FabSwingers.com forum: What iam i doing wrong

By *aintant OP Man
over a year ago

ST. HELENS

Just wondering if iam doing anything wrong on here cant seem to get a meet

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Try the club scene in the north west plenty going on up there and gives you an opportunity to meet a variety of people

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By *inkyh1974Woman
over a year ago

burgess hill

Are you just messaging women asking for sex or are you trying engage them in chat? So many men see women on here as just waiting for a guy to ask to fuvk thrm. It doesn't work like that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try going to clubs and socials

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Just wondering if iam doing anything wrong on here cant seem to get a meet "

Well I just looked at your profile. It would be a no thank you

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By *aintant OP Man
over a year ago

ST. HELENS

Why ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Same here

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"Why ?"

Do you really not know the answer to that OP??

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By *aintant OP Man
over a year ago

ST. HELENS

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By *aintant OP Man
over a year ago

ST. HELENS

Same here ?

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"?"

One sentence profile.

Excellent.

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By *aintant OP Man
over a year ago

ST. HELENS

Ill try to fill it out betrer thanks

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By *aintant OP Man
over a year ago

ST. HELENS

Is the profile better

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Your profile isn't very appealing to most women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't it be better just help the guy instead of speaking to him like a duck seems hes just after some help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Build a relationship with some people don’t always expect things to happen as it won’t and most off be respectful towards any lady or man you speak with. Doesn’t always work but will help you.

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By *aintant OP Man
over a year ago

ST. HELENS

Thank you

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"Is the profile better"

No it isn't.

Our initial thoughts are that you may have the wrong idea of this site.

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"Wouldn't it be better just help the guy instead of speaking to him like a duck seems hes just after some help "

There is loads of self help out there.

Maybe he could try and help himself??

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Op search the forum as other users have asked similar as yourself and their is plenty of helpful advice scroll through it

Profile advice/help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You probably won't get one,

Most the tiny population women just trawl like the very large male one,

Familiar pop' women that tell each other behind, and your neighbors

Validated women can sting the most esp when they see it's worth while.

Often you don't see genuine here, just show offs and shoppers

Hang out tho, there maybe just info to walk from or very coincidence to find

She's always gawping !!

Never getting involved!

Ya could be left with a dribbly one !!

She's probably driving past you in the carpark laughing & hiding !!

Ay he wants a normal !!?! wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe his idea of this site is different than yours everyone one has there own way of doing things

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Wouldn't it be better just help the guy instead of speaking to him like a duck seems hes just after some help "

I'd say no to that.

I personally am fed up of socially inept people having their profiles written for them so they look better than they are.

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By *ands solo 300Man
over a year ago

Gibraltar

It's a cock fest, ladies have the pick of the litter and can afford the bbe choosey your messages get drowned in all the noise from the others.

The frustrating thing is most are fake and full of shit. Most men treat this like a sex catalog or Amazon. The ladies and couples get fed up of it and tar everyone with the same brush.

You just have to persevere it's an odds game eventually you may catch some ones attention.

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By *edgirlWoman
over a year ago

Berkhamsted

As a sub myself, I'd wonder why u want me to gag on your cock without any mention of anything else kink related. Do u even know what a D/s dynamic entails? It certainly isn't just about gagging on your cock lol. I'm afraid you've no hope of attracting any self respecting sub with that profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey bud definitely look to getting out to some clubs. This place is for window shopping. Clubs are where its at as you can talk to people and have a laugh. Clubs is where you can shine.

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By *aintant OP Man
over a year ago

ST. HELENS

Thanks andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks andy"

I was the same bud. Getting know where on here then went to a club and realised alot about FAB. I see it as window shopping where people dont give you a chance and swipe right so to say bud.

Localish to you is Cupids in Swinton just off the east lancs bud. Its worth a trip if you get the chance.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Maybe you feel this is an easy hook up site? but it's for swingers to make connections really. I use it to make friends and get hook ups - easy to do as a woman. As a single guy you need to stand out. If you compare your profile to a successful guys profile, do you stand out?

Socials are great for making connections. so are clubs but they can be more intimidating. To do well here you need to start with making connections and getting known. It gets easier then.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Wouldn't it be better just help the guy instead of speaking to him like a duck seems hes just after some help "

There is plenty of information on fab on how to improve profiles. Most are too lazy to go looking and help themselves.

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By *aintant OP Man
over a year ago

ST. HELENS

Thank you all i finally had my first meet

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

"Thank you all i finally had my first meet"

Congratulations!

Posting on here generated quite a flurry of postings and got lots of people viewing your profile. You also took some of the advice, so you are now launched on the lovely swinging sea.....

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