FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting now allowed?

By *rimsonswing OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Seen as though 2 households can now meet and clubs are opening as bars shouldn’t the option to meet be added back on to Fab?

I’m aware no one should be meeting to play but people aren’t getting the option to meet socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen as though 2 households can now meet and clubs are opening as bars shouldn’t the option to meet be added back on to Fab?

I’m aware no one should be meeting to play but people aren’t getting the option to meet socially.

Yes I agree with you there, so many people are meeting up with friends and family why can’t the option be there for us also M x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not all parts of the UK are at an equal level of rules relaxation. Fab adjusts the advice to reflect the official position and also refers us to the government site for details.

Whilst we can have bubbles in some states, it's different to the site passively or actively, supporting users to get together. That would be negligent and just 1 additional infection could result in other deaths.

The freedom that we have may be taken away without notice, as happened in Leicester this week.

People are adults and should focus on the official advice, whilst recognising that the problem isn't gone yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think they have much choice until everything is back to normal. It's currently a criminal offence to encourage people to break lockdown rules. And putting that facility back up again could be seen as just that. I do think however that reinstating the Clubs section should be done as it will allow club owners to update us on their status .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even non playing meets would be nice. After 12 weeks of lockdown a social and bit of flirting would be amazing, save me talking to myself all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely should be a social meets button.

We just paid to renew our membership, I'm not sure why tbh.

People are allowed to meet, with a social distancing, feels a bit like we are been treated like naughty children now which is very patronising.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I’d rather wait till it’s all back to safety to be honest

Yea it’s nice to meet and socialise at a distance but where would this meet take place

In a busy pub....in your own home. In a hotel

Neither are safe justvyet

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respect anyone who doesn't want to socially meet yet. But the fact is, we are allowed, and a lot of us want to. No rules are been broken. If people want to socially meet In a pub - its allowed, if people want to meet for lunch - its allowed, if people want to meet for a coffee - its allowed. We shouldn't all be penalised because some people don't want to.

The idiots who abuse the new rules are already out there doing so. We aren't all irresponsible morons & should be given the choice.

If people don't want to meet in accordance with the new rules then don't. Personally we would like the option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I respect anyone who doesn't want to socially meet yet. But the fact is, we are allowed, and a lot of us want to. No rules are been broken. If people want to socially meet In a pub - its allowed, if people want to meet for lunch - its allowed, if people want to meet for a coffee - its allowed. We shouldn't all be penalised because some people don't want to.

The idiots who abuse the new rules are already out there doing so. We aren't all irresponsible morons & should be given the choice.

If people don't want to meet in accordance with the new rules then don't. Personally we would like the option

I'm quite sure you're allowed to ask people you are chatting to if they'd like to meet socially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget the new rules don't start until tomorrow. Maybe the site owners will address things then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely should be a social meets button.

We just paid to renew our membership, I'm not sure why tbh.

People are allowed to meet, with a social distancing, feels a bit like we are been treated like naughty children now which is very patronising. "

That's not the case at all.

You can message people and ask if they want to meet socially whether you are a member or not.

Remember it isn't fab that makes the rules regarding meeting it's the government.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't forget the new rules don't start until tomorrow. Maybe the site owners will address things then. "

The rules on social distancing stay exactly the same.

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge

People are allowed to meet, with a social distancing, feels a bit like we are been treated like naughty children now which is very patronising. "

A lot of people are acting like naughty children, which is not just selfish but suicidal. Go into any supermarket and you won't have to wait five minutes before someone walks past you six inches away because they're so important/in such a hurry/so ****ing selfish that the rules don't apply to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are allowed to meet, with a social distancing, feels a bit like we are been treated like naughty children now which is very patronising.

Your risk is still going to be relatively low provided they don't cough, sneeze or spray spittle over you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are allowed to meet, with a social distancing, feels a bit like we are been treated like naughty children now which is very patronising.

I agree, pisses me off as well.

I'm not disagreeing.

The topic of a social distancing meets option on fab is the issue here.

Maybe if there was some clarity from Fab, of how they will move forward & what phase the country needs to be in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also as others have mentioned not the whole of the UK is the same plus the issue of the local lockdowns.

It's impossible for fab to cover all bases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also as others have mentioned not the whole of the UK is the same plus the issue of the local lockdowns.

It's impossible for fab to cover all bases."

Then them individuals need to live by the law of the local land.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The idiots who abuse the new rules are already out there doing so. We aren't all irresponsible morons & should be given the choice.

If people don't want to meet in accordance with the new rules then don't. Personally we would like the option

You have a good point.

Have you wrote to Admin?

I won't pay for subscription because for £5.00, you aren't able to use all that this site has to offer - advertising meets/searching for meets etc.

So I applaud you for still wanting to support the site and pay for yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also as others have mentioned not the whole of the UK is the same plus the issue of the local lockdowns.

It's impossible for fab to cover all bases.

Then them individuals need to live by the law of the local land. "

But we all do.

I really don't understand the issue.

If you want to meet somebody socially just message and ask them you don't need a button for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also as others have mentioned not the whole of the UK is the same plus the issue of the local lockdowns.

It's impossible for fab to cover all bases.

Then them individuals need to live by the law of the local land.

But we all do.

I really don't understand the issue.

If you want to meet somebody socially just message and ask them you don't need a button for that."

Issue?? There isn't an issue?

We are having a friendly chat about having the availability of an instant search button of who's close & wants a social meet

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I’ve seen lots of posts for people asking to meet socially and even none socially and also seen people giving links to parties and posts insinuating they have just had a sexual meet, so meets are still going on, so do don’t really think the meet button is required that much as people will just post in their status. If you want to meet someone socially just message them and wait for their reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought people reported others, if they asked them via messaging, for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to make a few points.

Meeting two families indoirs is ok in England only (social distance still applies).

Nobody pays a membership..it is site supporter... keeps the site funded and running but voluntary.

Obviously some people are already meeting fully (naughty but their choice)

It does seem ok to include "social" meet in your status...seen lots. So just look at who is local as it shows status.

For the site to encourage sexual meeting in any way could lead to them being shut down so dont expect it anytime soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to make a few points.

Meeting two families indoirs is ok in England only (social distance still applies).

Nobody pays a membership..it is site supporter... keeps the site funded and running but voluntary.

Obviously some people are already meeting fully (naughty but their choice)

It does seem ok to include "social" meet in your status...seen lots. So just look at who is local as it shows status.

For the site to encourage sexual meeting in any way could lead to them being shut down so dont expect it anytime soon."

Or look at updates and you'll see "local" who you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely should be a social meets button.

We just paid to renew our membership, I'm not sure why tbh.

People are allowed to meet, with a social distancing, feels a bit like we are been treated like naughty children now which is very patronising. "

We haven't renwed our couples profile only because we can't meet. Once we can we will renew it. I for one am looking forward to getting back out there and meeting people, even if it's just a social. Also looking forward to clubs, again even as a social environment.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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"Even non playing meets would be nice. After 12 weeks of lockdown a social and bit of flirting would be amazing, save me talking to myself all the time

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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"Definitely should be a social meets button.

We just paid to renew our membership, I'm not sure why tbh.

People are allowed to meet, with a social distancing, feels a bit like we are been treated like naughty children now which is very patronising. "

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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If people keep an eye on the link connected to the meet section it will let you know any updates. Social meets were covered in the June 1st update.

Obviously different parts of the country have different rules so check those too

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But isn't fab based in England?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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Do you mean the UK?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well England is in the UK so 'based in the UK' as in aren't you based in London or somewhere?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok rather than me keep answering lets get to the point of your comments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will fab address things after the new easing of the lockdown tomorrow?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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"If people keep an eye on the link connected to the meet section it will let you know any updates. Social meets were covered in the June 1st update.

Obviously different parts of the country have different rules so check those too

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people keep an eye on the link connected to the meet section it will let you know any updates. Social meets were covered in the June 1st update.

Obviously different parts of the country have different rules so check those too

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

"Seen as though 2 households can now meet and clubs are opening as bars shouldn’t the option to meet be added back on to Fab?

I’m aware no one should be meeting to play but people aren’t getting the option to meet socially.

I would like to see this return too

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

One option for the site might be a new ‘eye test’ option

Where users can find and be able to go and see other users willing to perform eye tests - which as we know from their statements are allowed by the government

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to make a few points.

Meeting two families indoirs is ok in England only (social distance still applies).

Nobody pays a membership..it is site supporter... keeps the site funded and running but voluntary.

Obviously some people are already meeting fully (naughty but their choice)

It does seem ok to include "social" meet in your status...seen lots. So just look at who is local as it shows status.

For the site to encourage sexual meeting in any way could lead to them being shut down so dont expect it anytime soon."

... Now I've learnt something today...

Never knew you could add social meet to a status, without a reprimand.

Thanks for the info, appreciate it x

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By *onnnngSchllllongMan
over a year ago

Nr Chorley

Well said.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Why not try a zoom meeting, as a 'social' if flirting and attraction happens, will lead to play, and you'd be kidding yourself If you said otherwise. We had a very nice zoom social a few weeks back with a delightful couple, 4 hrs of chat laughter, then took laptop upstairs, where we could see everything, and they could see us.. A perfect evening..

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

From a personal point of view I really cannot understand why it is so important to arrange social meets at the present time. Surely meetings with family and friends etc outweigh the need for any other type of meetings whether social or otherwise..

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"From a personal point of view I really cannot understand why it is so important to arrange social meets at the present time. Surely meetings with family and friends etc outweigh the need for any other type of meetings whether social or otherwise.."
because some folk just look after themselves.. And don't see the bigger picture!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?"

You're saying you have absolutely no family or friends? Frankly I cannot believe that, sorry..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather than meeting basically strangers off here for a social meet where distancing still applies wouldn't you prefer to meet family or real world friends?Even if you meet your family or friends you're still not allowed to even hug,not even grand kids,surely we all have folk more important in our lives we would like to meet rather than strangers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happened to being kind ?

As long as social distancing is being maintained, why would people begrudge others this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happened to being kind ?

As long as social distancing is being maintained, why would people begrudge others this?"

Because as selfish as they believe we are, or dont believe some of us dont have family to meet then we lie apparently.

What's wrong with meeting socially for the reasons we joined?

I'm over the moon for those who have

parents/grandparents/grandchildren/anties/uncles/neighbor's goldfish they want to see from tomorrow.

Some of us are that sad we love fab socials. So shoot us

So bloody judgemental.

If you dont wanna meet then DONT.

Leave the rest of us who do in peace without judgement!!!!

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By *addysdadCouple
over a year ago

southern Cumbria

"What happened to being kind ?

As long as social distancing is being maintained, why would people begrudge others this?

Because as selfish as they believe we are, or dont believe some of us dont have family to meet then we lie apparently.

What's wrong with meeting socially for the reasons we joined?

I'm over the moon for those who have

parents/grandparents/grandchildren/anties/uncles/neighbor's goldfish they want to see from tomorrow.

Some of us are that sad we love fab socials. So shoot us

So bloody judgemental.

If you dont wanna meet then DONT.

Leave the rest of us who do in peace without judgement!!!!

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"What happened to being kind ?

As long as social distancing is being maintained, why would people begrudge others this?

Because as selfish as they believe we are, or dont believe some of us dont have family to meet then we lie apparently.

What's wrong with meeting socially for the reasons we joined?

I'm over the moon for those who have

parents/grandparents/grandchildren/anties/uncles/neighbor's goldfish they want to see from tomorrow.

Some of us are that sad we love fab socials. So shoot us

So bloody judgemental.

If you dont wanna meet then DONT.

Leave the rest of us who do in peace without judgement!!!!

Well put

(Still your round by the way)

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

"Definitely should be a social meets button.

We just paid to renew our membership, I'm not sure why tbh.

People are allowed to meet, with a social distancing, feels a bit like we are been treated like naughty children now which is very patronising. "

I agree with you.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

There is nothing to stop people putting a status up asking for social meets or to message people to arrange something. You don't need Fab to reinstate the meets tab for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing folk seem to forget is that this pandemic which has killed hundreds of thousands started with just a few people in a city on the other side of the world and hasn't "gone away".If just a few people act like selfish morons it could soon be back to how it was a few weeks back in the UK,with a few hundred people(maybe a few thousand!) dying daily:-we all have to be sensible ans swe have to stop thinking things are more or less normal,they're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things are NOT normal. People are happy to track & trace in a socially distancing meet in a public place. We can't live in total lockdown forever. The PM of the country says we can go out (apart from certain areas, I hope those locals stay home, stay safe & wait), socialize & live a little in a responsible way.

Yesssss there will always be dickheads, why tar everyone with the same brush.

We ARE allowed to socialize, agree or disagree it's a FACT.

You dont like it? Stay home & write to the governor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One thing folk seem to forget is that this pandemic which has killed hundreds of thousands started with just a few people in a city on the other side of the world and hasn't "gone away".If just a few people act like selfish morons it could soon be back to how it was a few weeks back in the UK,with a few hundred people(maybe a few thousand!) dying daily:-we all have to be sensible ans swe have to stop thinking things are more or less normal,they're not"

If people are observing a 2 metre distance, isn't that sensible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I say, it might just be a walk in the park and talking to each other - just for an hour!

No physical contact at all and being aware of personal space!

I've been shopping for twenty minutes today and crossed sections with alsorts of strangers near me, who were being absolutely selfish about my space!

Can't see a problem with distance sitting/walking in a large space/area away from others in the community!

Am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once Fab, obviously the be all and end all

, says we can meet in person, even for a social, I'll be pleased.

My priority has been to see my family and friends, which I have done socially distance rules applied, which made me really happy and appreciative of how those following the rules have behaved

Put a little love in your heart!

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

If people are observing a 2 metre distance, isn't that sensible?"

But we all know there are people on here who have been meeting without social distancing throughout lockdown. If fab reinstate the meets tab, even on a social distancing basis, people will abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is first and foremost a swinging site,where you basically are meeting strangers for sex,if you are a woman on here and arrange to meet a guy off here for a "social meet" how many of those guys do you think wont be thinking there will be a chance for at least a quickie?(and maybe the women too!)we do get it but surely there are far better ways to meet people socially than arranging through a site where most of the members are here for NSA fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worse ways to meet people.

I respect everyone's opinion. None of you are wrong. Respect us as well.

One way or another over time it will happen again.

If you dont want to use a "meets option" in the near future then dont

Why deny others.

Urghhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is first and foremost a swinging site,where you basically are meeting strangers for sex,if you are a woman on here and arrange to meet a guy off here for a "social meet" how many of those guys do you think wont be thinking there will be a chance for at least a quickie?(and maybe the women too!)we do get it but surely there are far better ways to meet people socially than arranging through a site where most of the members are here for NSA fun!"

Are you saying I have no choice to say NO - or expecting me to shag anyone?

I'd might meet someone over the age of 35, who can keep his dick in his pants. I'm sure his mindset, will be mature enough to know when a social is a social.

If we organise it enough, we could sit opposite and have a drink too.

I'd have something to say if he starts pulling his pants down in public!

Btw: before lockdown it was rare I'd shag straight after it. Whats the difference with my mindset now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you saying I have no choice to say NO - or expecting me to shag anyone?

I'd might meet someone over the age of 35, who can keep his dick in his pants. I'm sure his mindset, will be mature enough to know when a social is a social.

If we organise it enough, we could sit opposite and have a drink too.

I'd have something to say if he starts pulling his pants down in public!

Btw: before lockdown it was rare I'd shag straight after it. Whats the difference with my mindset now! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?

You're saying you have absolutely no family or friends? Frankly I cannot believe that, sorry.."

Yes disowned for being gay ( that actually happens)

I live in a new area so don't know anyone so you can believe that!

Not everyone has the love or support of family or friends when they need it, some of us actually are on our.

Some of us were rejected for being gay some of us are on our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?

You're saying you have absolutely no family or friends? Frankly I cannot believe that, sorry.."

Frankly I cannot believe that you are so narrow minded and actually think that everyone has a million friends, and a family that actually wants to know them and not reject them or disown.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Lots are just arranging social meets through private messaging.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It clearly says on my profile that first meets are always just a social. If a guy doesn't like it then he can move on. All my meets have never expected anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?

You're saying you have absolutely no family or friends? Frankly I cannot believe that, sorry..

Yes disowned for being gay ( that actually happens)

I live in a new area so don't know anyone so you can believe that!

Not everyone has the love or support of family or friends when they need it, some of us actually are on our.

Some of us were rejected for being gay some of us are on our own

Aw man, so sorry this happened to you. In this day amd age as well! Unbelievable!

#loveislove

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I hear a lot of peeps banging on about government guidance and even guidance from Fab..... Really? If you aint got the common sense to realise what has gone on around you and still going on then your a liability to yourself and others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots are just arranging social meets through private messaging."

I'm going to start doing that.

I just thought Admin of this site, gave out warnings!

Obviously I'm wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hear a lot of peeps banging on about government guidance and even guidance from Fab..... Really? If you aint got the common sense to realise what has gone on around you and still going on then your a liability to yourself and others"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?

You're saying you have absolutely no family or friends? Frankly I cannot believe that, sorry..

Yes disowned for being gay ( that actually happens)

I live in a new area so don't know anyone so you can believe that!

Not everyone has the love or support of family or friends when they need it, some of us actually are on our.

Some of us were rejected for being gay some of us are on our own

Aw man, so sorry this happened to you. In this day amd age as well! Unbelievable!

#loveislove "

It's the fact that when I say I don't have friends or family support anymore people can't seem to believe it because they think I look like I have lots of friends.

I get it that a lot of attached people are happy to wait indefinitely, but when you are on your own, lonely, have mental health issues and can't find human contact due to scare mongering and "breaches" my only outlet is to use a Bloody forum to chat.

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

We just paid to renew our membership, I'm not sure why tbh.

I've just paid to renew mine and know exactly why. This is a community worth supporting.

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over a year ago

We just paid to renew our membership, I'm not sure why tbh.

I've just paid to renew mine and know exactly why. This is a community worth supporting. "

Lol yer

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Lots are just arranging social meets through private messaging.

I'm going to start doing that.

I just thought Admin of this site, gave out warnings!

Obviously I'm wrong. "

I dont know about the warnings but I guess if they find out (not sure how they would) then maybe there would be consequences x

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over a year ago

We just paid to renew our membership, I'm not sure why tbh.

I've just paid to renew mine and know exactly why. This is a community worth supporting. "

A toxic community at times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?

You're saying you have absolutely no family or friends? Frankly I cannot believe that, sorry..

Yes disowned for being gay ( that actually happens)

I live in a new area so don't know anyone so you can believe that!

Not everyone has the love or support of family or friends when they need it, some of us actually are on our.

Some of us were rejected for being gay some of us are on our own

Aw man, so sorry this happened to you. In this day amd age as well! Unbelievable!

#loveislove

It's the fact that when I say I don't have friends or family support anymore people can't seem to believe it because they think I look like I have lots of friends.

Use your status facility hun to advertise.

Go through search

Then read profiles, see who doesn't mind meeting for a social.

Start tomorrow, see what happens x

My advice

Good luck X

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over a year ago

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?

You're saying you have absolutely no family or friends? Frankly I cannot believe that, sorry..

Yes disowned for being gay ( that actually happens)

I live in a new area so don't know anyone so you can believe that!

Not everyone has the love or support of family or friends when they need it, some of us actually are on our.

Some of us were rejected for being gay some of us are on our own

Aw man, so sorry this happened to you. In this day amd age as well! Unbelievable!

#loveislove

It's the fact that when I say I don't have friends or family support anymore people can't seem to believe it because they think I look like I have lots of friends.

Sometimes Forums can be fun. There are arseholes in every walk of life and Fab is no exception.

I would suggest staying away from the more....'serious' forum topics and go on the funny ones if you are feeling a bit fragile. Or if you like a bit of an outlet for your negative feelings, crack on!

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over a year ago

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?

You're saying you have absolutely no family or friends? Frankly I cannot believe that, sorry..

Yes disowned for being gay ( that actually happens)

I live in a new area so don't know anyone so you can believe that!

Not everyone has the love or support of family or friends when they need it, some of us actually are on our.

Some of us were rejected for being gay some of us are on our own

Aw man, so sorry this happened to you. In this day amd age as well! Unbelievable!

#loveislove

It's the fact that when I say I don't have friends or family support anymore people can't seem to believe it because they think I look like I have lots of friends.

Use your status facility hun to advertise.

Go through search

Then read profiles, see who doesn't mind meeting for a social.

Start tomorrow, see what happens x

My advice

Good luck X"

You mean my status?

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?

You're saying you have absolutely no family or friends? Frankly I cannot believe that, sorry..

Yes disowned for being gay ( that actually happens)

I live in a new area so don't know anyone so you can believe that!

Not everyone has the love or support of family or friends when they need it, some of us actually are on our.

Some of us were rejected for being gay some of us are on our own

I am not being narrow minded, and I did not say everyone has millions of friends, I passed an opinion which I am entitled to do as are you. I know quite a few people that have been ostracised for being gay and for a multitude of other reasons, however not one of them has at least one person they can turn too at times of need.

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over a year ago

Crazy.....

We have plenty of swinger and non swinger friends to keep us busy to socialise with whilst this goes on.

If you really are that desperate that you need to be able post a meet, then maybe take a step back and work out where you went wrong in life that you need to meet up with strangers to socialise!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?

You're saying you have absolutely no family or friends? Frankly I cannot believe that, sorry..

Yes disowned for being gay ( that actually happens)

I live in a new area so don't know anyone so you can believe that!

Not everyone has the love or support of family or friends when they need it, some of us actually are on our.

Some of us were rejected for being gay some of us are on our own

Aw man, so sorry this happened to you. In this day amd age as well! Unbelievable!

#loveislove

It's the fact that when I say I don't have friends or family support anymore people can't seem to believe it because they think I look like I have lots of friends.

Use your status facility hun to advertise.

Go through search

Then read profiles, see who doesn't mind meeting for a social.

Start tomorrow, see what happens x

My advice

Good luck X

You mean my status?

Personally I wouldn't put it on your status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?

You're saying you have absolutely no family or friends? Frankly I cannot believe that, sorry..

Yes disowned for being gay ( that actually happens)

I live in a new area so don't know anyone so you can believe that!

Not everyone has the love or support of family or friends when they need it, some of us actually are on our.

Some of us were rejected for being gay some of us are on our own

I don't mean to sound snappy, I'm just going through one of my mood shifts ( cyclothymia) it's part of bipolar spectrum so I get argumentative and snappy for anything.

Unfortunately any friends I had are long gone, as for my family I haven't seen or spoke to them since 2007 and any attempt was met with hostility from them.

So I just moved around and drifted looking to fit in and here I am in Plymouth in a tenancy that I did and didn't want long term but here I am.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Lots are just arranging social meets through private messaging.

I'm going to start doing that.

I just thought Admin of this site, gave out warnings!

Obviously I'm wrong. "

As a moderator posted further up, since June 1st social meets are OK if people want to arrange them, only people trying to arrange sex meets would be given warnings

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

What if you're single, have no family or friends? Are we supposed to just wait it out too?

You're saying you have absolutely no family or friends? Frankly I cannot believe that, sorry..

Yes disowned for being gay ( that actually happens)

I live in a new area so don't know anyone so you can believe that!

Not everyone has the love or support of family or friends when they need it, some of us actually are on our.

Some of us were rejected for being gay some of us are on our own

I don't mean to sound snappy, I'm just going through one of my mood shifts ( cyclothymia) it's part of bipolar spectrum so I get argumentative and snappy for anything.

Unfortunately any friends I had are long gone, as for my family I haven't seen or spoke to them since 2007 and any attempt was met with hostility from them.

So I just moved around and drifted looking to fit in and here I am in Plymouth in a tenancy that I did and didn't want long term but here I am."

I wish you the best..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots are just arranging social meets through private messaging.

I'm going to start doing that.

I just thought Admin of this site, gave out warnings!

Obviously I'm wrong.

As a moderator posted further up, since June 1st social meets are OK if people want to arrange them, only people trying to arrange sex meets would be given warnings"

Yes I saw it for the first time today....

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you saying I have no choice to say NO - or expecting me to shag anyone?

I'd might meet someone over the age of 35, who can keep his dick in his pants. I'm sure his mindset, will be mature enough to know when a social is a social.

If we organise it enough, we could sit opposite and have a drink too.

I'd have something to say if he starts pulling his pants down in public!

Btw: before lockdown it was rare I'd shag straight after it. Whats the difference with my mindset now! "

What we are saying is this is a site for swingers and swingers do in general join these sites for sex not to “go and have coffee and a chat” if you’re not a swinger there are loads of normal dating sites that could be used to arrange socials far easier with others who aren’t on a site specifically set up for meeting for sex,who may also be lonely

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over a year ago

"Crazy.....

We have plenty of swinger and non swinger friends to keep us busy to socialise with whilst this goes on.

If you really are that desperate that you need to be able post a meet, then maybe take a step back and work out where you went wrong in life that you need to meet up with strangers to socialise! "

Yeah I was busy with two kids as a single Mother.

Work colleagues are long gone for the moment, as I left work in December, through bone problems in my feet!

I really love talking about my current situation (not), as it always comes across as needy in a public domain, plus I don't want ppl to know about my private life.

Wish either of you two lovely people were single, because you'd find life a whole lot different balancing everything on your own.

Social life is finished when other factors are in question!

I'm grateful to see couples on this thread and to read how their mindset is towards other single swingers/kinkster types.

It goes to show how mentally miles apart we really are and what you really think of us singletons.

Thanks for your imput!

I'm certainly enjoying the threads today x

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over a year ago

Are you saying I have no choice to say NO - or expecting me to shag anyone?

I'd might meet someone over the age of 35, who can keep his dick in his pants. I'm sure his mindset, will be mature enough to know when a social is a social.

If we organise it enough, we could sit opposite and have a drink too.

I'd have something to say if he starts pulling his pants down in public!

Btw: before lockdown it was rare I'd shag straight after it. Whats the difference with my mindset now!

Are you kidding? The forums are awash with swingers who never have sex

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over a year ago

Are you saying I have no choice to say NO - or expecting me to shag anyone?

I'd might meet someone over the age of 35, who can keep his dick in his pants. I'm sure his mindset, will be mature enough to know when a social is a social.

If we organise it enough, we could sit opposite and have a drink too.

I'd have something to say if he starts pulling his pants down in public!

Btw: before lockdown it was rare I'd shag straight after it. Whats the difference with my mindset now!

No I'm saying I enjoy the social element before swinging, without having to be half undressed...

Can't socialise in clubs, atm, so this is the second best thing.

I can have sex straight away when clubs open.

I've been known to strip off before I've even got to the lockeroom honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an aside no matter what guidelines are brought in does anyone think it will be safe or even sensible to have “swinging meets” until a working vaccine is developed and in widespread use?we think it will be months before things are anything like normal

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over a year ago

Btw: sorry to be a bore..

But my last club visit was January, I talked to a cpl all night, and for fun, asked the male half, if he would be tied up in stirrups whilst I wanked and sucked him off. His wife was watching, wide eyed and smiling.

He came in seconds as soon as I put lube on...

Had a load of fun in clubs.

I class myself as a swinger...

Enjoyed a lot of group play and been to a cpls house to role play!

Cpls have always been friendly towards me.

We'll leave it at that......

I just want to be able to advertise on my profile for social meets!

See if anything changes with Admin and their updates tomorrow.

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over a year ago

"Crazy.....

We have plenty of swinger and non swinger friends to keep us busy to socialise with whilst this goes on.

If you really are that desperate that you need to be able post a meet, then maybe take a step back and work out where you went wrong in life that you need to meet up with strangers to socialise!

Yeah I was busy with two kids as a single Mother.

Work colleagues are long gone for the moment, as I left work in December, through bone problems in my feet!

I really love talking about my current situation (not), as it always comes across as needy in a public domain, plus I don't want ppl to know about my private life.

Wish either of you two lovely people were single, because you'd find life a whole lot different balancing everything on your own.

Social life is finished when other factors are in question!

I'm grateful to see couples on this thread and to read how their mindset is towards other single swingers/kinkster types.

It goes to show how mentally miles apart we really are and what you really think of us singletons.

Thanks for your imput!

I'm certainly enjoying the threads today x"

Aww, our point is aimed at the OP (a couple) and couples in general, we understand how difficult for singles it is, having 3 single lady fab friends we see and speak to regularly although only socially at the moment, we feel your pain.

But honestly if a couple can’t enjoy each other sexually for a year without the absolute need to play with others and to not have friends both swingers and non swingers to keep there social life busy, then something is very wrong....

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over a year ago

"As an aside no matter what guidelines are brought in does anyone think it will be safe or even sensible to have “swinging meets” until a working vaccine is developed and in widespread use?we think it will be months before things are anything like normal"
In 1919 virus 90,000 died, 1957 80,000, 1968 60,000 dead no vaccine yet for any of these virus. They mutated and come back every year as the flu, don't hold your breath for a vaccine.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Crazy.....

We have plenty of swinger and non swinger friends to keep us busy to socialise with whilst this goes on.

If you really are that desperate that you need to be able post a meet, then maybe take a step back and work out where you went wrong in life that you need to meet up with strangers to socialise!

Yeah I was busy with two kids as a single Mother.

Work colleagues are long gone for the moment, as I left work in December, through bone problems in my feet!

I really love talking about my current situation (not), as it always comes across as needy in a public domain, plus I don't want ppl to know about my private life.

Wish either of you two lovely people were single, because you'd find life a whole lot different balancing everything on your own.

Social life is finished when other factors are in question!

I'm grateful to see couples on this thread and to read how their mindset is towards other single swingers/kinkster types.

It goes to show how mentally miles apart we really are and what you really think of us singletons.

Thanks for your imput!

I'm certainly enjoying the threads today x

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over a year ago

"Crazy.....

We have plenty of swinger and non swinger friends to keep us busy to socialise with whilst this goes on.

If you really are that desperate that you need to be able post a meet, then maybe take a step back and work out where you went wrong in life that you need to meet up with strangers to socialise!

Yeah I was busy with two kids as a single Mother.

Work colleagues are long gone for the moment, as I left work in December, through bone problems in my feet!

I really love talking about my current situation (not), as it always comes across as needy in a public domain, plus I don't want ppl to know about my private life.

Wish either of you two lovely people were single, because you'd find life a whole lot different balancing everything on your own.

Social life is finished when other factors are in question!

I'm grateful to see couples on this thread and to read how their mindset is towards other single swingers/kinkster types.

It goes to show how mentally miles apart we really are and what you really think of us singletons.

Thanks for your imput!

I'm certainly enjoying the threads today x

Actually 500 plus and that’s the point, when it’s safe to do so we will be active again, it’s fun, but at the moment we can socialise with friends and enjoy each other.

What was your point?

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over a year ago

"As an aside no matter what guidelines are brought in does anyone think it will be safe or even sensible to have “swinging meets” until a working vaccine is developed and in widespread use?we think it will be months before things are anything like normalIn 1919 virus 90,000 died, 1957 80,000, 1968 60,000 dead no vaccine yet for any of these virus. They mutated and come back every year as the flu, don't hold your breath for a vaccine. "

Apparently it isn’t mutating as fast as influenza but the dates you give were influenza epidemics and we do vaccinate against that now but granted it isn’t 100%sure of protecting people

1918-19 Spanish flu,1957asian flu,1968 Hong Kong flu 2020 according to dick head trump Kung flu

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over a year ago

PS if want to be really frighted look up how many folk died of smallpox in early part of 20th century pre vaccination and that is probably harder to transmit than Covid 19

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over a year ago

"Crazy.....

We have plenty of swinger and non swinger friends to keep us busy to socialise with whilst this goes on.

If you really are that desperate that you need to be able post a meet, then maybe take a step back and work out where you went wrong in life that you need to meet up with strangers to socialise!

Yeah I was busy with two kids as a single Mother.

Work colleagues are long gone for the moment, as I left work in December, through bone problems in my feet!

I really love talking about my current situation (not), as it always comes across as needy in a public domain, plus I don't want ppl to know about my private life.

Wish either of you two lovely people were single, because you'd find life a whole lot different balancing everything on your own.

Social life is finished when other factors are in question!

I'm grateful to see couples on this thread and to read how their mindset is towards other single swingers/kinkster types.

It goes to show how mentally miles apart we really are and what you really think of us singletons.

Thanks for your imput!

I'm certainly enjoying the threads today x

Actually 500 plus and that’s the point, when it’s safe to do so we will be active again, it’s fun, but at the moment we can socialise with friends and enjoy each other.

What was your point? "

I haven't got one..

I was just interested in your sweeping demoralising statement! I thought it was for all, as it wasn't attached to anyone's post!

Still though, we really don't actually know about anybodies life, do we, to make such assumptions!

Just my thought!

No nasty bite intended!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice, casual social would be lovely though. Make future plans if all happy to. Doesn't need to be sex,sex, sex.

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over a year ago

"Definitely should be a social meets button.

We just paid to renew our membership, I'm not sure why tbh.

People are allowed to meet, with a social distancing, feels a bit like we are been treated like naughty children now which is very patronising. "

Absolutely agree with it

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over a year ago

Are you saying I have no choice to say NO - or expecting me to shag anyone?

I'd might meet someone over the age of 35, who can keep his dick in his pants. I'm sure his mindset, will be mature enough to know when a social is a social.

If we organise it enough, we could sit opposite and have a drink too.

I'd have something to say if he starts pulling his pants down in public!

Btw: before lockdown it was rare I'd shag straight after it. Whats the difference with my mindset now!

Plenty of swingers have socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they do but it isn’t what folk join this and other sites like this for is it?there are site far more appropriate for arranging social meets than here,but each to their own way of doing things

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over a year ago

"Maybe they do but it isn’t what folk join this and other sites like this for is it?there are site far more appropriate for arranging social meets than here,but each to their own way of doing things"

Most of the self proclaimed proper swingers talk often about how they enjoy the social side of swinging

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"A nice, casual social would be lovely though. Make future plans if all happy to. Doesn't need to be sex,sex, sex. "

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