FabSwingers.com: B (48) , Man in Padstow, South West, UK

During a conversation it was pointed out that my profile may be a little "scary". I make no bones for being what I am, who I am, my experiences, achievements and capacities. I'm not claiming to know myself 100%,however, what I do know about "me" is a lot more than what others will know about themselves. If you're scared by words, thoughts and ideas then deeds will petrify you! One's biggest enemy is oneself, it's only YOU that can stop you dead in your tracks, only YOU that can let your true self down, only YOU who can truly push yourself onward to self-realization and improvement of your "id".....

Sun Tzu once wrote "Know your enemy and know yourself and you can fight a hundred battles without disaster."

Now.....Having said that and having started on a metaphysical note. Please do read on.

I'm not a Copy Pasta kinda guy and I WILL read your profile from cover to cover, so as to find out a bit about you and reply effectively. The personal touch is always better than a Copy and Pasted profile lift, don't you agree? Would you say the same thing to everyone you meet when you're out and about? It gets a little boring and tiresome, I'm all about imagination, broadening horizons and pushing boundaries. If you don't have even those basics, then I'm not interested. Oh yeah, I'm brutally honest BTW so if you don't want a raw and honest answer to your questions- don't ask!

Having said that all this and you're still reading...then I suggest you perhaps read on, no, go on, you know you want to now.....? Really, you do.........

I work hard and play harder, former restaurant manager in the Channel Islands and semi-pro photographer... Previous Assistant Manager of a very nice little Pub in Streatley, UK (Jerome K Jerome would be proud).... A total Muso from Metal to Dubstep (Although Orbital will always be top of my music loves), also a bit of a movie buff too. Plus, working in the hospitality trade for a while now, I'm bit of a foodie (yes ladies,I can cook too!) and I do like a really good drop of Wine too. A former cocktail barman and animal lover also (from Furries to Scalies).

I've been told that my cheekiness and sense of humour can be a bit razor sharp sometimes, and sometimes too much for my own good, it must be my Peter Pan personality or something ;) LOL, I'm fairly well read (although my hair has been blue ;) ), and like long walks in the country or on the beach (which means I can take my camera out as well - photos, photos, photos!! Lol), I'm also a former Biker (used to ride a 2011 Suzuki GSXR 1000 from 0 miles on the clock), a writer of poetry (I've been published once) and prose - having had my published piece of poetry set to music on an album of Harp Music (ex fiance)- Which I helped set up and helped to record it, including a remix of Skin and Bones by the Foo Fighters.

Read on for more or click back for less.... I'm sure you're over 18 and can make your own informed decisions?

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+Looking for some NSA fun, from Vanilla to BDSM D/s badness ;) BDSM preferred though.

+Looking for that little Lens Hot "Lolita" or Red Hot more "Mature" lady.

+Looking for new & fun friendships.

+RPG and fantasies catered for.

~Before you ask~

*Yes, I'm a Master/Sir/Daddy Dom

*NO! NOT like (puke) Mr Grey, I'm the real thing...and because of that- a lot better.

(No, that's not an arrogant boast.. THAT'S my confidence in my own current capabilities and future potential)

*I do have a lovely little Toybox that has some new,as yet, untried pieces in it. They need to be "broken in", so to speak......

Curious? Be Alice and take a leap down the Rabbit hole, message me and see how deep the hole goes (so to speak).....

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Exhibitionist

100% Dominant

100% Degrader

100% Voyeur

100% Rigger

100% Master/Mistress

100% Daddy/Mommy

100% Primal (Hunter)

98% Owner

94% Sadist

84% Non-monogamist

78% Experimentalist

47% Ageplayer

4% Masochist

1% Brat

1% Boy/Girl

1% Primal (Prey)

1% Vanilla

0% Rope bunny

0% Slave

0% Degradee

0% Submissive

0% Pet

0% Switch

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