GIncubusMan
28 weeks ago

Harrietsham

"I just think about baseball." - Lt. Frank Drebin, Police Squad

Fr though it works for me xD

I attended an online seminar about premature ejaculation and ED, and the lecturer was talking about how 90% of the time if you're under 40 the issue is mental. Also I think the anxiety to perform well can make things more difficult.

I find I'm usually pretty quick on the first round, but since I have practically no refractory period I can usually just put another condom on and keep going. Does it ruin the pacing? Sometimes, but if you have an understanding partner, it shouldn't be an issue. Don't take it so seriously it's all fun at the end of the day

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By *GIncubusMan
28 weeks ago

Harrietsham

Also tongue and fingers are your friend. If you get close you can always pull out and fall back on your oral/finger skills

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By *entfootloverMan
28 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

Happy to report the STUD100 spray works...

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By *effdelightMan
28 weeks ago

Grimsby

""I just think about baseball." - Lt. Frank Drebin, Police Squad

Fr though it works for me xD

"
Great answer. I've been through stages. Occasionally have a random quick fire but more likely to not come at all these days. I prefer it. I do think a lot is mental but also as you get older your body calms down a bit. What I find amusing is that when you make a woman come quickly it's amazing haha. If it happens treat it that way like a compliment but know that you need to carry on and get your tongue working while your willy returns to a state of ready.

Just fucking enjoy it.

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By *drenaline rushMan
28 weeks ago

Burnley

Recently started running and since I’ve lost weight got fitter I can last longer too not sore if it’s related but genuinely can

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By *nickerDropperGlory69Man
28 weeks ago

cavan town

"Recently started running and since I’ve lost weight got fitter I can last longer too not sore if it’s related but genuinely can "
I took your advice, and it worked. It stopped be from blowing the load, but by the time I got back from my run, herself had gone to sleep 🙄

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By *itgingermanMan
27 weeks ago

Rotherham

First stop watching porn, the stimulation is wrong and the self gratification when moved to real sex makes you cum to soon

Train your body to stop cuming just before you are about to cum, the more you do this the better control you have

If you really struggling use a pill like the porn star pill, those things make you rock hard but you can go for ages

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By *hoccaMan
27 weeks ago

midlands/leeds

Change the way you think when your fucking. E.g “You’re not doing it for you anymore, it’s your job to make sure the other person is satisfied.” Overtime your pleasure will come from the end result, not the feeling.

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By *hoccaMan
27 weeks ago

midlands/leeds

"people keeping messaging to ask for the tips. These are fine that have definitely worked. Some are repeats of others suggestions;

2 & 3 do take some control and practice but they have worked well for me until my wifes sister springs to mind then its all over in a flash.

2 and 3 are good options. 3 especially as it is usually the thrusting or up and motion that makes men cum. "

I can vouch

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By *rDiscreetlyMan
27 weeks ago

Leicester

Went to my Premature Ejaculation group meeting this morning. Turns out it's not til tomorrow...

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By *aretobareCouple
27 weeks ago

Central Portugal

Someone we knew tried opening a premature Ejaculation club.

It was a flop and no one came!

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By *idnightcowboy69Man
27 weeks ago

cirencester

If I fast forward to the end

Will I miss any useful tips

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By *quirrel!Man
27 weeks ago

Visiting Manchester

"Probably been asked a million times before. But what do people do to prevent the old premature ejaculation?

Is there anything herbal out there?

Having an old Tom Tank prior to the main job might not be the answer as with the age related problem of recovery time and labido levels.

Asking for a friend. "

Do what you say you don’t do, but take 2 viagra!

otherwise a workout before, and think of something that will put you off!

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27 weeks ago

"Someone we knew tried opening a premature Ejaculation club.

It was a flop and no one came!"

🤣🤣

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By *ubaDub_DubCouple
27 weeks ago

Dublin

Hi, my first question would be if this happens in solo or only in partnered play? Is it only a recent occurrence?

I might have some suggestions.

Dev

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By *ayKellyMan
27 weeks ago

Kinross

Forrest Gump & Jenny

They both strip to their underwear, and Jenny asks him if he's ever been with a girl. She takes off her bra and puts Forrest's hand on her naked breast.

Forrest—how shall we say this?—immediately ejaculates and assumes he's done something horribly wrong, but Jenny reassures him that it's OK.

It happens to lots of guys, really

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By *me29CDghTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Manchester

Superdrug sells delay spray with no numbing effect

as well practicing with fleshlight / edgin helps

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By *oewiththeflowMan
27 weeks ago

West Coast

Edging. Saved many man on a difficult mission

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By *arkdawsonMan
26 weeks ago

around

"Probably been asked a million times before. But what do people do to prevent the old premature ejaculation?

Is there anything herbal out there?

Having an old Tom Tank prior to the main job might not be the answer as with the age related problem of recovery time and labido levels.

Asking for a friend. "

Since I don’t get the offer often to have sex this isn’t a big issue for me but it’s common enough just think of dot cotton while your knocking boots

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By *heekyCharmMan
26 weeks ago

Colne

"I think of Dianne Abbott

It never fails "
She’s a premature ejaculator?

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By *ohn8210tCouple
26 weeks ago

Warwick

I went to the doctor to discuss this problem. He asked “how bad is it?”

I replied “bad- last Saturday night it was literally touch and go”!

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By *ayd100Man
26 weeks ago

clitheroe

Nice one

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By *eeker of pleasure!Man
26 weeks ago

Hedge End

"I went to the doctor to discuss this problem. He asked “how bad is it?”

I replied “bad- last Saturday night it was literally touch and go”!

😂🤣

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By *ung-stallionMan
25 weeks ago

Manchester

Cock rings help

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By *ornydevil123999Man
25 weeks ago

nottingham

Sorry just cum x

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Think of Dianne Abbott

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By *ayKellyMan
25 weeks ago

Kinross

I sometimes cum on entering as my wife loves sucking cock and talking dirty, she gets me over excited and I cum as im entering her fanny

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