FabSwingers.com forum: Will single guys meet for a social

By *ex4u4 OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It's in my profile that I'm happy to meet socially first.

Sometimes you end up in bed, other times you don't.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I meet for a social and have done with most of the meets I have had.

For a few of them we have chatted a lot beforehand so pretty much all know we want to play but I always meet on the basis that after a drink or two anyone can say no thanks to playing.

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

We always do some form of meeting because you have no idea who the man is and vice versa. The meeting can be as simple as a meeting in a carpark for a chat in the car. If everyone is comfortable, we then move forwards. We agree that most men are reluctant to do a social meeting because they are generally not single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I can only speak for myself but meeting socially is often fun regardless of if it goes somewhere. It also gives a chance to make a connection and check what you all want. Its one of the things I most enjoy about the club scene but meeting elsewhere is fun as well.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I really enjoy a social, and would agree it makes any eventual sex better.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We could have wrote that post!

A lot of men loose interest as soon as we tell them we want a social especially when they realise it's not going to be straight away as we have a life and have to plan things.

That's fine, we get that's not how everyone wants to do things but we have found it works best for us. We find sex is better with people we get along with and feel comfortable with.

Saying that we have had socials with some great guys which we have gone on to have great play meets with so there are those out there who are willing to put the effort it. It's just finding them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always meet for social only first. If someone doesn't have the time to try to get to know us first (even if only a little) - they're not for us.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

we have found that many single men do not want to meet for a social or maybe it is just us putting them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would and have done, some have led to ghosting lol and some have led to some great times

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

Yes, many single men do meet for socials.

Some men will only meet if they feel that sex is on the cards. Some will meet regardless.

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By *ex4u4 OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"It's in my profile that I'm happy to meet socially first.

Sometimes you end up in bed, other times you don't.

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By *ex4u4 OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"It's in my profile that I'm happy to meet socially first.

Sometimes you end up in bed, other times you don't.

We find its on alot of sgl guys profiles but they still want a promise of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do

we have found that many single men do not want to meet for a social or maybe it is just us putting them off

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I love the idea of a social with a couple! Only ever met singles off here and I think meeting a couple would build the anticipation and could be quite naughty even without ending up in bed straight away!

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

Always happy to meet for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good social...after the sex, i need to know what people are like in bed before I can be seen walking street with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"
i meet for socials and no expectations and would hope that all single guys would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

I also prefer a social first for the same reasons.. I am also happy to play straight after if all agreed. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had a guy back off because I insist on a social first.

I’d see it as a lucky miss if they did, as we likely wouldn’t have been suited

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I would

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By *hostwolfMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

I much prefer social meets first it gives you chance to get a spark going.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"It's in my profile that I'm happy to meet socially first.

Sometimes you end up in bed, other times you don't.

We find its on alot of sgl guys profiles but they still want a promise of sex"

I would prefer to meet for a social. If they don’t tell them to do one!

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do

we have found that many single men do not want to meet for a social or maybe it is just us putting them off

I love the idea of a social with a couple! Only ever met singles off here and I think meeting a couple would build the anticipation and could be quite naughty even without ending up in bed straight away!"

It's so much fun. Sitting in a pub, all dressed up and having a flirt in front of the other customers. Always leaves me very excited if it's gone well

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

I'm more than happy to meet for a social, I have meet couples at clubs, bars and quite happy to meet for a second or third time or just walk away, all i ask is a bit of honesty.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We like socials - we need to click with anyone we are thinking of taking it further with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do

we have found that many single men do not want to meet for a social or maybe it is just us putting them off

It's so much fun. Sitting in a pub, all dressed up and having a flirt in front of the other customers. Always leaves me very excited if it's gone well

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That is exactly what I like the sound of - lady dressed up sexy and the conversation is about sex and fantasies etc and the pub is full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to meet for a social, breaks the ice and calms the nerves a bit should you decide to meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I meet for a social but I'm not looking for couples.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

I have met a specific couple from here purely for drinks and nothing else, and I had a lovely time. So, you’re looking at one guy who meets socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to meet for a social first

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

Always enjoy a good social, like getting to know people, a drink laugh and a bit of banter.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

Yes, I’d insist on a social myself without the expectation of sex the same night.

That’s not to say I wouldn’t be open to it, but I’d prefer to get to know the people first, as I’m not interested in having sex with people I don’t like as humans.

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By *ex4u4 OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

A lot have it in their profile but when it comes down to saying, it’s just a social they lose interest

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By *ex4u4 OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I wish there were others like you

Of course the sex is better with a connection

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"I wish there were others like you

Of course the sex is better with a connection

Why? I’m right here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure there are plenty available for social meets.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do

we have found that many single men do not want to meet for a social or maybe it is just us putting them off

It's so much fun. Sitting in a pub, all dressed up and having a flirt in front of the other customers. Always leaves me very excited if it's gone well

That is exactly what I like the sound of - lady dressed up sexy and the conversation is about sex and fantasies etc and the pub is full "

Subtle touching, flashing a bit of stocking top. Very hot and all part of the build up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's all we'd ever do first anyway, a social then play on another date if Mrs F is interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are good. Helps prevent you feeling you have to have sex when you turn up in person and realise you can't stand them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do

we have found that many single men do not want to meet for a social or maybe it is just us putting them off

It's so much fun. Sitting in a pub, all dressed up and having a flirt in front of the other customers. Always leaves me very excited if it's gone well

That is exactly what I like the sound of - lady dressed up sexy and the conversation is about sex and fantasies etc and the pub is full

Subtle touching, flashing a bit of stocking top. Very hot and all part of the build up."

Totally agree with this!!! A social always builds sexual tension if there’s an attraction.

I do love it when your on a social with no play planned and you’re both contemplating the possibility there and then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it in profile love socials so always happy just to chat

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By *ully_NeathMan
over a year ago

Neath

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By *ornyj37Man
over a year ago

Devon

Single guy here who loves a social too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll only meet for socials by myself. Anything else needs to be with my partner through our couples account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather have a social, and if everything goes well then organise a play meet, if it goes ok but no spark, then hopefully I've made new friends at least.

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I believe that although there are some very genuine guys in Fab, there are a lot of dreamers & keyboard studs, who can type a good game but that’s it.

Married, lack of social skills or just numb ties can be a large contributing factor.

Socials are great fun, expect nothing & you’re never disappointed!!

PS: always happy to do a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be happy to, if I could find people who wanted one with me.

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By *allum29Man
over a year ago

Banbury

I’m single and absolutely a social is a must have. I don’t think I’d be comfortable with not having one.

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By *iggusJimusMan
over a year ago

Accrington

Personally... I'm always happy to meet for a social.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"It's in my profile that I'm happy to meet socially first.

Sometimes you end up in bed, other times you don't.

We find its on alot of sgl guys profiles but they still want a promise of sex"

Many of my veris are just socials. Sexy meets have happened on following meets. We're not all the same. Thankfully. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met 2 or 3 couples for drinks and a chat, knowing full well not to expect ANYTHING.

It's really liberating talking about our desires and being so open about any subject to do with sex.

And we're still friends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet for socials first, how else do you know if you fancy the person, mentally and physically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

Shame your so far away

Sounds perfect. Always like to meet social 1st

Nice to wait that bit longer before the fun . Adds to the anticipation. Relaxed and get comfortable to start .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

I like going on socials, it’s nice to relax and get to know alittle especially when there’s nothing guaranteed as it makes it a more relaxing meet.

Never guarantee anything otherwise it will be sh*t experience.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

We just don't bother with single guys anymore.

We tried numerous times to do a meet with single guys last year.

You'd put in the meet request face pic only, no dick pic. 70% sent dick pics anyway.

Then you get to the suitable guys and start talking. All of them talked the talk but when it came to the last hours before the arranged social meet we just ended up getting fobbed off every time. This even came from accounts with several verification's. One evenly openly admitted to us he'd forgotten the football was on and he wanted to go to the pub with his mates so could we reschedule or could he just pop straight to ours after the match. 30 mins before we where due to head out for the meet!

Not saying all single guys on here are like that but enough was enough when this happened every other weekend for months.

After that, if we want a single guy, we will find one in a club. Far to many jokers and wanna be's on fab.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Love a good social before any play is considered, coffee or stronger - even if it’s agreed that nothing gets progressed further than that!

I don’t understand where people’s manners have gone to in not turning up and going silent, I’d rather know than sit there like a numpty for an hour.

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By *siaessex2Couple
over a year ago

essex

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"
we allways meet for a social first if all ok will meet a week or two later,

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do

We just don't bother with single guys anymore.

We tried numerous times to do a meet with single guys last year.

You'd put in the meet request face pic only, no dick pic. 70% sent dick pics anyway.

Not saying all single guys on here are like that but enough was enough when this happened every other weekend for months.

After that, if we want a single guy, we will find one in a club. Far to many jokers and wanna be's on fab.

Me personally If it was a choice between football or a meet “ the meet would win “ every time, no competition really.

Not bothered about football at the best of times.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We don’t play with single guys but have actually met a couple for socials and verified them. Daytime club meets and group socials see to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only if you're paying

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Personally I prefer to meet for a social, that way you know if there’s an attraction between you xx

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

I would like a social before, had too many people say yes then not turn up at all!

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By *uscularLoveMan
over a year ago

london

Depends on the guys.

The ones who only want sex will meet you with one thing in mind and when they realise it's not on the cards will act vulgar and rude.

The ones who appreciate another person's company and enjoys a harmless encounter with another human being and maybe a light flirt (if your lucky) can be enough for us.

Every guy and girl is different.

I'm sure some girls will feel the same and can get quite desperate if they meet up and the guy doesn't want to fuck.

I've had experiences where they start being rude or hit on random people to make me jelous when I'm just not interested.

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By *layfulAussieMan
over a year ago

Sydney

Absolutely. Let me know when you're in London to catch up

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do

We just don't bother with single guys anymore.

We tried numerous times to do a meet with single guys last year.

You'd put in the meet request face pic only, no dick pic. 70% sent dick pics anyway.

Not saying all single guys on here are like that but enough was enough when this happened every other weekend for months.

After that, if we want a single guy, we will find one in a club. Far to many jokers and wanna be's on fab.

That makes a lot of sense. We met two guys this Sunday daytime in the Purple Mamba club, both really respectful, obviously made an effort and just awesome guys. We said we’d verify them almost as a favour thinking it would help and then we noticed what a huge list of awesome veris they already had. Seems certain clubs attract a much higher calibre of single men than tying to find them here.

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By *annyFickerMan
over a year ago

Not too far away

For me the social side is actually one of the best parts of meeting anyone. However I’ll be honest I’m not actually on Fab mainly for the sex. Being a naturist I’m here to find friends that are naturists and for anyone that’s never tried naturism to join me at weekends to experience the feeling of being clothes free. If sex at the end of a meet happens then great, if not it does not bother me. I have met many friends in the naturist environment some swing some don’t. I personally never expect it. Being a single bloke on any site of this nature is very hard to actually even get a meet social or not.

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By *annyFickerMan
over a year ago

Not too far away

Oh one more thing.

Also I am not a well endowed man just your average or maybe even dare I say it a bit smaller. Meeting for a social first often for me doesn’t make me feel inadequate when all you see on sites like this is the lucky ones who were born with a forearm as a cock.

In naturism you don’t get this judgement but then naturism isn’t actually about sex.

Many couples also advertise for well endowed men only should apply.

Us average guys need some attention as well

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Not only am I ok with socials but given the choice they are my preferred way of introducing myself to a couples especially if they are local to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask for a social initially when meeting either a couple or a single.

Usually works out ok, although not so last week when I was stood up.

Oh well. It’s her loss I guess.

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I rarely meet socially. I'm fine with a little drink and chat before getting down and dirty, but meeting just to socialise just isn't for me. If you just wanted to build a deeper connection with someone before jumping into bed with them, then just stick to dating sites imo

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’d have or have no problems meeting socially, it’s got lead to better fun if there’s a spark

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By *ands solo 300Man
over a year ago

Gibraltar

I would meet for a social first however...

Every single message i send gets mugged off not read or deleted. So ive never got that far.

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By *_91Man
over a year ago

huds

Always happy to meet for a social

definitely makes things less awkward and more enjoyable if things do go further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i will but only if she meets my very strict criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately the forums are never the best place to ask this as most people, I believe, here do do socials.

In the hugely much wider fab world I have found it difficult to meet guys for social only (first) meets, whether this is because they're not single, the fuck n go brigade, socially inept or are just that embarrassed about the whole fab thing I don't know!! Said they'll meet for a coffee then even been asked if it includes play after! I just used it as another filter ... met one guy for a coffee and a year later with no chatting he joined my friend and I an afternoon so just goes to show you that socials work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately the forums are never the best place to ask this as most people, I believe, here do do socials.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

It says on my profile that I would

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I’d happily meet for a social first. I’m comfortable with it, what have I got to lose, a quick coffee and a thanks but no thanks? I’d accept it and move on, life’s too short to dwell on rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would meet for a social as a single male but haven't ever been invited still hoping I don't think my profile is good though and need guidance as to what is wrong with it ,either that or I am too ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would depending on what social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

I always meet guys socially first - it’s non negotiable. If a guy won’t do that then we’re not a good match - simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

I am actively looking for a no pressure social, exactly what your looking for haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do

I always meet guys socially first - it’s non negotiable. If a guy won’t do that then we’re not a good match - simple!

"
we are

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

I actually prefer to meet for a social first... I like to know I’m actually going to like the people I play with.

And as far as I’m concerned a social is just that... all that should be guaranteed is social interaction, sex afterwards shouldn’t be a pre-requisite, because then it’s a play meet.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

Is that humour?... because you don’t sound like much of a gent, Greek or otherwise

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

We always insist on a social first we never do fuck and go meets. I as a single would always turn up for a social as I want to have some connection with the couple or single lady, it's far better if there is an interactive process and building up a connection over time in my view the meets just get better.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do

I actually prefer to meet for a social first... I like to know I’m actually going to like the people I play with.

And as far as I’m concerned a social is just that... all that should be guaranteed is social interaction, sex afterwards shouldn’t be a pre-requisite, because then it’s a play meet."

same for me,it's not just women that should be careful who they meet, I for one want to check they're not a bunny boiler or on the game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

Is that humour?... because you don’t sound like much of a gent, Greek or otherwise"

Ok, Razors Edge

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I prefer to meet for a social first, whether it’s a single female or couple I’m meeting. It’s good to check we all ‘click’ face to face. I have played on a first meet, and I have walked away after not feeling a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.. Is always good to meet first.. And a bit dirty talk always warm up atmosphere

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

Easy tiger, I went on a social on Tuesday with a man....and I paid! First meeting too.

I've changed my mind on propositioning you now I know you won't ply me with tea before any action happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

Easy tiger, I went on a social on Tuesday with a man....and I paid! First meeting too.

I've changed my mind on propositioning you now I know you won't ply me with tea before any action happens

"
oh ttl proposition me instead I'll ply you

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

A social is a must for shell as she needs the attraction there and for safety reason away from our hone x

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

I always meet for a social first. Then arrange a play meet if everybody is happy.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Always social first.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

Easy tiger, I went on a social on Tuesday with a man....and I paid! First meeting too.

I've changed my mind on propositioning you now I know you won't ply me with tea before any action happens

oh ttl proposition me instead I'll ply you

You just want me for my tea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

Easy tiger, I went on a social on Tuesday with a man....and I paid! First meeting too.

I've changed my mind on propositioning you now I know you won't ply me with tea before any action happens

oh ttl proposition me instead I'll ply you

You just want me for my tea!"
i don't drink tea so

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Always happy with social meets, no expectations, just enjoy the company.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would never meet anyone who didnt want a social first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I meet for social 1st, so everyone can make sure they are happy before it goes any further

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I would never meet anyone who didnt want a social first x"

Taxi to Leeds please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more than happy to meet for a social, like you say it makes it more intense if you meet with your clothes on once or twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

Easy tiger, I went on a social on Tuesday with a man....and I paid! First meeting too.

I've changed my mind on propositioning you now I know you won't ply me with tea before any action happens

Works both ways, he prob just wanted to eat & take pictures of the food for his IG

As for your proposition, that is no longer...dammit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only reply for myself but yes 100%, they are really sexy, especially if there is a mutual attraction.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

This single guy certainly will....!! (providing it is logistically reasonable)..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find meeting for a social, after seeing all your bits & pieces up close, a tad awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer to meet for a social first, because I'd rather the other person(s) know who 'I' am instead of making a judgement from the words they are reading on a screen...

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

Easy tiger, I went on a social on Tuesday with a man....and I paid! First meeting too.

I've changed my mind on propositioning you now I know you won't ply me with tea before any action happens

oh ttl proposition me instead I'll ply you

You just want me for my tea!i don't drink tea so

Oh, well I didn't buy him cake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m more than happy to meet socially. Met a few people here socially on more than one occasion and never been more than a social meet. Sometimes you click as friends but not sexually and that’s fine.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

Easy tiger, I went on a social on Tuesday with a man....and I paid! First meeting too.

I've changed my mind on propositioning you now I know you won't ply me with tea before any action happens

Works both ways, he prob just wanted to eat & take pictures of the food for his IG

As for your proposition, that is no longer...dammit!

We got Costa drive through and sat in my car! No phones were used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem at all with a social... saves potential embarrassment. Couples and females can get REALLY nasty if the single guy declines playing on a first meet...

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always happy to meet for a social, however I do agree that most guys have already decided that they want to sleep with their arranged meet before they've met them. Probably just through seeing photos

For me, I'm happy to wait to see of there's any real chemistry - and to avoid the dreaded situations where one half of a couple is either not happy with the situation, jealous or worse.

Dodging bullets can be just as important. Pictures lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

Easy tiger, I went on a social on Tuesday with a man....and I paid! First meeting too.

I've changed my mind on propositioning you now I know you won't ply me with tea before any action happens

Works both ways, he prob just wanted to eat & take pictures of the food for his IG

As for your proposition, that is no longer...dammit!

We got Costa drive through and sat in my car! No phones were used

Sounds like my perfect social haha

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

"Always happy to meet for a social, however I do agree that most guys have already decided that they want to sleep with their arranged meet before they've met them. Probably just through seeing photos

For me, I'm happy to wait to see of there's any real chemistry - and to avoid the dreaded situations where one half of a couple is either not happy with the situation, jealous or worse.

Dodging bullets can be just as important. Pictures lie. "

That’s why having a brew and a chat somewhere neutral is such a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is perfect for me apart from a little far away .

I’ve found it hard to find couples that think the same as you .

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By *avelovesfeetMan
over a year ago

Kettering

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

I met for a social. I like to chat first

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By *anillaboyMan
over a year ago

london

I am that guy open for everything no matter If sex is included or not. Actually i love couples friends having some social fun ( in my free time). I do not find sex more enjoyble then having a nice social with a good chat , jokes and lot’s others.

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By *ocialButterfly77Couple
over a year ago

DARLINGTON

I have always insisted on a social somewhere public before organising a meet, for 2 reasons 1) safety as a single woman I don't want to invite somebody into my home who could potentially cause me harm and 2) to ensure there is a connection I'm not somebody that can fuck somebody I have no attraction to. Most of the time the single men I have met have been open to this, some have pushed their luck and asked for a social at my house, definite no no, and some have tried to bypass it entirely they are the ones that miss out even the ones who ask about play straight after I tell that I make no promises, if they don't want to get to know me a little then I really don't want to fuck them!

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

This single guy would love a social meet with an interested couple, so yes they do.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

I prefer a social first. It only becomes problematic if distance is involved but if local, there should be no reason why a social first can't take place.

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

I love a social as my veris show

I wouldn't consider playing with someone if I hadn't to be fair.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I always meet socially first. Pictures and messages on here are one thing, only meeting in the flesh will tell you whether you like each other enough and get on well enough to get intimate.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I generally prefer a social meet first - I'm not a big texter, therefore I'd rather meet for a drink and communicate face to face. In the case of meeting with a couple I would almost certainly prefer a social meet in public rather than a play meet at their place (or mine) first. As a single guy I always feel the chances of a meet going badly are far higher with a couple you've never met as you simply don't know what the dynamic will be like between the two of them let alone between each individual and yourself.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

I would always meet as social first........if a couple then both to be there......

Gives all chance to run away......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband goes on socials with girls he meets.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've only had one person refuse. He was definitely single as he gave me his social media info and was happy to accommodate whenever. He just considered meeting purely socially first a "waste of his time". We never ended up meeting though he's tried to convince me again a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always meet social its half the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have spoke to 100,s guys about socials as used to offer lunch coffee meets out of the 100,s 1 met me for a coffee the rest cancelled last minute or just went quiet after confirming it was coffee and chat only

Don’t bother anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking to meet l, but for my area it's very hard going, to meet any one who is genuine..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

I meet for socials. I'm in Birmingham, but I'd definately travel to Manchester for a social to get to know someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always insist that the first meet be a no expectations social. If there is mutual attraction and chemistry then there's no reason sex can't happen. But in the past I have met people and not been attracted to them in person and it can get awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

Yes 100% social first, its in my profile. I feel exactly the same. The sex isn't the same unless you have a social first and theres a connection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"
can’t believe single guys won’t have a social meet first that would be a definit from me to do first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think genuine single guys are more than happy to have a social as they’ve nothing to hide, have got the spare time etc whereas guys who are attached and claim to be single have a small time frame for meets and don’t want to either waste it on a social or also risk being seen out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind a quick 5min social at the bus stop outside my flat but then we got to progress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think meeting socially first is alot better for both of you, more relaxed and makes any future meets better and increased excitement on the build up to meet number two.....

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Westbourne park

I've met for social s. It can be quite exciting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always offer meeting socially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

Easy tiger, I went on a social on Tuesday with a man....and I paid! First meeting too.

I've changed my mind on propositioning you now I know you won't ply me with tea before any action happens

oh ttl proposition me instead I'll ply you

You just want me for my tea!i don't drink tea so

Oh, well I didn't buy him cake!

"
not even a tunnocks

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

I am always up for a social first, definitely an ice breaker and to see if you you want to progress further. If all goes well a bit of naughty touch n rub or a good chat and part ways no harm done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've had loads over the 4+ years I've been on and off here

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By *ookingaboutMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

Yes its safest

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"Socials are just a way for a chick to get a free meal & make sure her weekend is ‘busy’...i’m not being used in this manner! Sex first then we eat!

Easy tiger, I went on a social on Tuesday with a man....and I paid! First meeting too.

I've changed my mind on propositioning you now I know you won't ply me with tea before any action happens

oh ttl proposition me instead I'll ply you

You just want me for my tea!i don't drink tea so

Oh, well I didn't buy him cake!

not even a tunnocks

Nope, cake privilege has to be earned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course - I'd usually expect that.

It makes things more exciting - especially social meets in public places where it starts with a bit of footsy under the table

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By *hitevanMan
over a year ago

sheffield ( S17 )

I’m always prepared to meet either for a social or anything else.

I don’t like to think that there’s a hidden agenda where meeting for a social is concerned

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Yep - many of my veris have been from no expectation socials

It’s a part of the lifestyle, so I embrace them as making new friends and connections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd happily come for a social , get to know new people and have a nice afternoon or evening out with a drink or two. So yeah socials are great

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Always glad to for social first.

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By *edonistic needsWoman
over a year ago

sexton

I've met quite a few single guys for socials over the years... and a no is no so if they just dont tickle your taste buds just say... no one should expect sex in exchange for a brew!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet with guys if they agree to a social first. So if they don't agree, the meet doesn't happen! Haven't had any issues so far tbh. The only challenge is when there's a lot of travel involved, I get why they wouldn't want to travel 2 hours for a coffee, so I only meet with local guys generally.

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

More than happy to meet socially with no expectations whats so ever!

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I look for a social meet just to ensure attraction is there

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

I’ve come across very few chaps who aren’t willing to meet for a social in all honesty. Many will try for ‘instafuck’ given the opportunity - but if you have veris to indicate that you DO generally meet for sex afterwards if the social goes well - then you should be fine!

Sadly there are folks out there who simply arrange social after social without ever meeting for sex. No issue if you’re upfront that that’s what you want - but many single guys have been strung along fairly often - hence a reluctance can develop.

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

I’d love to be invited on a social hah! Like you said it’s helps with getting to know what each other wants surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to just get chatting to people see if they r interested in me n go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes always happy to meet for a social

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By *udosMan
over a year ago

hull

Always happy to meet for a social.

It's nice to talk and get to know everyone a little.

After all attraction between potential playmates is important in my view and makes any future play meets much more exciting and special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a single man on here I always meet for a socail think the build up is the best part x

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Single guy , girl or a couple , it's always a social first

No expectations , just a see how it goes

Very occasionally , if we are already out for the night , then there's the possibility of a club , rem_mber them !

But usually it's a , we can make plans

Sometimes it's just a , your not for us ,

But safe to say , it's always a social first

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Social first always if we all click a little flirting before heading to room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to meet for a social first and a chat. I always find it a massive buzz chatting to couples, and always end up having a laugh and a fun time

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Of course. Rude to expect sex the first time unless that was agreement.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

No single guys do not meet for socials! I know because 4 let me down between Dec_mber and early March.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am all for a social with a option for sex if we are all keen.......

But a purely no sex social is not for me......

But the caveat with me is that I always have multiple Facetime chats with someone before a meeting.....

So that cuts out the need to make sure the person looks like their pics.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally,a social meet is imperative.I wouldn't want to go any further with anyone if they weren't NICE people

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We struggle finding those that turn up full stop lol.

Last year we arranged 7 socials and only one turned up! Others cancelled or just plan didn’t show!

We even meet a guy three times really lovely and great fun in the bedroom and he was a no show on two other occasions too! The first time he had a good reason, the second we didn’t even wait for a reason just blocked him!

It gives the rest of the genuine guys a bad rep and it’s why we don’t often look for single guys now.

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

I prefer to meet up for social with a couple or even a single lady, especially as it's agreed beforehand that it's not going to end in bed.

Manchester has a great nightlife and it's better to enjoy an evening of social fun in the variety of Hardin the company of other's to meet new friends and enjoy the atmosphere.

Not all guy's are interested in bedding as many women as possible, some of us like to enlarge our social circle and maybe make some "friends with benefits "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we are finding it really difficult to find anyone who is willing to meet for a social in particular single guys.

We find the sex much more intense and better if we have met before and there is an attraction, then knowing who is coming to meet.

We have done cum and go but find these not as enjoyable

Our question is

Do single guys meet for a social, yes or no

Or will they only meet for a social if they are guaranteed sex afterwards

We never guarantee this as you don’t know how the night will go

What do other couples do"

I would meet for a social. I think the problem is that some places charge crazy amounts for single guys which can put some of us off of the clubs

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

A long long time ago, I used to advertise a meet today for a social only, and they were never answered!

Unless sex is on the table as a possibility, the men are just not interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always up for a social, I enjoy getting to know the people I'm meeting plus it gives us a chance to flirt and talk about what we enjoy. Then if we want to go further it always makes what comes next much more fun.

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West

Never guaranteed sex after a social. If you don't have the click then part on civil terms.

If you do get on it doesn't mean sex has to be on the first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely starting with a social with no expectations for more is my preference and approach. I only play with couples with whom I socialize and connect at the level of enjoyment of each other’s company outside of play. If there is a non-sexual connection plus a sexual chemistry, then great adult and friendly play can happen for me.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Of course but also that after having a good old chat on here

And anything that arises out from it is just a bonus

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By *lowingMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Yep, I have met for socials on several occasions. Seems normal to me....

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