FabSwingers.com forum: What am I doing wrong?

By *g0359 OP Man
over a year ago

Widnes

What am I doing wrong here. Ladies and couples look at my profile I message them and they don't even respond even to say no thanks. Am beginning to give up on this site. What's a guy gotta do.

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By *sJay76Man
over a year ago

Minehead

Don't take it to heart mate.

It's the same for most single males.

If you're not perfect which none of us are then you're fighting a losing battle, for some reason many couples and single females think they are better than us and look down on us, if that's the case then you don't want to meet anyone like that anyway.

It will happen for you, as it did for me, but it's a waiting game, unfortunately it is a lot worse on here now than it was a few years ago.

Good luck though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a fairly poor site to be honest with you. Lots of fake profiles & genuine couples or rare single females are inundated. I just use it to watch the videos & look at photos. You meet better people by just going to a club I find .

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What am I doing wrong here. Ladies and couples look at my profile I message them and they don't even respond even to say no thanks. Am beginning to give up on this site. What's a guy gotta do."

Maybe you could make some changes to your profile text and pics ?

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By *g0359 OP Man
over a year ago

Widnes

Thank you buddy

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By *g0359 OP Man
over a year ago

Widnes

Thank you hun. X

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By *PLmale33Man
over a year ago

Bootle

In my honest opinion, the profile pic looks a bit scary with the scrapped out face.

I'd maybe consider changing to a arty body shot instead.

Just my opinion

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By *g0359 OP Man
over a year ago

Widnes

Fair play. Never thought of that

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By *PLmale33Man
over a year ago

Bootle

"Fair play. Never thought of that"

Cool

Didn't want it to come across mean..

If you don't wanna show face, just crop it

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By *sexypsychoWoman
over a year ago

Rossendale

I would suggest looking at other profiles and seeing what others say - mine for example hopefully shows that I am have a naughty sense of humour and it’s not just talk - as I defo do the bill and ben voices cos it makes me laugh lol

Add some private pics for friends only and yeah I would consider changing your profile pic to one that isn’t scraped out as to be honest that would put me off - sorry

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve only been on Fab for 3 weeks

Patience OP

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Give the reader something about you as a person..love of arts, whisky hockey, whatever which connects you to some people here.

Change your pic and have a couple more in a fun setting.

Have Friends only pics to show more...encouraging people to explore.

Have fun finding the best way to share your assets. Chris

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"What am I doing wrong here. Ladies and couples look at my profile I message them and they don't even respond even to say no thanks. Am beginning to give up on this site. What's a guy gotta do."

What's a guy got to do?

Simple. Use all of the tools Fab gives you.

The opportunity to write and informative biog.

The opportunity to host a range of decent photos.

The opportunity to interact with other members on the forums.

To send messages.

To attend group socials.

To visit clubs, it even allows you to visit their websites and read their reviews.

How many of those functions do you use to the fullest?

Winston

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