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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've looked at alot of couple profiles recently and it amazes me how may couples don't want to have a single guy join them. So I'd. Love to hear from couples in why you don't like meeting single guys please just really interested in your opinions

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Because most men have a fantasy of seeing two women together, simples!

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Basically, we turned messages from single guys off because of the utter rubbish we receive on a day to day basis from single guys. It's taken the fun right out of it!

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By *urFantasy21Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It depends how we feel.

But as swingers our preference is to have couple swapping and all the different scenarios we can both enjoy especially as a bisexual woman.

With a single guy although still fun it's more limited.

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By *he Old School RockersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Because they're abusive, they want too much, they ignore profiles, because the male half doesn't want to be left out, we are not into cuck or D/s, because we want a full swap with other couples, or simply because we don't get what we want from a single guy.

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Because a majority of single males don't read profiles

They mainly direct the messages towards the female half of the couple (our profile says it's the male half that deals with fab)

They send sick pictures with the first message

They always try and turn a brief conversation into sexting

And a lot of them throw a hissy fit and get abusive when they are told no thanks

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By *ray_BTWMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Because they're abusive, they want too much, they ignore profiles, because the male half doesn't want to be left out, we are not into cuck or D/s, because we want a full swap with other couples, or simply because we don't get what we want from a single guy."
don't tar all single guys with the same brush ?????

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By *he Old School RockersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Unfortunately, the majority spoil it for the minority. I agree that not all are the same, but most fall into this category.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couples profile, we don't meet men simply because I'm not interested in other men.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

May be they are a couple looking to swap with another couple. In which case a single male brings nothing to the party; in a lot of cases they actually leave their other half at home.

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By *nesCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

Because they’re ten a penny and most are here looking for casual sex, having completed the dating apps and defeated the final boss.

Many seem to have confused ‘swinging’ with casual sex.

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By *nesCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams


"Because they're abusive, they want too much, they ignore profiles, because the male half doesn't want to be left out, we are not into cuck or D/s, because we want a full swap with other couples, or simply because we don't get what we want from a single guy. don't tar all single guys with the same brush ?????"

They’re perfectly capable of doing that themselves.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

Because couples who like to swap partners have no interest in single men.

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By *nesCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

👏

^ this

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By *nickerDropperGlory69Man
over a year ago

cavan town

Why are you not looking for anyone over 75?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok full disclosure.

Having had several profiles on here over nearly 9 years. I've learned a lot.

I have a single male profile. We have a verified couples profile, and she has a verified single female profile.

Guess what and why? To find out the mindset of a guy who messages us.

We have had the same guy being all fucking sweet and nice in the couples profile, treating her like a piece of meat in her singles profile, and being a cunt to me in my single male profile.

He had no idea about the connection of the profiles. It doesn't work all the time, but we catch a few real questionable people on this website that can actually do someone some real harm.

Decent single guys are out there, and they'll understand why we do it. Any other guy triggered by this, is the problem.

Because there are some scummy single males out there, we have to play a better game before anyone gets with us. I'm not going to put my partner in danger for some fool or my naievity.

We dont block single males, we let them message because it let's us know who to fucking trust. Simple as that.

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By *hrisy69Man
over a year ago

chester/hawarden


"Unfortunately, the majority spoil it for the minority. I agree that not all are the same, but most fall into this category."

Exactly this or they just want to meet couples.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Why are you not looking for anyone over 75? "

Maybe they don't want to 🤔

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