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MMF vs MFM ...the difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

Xxx

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By *east88Couple
over a year ago

darlington

See never knew that

Oops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never knew that! Glad I do now though. Last thing I ever want to be involved in is a MMF

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad to be of service!!

Xxx

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Will make life so much easier

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

MFM is 2 straight guys with a woman. MMF is 2 bi guys with a woman. But, I dont understand why cos if theres more than 2 men witha woman, they can still be straight so it doesn't matter how the letters are ordered. I hope i made sense there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never knew this, luckily my offers of mmf have never been accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am only up for mfm.no mmf NO THANK YOU.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"MFM is 2 straight guys with a woman. MMF is 2 bi guys with a woman. But, I dont understand why cos if theres more than 2 men witha woman, they can still be straight so it doesn't matter how the letters are ordered. I hope i made sense there x"

When more men are involved it becomes a gang bang does it not..

This is purely relating to 3sums.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Will make life so much easier "

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

Xxx"
. Thanks for the information I had no idea there was I difference.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

Xxx"

I've found couples ask about male on male play, and if this is something you're NOT looking for, then just say from the start

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By *r-mrs inkedCouple
over a year ago

rugby

Oh my lesson learnt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

Xxx

I've found couples ask about male on male play, and if this is something you're NOT looking for, then just say from the start "

Hence "MMF" & "MFM"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never knew that good to know everyday is a learning day lol

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I'm quite surprised people don't know

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

If any confusion just let them know during your pre meet conversation....what you are looking for simples...

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

Xxx

I've found couples ask about male on male play, and if this is something you're NOT looking for, then just say from the start

Hence "MMF" & "MFM""

And as the thread shows; not everyone is aware there's a difference, even though everyone knows there are two men and one woman. Hence; talk from the start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had mmmmf. All the guys were straight. Hmmm

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We knew that, hence the name

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

Xxx"

Great copy and paste from the 2018 article, word for word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever knew this!! Have written this wrong so many times!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what about MMMMF? They can be straight or bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had mmmmf. All the guys were straight. Hmmm "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think MMF has become the shorthand for two males and one female threesomes and it is necessary to clarify before making the assumption that someone asking for an MMF is looking for male to male contact. However it is probably safe to assume someone asking for an MFM is ruling out male to male contact.

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By *irenGuy70Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

I knew this already, but wonder if it's the same principle for FFM and FMF threesomes?

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

MMF or MFM?

The easy way to remember is the letter in the middle- in MFM the two Ms are paying attention to the F, in MMF it's the M in the middle.

In real life though it only matters to a purist as majority of people use the terms interchangeably. From their profiles, you can figure out what people are looking for and if there's any doubt just ask.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Love to try a MMF.

Especially if the guys are really into each others cocks and fuck each other as well as suck.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Learn something new everyday. I'm definitely a fan of MFM

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By *entleman4MMFMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I live and learn. MMF for me please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day is a school day as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love to try a MMF.

Especially if the guys are really into each others cocks and fuck each other as well as suck."

That is my kind of MMF

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"But what about MMMMF? They can be straight or bi "

I asked this and got told it only mattered in a 3sjm arrangement where the letters were placed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what about MMMMF? They can be straight or bi

I asked this and got told it only mattered in a 3sjm arrangement where the letters were placed x"

It really doesn’t matter where the letters are placed. Best to never assume and always clarify. That’s why I say my preferred format is a bi MMF the operative word being bi

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I knew this but I still call a straight threesome mmf. I won't be changing that anytime soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know this

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"But what about MMMMF? They can be straight or bi

I asked this and got told it only mattered in a 3sjm arrangement where the letters were placed x

It really doesn’t matter where the letters are placed. Best to never assume and always clarify. That’s why I say my preferred format is a bi MMF the operative word being bi "

I agree. Just ask. Saves all sorts of misunderstandings x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, I never knew that so thank you for the information OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow, I never knew that so thank you for the information OP"

You're most welcome!

I dont get why people think it's the same when it's quite obviously different...why else would there be 2 variations....

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Well we never knew that! The order of acronyms is very important then

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"MFM is 2 straight guys with a woman. MMF is 2 bi guys with a woman. But, I dont understand why cos if theres more than 2 men witha woman, they can still be straight so it doesn't matter how the letters are ordered. I hope i made sense there x

When more men are involved it becomes a gang bang does it not..

This is purely relating to 3sums.

Xx"

Three men isn’t enough for a gangbang. It’s normally written as MMMF.

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By *offee and KinksCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby

Wasnt aware of the difference ... ive been the F in both scenarios and enjoyed mmfm and mffm ... vive la difference

Vixen

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I find this a pointless distinction tbh. If you follow that logic then in an FFM there’d be no contact between the man and one of the women. Personally I use MMF for two men and one woman and bi MMF if the men play with each other as well as the woman.

But for those who do use MFM - does this mean you rule out DVP?

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

This is always discovery learning for us and we appreciate the tips and hints!

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Every day is a school day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find this a pointless distinction tbh. If you follow that logic then in an FFM there’d be no contact between the man and one of the women. Personally I use MMF for two men and one woman and bi MMF if the men play with each other as well as the woman.

But for those who do use MFM - does this mean you rule out DVP?"
some will, some won’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if one man is straight and the other is bi.

What do you call it then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What if one man is straight and the other is bi.

What do you call it then? "

Sexploration

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By *igh Tower69Man
over a year ago

Luton

Wow didnt know this. Thanks OP. I'd still be up for either one though

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I never knew that! Glad I do now though. Last thing I ever want to be involved in is a MMF "

Which is why we ask for MFM

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Love to try a MMF.

Especially if the guys are really into each others cocks and fuck each other as well as suck.

That is my kind of MMF "

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We always thought mmf amd mfm were the same.

We would say a bi mmf or bi mfm is when the 2 guys would be having contact with each other.

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Personally I've never seen the distinction. I've had 3sums with 2 men which have always been called mmf but never had anything beyond accidental touching, or helping someone get to where they need to be positioned after someone slips out. By your definition this is probably mfm rather than mmf.

Defo up for a true mmf though, I love watching 2 guys together as much as you guys seem to love watching 2 women together

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Difference for us, we both love the sensual sensations of women.

I (the male) haven’t a bi bone in my body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is it the same for ffm and fmf?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"We had mmmmf. All the guys were straight. Hmmm "

That's called lucky bitch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So is it the same for ffm and fmf? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I've never seen the distinction. I've had 3sums with 2 men which have always been called mmf but never had anything beyond accidental touching, or helping someone get to where they need to be positioned after someone slips out. By your definition this is probably mfm rather than mmf.

Defo up for a true mmf though, I love watching 2 guys together as much as you guys seem to love watching 2 women together "

I'm ready when you are!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"MFM is 2 straight guys with a woman. MMF is 2 bi guys with a woman. But, I dont understand why cos if theres more than 2 men witha woman, they can still be straight so it doesn't matter how the letters are ordered. I hope i made sense there x

When more men are involved it becomes a gang bang does it not..

This is purely relating to 3sums.

Xx

Three men isn’t enough for a gangbang. It’s normally written as MMMF."

Greedy girl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess a gangbang with no m2m contact is a...

...M

MFM

...M

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge


"Glad to be of service!!

Xxx"

Er, I think he's asking you not to be!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I knew this already, but wonder if it's the same principle for FFM and FMF threesomes?"

We have both on ours lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

Xxx

Great copy and paste from the 2018 article, word for word "

Very true...I've posted this to help those who dont know the difference!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wasnt aware of the difference ... ive been the F in both scenarios and enjoyed mmfm and mffm ... vive la difference

Vixen"

Its the difference that makes the difference!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"MFM is 2 straight guys with a woman. MMF is 2 bi guys with a woman. But, I dont understand why cos if theres more than 2 men witha woman, they can still be straight so it doesn't matter how the letters are ordered. I hope i made sense there x

When more men are involved it becomes a gang bang does it not..

This is purely relating to 3sums.

Xx

Three men isn’t enough for a gangbang. It’s normally written as MMMF.

Greedy girl lol"

I would be if I could find enough men I actually fancy and trust enough for that - not easy sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve often wondered why there were different formats but just thought people wrote them in different order lol!

Seems so obvious once you know!

Thanks OP!

Miss V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did not know this nice to know cheers OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Viv abs and true reality....you're most welcome!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I would be if I could find enough men I actually fancy and trust enough for that - not easy sadly."

Shame you're so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day is a school day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I thought..

Mfm is a couple adding a male

Mmf is 2 males with a female.. Ie non relationship..

..

Ive had Mmf.. As I'm single I wouldn't say.. mfm

Clear in my head... Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh I thought..

Mfm is a couple adding a male

Mmf is 2 males with a female.. Ie non relationship..

..

Ive had Mmf.. As I'm single I wouldn't say.. mfm

Clear in my head... Lol"

It would appear that quite a few heads are now clearer than they were! Xxx

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

Xxx"

How many times do we have to dispel this utter garbage? As a woman I have enjoyed MMFs, MMMFs MMMMFs and MMMMMFs - in every case the Ms have been totally straight and anything else would have been a turn-off for me.

Perhaps in his infinite wisdom the OP could 'educate' me on how to write a totally straight MMMF let alone an MMMMMF.

The order of the letters is absolutely immaterial - it's how the participants decide to play that counts.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

Xxx

How many times do we have to dispel this utter garbage? As a woman I have enjoyed MMFs, MMMFs MMMMFs and MMMMMFs - in every case the Ms have been totally straight and anything else would have been a turn-off for me.

Perhaps in his infinite wisdom the OP could 'educate' me on how to write a totally straight MMMF let alone an MMMMMF.

The order of the letters is absolutely immaterial - it's how the participants decide to play that counts."

Smiles

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By *irenGuy70Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"I knew this already, but wonder if it's the same principle for FFM and FMF threesomes?

We have both on ours lol"

You're missing the FMF

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

????

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

What a complete load of old bollocks OP.

Why do people keep trying to re-invent the wheel.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"

Perhaps in his infinite wisdom the OP could 'educate' me on how to write a totally straight MMMF let alone an MMMMMF.

"

The only answer I've seen to this question is that if more than 3 are involved the order doesn't matter which is a complete cop out of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a complete load of old bollocks OP.

Why do people keep trying to re-invent the wheel."

No. You are wrong. When it comes to threesomes, which what MMF, MFM, FFM & FMF indicates, The order of the letters IS important...that is why there is a difference!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps in his infinite wisdom the OP could 'educate' me on how to write a totally straight MMMF let alone an MMMMMF."

You see this is where you have not read the post correctly.

This is purely relating to 3sums, not 4 or moresomes!!!

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"What a complete load of old bollocks OP.

Why do people keep trying to re-invent the wheel."
who makes up these nonsense rules? The majority of people here didn't know that there was a difference, therefore there isn't one,it's only the people who want to sound clever and superior to others that come up with this sort of tosh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a complete load of old bollocks OP.

Why do people keep trying to re-invent the wheel. who makes up these nonsense rules? The majority of people here didn't know that there was a difference, therefore there isn't one,it's only the people who want to sound clever and superior to others that come up with this sort of tosh. "

If there is NO difference why IS there a difference????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not true, it just means a threesome with 2 guys and a gal, doesn’t indicate the M’s orientation at all.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"Not true, it just means a threesome with 2 guys and a gal, doesn’t indicate the M’s orientation at all."
as the majority here believe, but we won't change the opinion of twits that want to act superior to others.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Make love not war people...stop attacking the OP and lets all try and sort this out with a nice MMMFMMM*

(*willing to be in the middle of that lovely sexy bi centipede)

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By *andymanpaulMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I feel like I have just learned something! Thank you

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"Make love not war people...stop attacking the OP and lets all try and sort this out with a nice MMMFMMM*

(*willing to be in the middle of that lovely sexy bi centipede) "
I'll drink to that..if I can't be one of the m,can I watch?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not true, it just means a threesome with 2 guys and a gal, doesn’t indicate the M’s orientation at all. as the majority here believe, but we won't change the opinion of twits that want to act superior to others. "

I am certainly not wanting to act nor appear "superior" to anyone..

But you wouldn't say that all fuels are the same would you...or would you??

Those that have unfortunately put petrol in their diesel cars would agree!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make love not war people...stop attacking the OP and lets all try and sort this out with a nice MMMFMMM*

(*willing to be in the middle of that lovely sexy bi centipede) I'll drink to that..if I can't be one of the m,can I watch? "

I'm up for that!!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"We had mmmmf. All the guys were straight. Hmmm "

Maybe m mfm m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..M

MFM

..M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll reiterate my earlier point. Don’t assume what the letter order means, clarify how you like to play and ensure it fits with each other’s preferences. There really isn’t a definitive definition of the sequence of letters.

Moreover enjoy it.

Oh yeah and let me know if you’re interested in a bi MMF or moresome. I’d love to explore the possibilities

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Well, some people might use that system but it's not an official term or anything! Many people refer to 'bi MMF' to make it obvious that's what they'd like.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"What a complete load of old bollocks OP.

Why do people keep trying to re-invent the wheel.

No. You are wrong. When it comes to threesomes, which what MMF, MFM, FFM & FMF indicates, The order of the letters IS important...that is why there is a difference!!!"

My understanding of your argument is that the letter in the middle plays with the letters on either side but the letters on either side don’t play with each other, hence MFM and FMF. But that logic falls down when talking about FFM and MMF, because it implies that F1 plays with F2 but not M, or M1 plays with M2 but not F. Obviously in a bi threesome that’s not the case! So as no-one had been able to explain that to me, I’m just going to stick to saying MMF and making sure there’s discussion of boundaries I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn something new every day but kinda figured the difference when I noticed people spelt them differently , but glad to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a complete load of old bollocks OP.

Why do people keep trying to re-invent the wheel.

No. You are wrong. When it comes to threesomes, which what MMF, MFM, FFM & FMF indicates, The order of the letters IS important...that is why there is a difference!!!

My understanding of your argument is that the letter in the middle plays with the letters on either side but the letters on either side don’t play with each other, hence MFM and FMF. But that logic falls down when talking about FFM and MMF, because it implies that F1 plays with F2 but not M, or M1 plays with M2 but not F. Obviously in a bi threesome that’s not the case! So as no-one had been able to explain that to me, I’m just going to stick to saying MMF and making sure there’s discussion of boundaries I think "

When the 2 M's and the 2 F's are together it denotes bisexuality between them..not that one "doesn't play" with the other ..if you get my drift.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"What a complete load of old bollocks OP.

Why do people keep trying to re-invent the wheel.

No. You are wrong. When it comes to threesomes, which what MMF, MFM, FFM & FMF indicates, The order of the letters IS important...that is why there is a difference!!!

My understanding of your argument is that the letter in the middle plays with the letters on either side but the letters on either side don’t play with each other, hence MFM and FMF. But that logic falls down when talking about FFM and MMF, because it implies that F1 plays with F2 but not M, or M1 plays with M2 but not F. Obviously in a bi threesome that’s not the case! So as no-one had been able to explain that to me, I’m just going to stick to saying MMF and making sure there’s discussion of boundaries I think

When the 2 M's and the 2 F's are together it denotes bisexuality between them..not that one "doesn't play" with the other ..if you get my drift."

Well I’m not the letter police so y’all can put them in whatever order you want, but there’s no logic to this that I can see. You’ve explained one version one way and the other version another way when there should be consistency between them, so my original view that it’s a silly distinction stands. Plus if the majority of people don’t “know the difference” then to all intents and purposes there isn’t a difference.

I do know that if someone was insistent on saying MFM and I was supposed to be the F, it would put me off because I’d feel like it was going to be awkward and uptight with a lot of “no homo” posturing. I obviously don’t expect two straight men to play with each other, but I’d rather not have “eww, willies” spoiling the flow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This post was not about stating that people are wrong in their assumption of the terms MMF, MFM, FMF or FFM. It was purely to provide information on the difference between them. Nothing more & nothing less...

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"This post was not about stating that people are wrong in their assumption of the terms MMF, MFM, FMF or FFM. It was purely to provide information on the difference between them. Nothing more & nothing less... "

....and it's very presumtious of you to even think anyone might need to be provided with this (mis)information. I think we're probably all perfectly capable of understanding when a situation involves bisexuality and know whether to proceed or not - irrespective of the order of any letters.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

Xxx"

Who says and cares what order the letters are in

Surely someone uptight and anal came up with that tosh

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By *mileyLadyWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

Xxx

Who says and cares what order the letters are in

Surely someone uptight and anal came up with that tosh "

Agree. If you're talking with anyone about MMF or MFF or MMMFF or whatever takes your fancy, take the time to find out what exactly everyone wants. I've always read these as numbers of people involved and you set expectations about who does what when you start chatting. Rules and expecting everyone to have the same understanding by ordering of letters feels a little unrealistic. And probably not understood by many (I didn't, in spite of experience in all those fields.) I prefer light hearted to excessive rules - we're all human.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"This post was not about stating that people are wrong in their assumption of the terms MMF, MFM, FMF or FFM. It was purely to provide information on the difference between them. Nothing more & nothing less...

....and it's very presumtious of you to even think anyone might need to be provided with this (mis)information.

"

Lots of people were not aware of it.

When we first started we asked for MMF and got many mails from bi men asking for what they said we were asking for...which in their eyes was a bi MMF When they explained what they meant we changed it to MFM and we hardly ever got asked for a bi MMF after that

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Isn’t this a bit like usual political correctness bollox. Has others have said surely be explicit in saying you either just looking for to be shagged by two guys or that you want a full 3 some where all play leaves no doubt, because has some have said if I asked for a MMFM or a MMMF or what does that mean?

A MMF or MFM is the same thing in my non political correct world - and either way I wrote it I’d equally had if I expect the two guys to be straight, BI - or whatever.

Next we will be having people suing guys because they advertised for MFM and the two guys touched cocks when the did DP!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

While it's true that *some* people take MMF to mean bi males, and MFM to mean straight males - not *all* make that distinction and the letters are interchangeable.

It also defies the logic of using MMF to designate bi play to simply write off MMMF as "oh that's a foursome so it's different".

As has been said several times the easiest way to understand intent and meaning is to discuss and communicate up front what everyone is looking for, not rely on a purely subjective order of letters - which is what you'd do with an MMMF scenario anyway.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"This post was not about stating that people are wrong in their assumption of the terms MMF, MFM, FMF or FFM. It was purely to provide information on the difference between them. Nothing more & nothing less...

....and it's very presumtious of you to even think anyone might need to be provided with this (mis)information.

Lots of people were not aware of it.

When we first started we asked for MMF and got many mails from bi men asking for what they said we were asking for...which in their eyes was a bi MMF When they explained what they meant we changed it to MFM and we hardly ever got asked for a bi MMF after that"

They are not aware of it because there is nothing to be aware of!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"This post was not about stating that people are wrong in their assumption of the terms MMF, MFM, FMF or FFM. It was purely to provide information on the difference between them. Nothing more & nothing less... "

Which would be fine if the information was correct. But as someone said so succinctly "it's a load of old bollocks"

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

FFS sake, I’ve run out of popcorn! This is a brilliant thread, I’ve read every comment and have come to the conclusion you’re all bonkers? Who give a flying poop. Op, you’re correct in every respect! But then so is everyone else? Interpretation is the eye of the beholder, people are people and do what they feel is right, at the end of the day, this a meet, make friends, and fuck site? We are a openly bi couple and we don’t care about mmf, mfm, mmff, mmmmmf, fffm! So long as it’s a laugh and fun. Haha, found more popcorn? Now ready for the flak. Carry on guys, this is ace. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kazmar beat me to it ^^^ what they say!

Everyone is correct for themselves so stop with the beating each other up over who is correct!

Just talk about your personal comfort zones and decide what you're going to call it! And have fun

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By *abat40xWoman
over a year ago

North Lincolnshire

Thanks I never knew that xx best change my profile xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

Xxx"
their is no such distinction its just a jumble of capital letters which as we all know refer to male and female, the couple could of course be two men and not necessarily gay men, fab straight men who want to introduce a woman to their peni(plural of penis) for the purpose of sexual exploration of course the couple could be male and female introducing another male to play with both the fab straight male and the in need female but no matter what way you jumble the letters up its all in the profiles no mistaking who's at the other end

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley


"Kazmar beat me to it ^^^ what they say!

Everyone is correct for themselves so stop with the beating each other up over who is correct!

Just talk about your personal comfort zones and decide what you're going to call it! And have fun "

Aaawww thanks for the back up. Sorry to see you’re leaving this frantic site of misfits. Happy adventures. XxxkarenandmartinxxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kazmar beat me to it ^^^ what they say!

Everyone is correct for themselves so stop with the beating each other up over who is correct!

Just talk about your personal comfort zones and decide what you're going to call it! And have fun

Aaawww thanks for the back up. Sorry to see you’re leaving this frantic site of misfits. Happy adventures. XxxkarenandmartinxxX "

Thanks! It's been an awesome ride on here! xxx

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Thanks for the info

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley


"Kazmar beat me to it ^^^ what they say!

Everyone is correct for themselves so stop with the beating each other up over who is correct!

Just talk about your personal comfort zones and decide what you're going to call it! And have fun

Aaawww thanks for the back up. Sorry to see you’re leaving this frantic site of misfits. Happy adventures. XxxkarenandmartinxxX

Thanks! It's been an awesome ride on here! xxx"

Well, you have a wonderful life, you’ll be missed by the sounds of it. XxxkarenandmartinxxX

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"This post was not about stating that people are wrong in their assumption of the terms MMF, MFM, FMF or FFM. It was purely to provide information on the difference between them. Nothing more & nothing less...

....and it's very presumtious of you to even think anyone might need to be provided with this (mis)information.

Lots of people were not aware of it.

When we first started we asked for MMF and got many mails from bi men asking for what they said we were asking for...which in their eyes was a bi MMF When they explained what they meant we changed it to MFM and we hardly ever got asked for a bi MMF after that

They are not aware of it because there is nothing to be aware of!"

I was aware of it after being told by someone. Whether they were right or not I don't really care, but it worked for us as people assumed we were looking for a straight threesome, So I would say they were aware too.

I am going to have to go read the thread again to see what has got you wound up. I vill be back

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

OK.. You don't have to agree with something someone says but be civil and not attack people while disagreeing or you will send a perfectly good thread a different way altogether.

Also check which links you can post on the forum rules before you post any please

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To comments about communication when arranging a meet, having what you are looking for on a profile doesn't mean that is all people do to let others know what they want.... I am sure adults communicate more once contacted. I am just surprised that people think adults on a website looking for sex need that " advice"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learned something new. Thanks op

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