FabSwingers.com forum: Irony..... Delicious or demotivational?

By *een1x_Bedlam OP Man
over a year ago

Padstow

I've been voyeuring on this site for a good couple of months now and have cum to realise the catch 22.

It seems that without a verification you won't meet anyone, and, without a meet- you can't get verified!

Now normally I find Irony quite delicious and revel (don't like the orange ones) in its cosmic application to the human condition, however, with this site I'm finding it a tad annoying and a little demotivational.

Yes, I know... We're all here for the same thing, and, yes, I know, that there's a large element of exhibitionist narcissism. However, at some point one MUST realise that it's slightly purpose defeating?

I abide by the etiquette of messaging before friend requesting, I also dissect profiles to add that personal touch- I'm not a copy pasta person. It's also annoying when you get a one liner message in response to the "one line messages to us will get deleted" etc on profiles. If there are photos on public view, I WILL Fab them.

Has anyone else discovered this stumbling block and if so, how are you finding it?

Feedback would be good, as all the people who've declined my enquiries don't bother to clarify why.

Thank-you for your co-operation and Safe Fabbing!